Family / Re: I Want To Quit This Marriage by amebono1: 2:00am On Jan 07, 2010 |
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Family / Re: I Want To Quit This Marriage by amebono1: 1:58am On Jan 07, 2010 |
FL Gators:
Who wears the same shoes all the time Some women are collectors. Different fashion, different shoes, different styles, different colors. lol
Dont touch my shoes, I dont joke with them. Or I will crush your bal.ls with my heels.
Exactly, i am not ready to repeat my shoes, infact i started my own rules of not wearing the same shoes to church , and i am sticking by it same here, i can give out anything but shoes, i bought my cousin one but changed my mind and later gave her sthg else |
Family / Re: I Want To Quit This Marriage by amebono1: 1:56am On Jan 07, 2010 |
4 Play:
What do you need all that for? It's like an addiction.
more like trying to look the best for my man FL Gators:
Seriously, 150 shoes is nothing.
I'm still a student, so I'll stick to the little I have. 150 shoes, she's in heaven.
dont mind them, even as a student then i had more than that 4 Play:
@Morenike
Can you explain to me why you girls need all those pairs of shoes? Also, will you beat me up if I decide to make a bonfire of your shoes?
4play , a woman needs those things to look good |
Family / Re: I Want To Quit This Marriage by amebono1: 1:38am On Jan 07, 2010 |
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Family / Re: I Want To Quit This Marriage by amebono1: 1:36am On Jan 07, 2010 |
IF the guy refuse to give me money na violence i call am naaa ehn sauron yes i earn my own, but i am not a feminist, and will always rely on himf for somethings There is this feeling of protection, joy, happiness alot of women experience when their husbands spoil them silly , or comes home and says " baby i want you to go get yourself some more pairs of shoes" i tell you when we go out and someone admires the issue, the way we say " HUSBAND BOUGHT IT FOR ME" will make alot of people green with envy, i tell you it is a cosy feeling Anyway he knows better than to leave 50 dollars change on the room fridge, he never sets his eyes on it again |
Family / Re: I Want To Quit This Marriage by amebono1: 1:30am On Jan 07, 2010 |
Please enough of all marriages go through challenges
As you lay your bed so will you lie on it
i CAN TAKE ANYTHING FROM A MAN, BUT VIOLENCE BOTH EMOTIONALLY, PSCHOLOGICALLY, PHYSICALLY, FINANCIALLY E.T.C
If any of this things happen, i am gone, marriage is not by force it is a choice, i choose to stay alive than allow one useless man beat me to death |
Nairaland / General / Re: I Seriously Dislike Fl Gator, Busybodi, Michelin89 And Davidylan When They Post! by amebono1: 1:26am On Jan 07, 2010 |
FLgators no be jordin sparks battle field music be that? |
Family / Re: I Want To Quit This Marriage by amebono1: 1:20am On Jan 07, 2010 |
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Family / Re: I Want To Quit This Marriage by amebono1: 1:19am On Jan 07, 2010 |
debosky:
railuway crew - it's a new year can we please allow the man discuss his marriage?
Na beg I dey beg una oh!
i wsas expecting this, happy new year darl whatawhat:
the fact she had the guts to mention your mama-THINK TWICE AND THIS DECISION IS FOR ONLY YOU MAKE-GOOD LUCK
exactly, my point, she can as well curse his life out, but to curse a dead woman, in her grave? is the height of it all, like i said she can insult hiis generation but never insults her own daughter, that means she knows what she is doing if it were me Gid forbid, as she calls me a low life i will tell her "back to your daughter " if she calls me a useless being, i will say " may it be on your daughter also" oh may you die tomorrow " same to your daughter she wont live to see todays evening sef" but at the same time rejecting it in the inside I tell you she will stop this, why cant men play the same games with the women |
Family / Re: I Want To Quit This Marriage by amebono1: 1:09am On Jan 07, 2010 |
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Romance / Re: Is It Compulsory To Wash Your Husband's Clothes? by amebono1: 12:43am On Jan 07, 2010 |
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Family / Re: I Want To Quit This Marriage by amebono1: 12:39am On Jan 07, 2010 |
Like i said i dont care who provoked who and what the poster said to his wife to get her angry, all i know is that they need to get away from eachother , the woman insulting his mum in her grave and insulting him isnt worth 2 mins of his attention, abi una go say him mama wake from the dead come fight her, hence leading to the insult? I can relate with why he said she does not insult their daughter, if she remembers to insult every member of his family and himself, how come she forgets to include her daughter? SIMPLY COS SHE KNOWS HOW POWERFUL CURSES ARE AND DOES NOT WANT IT TO AFFECT HER DAUGHTER, if she knows this, why is she still cursing? Move out and run out of this marriage poster Aniody:
Leaving the marriage is not the solution to the problem, rember God hate divorce, sit you wife down, if she is doing anything cos she might be the type that doesnt like to be a full house wife, open the business for her and see a different person entirely. it happen to me until i got a job, we are happily married now and my family is growing happily both in number and finacially, i also recomend this book foe you to know her the more Why we Act the Way we do by Tim.
What on earth is this, so if a man makes me his punching bag i should still sit my ass down with him in that house,until he kills me finally? who on earth is gonna train my kids? |
Family / Re: I Want To Quit This Marriage by amebono1: 1:21am On Jan 06, 2010 |
I dont wanna know who started cursing and all that, thats secondary,If marriage isnt working for you, move out |
Family / Re: My Precious And Wondeful Man by amebono1: 1:15am On Jan 06, 2010 |
africhika:
awwwwww, i LOVE this! but this:
is TMI [size=5pt]too much information[/size]
i see nothing wrong with that |
Romance / Re: Is It Compulsory To Wash Your Husband's Clothes? by amebono1: 1:12am On Jan 06, 2010 |
Is it compulsory for a wife to make love to her husband? if it is compulsory, then It is compulsory to wash your husbands clothes, but BF? i mean what the hell? I never washed his clothes when i was dating him |
Celebrities / Re: Odunlade Adekola: Hottest Yoruba Male Actor - What Do You Think? (see Pic) by amebono1: 1:08am On Jan 06, 2010 |
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Celebrities / Socialite Heiress Found Dead by amebono1: 3:57pm On Jan 05, 2010 |
A spokesman for the family of New York Jets owner Woody Johnson, whose great-grandfather founded Johnson & Johnson, says a daughter of the businessman has died.
Spokesman Jesse Derris said Monday that the family is mourning the tragic loss of Casey Johnson.
In a statement, the family asked for privacy "during this very difficult time."
TMZ reported that the 30-year-old Johnson was found dead Monday in Los Angeles.
Casey Johnson had gained celebrity of her own as the girlfriend of television personality Tila Tequila.
In pictures: Tragic celebrity deaths of 2009
Tequila's publicist says the two were engaged to be married.
"Everyone please pray 4 my Wifey Casey Johnson. She has passed away," Tequila wrote on her Twitter account.
A second posting said: "This is a very heartbreaking time for me. I just want some pricacy (SIC) as I deal with the loss of my Fiance Casey Johnson. I'm (SIC) heart is shredded."
But shortly after, Tequila posted:"I just got news that my fiance is not dead but currently in a coma!!! Omg please pray that she will make it! Hang in there my love please!!!"
But a spokesperson for Los Angeles police confirmed to People magazine that Johnson was in fact dead.
"Police and firefighters were called to a house and Johnson was pronounced dead at the scene," officer Sara Faden said.
"It appears to be a natural death," the magazine quoted officer Faden as saying.
"There's no evidence of foul play. A toxicology report from the coroner's office will proceed next."
The lesbian reality star's latest posting seemed to accept the tragic death, "R.I.P my Angel. @caseyjonsonJnJ u will forever be in my heart! I love u so so much and we will Marry when I see U in Heaven my Wifey."
Gossip website TMZ reports Johnson had stayed with Tequila on December 28. But the pair fought and Johnson's phone had been off since the 29th.
The heiress announced her engagement to Tequila in December.
Johnson adopted a daughter named Ava from Kazakhstan in 2007 and was battling her mother, Sale Johnson, for custody of the girl.
Johnson had a reported history of drug use and failed at rehabilitation several times.
She was recently arrested for allegedly breaking into the Hollywood apartment of her ex-girlfriend, fashion model Jasmine Lennard.
Friends told the New York Daily News her father had cut off her trust fund because she was unable to sober up http://au.news.yahoo.com/thewest/entertainment/a/-/entertainment/6645419/socialite-heiress-found-dead/ |
Nairaland / General / Re: Just My Talent by amebono1: 2:11am On Jan 03, 2010 |
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Family / Re: Best Compliment From My Spouse by amebono1: 2:46pm On Dec 31, 2009 |
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Religion / Re: What Did God Do For You In 2009? Share Your Testimonies by amebono1: 2:42pm On Dec 31, 2009 |
Alot
But most importantly for giving me the air i breathe this day |
Religion / Re: Banom: Once An Atheist, Always An Atheist! by amebono1: 2:38pm On Dec 31, 2009 |
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Family / Re: My Marriage Or Opportunity by amebono1: 2:24pm On Dec 31, 2009 |
First off why is she going abroad to study? is her husband based abroad? or is she leaving her man behind to further her education? what is wrong with furthering her education in nigeria? what has studying abroad got to do with her inlaws humiliating her? how long does she thing she's going to run away for? |
Family / Re: Why Won't He Let Me Go: by amebono1: 2:12pm On Dec 31, 2009 |
chika98:
Amebo don come. Oya walk out of her thread now! LOL
Happy New Year to you
Happy new year dear chaircover:
Amebo is being truthful albeit bluntly.
Unless they all live in a room apartment, why on earth should the guy be sleeping on her bed?
If she wants him back then she should take steps to get him back; which will include completely stripping off her self esteem, begging him on her knees and accepting that she will be his bit on the side with no complaints, even of its a case of her only seeing him once a month and he only offers her sex. Some women will do anything to be with a man, so this isn't unheard of.
Remember that you are indirectly teaching your daughters that it is oK fir men to treat them this way.
Thank you, she wants this guy, all she's looking for here is someone to give her the go ahead, or OK the fact that she sleeps with this same man she accused of having HIVShe calls herself pretty, how come she is still falling for a loser, it takes two to tangle, and that means it takes two losers to begin an affair It is so obvious the guy comes to her for casual sex, after which he vamooses, she is fighting an already lost battle, if she wants him let her go ahead, but i tell you its going to be a survival of the fittest, she isn't going to survive it emotionally and psychologically, cos she is gonna get brutally used, used, dumped and thrown out at the end of the day. If she isn't ready to let go and provide a brighter future for her kids, then what happened to her is going to come back and bite her kids, to the extent that they will shrug off any advice she has for/gives to them, i am sure then she will know what she has done to herself |
Jokes Etc / Re: Tiger Woods Undergoes Plastic Surgery by amebono1: 2:05pm On Dec 31, 2009 |
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Politics / U.s. Wants Yemen To Confront Al Qaeda by amebono1: 4:29am On Dec 31, 2009 |
Solid intelligence” from U.S. and Yemen services finally persuaded Yemeni President Ali Abdullah Saleh last summer to accept increased help in fighting al Qaeda in his country, a senior U.S. official told CNN.
After years of pressure from the U.S. to crack down on al Qaeda in Yemen, Saleh was persuaded to accept help after he was presented with intelligence that al Qaeda “was targeting inner circle Yemeni leaders” and that there were a growing number of terrorist training camps in Yemen, the official said.
The official, who declined to be named because of the sensitivity of the situation in the wake of the attempted attack on Northwest Airlines Flight 253, detailed to CNN growing U.S. involvement in fighting al Qaeda in Yemen. A Nigerian man is accused of trying to blow up the Northwest flight carrying 300 passengers from the Netherlands to Michigan on Christmas Day. A federal security bulletin obtained by CNN said suspect Umar Farouk AbdulMutallab claimed the explosive device used Friday “was acquired in Yemen along with instructions as to when it should be used.”
Both Gen. David Petraeus, head of the U.S. Central Command, and John Brennan, President Obama’s counterterrorism adviser, visited Saleh in Yemen last summer to lay out the terrorist threat. The official said after those meetings, it was clear that Saleh was finally seeing the threat as “much more alarming” than he had previously.
Petraeus had already been laying the groundwork with the Obama administration that al Qaeda in Yemen was a growing threat, and Petraeus was setting up U.S. military assistance efforts including the use of special operations forces inside Yemen to help train Yemeni forces on counterterrorism operations, the official said. In part, the U.S. believes Saleh turned around at that time also because of pressure from Saudi Arabia and other Persian Gulf nations, especially after the attempted assassination of Saudi Deputy Interior Minister Mohammed bin Naif by a suspected al Qaeda operative coming from Yemen. The U.S. also provided additional intelligence that al Qaeda was planning to strike targets in the capital city of Sanaa. The Pentagon is spending about $66 million this year to provide Yemen with security and military assistance including training Yemeni counter-terrorist forces.
But the official and other administration sources confirmed that behind the scenes, much more is going on. U.S. military and intelligence agencies are providing not only training, but weapons and intelligence-targeting information. This official, as well as other administration officials, have continually declined to say whether U.S. warplanes, drones or cruise missiles have been used in several recent strikes against al Qaeda targets in Yemen. Concerns about the growing al Qaeda safe haven have been made more severe by the declining security situation in Yemen. The official noted there is a rebellion by Huti tribes in the north and secessionists in the southern tribal areas.
There also has been declining oil production, which has led to budget cuts in Yemen’s security apparatus. Other factors that have made Yemen a concern include a growing youth population, hundreds of thousands of Somali refugees and an increasing water shortage that is exacerbated by the growing production of the drug khat, which contains an amphetamine-like substance and requires more water than many other crops. There is also a substantial arms and drug smuggling network, with intelligence indicating some arms shipments to Hamas via Sudan and then Egypt.
The official said not only are there senior al Qaeda leaders “putting down roots” in Yemen, but next door Somalia has now become home to al Qaeda in East Africa, which has ties to terrorists in Yemen, as well as to senior al Qaeda leaders across North Africa and in the Pakistani border region with Afghanistan http://news.onlinenigeria.com/templates/?a=12349&z=12 |
Politics / There Are More Youths Like Me, Abdulmutallab Warns Fbi by amebono1: 4:15am On Dec 31, 2009 |
FAILED Nigerian suicide bomber, Mr. Umar AbdulMutallab, has warned that other young men are being trained by Al Qaeda to bring down United States’ airlines.
Meanwhile, photographs of the would-be suicide bombers had been revealed just as Internet postings allegedly by Abdulmutallab emerged.
A ‘Farouk 1986’ posted hundreds of messages on the Islamic Forum Website from around 2005 and on Facebook.
It also emerged on Monday night that the failed bomber was president of a notoriously extreme student Islamic Society while studying in Britain.
Abdulmutallab had on Christmas Day smuggled a packet of explosives on board the Amsterdam-Detroit plane by sewing it to the crotch of his underpants.
As the trans-atlantic flight neared its close, he attempted to detonate the bomb by injecting the packet with a chemical-filled syringe.
But it failed to work properly, setting on fire and leaving the 23-year-old with severe burns to his groin after passengers and police brought him under control.
The University College London engineering graduate had told the Federal Bureau of Investigation that he was tutored in terrorism while living for a month with a senior Al Qaeda commander in Yemen.
According to Mail Online, the young Nigerian was said to have warned that other young men were being trained in Yemen to bring down US airlines, boasting, “There are plenty more like me.”
Al-Qaeda admitted on Monday night that it was behind the Abdulmutallab’s suicide bombing attempt.
Abdulmutallab, who is believed to have been radicalised during his time at University College London, swapped western clothing for a skull cap and Islamic robes during his final year of an engineering degree in 2007/2008.
Mail Online reported that UCL Provost Malcolm Grant confirmed that Abdulmutallab was president of the university’s Islamic Student Society for the 2006/2007 session and had graduated in mechanical engineering.
He said on Monday, “The account I have had from his tutors is that he was a well-mannered student, quietly spoken, polite and able, and gave no indication at all of what his inclinations might be.
“We are very shocked by what has happened and we will be reflecting on it very carefully as further details emerge and reviewing all aspects of it, but - as presently advised - there was nothing about his conduct which gave his tutors any cause for concern.
“We admit our students wholly on merit. We make no reference to their political, racial, religious background or beliefs. That is fundamental to what we do. So, we can’t vet students in any effective way at that point.”
A source at UCL said, “When he started you wouldn’t even have known that he was a Muslim, but then, in the third year, he started wearing the white flowing Islamic robes and skull cap. We were all very shocked when we saw that he was involved in trying to blow up a plane - it seemed completely out of character.”
Meanwhile, Internet postings allegedly from Abdulmutallab have emerged, according to The Sun of United Kingdom.
US federal intelligence officials on Monday night started reviewing the Internet postings believed to have been written by Abdulmutallab, according to The Sun, quoting the Washington Post.
The newspaper, which has reviewed the postings, reported that ‘Farouk 1986’ (a combination of his middle name and his birth year) searched for friends online through Facebook and in Islamic chat rooms.
In one such postings, he wrote, “My name is Umar but you can call me Farouk.”
A posting from January 2005, when he was attending boarding school, read, “I have no one to speak to. No one to consult, no one to support me and I feel depressed and lonely. I do not know what to do. And then I think this loneliness leads me to other problems.”
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Nairaland / General / Re: Report Offensive Posts And Threads Here by amebono1: 4:11am On Dec 31, 2009 |
na man long koboko i go use flog you |
Jokes Etc / Re: Tiger Woods Undergoes Plastic Surgery by amebono1: 4:07am On Dec 31, 2009 |
FL Gators:
Like seriously. And then she later gives a proverb about maturity and immaturity
I reported it, hopefully the mods will do something I am trying to figure out what tpia's got to do with this thread, not only is this trouble making, shes also derailing her own thread |
Family / Re: Why Won't He Let Me Go: by amebono1: 4:04am On Dec 31, 2009 |
OP please shut up, who are you deceiving? he sleeps on the same bed with you and no sex ? tell that to the animals in the zoo MRbrownJAY:
you are right about that. . . . . . . look how SHE is trying her hardest to find excuses for that rat of a man she has. she is hanging on to whatever he is offering hoping for a reconciliation not knowing that this will never happen.
he has had his cake and ate it too, why go back to having just one toto when he can enjoy a few at a time with the blessing of wifey here.
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Family / Christmas miracle: The mother and baby who BOTH died during labour... then came by amebono1: 3:56am On Dec 31, 2009 |
A Colorado woman says a Christmas miracle brought her and her newborn son back from the brink of death after her heart stopped beating during childbirth and the baby was delivered showing no signs of life.
"I got a second chance in life," Tracy Hermanstorfer said.
Hermanstorfer, 33, was being prepped for childbirth at Memorial Hospital in Colorado Springs Thursday morning. Her 37-year-old husband was by her side when she began to feel sleepy and lay back in her bed.
"She literally stopped breathing and her heart stopped," her husband, Mike, told The Associated Press. Pandemonium erupted as doctors and nurses tried to revive her with chest compressions and a breathing tube, but nothing worked.
"I was holding her hand when we realized she was gone," Mike Hermanstorfer said. "My entire life just rolled out."
Doctors told him, "We're going to take your son out now. We have been unable to revive her and we're going to take your son out," he recalled.
After the Cesarean section, some of the team rushed his wife to the operating room while the others attended to Coltyn. They handed him to Mike Hermanstorfer, who said the baby was "absolutely lifeless."
"My legs went out from underneath me," Hermanstorfer said. "I had everything in the world taken from me, and in an hour and a half I had everything given to me."
The doctors went to work on Coltyn as Hermanstorfer held him, and soon he began to breath.
"His life began in my hands," Hermanstorfer said. "That's a feeling like none other. Life actually began in the palm of my hands."
Stephanie Martin, a maternal fetal medicine specialist at the hospital, said Tracy Hermanstorfer's pulse returned even before she was wheeled out of the room and into surgery. She estimates Hermanstorfer had no heartbeat for about four minutes.
"She had no signs of life. No heartbeat, no blood pressure, she wasn't breathing," said Martin, who had rushed to Hermanstorfer's room to help. "The baby was, it was basically limp, with a very slow heart rate."
After their stunning recovery, both mother and the baby, named Coltyn, appear healthy with no signs of problems, Martin said.
She said she cannot explain the mother's cardiac arrest or the recovery.
"We did a thorough evaluation and can't find anything that explains why this happened," she said.
Mike Hermanstorfer credits "the hand of God."
"We are both believers , but this right here, even a nonbeliever — you explain to me how this happened. There is no other explanation," he said.
Asked about divine intervention, Martin said, "Wherever I can get the help, I'll take it." http://au.news.yahoo.com/thewest/a/-/world/6633070/mother-and-child-restored-to-life/ |
Family / Re: He Thought He Used Her, She Used Him Instead. Can I Tell? by amebono1: 3:51am On Dec 31, 2009 |
the foolish girl is trying to console herself, he used and dumped her and thats it 3 Likes |
Nairaland / General / Re: Report Offensive Posts And Threads Here by amebono1: 3:46am On Dec 31, 2009 |
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