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McCprian:
Well I've been a victim and I've seen how convincing this people can be. People bring their friends, families, loved ones, spouse etc. So it's no surprise if you see a trusted person calling you to join. The teaching there is to first bring those that trust you and care for you, so he/she has been brainwashed/convinced into thinking they're doing the right thing and are only bringing people to help them. They're good trainers, teachers and psychologists at what they do.
Often times I saw it (the qnet business) as a religion. One thing about religion is that it's capable of making you do something bad against your own good conscience or humanity.

People there were deceived into thinking they were coming for a ethical job offer. 2-3 days later b4 you realize what you're into. Most of these 'innocent' people borrowed the money from money lenders, micro finance banks, friends, relatives etc.. Some sold their properties to be able to afford the money. Realizing what they've entered, they can't go back empty handed. What do they tell their creditors, their families, banks, relatives. In the end some of them are left with no choice but to deceive others into the 'business'. The remaining others doing the business are doing it because they're convinced [usually by mentors and uplines who have gathered so many downlines over time and now have something substantial (made wealth) to show for it] it's 'legitimate' and a 'life time opportunity' and so the 'game' goes on.

1 scams 2, 2 scams 4, 4 scams 8, 8 scams 16, 16 scams 32... Directly or indirectly you've built a system of scammers under your system, because it's through their deceits you can continue earning from the scheme.

Now to qnet or qi group, it's a direct selling company (realistically a MLM company) that deals in healthcare products and luxury. Truth be told their products are grossly overpriced and over valued. I've used two of their products during my time with them (bio disc 3 and chipendant 4). I'm yet to on my own verify any of the health claims the others occasionally report after using them. I've seen no health benefits from using them despite the fact they say it does this and that.
To register with them (that is to become an independent reseller on their platform) you have to buy a product from them. That's where the person that introduces you to the 'business' or 'job offer' comes into place.

Everyone, especially the youths should be careful out there and should carefully research any job offer before jumping into it no matter how close the person introducing you to the job offer is. I was deceived because of the close relationship I had with the person that brought me into it. I failed to do proper research. I didn't even ask for the name of the company. That's how close I am to the person. Take care

N3TRAL:
The victim of Oxlade's negligence is one of the wisest young ladies in Nigeria.

I don't know her name. I don't know her face. I bet a lot of us don't give a damn about the sextape.

She didn't prolong the controversy. She didn't seek validation on social media. She didn't make it a scandal. She didn't give no one no explanation.

The intelligent lady approached the court of law to seek redress. Money will be paid to her for the damages caused to her reputation.

Ladies, only the court of law can give you justice! The court of public opinion can only give you pain, anguish and regret.

naptu2:
https://thenationonlineng.net/leaked-s3x-tape-court-awards-n5million-damages-against-singer-oxlade/

Businesstools:
At the Management School,I was taught that a product or business undergoes five major stages, introduction,growth,maturity,decline and death.I guess Mr Biggs has reached the last stage.

BLUEJAYY:
Sure. You should try it. That sh1t can make a man nut in minutes.
Plus it gives maximum stimulation to the clitoris and labia. So it's a win-win.

BLUEJAYY:
So in panty-tease the woman is wearing only her panties. Note that it must be clean, soft, sheer, fitting panties not some hard, baggy stuff. Also, the panties must be wet. You could use some sweet fragrance lotion or lube.

So the man is na.ked with an erect dong and lying on his back or sitting.. The woman proceeds to straddle the man in a cowgirl position making sure her coochie is pressing down on the dong.

She then slides back and forth on the dong, teasing it. She could also twerk on it. Sometimes she could slide the dong in her panties, trapping it in (no penetration) and slides and glides over it with all the wetness. Auooch! Blessed memories.

BLUEJAYY:
I have a panties fetish. I love the sight of a nice sheer nylon or lace panties lapping on a soft wobbly ass. It totally accentuates the sexiness of the feminine physique.

For this reason, when I get to undre$s a woman, I'm in no hurry to take off the panties. I leave it on for a while and ask for a panty-job or panty tease.

Mad erotic stuff.

MrBrownJay1:
As much as she is right, many men don't LIVE with women until they are married.... And that's when they discover the true woman. These women always wore these ugly granny panties, it's just that men weren't there to see it. Now they are married and spend everyday together, you will see it.

What she wrote is the same as many men have never seen women without makeup OR without the mop on their head, until marriage.

newsynews:
Ghanaian sex coach, Dzifa Sweetness has stated that the panties some ladies wear are capable of making men cheat on them.

According to the sex coach, some ladies become relaxed as soon as they get married and stop taking good care of themselves.



She continued:



She added:



https://lailasnews.com/panties-ladies-wear-men-cheat-sex-coach/

Kingpin1000:
Mugu, the vagina is acidic by nature and it drops those fluid on the panties.
It's not about hygiene, if you try to reduce the acidity of the vagina many microorganisms will invade or even colonize the vagina, which is one of the causes of candidiasis, which causative agent is Candida albicans

OsuIgboIpob:
Typically.
It's as a result of very harsh chemical discharges from their "hole"... That hole is a very complicated place...

This is why I'm usually marvelled by some senseless animal guys that gives girls head. Even a normal girl that's so-called neat and that's not wayward shouldn't be given head, not to talk of all these useless WHORĒS of this generation that sleeps loosely with various random guys and married men.
Give them head, and you'll only be eating and swallowing leftover SPERMS of other FUÇ KERS and other various nasty discharges.
You'll be a very biggest fool to think that a so-called neat girl is an exception. There is absolutely nothing like a neat girl when it comes to that hole, IT'S NOT A HOLE THAT CAN EVER BE NEAT.

Islie:
https://gazettengr.com/i-heard-nigerian-youths-loud-and-clear-tinubu-says/

LegendHero:
Good one that APC is speaking up.

Nothing must happen to Tinubu mandate. No one should foment trouble as this Nigeria is for all.

I blame ANAP polls in all this, why will they create that false poll to give Obiidient so much confidence and increase their delusion. Now to them they think the election was rigged.

Imagine ANAP saying Obi will win Ekiti state because christian dominate Ekiti. So when Obiidients saw the result , they said it is rigging.
ANAP talk say Obi go win Benue & Akwa Ibom massively, now when true election show Obi losing those states, Obiidents think its rigging.

APC new government need to dialogue with the youth because some of them have been destroyed totally with propaganda. We need the office of National reorientation to wake up and work hard to reorientate some of these youths on social media or else wahala fit come in the next 3 years if we allow them to continue to swallow fake news and propaganda unchecked.

EKONGKING:
This post is not against any region or tribe .

The polling percentage is atrocious only 25 to 30 % turned up out of all the registered voters ,cutting across all regions .

Tinubu strong hold Lagos only 20 to 25 percent turned up.
Obi stronghold Anambra only 25 to 30 percent turned up.
Atiku stronghold Adamawa only 25 to 30 percent turned up.

Voting percentage for past 20 years is less than 40 % and decreasing .

It seems only Nairaland political section and people who read news care about elections .

In developed and and developing countries ,the following is the voters percentage who voted in latest presidential elections.

India (largest democracy) 2019 67.4% voted
U.S.A (Most powerful democracy) 2020 62.8% voted
U.K (former ruler of nigeria) 2019 67.3% voted
Germany 2021 76.6% voted
France 2022 73.69% voted

Obidients ,if people are so pissed of the situation in the country at least 60 percent of south east total registered votes should at least Vote Na .

U might say turnout has been deliberately suppressed to reduce votes to OBI ,but same thing cannot be said about North or Southwest .

Either Nigerians dont care about elections or the number of registered voters are grossly inflated.

Only Intelligent discussion is allowed .Name calling shows the stupidity of ur selves and ur upbringing .

Exoticfarmer:
There are a few factors to be considered. The more lucrative an agricultural business is, the greater the skill required.
In a nutshell make your choice based on these:
» Your Knowlege and experience; This will reduce the risk of monetary loss.
» Availability & cost of raw-materials.
» Demand
It may be safer to start from a small scale if you are unsure of your experience.

XXXXTENTACION:
If not for sex and giving birth to children alot people
would be single...

Nazgul:
Marriage is a wonderful thing. The reason why people see it as nonsense is because sexual immorality is as easy as drinking water.

So to your question... reasons why I feel or want to get married are.

1. Companionship. There are times when you would want to talk to someone, just sit, talk and pour out what's bothering you to a listening ear. With the right spouse, you'll always enjoy geninue companionship, enjoy gossips together. Baby Mamas or olosho cannot give you this cos what you have with them is purely transactional.

2. It lowers your risks of contacting STDs. An older cousin of mind told me that for the past 12 years he's been married he has never been treated for any STD. If you're married to a faithful partner, and you're faithful to your partner as well, you would never suffer from STDs.

With Baby Mamas or oloshos your heart would always race wherever you develop any strange feeling or symptom after having sex with them. I've read countless topics here on Nairaland where the guy in question would tell us how the condom bursted and he wasn't aware and how he started seeing some rashes on his manhood. Such a person would never have peace of mind until after a medical test. A marriage to a good spouse eliminates all that.

3. You can plan together . I'll use my parents as an example. When my dad was building his house in the village, my mom contributed a great deal to it. Even the first car he bought which was a Jetta volkswagen, as I grew older I learnt that it was actually my mom who bought the car for him, because he had so much on his hands and didn't want to miss the car, and the funny thing was that my mom never mentioned it not even once, it was my dad who told me.

With the right spouse, you can achieve a lot together, you can build, set up businesses, invest together and support each other. Olosho or baby Mamas cannot give you this cos whatever business you setup for them is theirs and theirs alone. And wouldn't support you with a penny when things go south for you.

4. Raising your kids together . Raising kids alone is very tasking. I have a 4 year old nephew (he'll be 5 this year) who I try to use to see what parenting looks like. There was a time his mom (my cousin) came with him to spend the weekend in my place (Friday to Sunday), that was when I understood that it takes more than depositing your semen into a hole to raise kids.

From waking him up, to bathing the child, to actually spending ample time together with him talking and bonding...this isn't something a baby mama can do. It takes being married to the right person for you to achieve this.

5. Eating good food . This night I just came back from buying beans (elewa) and bread. Most times I feel very lazy to go into the kitchen, there are times I can stay up to 6 months without visiting my kitchen.

As a married man, your wife would spoil you with good food, not the junks you've been struggling with during your bachelor days. The first time I ate Nkwobi in my life, was in my uncle's house, and it was prepared by his wife. Imagine having a wife who can prepare all that, believe me, by 6pm you're home cos you'd be perceiving her food right from your office.

psychic101:
Questions A Lady Asks The Guy She Has Future Plans For

There are many girls now claiming "marriage material" and all "bangradash". I'm tired of hearing and seeing small small girls come out when the pastor says, "come out for special prayers if you know you're ripe and ready for marriage". Life has spoil sha...

Let's say you have a girl and because the cohabitation has confused your eyes and mind that you don't if she really has future plans for you or just killing time with you.

She will seriously ask you these questions:


1. What do you see yourself doing in the next few years?


She must be a "future person" to have asked this. Only a dreamer can ask such. She wants to know where you feature in her life and dreams. The FAKE ones ask just to know if you'll still be making more money and not really creating VALUES or IMPACT!


2. Where do you work currently and why?

Don't be quick to classify all ladies as "gold diggers" when they ask this. It's only normal so as to know what you're doing and if you meet her requirements. That's part of the "acquaintance process". Though, if that's the first question she asks, watch out!

3. What characters puts you off the most in a lady.

She is getting to really like you and don't wanna offend you. Trust me, if she asks you this, she is really into you.

4. What's your view about living with "in laws"?

In laws play an important role in any marriage. As time goes, in-laws (from any angle) might come around to stay for awhile. She has you in the right perspective.

5. Where do you see yourself living in the next 5 years?

Nobody knows tomorrow but a lady still remains the "owner" of the home as such she wants to know what plans you've got for her and "her children".

6. This is my dream and passion: Can you chose to marry a girl like me?

A sincere, down-to-earth, self-confident and a purpose-driven
girl will ask any guy "disturbing" her this question. Not tomorrow na, you ask to sit at home and be a Complete Housewife. Mbanu!

7. Are you in any relationship currently?

Most "hasty" girls don't care to ask this after 'dating' him for a while but she does. To be rest assured that she is the only one before saying I do.


The Point 7 is most common with girls who are very careful about giving their hearts away based on the fact that they're "new" in the system or they've been through one in the past.

#whenawomanloves#

dikysmith:
Nollywood actor and media personality, Uti Nwachukwu has divulged why he believes men and women have no business getting married before the age of 40 and 30 respectively.

Uti who is still single shared his reasons during a new interview with Toke Makinwa on ‘Toke Moments’.

According to Uti, it was best to take time to live life and weigh your options until you are ready to fully commit to a relationship.

He said;

“That is why I am not married yet. I might be Kamala Harris’ age when I decide to get married, I don’t know. Until you are ready.
I don’t believe in monogamy when you’re young but there are exceptions to every rule. Do you understand? There are some people that monogamy would work for when they’re young but the average person, I’ve always said, I don’t think any man has any business marrying before 40.
To me oh, it doesn’t make me right. Between 35 – 40, I will say 35 – 40.
For women, apart from those that are afraid of their biological clock, but then again, how many children do women want these days? And please there is technology these days too. I don’t think any woman should be married before 30.
You have to experience life as a single. You have to weigh your options. For me, leave the spiritual contract of it, the same way I will say leave a government contract of it, because marriage is a contract between you, me, and God.
Leave contract, leave agreement. If you don’t want to commit to somebody, don’t make it official, whether in the presence of God, whether in the presence of the government, whether in the presence of your family. Once you agree, integrity is integrity. There is no excuse.”

https://supers.ng/uti-nwachukwu-men-have-no-business-getting-married-before-40-because-they-are-not-ready/

StPete:
Do you think in all honesty that there would be a 36-44 year old guy with all these qualities that is not married or taken or doesn’t have a child? Make I laugh fes

Betterhalf2:
A Benevolent, simple, educated, responsible, working class, British-Nigerian, christian, honest, lovely, single woman residing in Nigeria for now in search of a serious relationship that should lead to marriage soon with a very caring, sincere, christian, gentle, single male medical doctor who is within 36 to 44 years old with no kids.

He should please send DM.

rxmusa:
1. Peter Obi wins "Tinubu's" Lagos. But you are still saying INEC is rigging for Tinubu just so that when Tinubu wins Katsina, you will say it was rigged.

Oh wait. Atiku won Katsina, Buhari's State.

So really how many persons do you want to accuse INEC of rigging for? Why not accept where your candidate lose?


2. So Obi can win Lagos, it is not rigging. But Amoda Ogunlere cannot win Osun that you said he is from, it is rigging.

Oh wait. Tinubu did not even win Osun. Atiku did. So what are you saying please? You thought Obi will win Osun??

3. Obi went to Kano and went straight to Sabon Gari where you have Igbos and minority Christians.

That is the divisive campaign Obi ran yet you will shout rigging if Tinubu wins Kano.

Oh wait. It is Kwankwaso that is winning Kano despite being an enemy of the sitting APC Governor!

Again, what are you saying

4. In the South East where Obi is from, Obi is winning by 90%

In the South West where Tinubu is from, Obi has won Lagos, Atiku took Osun. But when Tinubu takes Ekiti, it is rigging.

What is wrong with you guys?

5. Obi is winning in Edo State. If you add PDP and APC votes and times it by 2, Obi is still winning. This is a State where there is a PDP Governor and a Former APC National Chairman.

But it is rigging anywhere Obi is not winning. How can a people be this bigoted?

6. I have read, on WhatsApp, people saying they will poison food and give to Northerners for not voting Obi.

I have read people here saying they will never give a Northern beggar any money for not voting Obi.

Meanwhile Obi is clearing the South South and South East and Northerners are not threatening anyone. And you will call them uncivilized?

7. An unknown Labour party candidate for House of Rep, defeated the APC and PDP to win Etin-Osa Fed. Constituency in Lagos.

The APC guy was Obanikoro's son. The PDP guy was Banky W the musician. Both floored by a Labour party candidate people didn't know.

But the election was rigged is coming from the mouth of Labour party supporters.

8. Another unknown Labour party candidate defeated the APC and PDP in the major Senatorial Election in Edo.

The gap was almost 200%. If you add the PDP and APC votes together, the unknown Labour candidate still beat them with over 50k votes and these were not small candidates. They are the two most influential people in Benin!

But Labour Party supporters are still shouting rigging, failed election. Does this make sense

9. Obi is heading to 500,000 votes in Enugu. Whereas Tinubu has less than 5,000 votes in the whole Enugu.

This is not rigged, but wherever Tinubu wins is rigged.

10. Atiku's VP is the GOVERNOR of Delta State.

In Delta State, Obi has won 11 out of the 16 Local Government Areas annoinced so far.

But his supporters are still shouting the election is rigged. Is that not madness?

NB: If you cause the war you are using to bully everyone we will all suffer it. Pat Utomi that is encouraging you will carry his oyinbo face and seek asylum somewhere in America or Europe where he will collect cool breeze and return after your demise to claim hero of democracy. Use sense.

Eseoghene Faruq

Zico5:
I know they will be justified cos this favour them but once they see where Tinubu is leading or where they are trailing, they will start shouting fraud. They won with over 90% in their region, no rigging, it's just normal and expected. But despite they won Lagos, they are still shouting rigging. I wonder what's going on, may almighty heal their souls

AnonPoet:
https://www.thecable.ng/nigeriadecides2023-show-that-you-love-nigeria-call-tinubu-now-sdp-candidate-tells-atiku-obi/amp

money121:
Fake news

leanonme82:
Source:
https://www.thecable.ng/for-the-record-tinubus-acceptance-speech-after-declaration-as-president-elect

Elliotwaveforec:
Despite the obstacles, BAT won.

Tinubu: Won in South West, North Central and North West

Atiku: Won in North East

Obi Won in South East and South South.

Congrats to Jagaban!

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politicoNG:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid03jP4jAkzX1tRSd8yrwMA3J6bDDyC5eXKDkXYhju7BSvmjJmBu7L8TVXb1VfChVawl&id=803267836

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7367794/peter-obi-honored-citizenship-dallas

3rdeyeNigeria:
https://punchng.com/i-have-no-regrets-being-called-cleaner-precious-nwosu/

ikorodureporta:
Source:
https://dailytrust.com/inside-ibadan-precious-stones-market