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Is this what they mean by injured lion...

Is that what they were setup for....these ones are priming themselves to be more useless than the men on black

Cucumber and hole matter bringing men down, nobi today e start ooo.


Sampson matter just dey ring for my head.

In Nigeria the police officer will claim he was ambushed and tied up by a very powerful man accompanied by a woman...then they proceeded to having sex in his police cruizer with the mic on....his superiors will support the officer because they are also guilty of sexual exploitation of female detainees right in their offices.

JustNumb:
Hey guys I'll just be brief.

Straight to the point.

My wife is having an emotional affair.

Whats making it worse?

It's with a pastor with wife and children. Her pastor when she was in another state.

Now they're both in different states.

How did I know?

I saw her chat with him about 2+ years ago, and saw all the sweet name calling, the pet names and how they tell each other their activities of the day and even marital problems.

All the red flags and checklist of an emotional affair have been ticked by them.

The only thing remaining is the sexual part.

We've been married for some years now, she was a virgin when I married her though I'm 100% sure they have not met since we got married.

But the issue here is that this is causing serious friction in our marriage.

When I first saw it, I gave some time to be sure and I confronted her and she denied and said he's just her pastor (denial is one of the checklist).

Some months later they didn't stop the communication, I was about to tell her mum cos she visited. She pleaded and I let it slide.

Fast forward to 2021 they are still in communication. This time around the so called pastor is even always reminding her to clear chats so I won't see it.

Now emotional affair is actually worse than sexual affair
This pastor has a wife. I just pity the wife cos I can imagine how she would also be feeling.

I provide for the home, I also had to change from biz to the one that makes me travel to something that makes me work from home so she won't say it's cos I'm not always around.

We struggle with our sex life. What do I mean? She doesn't like sex. She doesn't mind if we stay 1 year without sex.

But me I'm a man with sexual needs.

Now when I see the way she doesn't like sex and I remember this emotional affair, it drives me crazy.


Those who have passed thru this, how did you overcome this challenge?
I don't want a broken home for my children cos sometimes I feel like calling her people and telling them to take their daughter back. Infact I'll dash them the bride price.

Do I go and get a side chick? But that won't solve my problem.

Guys come to my aid.

Cos if we discuss this again, this will be the 3rd time we're talking about same issue and same guy.

Sorry wasn't brief

Op please how do you see their chats....please I need that formula

Not a bad suggestion...Ogun state needs more revenue to fix her badly dilapidated infrastructures.

Which one come be secretly acquired again...must everyone that buy property go to the print, social and electronic media to announce it like our olosho yeyebrities.

She should be prosecuted if proven the source of the money is illegal not this unnecessary sensationalism.

OP this car I'm seeing was in critical condition before the flood....stop passing bulk.

ekesol:
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Go to hell with your report.
Go and tell Tinubu to tell us how he looted Lagos dry and how his case with EFCC were written off
Petre okute Obi is the only Presidential Hopeful to rearrange Nigeria.
We can not fall for the gimmick of Lagos Ibadan express way media report.

Did you read through the post before making this uninformed comment of yours..

As expected the efulefu Professor from Cross Rivers did not turn up.

So it is these shacks they call houses....Nigerians and mediocrity...so all those beautiful pictures of Dubai they see on TVs and appreciate came about by allowing such shanties to deface the city.

A leader need to be strong and firm...las las everyone will be alright.

I really need to understand why some guys love so deeply like this....Op the reason why I would no disparage you is that I had a friend way back in the university who loved a girl somuch like you did...when he had some misunderstanding with the girlfriend...the girl went to his close friend to complain.....little did the girl know that the friend had interest in her and he was buoyant financially.

Before we knew it baby girl has switched lane oo...she's nolonger in love with my paddyman....she's now in love with my paddyman paddy. And these are people staying not upto 7 blocks from each other.

My man stirred up a serious commotion in the neighbourhood that resulted to conflict between their parents.

At the end of it they both lost out on the girl and for her adventure the girl was blacklisted in the neighbourhood.

Maybe it is a gene thing for certain guys to love so deeply but on current reality that gene is an abnormality better locate it and root it out before it plants you permanently 6ft to the ground.

Op...your parents just reminded you that they own you....so everything you own is there's.


Op the only Solution open to you to move them out is start planning to build them their own retirement home.

Emmanuel Macron is aggressively pursuing investment between French companies and foreign investors.

The reason why Macron is so furious with the Aussies for the failed military deal as a result
of Australia opting for partnership with the Americans instead to build a nuclear powered Submarine with cutting edge technology to checkmate Chinese ever growing military influence in the pacific region.

Is there any global function this old man will not attend...of what benefits are all these globe throttling to Nigeria. The wastage of Buhari in all these foreign travels would have comfortably settled the agitation of Resident doctors in the country.


Responsible leaders do not embark on these kind of jamboree, certainly not when their country is on fire.

Who buys for the father nau.....

Arrewa has a hand in this.....cos everything about Kano gives him erection.

Ok...let me check my Twitter account

Things that are done in secret are often times so sweet...tasting a prized asset of someone else massages a man's ego....so paddymen you guys should be calming down it's an animal thing.

You've seen Lions fight to death to take charge of a rival bride, cases are bound of buffaloes, zebras, elephants, baboons, antelopes, deers, even our closest relatives gorillas and chimps etc engaging in serious battles to upstage the status quo just to get an attempt at a hump of a rival female.

Guys lusting for their Boyfriend's females and females hitting on their girlfriend's guys.

Married people are part of these society and not aliens ...infact the society moulded them as do us, this is not a Nigerian thing alone it's a humanity issue...didn't start today and as far as life is concerned it will still continue to happen....if you doubt it ask king Solomon and his father David.

So guys before we start pointing accusing fingers let's start from ourselves by asking this simple question..

"Are you 100% sure you've not cheated on your partner(s) before ? "

Oh! I see Bobrisky underwent a hip enlargement procedure.....still struggling to see a bulge between his groin though..

This is unbelievable "Pot said Kettle is black"

I wonder how much they've paid diswan as bribe....if they could offer homeless US citizens $500 to carry their placards.

daddytime:
National conspiracy.

FIFA and UEFA need to sanction Poland.

Korokoro ojoro



Why the guy document no go complete na?

Always portraying the victim mentality...you think Europe is Nigeria where everything goes....incase you don't know your immigration officials have started taking bribes from inbound travelers to evade Covid 19 test at the entry point.

This particular road that used to be very deplorable...since Wike reconstructed and commissioned the road...motorists on that axis think they on formula One race course.

RIP to the dead....unfortunately that's all we can offer also hoping others learn their lessons ...I'm very sure if that driver had been asked to be cautious in his driving, he would have claimed he knows what he is doing...now he has driven 12 other innocent souls to watch the Wonder TV of the afterlife in bewilderment all the while reflecting on what they could have done differently.

This particular road that used to be very deplorable...since Wike reconstructed and commissioned the road...motorists on that axis think they on formula One race course.

RIP to the dead....unfortunately that's all we can offer also hoping others learn their lessons ...I'm very sure if that driver had been asked to be cautious in his driving, he would have claimed he knows what he is doing...now he has driven 12 other innocent souls to watch the Wonder TV of the afterlife in bewilderment.

This particular road that used to be very deplorable...since Wike reconstructed and commissioned the road...motorists on that axis think they on formula One race course.

RIP to the dead....unfortunately that's all we can offer also hoping others learn their lessons ...I'm very sure if that driver had been asked to be cautious in his driving, he would have claimed he knows what he is doing...now he has driven 12 other innocent souls to the Wonderland of the afterlife to watch the TV of his recklessness.

Ashawooooo!

High time these nonsense boats are banned from operating passengers services in Lagos.

Expressking:
Rumuola flyover was built during Rt Hon. Chibuike Amaechi tenure wike built another lane to expand the flyover.

The first Rumuola flyover was built by Peter Odili....stop saying something you know nothing about.

RiceProducers:
The only major drainage project was done by Amechi. Wike has no wish to extend drainage and channelsation anywhere. He prefers building seasonal roads. And the idea that the flyovers will stop traffic jams for any length of time that's crazy.

Youngman Which drainage did Amaechi construct..?

Antoeni:
Governor Wike , leave Flyover construction and battle the flooding issue wrecking Rivers state, battle with the insecurity challenges facing the state

Which state is not battling flooding and insecurity....those two problems you mentioned are even worse in Abuja the seat of federal government.