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fergieboy:
Why is the commentator making reference to plumtree who is a former England youth
Player

Are they regretting already not featuring her in England

He made such comment twice

English pundits are often biased

Watching the game from this thread

MiddleDimension:
You are smart, You are wise...
go buy your mama a house
go buy your friends houses
go spend money for no reason
come back.and ask for more!

😂🤭🤭

pansophist:
. When people think about polygamy, they imagine a young man getting married to two young women. They see it from the prism of his sexual vanity, and criticize why he is not content with one woman. But in reality, polygamy is a well-established method of human family formation and is present in every single society whether it is legislated or not. 

This class of women benefits from polygamy

1. Barren women. Most men will not marry a woman who can't bear a child for him. The alternative for such women is polygamy since the other wives can give him a child.

 2. Divorcees with children. Most men will always prefer a woman who has never been married before, but being divorced should not deny a woman marriage, and lots of men will not mind marrying such women as second wives. 

3. Widowers (especially with children): This is self-explanatory. 

4. Levirate wives; This is related to number three, but differs in the angle that a man marries his late brother's wife. 

1a. Now, bear in mind that there are more women than men. Men are responsible for most work death, and war death, most prisoners are men and men have to be established before getting a wife. A woman generally is ready to marry in her 20s. So with this reality, women will always be available in high numbers than eligible males. 

1b. Also, bear in mind that the West seeing polygamy as outdated is actually de facto polygamy. There is no difference between marrying one woman and sleeping with four outside. It is still polygamy. The women whom he didn't marry are the losers in the game since they will not enjoy any conjugal protection from him and the law. 

1c. Again, you should bear in mind that monogamy is successful in the West due to its wealth. The social system can take care of single mothers by giving them cash monthly. In other parts of the world, suffering awaits such women, in this case, polygamy transfers the responsibility to the man. 

1d. Also, polygamy is actually a burden on the polygamous man, because he now has more mouths to feed, and children and wives to take care of. His pocket has to be heavy. 

1e. Polygamy gives women the opportunity to team up and share a high-value man since these men are few in number. In dating, women share the same men, why not in marriage?

Most importantly, if polygamy is done rightly, it is equally as good as monogamy.

I give this 80% 🤭

1a… na. this is an urban myth. We are roughly evenly distributed

1b… half mark. sleeping around and having multiple wives is fundamentally different. But yes, the women lose out

VinnyBaba:
Hehehe.

So you don't know Having Multiple Wives is also Risky?😏

Unhealthy Rivalry/War between them can Destroy/Bring down a SUCCESSFUL man!

Yes, but any type of bad relationship between any two humans will have an adverse impact on the parties involved. The risk is in ones character and worldview.

phemmyfour:
It's the same, it's called MULTIPLE SEX PARTNERS.

Human introduces law to make one legal and the other illegal

There’s a Yoruba proverb that says 1 yam tuber given in dowry, is worth more than all romantic gifts given in a relationship combined.

There’s more to marriage than sex. Men don’t just marry purely for sex - have some respect for your gender.

MiddleDimension:
you mean polygamy is the formal marriage rite, right?

Yep

VinnyBaba:
So Which is BETTER or WORSE? 🤔😒

You’re really asking what is better between formal marriage rites and sexual indiscipline… 🙄

Dyfynezz12:
It's so annoying,there was a time u can learn something new from nairaland by just only reading dy comments,now u can't.

It's so toxic,even posts that has nothing to do with tribe the bigots will still find a way to induce tribal comments in them.

I was a guest 4 on this forum 4 eight years before I registered nd never was it a time when it was this bad.

Honestly i had to take a break for a bit. So much hate everywhere…

1Sharon:
Nigerian men need to be honest about their intentions from the beginning.

This is the bottom line.

If you know polygamy is your way, then be real from the jump so the woman isn’t being tricked into falsehood.

And money or not, sleeping around like a dog isn’t the same as having multiple wedded wives*.

Let’s BFFR.

Endearments aren’t western love 🤣🤣.

These ones maybe, but every woman on GODS GREEN EARTH irrespective of ethnicity wants to be called something sweet by their man.

Who wants to be called Iya Chinwe in the bedroom
BFFR

JC2021:
What happened to your eyes?

You comparing a 10year anniversary party celebration of a black, pan-African, political group to the rise of the most prolific, fascist, regime the world has ever witnessed - is what happened bruh

MICVOCT:
Try day calm down

😆

siofra:
Maybe I'm young and foolish, but I really don't mind being a second wife (or third wife or whatever) but I'll not be a first wife to a man with other wives.

And there are terms and conditions.

He must be super rich (like Ned Nwoko rich)

I will not have children for him (my mind may change)

I'll have my own apartment and I'll not take his name.

If he's Muslim, I'll not convert to his religion.


☺️

This just sounds like a mistress, not a wife in a polygamous home

JC2021:
Wasn't this how the Nazis started? If you don't see anything wrong with this nonsense, then you are a big hypocrite.

I don’t believe my eyes

Botragelad:
See. Racism is a nasty thing that can affect anyone, no matter what colour, creed, or culture they belong to. It's not just a one-way street, where only one group can be the victim or the perpetrator.

This act by those people is an open display of racism, and it should not be tolerated or accepted. They should be ashamed of themselves

Anyone who thinks like this is not even educated.

Racism is about the power and control systems CREATED BY the white man SOLELY to esteem himself superior to other races - particularly the BLACK race - for his benefit. There’s nothing ‘2 way’ about it.

You cannot take the the term out of context and apply it to every scenario of prejudice you see.

Lumumba is rolling in his grave right now 😭

OP all the advice above is solid. Apart from starboytwo en own🤣😂😂 - no mind am.

But on a real, just endure for now and work expeditiously on your escape route.

Starboytwo:
Takes 2 to tango

No roommate will be so heartless unless you self be idan

You self don do am shege

Are you okay? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

A feminine man.
A stingy man.
An uneducated or illiterate man.

Tueh

KdpMaster:
What you just did kill a mechanic
He travel for a burial and went to olosho com give head the Friday night. The following day that was the actual burial was spent in hospital he didn't make it. His mouth and tongue 👅 swollen and he couldn't breathe properly and got choke.

Wtf 🤣

Once it’s past 11pm, stay up and start your next day as normal by 6/7 or warreva. Keep busy and take NO NAPS.

Exhaust yourself by about 9pm and your body should begin to shut down naturally.

As soon as the sleepiness kicks in (past 9 o) then give in immediately.

Hopefully Favour is doing much better than whatever you put her through. Heavy heart fire you dia

Classickj:
mystery you can try
Clickbait
One of us is lying
Who Killed Sara ( Spanish
Carnival Row

Crime
Kleo( story happened in the 90's but it cool )
Hawkeye
Bodyguard
Treason

Thank you ☺️

I’ve watched a few of these so I think our taste is similar. Ive been seeing one of us is lying for a while but the reviews are always hit and miss

What did you think of it ?

I need help finding a good crime mystery/action series… I’ve enjoyed

- The Alienist
- Sherlock
- Luther
- Line of Duty
- Daredevil
- Punisher
- Shooter

OR

Historical action… like:

Vikings Valhalla
Taboo
Frontier
Lost Kingdom
Marco Pollo

🙏🏿

CrystalTiger:
Otuocha 😕😕

Nkea dikwa m very surprising nne..

Suprised maka gini? Go in your mentions and see it there. No be to bend mouth upandan ‘😕’.

🙄

CrystalTiger:
Nwanyi oma, kedu dissertation nke owu biko?..

I'm lost abeg 😕

A list of over 10 things to watch on a platter bu beans? And I even searched the link for you & i tufuru ya 🤨

well done, big boy in town. Biko juo’m Top Boy warreva again - i ga hu. 🙄🙄

CrystalTiger:
Thanks.. Decided to start from the bottom, that blue story is the truth...Hope others are like it too..

ehnnnnn on top the dissertation I sent you? They will not ignore you n’afa Jesus
🖐🏿😕

CrystalTiger:
It's a song 😕

That song is legendary by the way. But I will leave that talk.

CrystalTiger:
It's a song 😕

😂😂😂😂😂 no wait


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qqYm417B1O0

‘The Essence’ Sorry my bad 🤣🤣🤣

CrystalTiger:
Great story line but not violent/"gangstered" enough 😉

Trueeeee. Oh yeah um try “pain is the essence@

Moz22:
hey ex girlfriend

I don’t even know what you look like, so I know your village people are working hard.