Family › Re: Deaconess From Hell by Alooone: 8:58pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
Wicked Woman... Please you people shouldn't let her go like that, report her to the appropriate authority |
Family › Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Alooone: 11:47pm On Jul 09, 2020 |
God got your back... Hang in there! |
Family › Re: Men Are Really Trying by Alooone: 11:05pm On Jul 08, 2020 |
Eeeyah! It depends on how supportive and "humane" the wife is. |
Family › Re: Extreme Introverts, How Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Alooone: 10:53pm On Jul 08, 2020 |
We met through someone |
Crime › Re: Bandits In Zamfara Kidnap 20 Women, Kill 7 People by Alooone: 3:39pm On Jul 08, 2020 |
realstars: I Dont Know Whf Pyton And Crocodies Refused To Dance And Smile In That Part Of The Country? Where Are The Security Chiefs? Lol... @phytons dancing and crocs smiling |
Politics › Re: Bala Ciroma Replaces Magu As EFCC Boss - The Street Journal by Alooone: 3:37pm On Jul 08, 2020 |
AnanseK: Northerners are bad , but Southerners are even worse when it comes to money. That is why That's a lie the genesis of corruption in the civil service started with the northerners... They introduced corruption into the civil service |
Politics › Re: Bala Ciroma Replaces Magu As EFCC Boss - The Street Journal by Alooone: 3:33pm On Jul 08, 2020 |
BabaO2: Why always northerners? I tire |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: At What Age Did You Land Your First Job? by Alooone: 9:40am On Jul 07, 2020 |
20 years at a farm |
Family › Re: I Have A Very Low Sellf Esteem. by Alooone: 8:21pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Stargurl20: It's not what you think. They stare at me and talk about my height . They don't "talk" about your height as you imagine, rather they "admire" your height... You should be proud of your self... BTW.. How tall are you? |
Family › Re: Opinion: Parent, Stop Gossiping To Your Children! by Alooone: 5:53pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
If I don't gossip (talk) with my kids then tell me who do I then gossip with.... The only thing is for them to know their limits. |
Family › Re: What's Your Closest Range To A Gun Shot? My Experience by Alooone: 5:39pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
It was the year 2012, ...boko Haram attacked my church back then in school,.. They shot a Professor near me |
Family › Re: I Have A Very Low Sellf Esteem. by Alooone: 4:07pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Stargurl20: No. I'm very tall... And people talk and stare at me that I feel like shrinking at times You are beautiful...what then seems to be your problem |
Family › Re: I Have A Very Low Sellf Esteem. by Alooone: 9:43pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Are u fat? |
Properties › Re: Plot Of Land In Port Harcourt Needed by Alooone: 8:50pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
SpyAC: Have one along Elelenwo too, even a house for sale, and one along Akpajo. Halla me if need be. The one at Elelenwo how much per plot |
Family › Re: Help I Am Depressed by Alooone: 4:18pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Why did u quit the job... Have u not seen pregnant women that work |
Family › Re: .. by Alooone: 4:02pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Stop telling your husband everything about you...if not how could he have known you have such amount of money on you... Tell him the only way you can support him on his project is if he puts your name on the documents... Please you are nobody's slave.... Typical case of monkey set work, baboon they chop. |
Health › Re: My Vagina Makes Embarrassing Sounds During Sex, Should I Be Worried? by Alooone: 3:29am On Jul 04, 2020 |
Why didnt u listen to mama to sit on hot water during "omugwo" |
Family › Re: I Can't Speak My Native Language. Is It A Crime? by Alooone: 10:12pm On Jul 03, 2020 |
this is exactly the situation i find myself now...we grew up in the north...but my parents made sure i could speak igbo...so i grew up learning how to speak two languages...hausa and igbo (i can speak the igbo but cant write)...now where the problem started is when i got married...my husband who is igbo prefers and is comfortable with my kids speaking english (he feels it makes them posh and modern)...he feels since they are growing up in a city like port harcourt they will pick up igbo at some time..of which am not comfortable with,...now whats the end result my kids can hear igbo but cant speak...my 5yr old daughter initially was speaking it but her daddy made sure he douse out any remenant of igbo in her...my two and half year old "hears" igbo but cant also speak....am with my parents now...and hopefully am trying to seize this opportunity to teach them how to speak igbo...i dont want to raise" My mama say i be igbo " kinda kids. |
Family › Re: I Don't Know What Is Going Between My Junior Brother And My Wife by Alooone: 9:42pm On Jul 03, 2020 |
sorry to say this but your wife is very senseless |
Politics › Re: Wike: I Have No Presidential Ambition by Alooone: 3:47pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
I DONT KNOW WHY I JUST LOVE THIS MAN....NA PPL LIKE THIS FIT NIGERIA |
Family › Re: Rise Again Like My Father by Alooone: 2:55am On Jun 28, 2020 |
His story is a great source of inspiration |
Politics › Re: Jim Nwobodo: It Is The Right Of The Igbo To Produce The President by Alooone: 11:59pm On Jun 23, 2020*. Modified: 3:51am On Jun 24, 2020 |
sometimes i wonder what do we really mean in this country...wetin una call us the Igbos....give us Biafra no way! oya give us a chance to rule the nation...no way!...what do u ppl want from us. |
Family › Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Alooone: 4:18pm On Jun 23, 2020*. Modified: 4:21am On Jan 14, 2021 |
GuyInTheMirror: MODS PLEASE NO FRONT PAGE!!!
Hi everyone, so I am not a new member of Nairaland. I decided to create this new profile so that I can be annonymous. I was hoping to speak with some matured people here about the issue of marriage.
I am a 34 year old man who happened to immigrate about 2 years ago, I am a very gentle and highly ambitious person and God has blessed me. I work for one of the biggest firms here in North America , I used to work in a great firm too back in Naija before immigrating.
Now to the issue of marriage, I am in a kind of dilemna. I am the type of person that values marriage and a quiet life. I do not smoke, drink or womanise. I am actually the type you'd call a church boy. I dream for a respectful wife whom I can love and adore and build a family with.
But it seems being in North America makes that complicated. 1. Majority of the women that surrounds me are in their 30s. I personally would prefer to marry someone not older than 26 years for personal reasons. 2. Many of these women are closet feminists and they tend to be much louder than the personality I am looking for in a woman I'd like to settle with.
I have attempted to start relationships with ladies that tend to meet my description back in Nigeria, but I became shocked cos it seems once a lady knows a man is abroad they become lovey dovey. They start to pretend like they are saints so that has put me off as I do not want a lady to pretend for me.
The options before me are : 1. Look for someone that is close to my requirement here and marry her and hope for the best. 2. Look for someone back in naija and marry and sponsor her to North America. 3. Wait for 2 more years, get my citizenship, come back to naija and blend in like a regular guy and try to meet a lady that does not know I am an abroad person to avoid pretense then try to get a babe. (In 2 years time I will be 36 years old, is this not too old ?)
I would like people with a lot of insight to educate me on what appears to be the best option. please which tribe are you,...because i have someone that meets the requirement,...a wife material.. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: __ by Alooone: 3:29pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
please how much is the salary? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Salary Structure Of Lecturers In Federal Colleges Of Education by Alooone: 2:46pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
you people should answer the man na |
Health › Re: COVID-19: Man Gains Over 100kg Within 5 Months Of Lockdown In Wuhan (Pics) by Alooone: 6:12pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
donbachi: new born babies cooked with pangolin. lolz |
Family › Re: Just Vex Out Your Legal Problems & We Will Advice You For Free. by Alooone: 11:42pm On Jun 12, 2020 |
i want to divorce my husband |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: . by Alooone(op): 7:10pm On May 23, 2020 |
row2ray: Pay no attention to them... but that number isn’t on whatsapp nor available for calls retry it please |
Family › Re: Color Personality : What Your Favorite Color Says About You by Alooone: 1:11pm On May 10, 2020 |
Black all the way- it calms me down |
Family › Re: If You Could Speak To Your Younger Self, What Would You Say To Him Or Her? by Alooone: 12:01am On May 10, 2020*. Modified: 12:56am On May 10, 2020 |
1.Calm down! That body that is scratching you to go and marry...if only you know the.way you rushed in thats the way you will rush out.
2. Listen to your parents go for a medically-inclined course. |
Romance › Re: Whats The Creepiest Thing You've Seen That You Haven't Shared Anywhere? by Alooone: 6:27pm On May 09, 2020 |
Weebo: Some lizards actually eat smaller lizards alive even if the are same species, I've seen it happen alot of times you dont mean it, i thought is witchcraft |