₦airaland Forum

Gourdoinc:
my brother it's time to be a man, it's time to decide and lay the bed of that marriage. this is when you must be assertive and watch as things will flow better. don't get too emotional rather use this situation to gain leverage on your family. your wife is still young and very foolish apparently. it's normal for women at that age ND experience. nevertheless you need to man up and cut all communications, close all interests, forget your wife (note that this is all a game you must play). the more you chase her for peace the more she runs and feels more hurt (imaginary). face your business and your life, don't call, don't ask, you already know what your child needs, send that via transfer to her account and a text explaining the money is for the child. if she threatens you with divorce papers, do not respond. rather say "ok". let her do what is on her mind. she is only barking and enjoying the leverage she feels she already has with you. you need to gain this back, please in the mean time face your business to get back on your feet financially. provide for your child but please also take note of if your wife has started following other men. she will make a U-turn soonest after a painful realization, that will be your own cue to gain leverage. act aloof, say you aren't interested, behave as though you don't care whether the marriage works or fails. if she has cheated, then it's your choice to divorce like I would In such shoes, but if she hasn't yet done so, then accept her back after a little torture. it's fun to win on a power play. also for last, stop being such a weak man. women can see it from far and they loathe it's

FarahAideed:
From the pictures it's clear that Boko Haram completely over ran the base so much they had time to bind the hands of captives while waiting further instructions from a superior an instruction which was clearly summary point blank executions from the back of the head with the victims kneeling .

Goke7:
so the SE will be played again? hmm na wa o!

jollymizzle:
very dangerous game, they better just postpone the convention to iron this important issue out. Atiku needs to sort this if he wants one vote from the southwest. because all this seems like taking the southwest for granted. something Gej learned too late, that he had to break open central bank just to rain dollars while making lagos his permanent residence . I was actually hoping for a close race so politicians will know not to take the electorate for granted, but pdp are making it too easy for APC at the moment.

jmichlins:
Aren't you ashamed to post this online

North played this with polio vaccine and they paid dearly for it. Now my people is towing the same path

BeardedMeat:
...sources close to the Board. I see the hand of Abba Kyari here. The tone of defense in an attempt to water down the gravity of the issue sounds so much like his.
If there was nothing really other than a battle of egos, why was kachiukwu prevented from seeing Buhari repeatedly?

Time shall tell it all.

BTW, OP what's your source?

stGabrielo:
I'm I the only one who hasn't watch her single movie

Demigods666:
I have seen your original name. Rhoda Herbert iheanyichukwu

I can choose to end you. You are pushing me

tjmc:
I want to be able to meet angels too. All kinds of ETs with no preference for any. Just for exploratory purposes. Still add me so we can chat

Billyonaire:
There is no exposition there, just a more authoritative sky daddy crusader. It was a waste of thread so to speak.

bitrhyme:
Demigods666 i have forgiven you already you can go with the money okay. Am still ready to spend more money till i get what i am looking for because it is obvious now that you don't have what i am looking for. Thanks for your time, you can have the money that's my final say on it

phemmyutd:
I knew this was how you were brought up.

phemmyutd:
So why are you crying when they asked you to go home. They are ready for the worst, just ask your brothers to relocate

phemmyutd:
You are the one that needs to read and make sure you assimilate what he wrote.
So Nnamdi KANU was right to insult everyone but an Aboki man is wrong to tell you to go back to your land that is full of milk and honey right?

And by the way, are they not helping you to actualise your dream? Where now crying over cyberspace. They asked the Northeners in south East to also relocate back home. That's 50/50

Okudiover:
" WHERE IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD DOES AGITATION FOR INDEPENDENCE VITIATE THE RIGHTS OF A PEOPLE TO ASSETS THEY LEGALLY ACQUIRED IN OTHER CLIMES?

The more I read or listen to certain narratives and spins in the social media of what will happen to Ndi Igbo when they secure an Independent and autonomous home nation, the more my eyes are opened to the depraved/abysmal level of crass ignorance and shallowness of minds of a majority of us .

Please can someone explain to me how the eviction order or eviction of Ndi Igbo from properties, businesses , houses and assets they legally acquired in the North translate to them having a sovereign homeland ?

Please, where in the whole wide world have a people or nation been denied access to their assets in other parts of the world , because they broke away from their former state ?

The old Malaysia , made up of Malays and Singaporeans gained independence from the British , almost the same periods Nigeria gained independence from the British .

But in 1965,.without warning , the majority mainland Malays moved a motion in parliament exorcising the tiny island of Singapore from their barely 6 years union . The Singaporeans wept , cried and picked up the pieces of their lives to build their own nation .

Please I want to ask those doubling down on this wicked narratives of Igbo losing their assets in the North this simple questions , ..,

Did the exorcism of Singapore from Mainland Malaysia in 1965, by the overwhelmingly majority Malays deny the Singaporeans who owned assets in mainland Malaysia access and rights to their properties ?

Did Malays confiscate their properties because they were kicked out of Malaysia. ?

Were the Singaporeans prepared for the sudden jolt they got when Malaysian without warning sent them packing out of their old union put together before the British left ?

Honestly , it is the crude, unthinking, herd , wicked, perverse and animal nature of a majority of us that twist out minds to believe that if their is a Biafran nation today , that Ndi Igbo will lose their rights to all their assets in other parts of Nigeria .

Please kindly note that it is not every Igbo man that wants an independent state . Those Igbos , who do not want to relocate can pledge allegiance to the government of whereever they are and remain there. They can also naturalize . No problem . Are there no Arabs in the Jewish home state of Israel? 20% of the population of the Jewish state of Israel are Arabs. They are even in their parliament.

Those who are driving this wicked narrative and stoking up such needless fears, which seek to use the Igbo investment of over N44trillion in North to blackmail a legitimate agitation are part of the major problems of Nigeria - IGNORANCE AND PERVERSION .

We should stop lending ourselves or our walls to be used to spread this false and warped narratives" Dr. Nnaemeka Obiareri

Agimor:
As long as you have the full awareness Christianity but failed to repent and accept Christ as your Lord and personal saviour hell is inevitable. But if you've never heard of Christ yet you live a good life you will make heaven.

coolestchris:
the guy speaks like a guru...
also otem is another guru but damn billyonaire is a guru

beardlessdude:
you're right. But nigerians no dey fear oo. They can do anything for money

So fear isn't the answer

PROPHETmichael:
WOMAN WAS CREATED FOR MAN!
What is the differrence between WEDDING and Traditional marriage? since you allude to the fact that one is for the man and the other for the woman. Please you can give instances from the bible in differentiating the two. Thanks
That is why a woman's happiness is directly connected to a man.

Any time you see an unhappy woman, you're seeing a woman who is not properly relating to a man.

That is why you must turn a deaf ear to every woman who claims she doesn't need a man.

She's a baldfaced liar!

"Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man" (1 Corinthians 11:9).

For a woman to say she doesn't need a man is as asinine as a fish claiming it doesn't need water or a plant insisting it doesn't need soil.

Every woman needs a man!

But Western society (dominated by the lies of the Devil) deceive multitudes of women into believing they don't need a man.

And that is precisely why those women oftentimes end up old and single and bitter at the world instead of old and happily married and pampered and protected by their man.

THE WEDDING DAY IS NOT THE WOMAN'S DAY BUT THE MAN

Western society (dominated by the lies of the Devil) deceive multitudes of men and women into thinking that the wedding is the woman's day when in actual fact, it is actually the man's day. It is a day a man invite his family, friends and well wishers to come and celebrate with him for finally locating "the bone of his bones, and flesh of his flesh" Genesis 2:23(which was taken from him). It's like losing your most priced possession and one day you found it, you called your friends saying come and celebrate with me for i have found that which i lost. The wedding day is the day a man calls his friends and well wishers to come and celebrate with him for he has found a good thing "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord."Proverbs 18:22.

News Flash!!! Traditional marriage is actually the woman's day.



No wonder the Word of God admonishes,

"And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind" (Romans 12:2).

Don't be conformed!

Ladies, don't let your perspective on romance and marriage be shaped and molded by the ungodly heathen of this world and their satanically-inspired points of view.

Allow your thoughts, rather, to flow in harmony with the clear teaching of God's Word.

By doing so, you will find and enjoy the degree of happiness that you both desire and deserve.

Believe the prophet!



EVE BUCKED AGAINST ADAM'S LEADERSHIP BEFORE THE FALL!

Think of that.

While woman was in a state of perfection, yet she elected to operate independently of her husband's leadership.

Indeed, she went and ate from the Forbidden Tree anyway although her husband strictly told her not to.

What kind of rebelliousness, pray tell, do you think woman is now capable of exhibiting towards the headship of her husband since the Fall?

Tremble at the mere thought of it.

Selah!