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Good morning ladies and gents.. Please my people does anyone have any info on ivf at NiSA premier...

@wonyi...I am also TTC so trust me I understand what u are going through.parenting is a difficult task,I also have a young girl staying with me...I must say the first few years were difficult, I tried everything possible to please her but all to no avail. Then I realized that I had to be a mother.....I changed strategy, I stopped indulging her excesses,with wisdom from God we were able to pull through that phase.now we are in a good place. I make sure to give her treats once in a while not bombarding her with too much of everything. On d issue of expectations.... As a parent you have to give room for your child to make mistakes cause that what childhood is about.

@zeezy my dear.Jazakhalahu khairan.u just hit d nail on d head.to think that we are dealing with male infertility he made me reflect deeply that if d tables were turned he would have done worse.when I told him him that if there are no changes I would leave....all he could do was cry and apologise for having an affair with a co-worker blaming it on spending long workin hours with her.I have forgiven him but there are definitely going to be changes in d house.

My dear sisters words can't express how ur words soothes me.I have been so down and out lately..but I believe in d wisdom and direction of Allah.Jazakhalahu khairan for being there always.may Allah accept our duaas,amin.

Salamualaikun my dear sisters,how is everyone keeping up?may Allah make our paths easy.infertility is a very difficult situation to be in except for Allah's grace...when infidelity is added to d equation it almost feels like a death sentence..... Please sisters I need ur prayers I feellike iI am loosing my home.these days I just dont have d strength to keep going.

@ononoplanet,my dear sis so sorry...insha Allah I will be a good gal now..lol
@ummus....may Allah ease our path.
@LSyed..jazakhalahu khairan.

As salam alaikum my dear sisters.....hmmmm Alhamdulillah..... Its been ages.I mistakenly logged out of nl months back,couldn't recall my password. Just miraculously found my way back (still dont know my password).congrats to all my sweet ummus may the little ones be a source of joy to our hearts.to all of us in waiting may Allah ease our paths.amin.really missed my sweet sisters.

Phone swap.....Kunle Afolayan

@ Rosl.Dear sis.I understand wat u are going through....pls for Allah's sake erase such thought.I have always been d good gal too...u know dt one dt never had boyfriends while growing up not because I couldn't but I wanted to keep it together. Sometimes I think of all those girls dt did all nasty things and went on to have a seemingly perfect life.....but wait what if it was worse than it is now?Allah knows best.

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Wow...I have learnt a great deal from your experience. May God continue to uplift u sis.

This is exactly my state now.my hubby has been cheating on me for a couple of months now.I have forgiven him but I can never trust him again.He has been trying to his best to change the situation in d home.my heart is so broken.

Pls guys what is the title of the song performed by the dide family..... Really enjoy d uteres and dides performance

Ameen sis,sometyms it just so hard to keep hope,but His wisdom supersedes our understanding.may Allah answer our prayers.

@cerkeynah,masha Allah,may Allah make the way easy for u sis,so happy for u congrats

@oviasouth,damsell nd nogen,may God grant u safe pregnancy.indeed God's ways are unexplainable,wow see testimonies.

So grateful sis,oya now #lets go there#

@iyatt,tnks a bunch sis,really appreciate.
Omo so its titus,oh my #village gal tins#hahaha

@dreams keep up d good job sweets,got some questions. pls d milk on d list,is it just any milk?should i fry d fish and chicken or shld i just leave it fresh in d freezer?
For d apples is it red or green?
pls house wat is d conventional names for d following:cinnamon,mustard seeds,mackerel,parsley.pls I need help on where to get them in lagos.

Omo dennis tried jare and deserved to win(multiple sands bag),see ify picking egusi inside water,and eddie confuse fellow

@tbaby,may Allah ease ur path,He knows best.
@moyin,hw was ur hajj,may Allah accept it as an act of ibadah,ameen
@sweettweet,hope dh arrived safely,may Allah reward his work,ameen
@all my mia sisters,may Allah warm our heart with His peace and love,ameen
I pray dt Allah will fill up our nests with pious little ones,ameen ya Rabb

Ya Allah...

@dreams I'm sooooooo in,bring it on
Tnks a bunch

Praise to d lord of d worlds,congrats sir

"We live in a world where we want things immediately. But, all around us, Allah teaches us a profound lesson, again and again: everything is a process and takes time. Allah could have made a baby in a moment, but He designed it to take 9 months. A seed could have become a massive Oak in a day, but He designed it to take hundreds of years. The Prophet's mission could have been completed in a year or two. But, God designed it to take twenty three.
You will not always see the fruits of your labor right away. Maybe not even in your lifetime. Don't get discouraged. All things take time. And to all things is a process you cannot speed up. Therefore, success is dependent upon patience"

Yasmin mogahed

@deema,congrats sis,I am an ardent follower of ur blog,infact its bookmarked on my phone,wishing healthy and smooth pregnancy,u really deserved it,keep doing d good job,more blessings abound dear,amin

@beelie,masha Allah,may Allah increase His peace and rahma in ur home,may He grant ur heart desires with d best,amin
Sis keep ur head high and believe dt ur precious little ones will soon join u both,insha Allah,prying eyes might have started,insensitive questions might be everywhere,but just believe,sooner than we can ever imagine it will happen,for us all,have fun sis
Helep mi manage dis akara oyinbo,cut am put for dh mouth make e dey do medemede,joli joli...omo marriage sweet oooooo

@emcemayo,Woooow,read ur post with tears flooded eyes,may Allah reward u with d very best in dis life and d hereafter
Tnks for ur suggestions,u're indeed very right,we are into a lifestyle change already,taking baby steps,towards being better,really appreciate ur gesture.

@Faith2013,tnks a bunch for ur comment,its been a very difficult road,but with God we are still surviving dis long stormy weather in our lives.we had a failed ivf cycle in march,was devastated,never thought we could survive d pain,sense of loss nd emptiness we felt at dt point.Everyone I know is either preggos or just had baby,its hard just viewing life with uncertainty.
We were suppose to start another round of ivf in august but I am not ready pschologically.I love my hubby soooooo much,I don't like seeing dt deep pain hidden in his eyes.d atsmophere is usually tensed,cause he barely expresses his feelings.God is able to do all tins.
Tnks would check more on fetilaid,so grateful.May God bless ur home with a natural bfp,healthy pregnancy and lovely babies,amen(huggs)

"I know you feel worn and tired. I know you're tired of failing. Rest, but don't stop. You can do this. You got this.
Not because you're strong, but because He's your strength"

Yasmin Mogahed

Sometimes I feel that I have no answers, and I'm not sure what's true. Sometimes I suspect I'll always be alone. Sometimes I wonder why my life always feels a little out of control.

The only thing I know for sure is that Allah is real and He cares about me.

Then I realize that that's enough, and maybe that's the meaning of "Hasbi Allah wa ne'm al-Wakeel" (Allah is enough for me, and He is the best Caretaker).

- Wael Abdelgawad

Alhamdulilah

@nbright,tnks a bunch,may God bless u,amin