₦airaland Forum

psalmsmiles:
Cardi B spent a few days in Victoria island and she feels like Naija is a great place to be. By the time she passes thru Yaba, Mushin and Ajegunle, gets pickpocketed, scammed by numerous Yabatech guys and gets hit by a hit and run rickety driver, nobody go tell her to return NY sharp sharp

thorpido:
Hmmm.I hope the bolded isn't true.The monikers that contacted me had female names on their bank accounts(Iya Tola was not one of them).
Anyway,scammers do not know their losses will be greater than whatever 'gains' they may think they have gotten.Even their health will suffer for it.

Samiking:
Even if it is security job?

Rajman45:
Abeg.... Wher diz one happen?

TGM2015:
Are you sure, it is not the same spiritual attack on you that is affecting your husband? Or better still making both of you hated each other?

To your sickness, I will advise you to check on the link below and take note of the "Who is most likely to get postpartum psychosis?" section of the link.
https://www.rcpsych.ac.uk/mental-health/problems-disorders/postpartum-psychosis

If it turns out that the sickness is natural and possibly with family history, your husband may be right by his outburst. My only issue with him is, it is either he is not mature enough to handle martial challenges or he didn't have enough knowledge and understanding about your condition. But his main issue is the feeling of collaborative betrayal by you and your entire family, though he may be wrong.

Now the solutions is for you to know the real cause of your sickness. Is it historical (family related) or not. Can it be spiritual attack or some previous disorder. Either way, help your husband to recover from his feelings of being betrayed (which may have been intentional or not). If you feel, in all honesty, you had the hint that such can happen, then you need to ask for his forgiveness. If you think your family could have known, apologised on their behalf and give him time to heal.

If after all efforts and pleading that are done in all humbleness and sincerity fail, please move on. Additional information which is not to scare you is that you can hardly find a man/family that will accept you with that condition except they are keep in dark. Unfortunately, you have a higher risk of goings through the same condition on your next birth except it is an attack.

God be with you and guide you to overcome your life and marital challenges.

Cutehector:
But why did you keep such medical information from him before you both got married? That's not fair in my opinion.

bukatyne:
If he has not verbally indicated interest to end the marriage, give it a second chance.

He has told you his pain point: he thinks your parents deceived him into the marriage.

You both need to go for therapy and clear his grievance.

You can get medical journals about your condition and connection with child birth, the symptoms and solutions. Also arrange for him to speak with your doctors on the causes, triggers, solutions and after care.

You should also be medically certified that you are fine.

Goodluck.

thorpido:
Is there a way I can reach you then?

chigoziri2403:
Is it your son or you that needs prayers.

pharmagba:
Why do you think is a native doctor you need?

Anyway if you have up till N500k to spare I can help you, my grand father was a very powerful native doctor in our community, he handed over the powers to me