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Persephone1:
If you have no knowledge of what Op is talking about, kindly shut it and learn!

She's right! Schizophrenic patients are prone to hallucinations. It is like a display of problems within their subconscious. Sometimes these hallucinations are so real that they mistake it for reality. I believe Op's case is not advanced at least she's not violent or evil scheming with the subject adding to her problems ( her husband)
She's here seeking help and not planning how to off the man. It's a good indication she can be managed. Stop making it seem like she's an epidemic to be avoided

Alooone kindly reach out to your shrink to talk to your uneducated man. I'm not surprised at your husband's behavior that's how typical Nigerian husband is. Before you know it he will go dump you at your parents house.
Nigerian women dey marry abeg!

Thanks sir...you are like the only light here

TenQ:
You want a solution!?

1. If your husband thinks it is spiritual, then ask him to look for a Deliverance minister for you and you go through the whole ordeal
2. If you have been diagnosed with Schizophrenia, take your drugs regularly. You might have to be on medication throughout your life.

These above are the issues. If you don't clear them, nothing will change.



3. Your husband may also be enjoying freedom from always needing to beg you for sex in your younger days: he could be retaliating. Men sometimes switch off because of this. You may need to repent of this.
4. Do your best not to make your medical diagnosis an excuse for anything in your marriage again.
When you show that you are healed, your husband will relax on his stance.

Thanks....he is proposing we follow it the African way I.e the traditional way

Kobojunkie:
From your backstop, you and husband haven't been on the same page for some years now. I do hope you at least have your parents as your support though.

Yes. I do...my family is my backbone

Kobojunkie:
Woman are not born with dicks in their vaginas from birth same way men are not born with their ducks cemented inside a vagina from birth. Sex "deprivation" happens to everyone at some point or another. That said, it is one thing to say one is sex-deprived and another to claim one must have sex before one's subconscious can be calmed. You claim that is what your psychotherapist told you and I seriously find it hard to believe any professional would say such a thing.

I would recommend you please consider getting a second opinion from another mental health professional on how best to deal with your delusions. And as suggested also consider alternative outs from all that pent up sexual energy you have building in you.

Thanks

@ all...thanks for the contributions.... For those making mockery about the subconscious thing I said up there, please let me explain....as a schizophrenia patient, I suffer from both auditory and visual hallucination( although not on a major scale like the auditory)...now all these hallucinations is a thing of the mind and subconscious and not real...that according to my therapist for me to be seeing strange men and women that want to sleep with me speaks of the state of my subconscious and how sexually deprived I am...that's what brought d whole sex as a therapy issue...
could you believe that since I gave birth to my second child about 6years ago we have met not more than 5times...
Sorry for sounding like a sex freak or something...but this is what am currently going through.

Hello

Am a 32year old lady with 3kids...and my problem is that my husband doesn't like coming close to me.

This year September will make it 1 year since we came back to the house after about 4years of separation.

I have some health challenges I.e I have been diagnosed with Schizophrenia/ Bi-polar disorder so my challenges are peculiar...

He doesn't come close to me, he feels my illness is more spiritual and transferable...anything I make the move to initiate sex first I am met with violence.

Sometimes he makes comments like "leave me alone"..." How are u that what is doing you is not communicable", "how sure am I, that those that are doing you are not after me" etc.

In the course of this 10years of marriage... I have had to endure up to 2years of no sexual contact and is telling on me....my psychotherapist says I need sex to calm my subconscious... Sometimes when I want to sleep or in the night...I see strange men or women that want to sleep with me plus other strange things etc.

I need help please

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terrezo2002:
God wants to use you to deliver your family. Other members of the family are not seeing what you are seeing. They are not seeing that something is wrong. You feel you are not where you should be. You feel that there is something wrong especially in your family. Your 14 days prayers is a right step. Now pray for God to reveal those things that is polluting your family.
I would advise that you take at least 2 people of strong faith in God to your father's house and pray for family liberation.
Something seems to be buried in that house. I don't know what it is. The Holy Spirit will reveal it to you as you pray.
May the Lord guide and grant you grace in Jesus name. Amen

Amen Sir

terrezo2002:
Were they into idol worshipping?
Demons in the spirit pollutes a place and make the stink badly.
1. It would cause rejection, shame and reproach.
2. It would cause people to mock you and spit at you.
3. Favours will be far from such people that are affected.
4. There is attraction of other demons.
I don't know what it is, but I know it is a very bad dream and your father's house needs cleansing by the blood of Jesus Christ.

Thank you sir for finding the time and patience to reply my post may the good Lord replenish you IJN.
Now from the little I know they were into idol worship but have renounced that a long time a go.

I saw myself in my father's hometown at their family house precisely....there I met some of my cousins and some visitors...now I noticed something funny in their bedrooms was situated a public toilet were one could go and relieve themselves...it was so terrible that the smells oozing out from the different bedrooms was so terrible...I couldn't use the toilets....I don't know the meaning of that dream...I am currently on a 14 day prayer and fasting assigned to me by a priest and this is the first note-worthy dream I have had so far.

It's a long story but am actually angry and disappointed in God.

emerich:
Watching cartoons on his moms phone really helps but as soon as he gets tired he just dashed to where am seated and lands a hot slap on my face, before I could react he has given me a headbutt and awaiting my reaction, he only stops when he knows he had hurt me by my facial reaction, I wonder how a kid less than 2 years can headbutt an adult which such ferocity and feel little or no pain at all.
What kind of toys would you recommend i get him to serve as a distraction? I know he needs a sibling as it's just me, his mom and him in a very big house.

Don't u have fresh bitter leaf sticks in your area

Hello...I just got an Invite for the post of customer care from Globacom.

You are foolish o.p.

Hahaha....

Tribers:
I need only the script if you have reply to this thread let's talk,

Ignore ds idiot Xtratyre...he is nothing but a hungry scammer

Hello...Any Nigerian studying in Botswana

Please explain yourself more...

I thought I was the only who observed it...one toasted me when I was heavily pregnant then...

Scammers full this thread

Extratyre01:
How much will a million earn every month, for how long? Is the 1m still safe and the monthly pay are just gains, please respond

Like say him hold shishi...Thief...refund me my money back...bloody hungry scammer

Extratyre01:
Your brother is doing drugs.
Crack precisely

Thief! Useless bastard pay me my money...scammer!

Naofumi:
I am the 4th Child. I will try to hustle and make them happy. And like you said. My mom is really tired. She takes nearly everything on her head. Makes me wish I should die if I will be a father like my dad because I know what my mom goes through and won't like any woman to go through it

Don't worry everything will be alright.

It's normal, u are simply yearning for a father figure in your life and somehow in ur subconscious u have seem to replace ur dad with him....now d issue of feeling gay it's simply ur dirty mind at work
...now back to d main issue...I want to advise u about your mum...U hv to understand that it's not easy for that woman...first your father and then you...U must learn how to lessen the load on your mother's head...forget what she said. In the past..U have to realise by virtue of your position in the family you have to lead those women right.

I am fairer than this girl but none of my kids is as fair as her son...This life no balance sha

This was done by fulani herdsmen masquerading as IPOB please

Na u be d Mumu...I hv nothing to tell you

Bebson007:
You are always considering the stress, pain and disagreement with your family before you married her. Especially that of your mom's. So any small mistake she makes everything comes back fresh to you and you go physical.
How to stop beating her. Let her go on vacation to her family's or your family place for a month. Then when she's back, overlook all her flaws, admire her. Free your self of every bad flash back or past. Forgive her before she offends you. Buy her gifts unconditional.

You are a matured and realistic man...seems to talk from experience..

The funniest thing is that he didn't send her to formal education but to go and learn tailoring

Extratyre01:
You have to start urinating a a coke bottle at mid night

Thief! U still dey nairaland

colestephan86:
Why u dey vex

The Bastards scammed me