₦airaland Forum

PrideofLincoln1:
You are right Amazon. That's the complication that comes with the Parliamentary System unlike our Presidential system in the Fruiited Plains. My hint is that Olaf Scholz will win but with a bare majority like Trudeau just did in Canada. We shall see in few days though. Whoever wins should keep the Merkel way of doing things on because it has worked very well for Germany.

All three major candidates agree with the foreign policies like NATO and allies so in that area maybe not different from Merkel.

PrideofLincoln1:
Let that uncultured pygmy be.

The screenshot clearly said screen which relates to screening for a friend and the person I conversed with understood what I meant but trust turnnewleaf or whatever nonsense username he uses say that I am struggling to get to school and too broke begging for school fees LMAO was that what the screenshot said?the boy is obviously sick and has a problem with his eyes.

May God help him to learn how to read and comprehend instead of coming under my mention to tell me how Uniben made him write post utme a 1000 times hence the frustration.
I will ignore the attention seeker he isn't worth my time I didn't even attend Uniben when I was in school.

PrideofLincoln1:
That will be a good one to watch out for because Chancellor Merkel has been at the helm for so long and she's an institution not only in Germany but the whole of Western Europe. I think her endorsement will carry a big weight.

According to the polls her party's candidate Laschet is not ahead and the candidate of the social democrats Olaf Scholz is ahead but then it depends on the Germans.We shall see,I think some German's are tired of her party.

That doesn't change the fact that she has accomplished so much.

https://www.euronews.com/2021/09/26/iceland-s-coalition-government-set-to-retain-power-after-election

First time for women in Iceland to be a majority in Parliament.

Interesting news

TurnNewLeaf:
[s]kokobilo87 exposed you and you don't have anything to say again to cover your lies that you are a uniben aspirant at your age and they still keep denying you admission every year.
In the Screenshot he shared you said uniben should reduce fees, funny enough other uniben students are not complaining but you a postutme aspirant that hasn't even been admitted you're complaining.
Broke girl go hustle and leave American politics alone cos it's beyond your comprehension[/s]

Get your eyes checked,read then comprehend before coming under my mention to tell me how Uniben denied you admission and you were so broke to pay your fees,now get lost you have been noticed.

I won't waste my time on a delusional child.

Polls have opened in Germany,who will succeed Angela Merkel

wirinet:
What concerns Clinton screaming Russia Russia with attempting to disenfranchise or decertify millions of voters?

Did not Trump give the "Russia, of you are listening, find those emails" on live TV?

Did Don Junior not meet with Russian agent Maria Butina and lied that he did not tell his father?

Did Trump everyone in Trumps campaign not lie about their interactions with the Russians.

Did not not have a meeting with Putin with no official present but only the interpreter who was instructed not to take notes? Till today no one knew what was discussed in that meeting. If Biden should meet with Xi Jingpin under the same conditions, I am sure you would call for Biden’s head.

You that your mind is open have not told us the new findings of the audit.

Why are you giving him facts,Facts and Qanon doesn't go together at all.

The election should be decertified according to them

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLBm4gag_Lw


Agent orange said he called on Brian Kemp to hold a special election in Georgia sore loser refuses to stop relosing

Anyway I agree with him when he said Stacey Abrams will make a better governor than Kemp.

SmilingImabong:
God bless you bro.
There are men who take good care of there family like this man and they have worth and money.
Marry your friend and don't marry for breast and yansh
The reason why many men suffer this from women is because they were after last and the lady is aware that's why if he lacks financially she treats him like a puppet while she earns

It is very important for one to marry his/her friend for a healthy marriage and I am a sis not a bro.

Midas01:
Baby you smart....

Thanks

GalaticHorde:
wallahi the projection no be here they project themselves and their failures on others to make themselves feel good, isn't that a mental disease?

A serious one

BRATISLAVA:
Fear Bible bangers when it comes to women matters. Most of them are infidels by the same biblical standards.

The only righteousness to them is to be the head of the home and for women to be submissive. The rest of the Bible doesn't exist to them. Not even the 10 commandments

Religion twisted to the patriarchy. That is why they don't want women to preach, because their control points will be trashed.

@bold,truer words have never been spoken, they forget where the Bible warns against adultery but remember they are the head of the home they don't admonish men against adultery but admonish the women to tolerate such men that a good woman builds her home blah blah blah

BRATISLAVA:
And. . . You're back

Your post is the truth. Subtract "money" from most Nigerian men, and they are very undesirable. And that is why women leave them when they are broke, all the ugliness is laid bare then.

They spend so much time preaching on what a virtuous woman is, and yet their own virtue is in shambles.

Yes I am back thank you very much.

You have said the basic truth but many of them don't like to admit it

Hyerin:
Do you help your virtuous wife with chores at home? Do you provide emotional support to your wife? Do you also cook? Or you let her mule because you believe that is a measure of "virtue" for a woman by being a beast of burden.

Liberal ideals aren't tearing anything apart rather they're freeing both women and men from the bondage of being put into a box via societal expectations. Marriage as an institution has always been shit because for long, women were and are still expected to be longsuffering in the hands of men. They're the ones constantly preached to by society, in churches, in family gatherings, by friends to compromise, endure, do this and do that. Men are barely recipients of this message. This imbalance has gone on for so long and now that the tides are changing, men are scared because they're about to lose privileges the imbalance has brought. You lot aren't victims nor martyrs. You're frauds.

Research has literally shown married men live happier and tend to live longer than their single counterparts. Married women on the other hand, tend to be miserable and single, childless women report high rates of happiness. If marriage was such a scam for men, they wouldn't be the ones remarrying at lightning speed after divorce or death of their spouse. Men can't stand being alone that's why inceldom is such a huge thing now (men forming communities to complain about how sexless and loveless their lives are).

Why do you men act like being providers and working is the hardest thing in the world and then take this frustration upon women? Women did not dictate men to undertake this role, the patriarchy did. Your frustrations should be directed towards dismantling the patriarchial structure so that the burden of providing will be lifted off your shoulders but ofc, men love the status quo and strive to maintain/preserve it at all costs. You only use the downsides as a crutch to nag at women for a system they didn't instate.

Women are providers too as well as homemakers. Being a housewife, in this day and age is relatively rare. A stream of income cannot sustain most families except if the man is super wealthy which, most men aren't. Exceptions don't make the rules. The average Joe's families are two-income households.

I read alot of this divorce talks in manosphere circles. You lot keep regurgitating the same shit. Frankly, it's tiring. I don't understand why men love acting obtuse. You really think a wife should leave with nothing after all her contributions being a home maker and mostly raising the children. Doesn't marriage this way sound like a scam to women? And men make more than women on average. Never heard the gender pay gap? Are men going to fight against income inequality so that women become on the same earning level as them? Or do you only just want to complain about perceived divorce advantages towards women while not looking at the bigger picture by fighting against income inequality which automatically makes men earn more? Are you lot going to rally against that?

If more men are choosing not to get married and hopefully, also decide to be childfree then that's not a loss at all. No wife nor children to lord over. There would be no further contribution to domestic violence rates, so that's a good thing

Romanoff:
That's why a lot have their manhood tied to their pockets. The moment they don't have money, small talk wey their wife go talk, they will conclude it's because they are broke.

If your wife only submits to you cause you're older than her or cause you're the bread winner, that is not a marriage but a master and slave relationship.

When the tide turns, that woman will treat you the exact way you treated her.

That is why they feel empty when they are broke.Many of them lack basic human skills, attitudes and virtues on how to keep a relationship or marriage to them it is just money other men who know better and whose worth ain't tied to money alone tend to do better and are treated better when they are down because of the way they chose to relate with their wives.

Imagine one just telling us the man is the head of the home so what does it mean he should misbehave and not respect or treat his partner right.These men sometimes have a warped mindset on a lot of issues Nigerian women have tried oo

Romanoff:
Does this kind of balance take away the fact that the man is the head of the home?

Or are you saying the man can't be the head of the home if he's not the one making the money?

Cause the family I cited in page one, the man is very much the head of the home, just that he has more wisdom than most men.

The headship is even for a Christian marriage take for instance it isn't one can he impose his beliefs on those practicing the equality he seems to despise and it may be working well for the couple.
I think he should answer these questions you asked, a lot of men interpret headship to mean being power drunk to them being the head means the man is the lord and master while the wife is the slave so the wife cannot do the same thing they do these kind of people marriage isn't a team effort or a partnership.

capnies:
THE MAN IS THE HEAD OF THE HOME SO THE BIBLE SAYS
THERE IS NO EQUALITY IN MAN AND WOMAN IN MARRIAGE; THE MAN IS THE HEAD PERIOD. JUST LIKE CHRIST IS THE HEAD OF THE CHURCH

This doesn't translate to current realities,be jobless and carry headship for head.

Some of you men see marriage as a power tussle the lady rightly laid out a marriage plan that happens in today's world but you want to tell us what we already know,every marriage is different for some marriages that are not Christian based the husband and wife work as a team and there is equality in such marriage just because you are not familiar with that reality doesn't mean it doesn't work for others and happens in such marriages.

Christ being the head of the church loved the church and died for it how many men of today can do that,Christ also washed the feet of his disciples I can liken this to husbands doing chores in the homes and treating their wives as the queens that they are,you are so quick to remember headship but slow to remember the responsibilities it carries.

MufasaLion:


But it's better to be financially stable as a man irrespective of the financial status of the woman.

It is better for every adult to be financially stable but then the economy is something else it is good for women to be financially stable too so as to avoid future insults and abuse from men there is this joy everyone feels when they can be financially responsible for themselves and pay bills but then again the economy doesn't make our ideals always come true so if married couples should try to pull resources together and be interdependent on one another so as for one spouse of things are not going according to plan can fall on the other spouse for backup there should be financial transparency that is why I have problem with some men who don't like taking their wives along in decision making and financial matters if anything happens tomorrow where will he fall back on.

wirinet:
Arizona GOP Chair Calls For New Audit After Biden Confirmed Winner Again. Afterall the Benghazi embassy affair was investigated by Republicans 11 times. The Maricopa County election needs 10 more audits before Republicans will give up.

They will continue having audits and Biden may be serving a second term by that time they will be auditing Kentucky,Montana and others

MufasaLion:
Amazon, you're right. Ego mixed with laziness is a problem too.

I don't know where I heard this slag from "how can you be broke and proud" I think it is from a song or something that is what I see here when it comes to some men in this situation.

Romanoff:
What is wrong with the arrangement?

Isn't that balanced enough?

Or the man should cross his leg and wait for the person that worked from morning to night to come and cook?

They've been married for 5 years now.

I don't know how some people reason how can men be broke and proud

The arrangement of this family is a healthy one and the man is truly responsible if na some men bad friends would start feeding him with insecurities

MufasaLion:
Smart and good submission from you but however, it's very difficult to let go off of one's ego as a man especially in such situation.

Every human being has ego including women it isn't good for any one to have an overbloated ego.When times are hard you do what you gotta do someone who is in need of an helper doesn't act pompous or proud one needs to apply humility in all things.
So any man with an overbloated ego should work on it it isn't healthy at all the situation is only temporary and no condition lasts forever.

MufasaLion:
Being dependent on a woman (especially a wife) is the most embarrassing and degrading thing ever that could happen to a man.

I thought in marriage two shall become one and both of them become inter dependent on each other.

A man who is for the time being not well to do should swallow whatever pride he has and get something doing even if it is at the home front,some men have no idea how helping their wives with chores at home makes them happy and joyful instead of being idle and having unnecessary pride it will be good for the husband to help out at home and spend more bonding time with the kids.

How a man can be jobless and still expect his working wife to still be attending to all the chores at home is beyond me.Help out and relieve your wife of stress if your wife runs a business you can also help her and won't even remember that you are jobless

Davash222:
May God have mercy on His people.

E no go better for poverty!

It isn't attached to poverty there are men with good jobs who do this.

Nothing stops a man from helping out in the home and making time for his family.That is a wise and honourable man.

Op na God go bless you.

It is just so unfortunate that in Nigeria it is only women who get married because men are hardly adviced or thought how to be good husbands.If you go to religious places of worship you will see seminars and programmes directed at women on how to be good wives and focus on the home and family but you hardly see a men's programme centered around marriage.

In Nigeria when a marriage succeeds he husband has done a great job,the marriage fails it was the wife's fault she couldn't keep her home and fight for her man(I thought it was the man who is the leader and in the traditional sense does the fighting,since he is the knight and shining armour ). Nigerian women are taught about marriage from birth but you don't see men being given much attention or taught how to be lovely husbands to their wives as long as they are bringing in the money who cares? And this mindset has made some women believe that men are only good for money so they settle with the wealthy ones and leave the broke boys/men behind because in this part of the world the only thing a man needs to have and know is money nothing else.

Men are not taught and prepared for marriage the way women are that is why when the marriage has crisis the wife is often the one having sleepless nights trying to find a solution while the husband who may the one causing the sleepless nights is sleeping or in the bossom of another woman after all the wife is the home maker and heart of the home while the husband who cannot be held accountable is the head of the home
Chai.

Germany's election is tomorrow Angela Merkel's 16 years long reign will soon come to an end.

Her party's successor according to the polls may not win. It will be interesting to watch and follow up on tomorrow

https://www.cnbc.com/2021/09/24/house-passes-abortion-rights-bill-in-response-to-restrictive-texas-law.html


Following the passing of this bill in the house, the US supreme court will hear a direct challenge to Roe v Wade on December 1st.

The women's march is scheduled to hold on October 1s.

Magnoliaa:
I am getting your points, though. Perfectly getting it. I don't think she called it a secret wedding, though, just private? Her parents might be aware, but not in sitting. Both of them might have been acquainted with each others' families and friends before now, and would have let them know their plans. Or they did not only tell them the date.

Wo, different people with their styles, abeg. Not for me.


@topic, what will happen to all my Disney-inspired dreams? And Cinderella-styled Ankara gown? Or my Harlequin-themed majestic and grandeur atmosphere and frenzy? Ah. What a waste of childhood dreams. Mba.
And like someone said up there, the African society is very communal. Party jollof rice has taken me to heaven and back, made love to me, vanquished hunger many times, gotten numerous souvenirs... it'll reach my turn, I wee now deny others from eating rice and the same experience? Haha. Money or no money, we'll survive, joor.

If future boo is kuku here, he should better be taking note. I go spell clearly for am too, sha, so no shaking.

So you fancy a big wedding

What is on your signature "Taliban Feminist" . What

I love this kind of wedding simple and straight to the point.

I am sure they didn't invite many people

Kokobilo87:
Benalvino3 knucklehead expose ya donkey

I see ya a bigger liar

I thought it was disstroy the exposure only happened in your head

Kokobilomama come and chain your son.