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obowunmi:
I know many more people who don't pay their taxes. Hence, I doubt the validity of this story.

desholah:
Goddamitt . . .N100m? . . . . .Safe us God!!!

obowunmi:
Nigerians pay taxes ?

190:
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well your opinion even omolola advised guys 2 go for the pweety

cooking can always be learnt [/color]

190:
[color=deeppink]Amefi you are right but do u want to have ugly children that would be a menace to the society[/color]

190:
[color=deeppink]she could know her onions but you might suffer from sleepless nites cos of the wority of her face[/color]

Goldieluks:
trouble shooter,
what's your take on the topic?

190:
[color=deeppink]I had read the above mentioned quote as a youngster and it is true to some extent. Being jealous and having feelings of envy are normal to human nature. A little bit of jealousy combined with possessiveness is healthy, but if the same goes beyond control so much so that one of the partner feels suffocated in the relationship or one of the partner is constantly checking on the other, it can lead to a lot of social embarrassment.

How do you detect that you are jealous or over possessive? If you find yourself constantly wondering what the person is doing and not because you miss the other person but because you are jealous and feel that the partner may be with another man or woman, this kind of thought process will lead to suspicion, jealousy and can prove to be detrimental to a healthy relationship especially if you call up your partner several times in a day just to check where the other person is?

This kind of jealousy in the relationship will lead to fights and arguments till a point comes in the relationship when one of the partners walks out. This may even lead to a break-up or a divorce.

If you are exhibiting any of the above mentioned signs its time for you to examine your behavior and determine the cause of your behavior. Ask yourself a few relevant questions like why do you have these feelings of jealousy? Why do you want to constantly check on your partner? Try to find out the root cause of your behavior, is it because you genuinely believe that your partner is overly flirtatious or you have strong feelings of inadequacy.

Often jealousy stems from strong feelings of inadequacy or a low self-esteem. We may either berate ourselves constantly or always criticize a member of the opposite sex.

Please remember jealousy does not enhance your attraction in any way, in fact you appear to be a person who always harbors ill will towards others.

The next though that crops up in everybody’s mind is how to curb jealous thoughts in oneself or one’s partner? Don’t worry there are many solutions to curb jealousy and build a healthy relationship.

The first step in dealing with any kind of jealousy is to recognize that you or your partner is facing a problem of extreme jealousy. Firstly realize the fact that if your partner is a flirt or has actually been unfaithful, checking constantly on him or her is not really going to change them however if they have not done anything then it surely will annoy them and may make them feel suffocated.

So the thumb rule is unless you have caught them doing something do not suspect. Believe them if they offer an explanation for their behavior. Also get rid of any feelings of inadequacy, because if the partner is with you then it definitely is out of choice and not any kind of compulsion.

If you are the one of those who has an overly jealous or possessive partner then I suggest that you find out what is the cause of this jealousy and possessiveness. Is it originating from your behavior or the cause is something else. Find out if you have either neglected your partner or unfairly compared them with someone else. If it is either of these then make changes to your behavior and if you feel that your partner has some psychological problems then suggest that they see a counselor and instead of stating that your partner see a counselor which may offend them suggest that both should see a counselor to understand what the problem is.

Handling the issue of jealousy in a relationship with sensitivity and understanding can cause the feelings of jealousy to die a slow death and mutual trust and understanding in the relationship will grow leading to a happy and fulfilling relationship.[/color]

Ranoscky:
I don't think so. A gal can be with 5boys at a blow!

190:
[size=5pt]and why is she coughing now what is funny in what amefi said, im starting 2 have ideas[/size]

190:
[color=deeppink]Amefi Behave yourself dont let me loose my temper


amefi you got mail on facebook

Thanks[/color]

Dyt:
i m most decent bt m in western nigeria

Hotie Tima:
1. they are rude
2. most of them are ugly
3. they lose control when they see hot girls profile
4. and opening topics on how they want to bleep certain chicks on nairaland


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[size=18pt]insults welcome[/size]
BRING IT ON

190:
mama-gee lets not quarrel over this issue
Im sending u a mail,I apologies if i had an impact on you
this things aren't easy!
The expectations and everything
besides why would an old lady share the same name and almost sure name with you
with Just the difference of an (i) in between,besides the email address on your profile isnt even active
there are a lot of weird things about you and me tinks ure a weirdo, anyway I hope i havent made a mistake and lost you
im sorry if i over-re-acted,kindly accept my apology,

would you accept?

rokiatu:
Roll eyes (Like WTF)

Get out of thread.

rokiatu:
And what give you the confident to think that I will show my face just because you said so?

And who cares if you think its me or not

ogugua88:
Mama-Gee there's a law in California against tinted windows; they're illegal there.

On-topic: Bigger things to worry about than Jim Iyke's tinted windows. I don't even want to know the actual number of criminals roaming 9ja and innocent men and women locked in that hell they call prison.

dollext:
Hello feloow 9ralanders.Am a young man of 26 i never believ in long relationship wen i was young coz av read many cases of being relationship broken and av made up my mind not to be in relationship until am reday to marry(Muslims believ) but unfoutunately i was intimidated by freinds and in my higher institututon so i change my desire. becoz thier was a schoo,o f thot that prov that if u dont av relationship u wouldn'nt no much abt ladies. I was cinfused and go wth melody of life.I met this lady 3years back.I love her so much coz she has all what i want in woman.I approach her after somre months she agreed. immediately she finished her sec sch it was difficult for 2 get admissions so she decided not to go 2sch and she started learning hera dressing with her fathers consent.I was so sad coz she was brilliant and i told her if i must marry her she must go 2sch. I tried and she later secure admission 2 1 of nigeria University she was so happy but i told my joy is to c her graduate. D problem started immediately she enter sch she started a new life. she open another facebuk act n she s always online 247 aprt frm the 1 i knew. we always quarel almsst every week though we dnt normally c but qurel on phone. Its now obviuse dat she doesn't an time for me agian. am fed up wit this lov issues coz i av a lot to battle wit. but the pathetic aspect is am the last person 2 fall maga. i never believ dis could happen 2 me.

alagha:
in this nigeria, with plenty of low waist.