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jaxxy:Peter Obi equally rigged to the best of his ability. But na the best rigger (Tinubu) win the election at last. |
Jennyclay:Go to ur profile and delete ur personal text "wife material". Na one-night stand material you be. Women like you who bring nothing to the table aside a stinking hole are the ones putting people's Sons in abject poverty? |
He tried. At least, he better pass Peter Pândora Obi wey carry third position and still wants to be declared the winner. ![]() |
They're not homosexuals, dem do am in order to get permanent resident after seeking asylum say their country Nigeria go prosecute them if them finally return back. Igbo man and wayo. |
Successlane:16 years of wailing. Na wailing una wan use change una condition? ![]() |
Racoon:U go write this long epistles everyday for good eight years. ![]() |
UnfairLife7:I see! |
UnfairLife7:You're useless? Abeg try and be useful even if it's once in ur life. People like u are the reason why this country is not progressing. ![]() |
UnfairLife7:Amen, since this is what u wish yourself. ![]() |
UnfairLife7:Don't u have a role to play in Nigeria's success? If u don't, then u don't deserve to be born. |
UnfairLife7:I'm not Yoruba, I'm from North Central. Just because you're not pleased with the current state of the nation doesn't warrant u to say all sort of bad things about our country. Nigeria is a Land, and no land is a cursed land, only the people living in it are cursed. I'm not cursed, I'm in fact a blessing to my father land, through me, good things will happen in Nigeria in my lifetime. The cursed Nigerians are u, ur family members, ur entire generations and those pessimists who believe nothing good will ever come out of their father land. Nigeria as a land has no problem, its only useless souls (people) that will live a whole lifetime in a land without leaving any positive impact on it. Instead of thinking about how to make a great contributions that will outlast u, you're busy laying curses on urself and entire generations, just because ur preferred thief (Peter Obi) didn't win the election. Don't u have a role to play in Nigeria's success? If u don't, then u don't deserve to be born. Salam! |
UnfairLife7:Only you, ur family members and entire unfortunate generations that are cursed from day one. |
OldBeer:What is Niger Delta using its own share to do? Did u see any tangible development in that region? Just because oil was discovered in a region doesn't mean it should be given independence. |
Ofunaofu:Lol, wetin Peter Pândora Obi promise Una? |
Puss360:Sorry to say this, but you're not making sense at all. Just say that you're against polygamy as a woman because u can't stand sharing ur man with another woman. Some women don't care as long as the man has the means and wherewithal to cater for their needs. Polygamy has no negative impact on economy and population as u believed. It's people's mentality and mindset towards life and procreation that play significant role in economy and population of a nation not polygamy. An educated man with good mentality and mindset can have 2 wives, each wife having 2 kids each (4 kids in total), and a poor man with poor perception towards life and procreation may have one wife with 8 children. Go to Northern Nigeria and see where one woman give birth to more than 8 children. Most of them know nothing about family planning. That's why government is creating awareness and educating them on the importance of family planning. Once women are given proper orientation polygamy or monogamy won't count. One can have 3 educated wives, each of them having 2 kids (6 kids) and take good care of them without overpopulating the world unnecessarily. After all, marriage or no marriage the 3 women will still give birth to children. Moreover, men are into polygamy for different reasons, some it's because their first wives were unable to bear them children or give them the peace of mind they crave for. Finally, the lifestyle men live today doesn't support monogamy unless we want to keep deceiving ourselves (by having one wife with numerous side-chicks and baby mamas). Number of men that are ready for marriage is always lower compare to the number of women ready for marriage. Birth rate, survival and death rate of men and women aren't the same either. If we're to practice strict monogamy, majority of women will die single. Polygamists are rendering great service to "womanity". ![]() Peace! |
squash47:This is the "gender equality" women asked for. They are not complaining, are they? |
Samantha124:Chai, u rejected ur ancestors' chosen groom for u? No wonder one "lord of the ring" forgot his "ring" on ur finger for over 3 years now. Ur ancestors wouldn't allow him to marry u. ![]() |
WannaHowzit:It's better to be seriously backward and upholding to ur good morals, culture and values than to be seriously advancing (civilized) with alien cultures and values such as LGBTQ. Soon it will be taught in ur schools, they will force homosexuality on ur children and parents will start complaining and wishing they had never accepted LGBTQ nonsense in the first place. Just like what's happening in America and other " |
Davidcorny:U may likely die ontop of a married woman someday. Keep sleeping with people's wives. |
She's probably one of those clamouring for gender equality and she no fit pay ordinary bills. If men stopped doing relationship and patronising sex hawkers 90% of women go die of hunger. ![]() |
IconicR:True feelings for money abi? |
Kobicove:I thought I'm the only one who hates "kneeling down to propose" with passion. Only Simps do that. |
jaxxy:Lol, you're moving the goalpost, the argument wasn't about the difference between ex wife kids and babymamas kids in terms of inheritance (as male and female children are also treated differently in some cultures when it comes to inheritance whether legimate or not), it's about the similar unhealthy competitive atmosphere found in both polygamous families and numerous baby mamas lifestyle. My conclusion was that having numerous baby mamas is not different from being polygamous, due to it sharing some similar negative effects on the child like polygamy does. |
jaxxy:Bro, u misunderstood the whole thing. At the end of the write-up, I said there's a "significant relationship" between polygamy and having numerous baby mamas. Unhealthy competition between baby mamas and their children as they strive to get the man's care, support, attention, commitment and inheritance is what makes it similar to polygamy. The children from these homes will suffer similar negative effects of polygamy even though their parents aren't married. Many years ago in some culture, if a man had a child out of wedlock, the child can't inherit him, so the second family is not a threat to the traditionally or legally married wife and her children. However, contemporarily, there's no illegitimate child, all children can inherit their fathers, whether he's married to their mothers or not. As a result, women whether married to the father of their children or not fight dirtily to protect their interests, they turn their children against their siblings from other women (just like what's observed and experienced in polygamous families). In the case of one-night stand and sperm donors, without fatherly figure, the children will suffer other emotional, mental and psychological problems associated with single parenting. The similar effects of polygamy arises only if the father is expected to play his fatherly role to his children from different mothers. Nevertheless, just like u earlier pointed out, this is my personal definition of polygamy, but you'll agree with me that humans concept of sexual relationships and parentage have evolved beyond marriage, and as such we need to redefine some terms such as "polygamy" (by extension) to include having sexual relationship or child with more than one partners. Shalom! |
jaxxy:Having children from more than one woman is another form of polygamy on its own. The children will experience what happens in a polygamous family. Marrying them all or not can't avert the negative effects of polygamy. The children will suffer emotional, mental and psychological problems due to neglect by their father while focusing more on other children. The Baby mamas will be competitive against each other. Hatred, envy, jealousy will becloud their senses of reasoning as they engage in fighting physical and spiritual war against each other for the sake of their children. The Baby daddy's life may be at risk at some point in time. After his death, Inheritance will be another serious problem in the family. In short, there's significant relationship between "polygamy" and "having numerous baby mamas". Marrying them all is like attempting to face ur problems headlong, it's either it kill u or make u stronger. ![]() Peace! |
zinaunreal:As e dey pain u, e dey sweet us. ![]() |
zinaunreal:Lol, why are u pained? No go drink sniper Ooo. |
taylor89:Tinubu go do eight years whether u like it or not. Writing long epistles no go change am. As if Peter Peter Obi (ur preferred thief) can do better. |
IconicR: |
HeartlessMan:... While Obi is a boy. |
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