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Admin401:
So after all the mouth, you still live with your parents?

shammahyaro:
hmmmm
men r scum

mexxmoney:
She is loosed because she took a picture with a fellow artiste? They actually did a song together in humblesmith's album and that picture is obviously the cover photo or video shoot for the track. You can see that the picture is the work of a professional and not just a random picture. Don't join all the bitter comments coming from jobless nonentities on nairaland trying to cast aspersions at a very successful woman. You're better than that

EmpresFIDEL:
please friends i really need your advice. I have been dating him for 5yrs now, we love each other so much . but our genotype is giving us serious issue, we are both As and we don't consider brake up as an option. the pressure on my boyfriend from family and friends is making him want to dissolve the relationship when he still love me deep down and I love him too.. we are just too confuse. I don't want to lose him.

Stycon:
Why would a sane lady do all these in the first place?

MhisTahrah:
Sincerely I don't think it's bad to go to your in-laws place and do those things you mentioned. So long your partner reciprocates.

Bushyhair:
someone said men 're everywhere......u never see anything yet

UyaiIncomparabl:
Whoever that has eyes, let her read and assimilate. This is very intelligent. I commend this, Amarabae.

Several months ago, I was in a relationship with whom I presumed 'Loved' me so much not to loose me. I loved him too. It was an abusive and intolerable relationship. I didn't want to loose him, thereby I did everything in Love's book to keep this guy. Not that We had plans of settling down soon, but I was ready to do whatever he bidded. At a time, I used to visit his parents' home to say 'Hello'. I always did this and His mother abused this use. She'll always want to send me errands like her slave. I patiently adhered to this torture for sometime until I couldn't tolerate further. Her first Son and his Fiancée visited. I happened to be around on that day.
What actually infuriated and perplexed me was that she asked me to go to the kitchen and boil rice for the 'Fiancée'. What nonsense!
I had an appointment. I was vexed, and my ignorant boyfriend couldn't explain to her about this development. I was surprised i was polite all through the fracas ensuing. I wasn't my normal self anymore. I was raging. I told her sternly and firmly that I wouldn't be able to do what she asked. She felt slighted. Oh, so the girl doesn't have hands to boil rice for herself, right?
I politely excused myself.
Thereafter, my boyfriend called and told me that I had a negative attitude. Oh really? Is that how 'A Wife Material' is being known in your village? He told me to come and apologize to his mum on my knees. I cursed and ended the phone thereon. He never called. I never called. He took my desperation for stupidity. I learnt the hard way.

To the ladies, never allow a man treat you like trash. You all are phenomenal. If he doesn't accept you for being a lady with poise, excuse yourself. A better relationship awaits. I'm not discouraging that you shouldn't help when the need arises or when you find yourself in the midst of a gathering like that, but then, NEVER over-do it. Washing their clothes will not earn you a 'ring'. It's not bad to be principled too. Know your worth.
I'm happy I took that decision. I've never been more happier. If he is meant for you, no force can tear you apart, and vice-versa.

austyn0:
SELF-WORTH,, nice one....You made good points until you involved "husband material".....

Who does the marrying?? Do you know who a man is and his responsibilities as a husband or husband-to-be? Don't bring men down to that level....

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