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PoliticsRe: Air Force Airlifts Dapchi Girls Back To Maiduguri (Photos) by amodu(m): 4:33pm On Mar 25, 2018
Loyalblak007:
How's Leah doing cry
Let's go and check on her
PropertiesRe: Eko Atlantic Growth Continues by amodu(m): 4:29pm On Mar 25, 2018
I am wrapped in love of what my sight is seeing and for the fact that this quintessence city is situated in MY LAGOS.
CelebritiesRe: "Why They Think I Am Wayward" – Tayo Odueke by amodu(m): 4:24pm On Mar 25, 2018
Does their thought matters, when you're making wave in your chosen career and smiling to the bankhuh
RomanceRe: Just Saw This On My Girl Inbox(pics) Girls Are Worthless(updated) by amodu(m): 4:17pm On Mar 25, 2018
flokii:
You want to be an irresistible 'demon'? grin

The only secret is "confidence".. there's nothing special.
Be confident always and dress smart. Then use more words like beautiful, sexy etc.

As you progress in your journey, ideas will come to you naturally.

Caution: Don't overdo it.. Like a popular proverb in Yoruba says, what you don't have interest in, don't pick and smell it to avoid trouble
Hmmmm, by their fingers, you shall know them.

I salute your expertise in this regard and commend you for the tutorial not minding the offering of no token.

TWALE!!!
SportsRe: Super Eagles Hold First Training Session In England (Photos) by amodu(m): 3:32pm On Mar 25, 2018
I am just loving this new jerseys and training kits adorned by the Eagles.
The very best I am wishing in Russia
RomanceRe: Just Saw This On My Girl Inbox(pics) Girls Are Worthless(updated) by amodu(m): 3:24pm On Mar 25, 2018
flokii:
Hmmm.. It's just unfortunate you got to see her conversations.

Girls are like that and attimes I don't blame them, they get several advances from different guys with sweet mouth.

And they are moved by what they hear, say the right words and you'll get them laid.

Sorry ehnn.
Can you teach me the right wordshuh
Nairaland GeneralRe: 7 Things Every Man Must Know Before He Clocks 30 by amodu(m): 3:04pm On Mar 25, 2018
GOATandYAMtheory:
So how did you make it? huh huh
Oniro oshi angry angry
Yahoo plus...
PoliticsRe: Fayose, Tinubu, Aregbesola At Dele Alake’s Father’s Burial In Lagos (Photos) by amodu(m): 10:08pm On Mar 24, 2018
A sign for those who can reason!
PoliticsCommunications Minister Fires 2 Aides by amodu(op): 8:14pm On Mar 22, 2018
The Minister of Communications, Dr Adebayo Shittu, on Thursday relieved two of his aides of their appointments.

They are: Mr Victor Oluwadamilare, Special Assistant (Media) and Sheik Imam Tajudeen, Special Assistant (Special Duties).

This was made known in a statement by Mr Henshaw Ogubike, the Deputy Director of Press in the ministry.

The statement reads: “The Honourable Minister of Communications, (Dr) Adebayo Shittu, has approved the disengagement of two of his aides; namely Mr. Victor Oluwadamilare, Special Assistant (Media) and Sheik Imam Tajudeen, Special Assistant (Special Duties).

“Consequently, anybody dealing with them on behalf of the Honourable Minister and the Ministry of Communications is doing so at his or her own risk.

“They have been directed to hand over all Ministry’s properties in their possession.
“The Hon. Minister, however, thanked them for their services and wished them well in their future endeavours.”
http://thenationonlineng.net/communications-minister-fires-2-aides/
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by amodu(m): 5:19pm On Mar 21, 2018
The tin never reach 5000huh
Someone should call me out when it does.
IslamRe: Mathna - Experience Is The Best Teacher! by amodu(op): 2:17pm On Mar 20, 2018
tintingz:
I have stated earlier it varies in some countries, the total overall in the image you provided, male slightly outnumber female and between 15 and 64 age female slightly outnumber male(2006 and 2013).

The image I am providing is of 2018.

In absolute figures (estimate):

- 79,669,565 young people under 15 years old ( - - 40,721,254 males / 38,950,257 females)
- 108,871,554 persons between 15 and 64 years old ( 55,541,190 males / 53,332,309 females)
- 6,073,936 persons above 64 years old ( 2,934,795 males / 3,137,195 females)

http://countrymeters.info/en/Nigeria
Since the crux of discuss is about marriage, the marriageable class was captured by the pictorial provided. Middle age can be partially considered but beyond is a no, meaning that we are not concerned about the class of 45 above which gave men deficit covering.

In furtherance, look into homes, communities, religious centers, and the likes and be the judge who owns the highest population among men and women of marriable class.
PoliticsRe: Where Is Abba Kyari, Chief Of Staff To The President? by amodu(op): 10:58pm On Mar 19, 2018
omowolewa:
Its image election management, he will resurface after election, if PMB wins (anything can happen, I don't trust voters). A Ram on a reverse gear is garnering force to strike back hard!

Where is Bayo Omoboriowo?
Hurray, Abba Kyari finally surfaced again.

He was seen in the group pictures took tonight at the Aso Villa with rice millers....

As for Bayo, I don't know.
IslamRe: Mathna - Experience Is The Best Teacher! by amodu(op): 10:54pm On Mar 19, 2018
tintingz:
kindly provide evidence for the emboldened part and are you talking about the global population in general or areas?
Here is a pictorial breakdown of the population distribution of Nigerian men and women of that marriage age bracket been discussed.

IslamRe: Mathna - Experience Is The Best Teacher! by amodu(op): 10:19am On Mar 19, 2018
tintingz:
Other options like, Divorcee marrying divorcee, widower marrying widow, divorcee or widow in open relationship or contract relationship and focus on her kids and carrier etc.

It's not a must a divorcee or widow to be a second, third wife of a married man she can get a single man to marry or the mentioned above.
Sincerely, you have provided reasonable and visible options and I need to laud you for that.

However, the population of the women folks outnumbering their male counterparts is a vital reason requiring consideration here. To aptly conjugate this gap is the advocacy for the piece above which is the saving grace.
PoliticsRe: Where Is Abba Kyari, Chief Of Staff To The President? by amodu(op): 11:44pm On Mar 18, 2018
FreshBoss007:
dead.. hopefully
Ọlọpa èwo ń t'epehuh
IslamRe: Mathna - Experience Is The Best Teacher! by amodu(op): 11:43pm On Mar 18, 2018
tintingz:
This article is full of crap(no offense).

Why not ask the lady if she want another husband when her husband is still alive and see the reaction of the husband.

So in every experience in marriage, it must follow this drama of the OP?

Ok, let play along, the man took in another wife when he's alive and later dies, what next will happen to both wives and the children? Will the first wife(and second wife) still not fall to crapy drama you called experience? So what is her guarantee she will see another man after she accepted your "anobi sunna" the mathna?

What if she sees another husband after her husband dies even when she rejected your "anobi Sunnah" polygamy thing.

If all women reject polygamy therefore no man will marry them if thier husband dies, that is false dichotomy/dilemma fallacy, there is always other options.
Likehuh
IslamMathna - Experience Is The Best Teacher! by amodu(op): 10:37am On Mar 18, 2018
Sometime in 2011, a few months after I got my first employment, I visited an Ẹ̀gbọ́n (of late memory) to discuss a farm business prospect on which I wish we could partner with him supplying the funds while I do the field work. After our discussion, he asked me, Prof., when are you getting married to your famous "two-at-once wives?" (back in the days I used to boast about marrying 2 wives at a time.)

Me: Next year, in shaa Allaah. First, I want to gather some money so I can be able to cater for my family

Him: Tor, may Allaah make it easy.

Me: So, ẹgbọ́n when are you adding a second?

At that point, the wife who had been calm all day flared up. AuudhubiLlaah! She exclaimed.

Ẹ̀gbọ́n: I'm not thinking about it now or any time soon.

Me: Ẹ̀gbọ́n, you need to start thinking about it fa. After 12 years of marriage you still are not give mathnaaism a thought?

Ummu Fulaanah: You should start going now. I fear that you will corrupt my husband.

Me: Cortupt bí tí báwo? Sunnah Annabi Muhammad ní fà.

Ummu Fulaanah: Hùn-ùn wọn tún tí dé. Sunnah eyokan tí á má ń rí wọn sì náà nù.

Laughter errupts

Me: But on a serious note, what if Aboo Faulaanah decides to marry a small wife who will help you with house chores?

Ummu Faulaanah: Did I complain to you that I'm overwhelmed? He can't even contemplate it let alone do it.

Aboo Fulaanah: Don't say that ooooo. I may do it if I find one Hajia that pleases me fa.

Ummu Fulaanah: "Your carpenter no fit use teeth remove nail." You know I love you and I cannot share you with anyone. I will resist every move to bring in another wife.

Aboo Fulaanah: "I don't even have life for wàhálà. Multiple wives, multiple predicaments."

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In 2012 barely a year later, Aboo Fulaanah had an accident and died on the spot.

This afternoon, I was at Mandate market to buy meat when a woman buying beverages from a nearby stall called my name. I turned and saw Ummu Fulaanah. We exchanged pleasantries and the following conversation ensued:

Ummu Fulaanah: Haaa Aboo, "this is your face?!" You didn't even ask after us since your friend died.

Me: No vex please. "It's the mountain here that has blurred our sight from seeing the mountain there." How have you been and how are the kids?

Ummu Fulaanah: AlhamduliLlaah! "The situation hasn't passed ìfaradà".

As I was about leave, she said, "Aboo, please, remember us in your prayers. I've not been engaged to anyone since your friend died."

Me: Is it that no one has approached you, or that you haven't found your preferred choice of spouse yet?

She: All of those that have approached me are married and some are afraid of affording my responsibilities (3 kids), some categorically told me that I cannot take in my kids with me. There are some whose wives even called to threaten me to leave their husbands alone or else I will regret my life.

Me: What about single brothers?

Ummu Fulaanah: Aboo, which single brother will marry a widow with 3 kids? And even if he decides to marry me, his family members will discourage him. You know the kind of cultural shenanigans that our people are subscribed to nah.

Me: Toh, may Allaah grant your heart desire soon.

Ummu Fulaanah: Aaameen. Please, in case you have any responsible brother who would not mind....

Me: (in my mind) Experience is the best teacher. Now, if every woman have your kind of 'entitlement' and 'not sharing my husband' mentality, who will allow their husbands marry the widowed and divorces.

Lesson: Always remember that circumstances of death or divorce may force you into being in need of another marriage. If you 'styliahly' or openly hate Mathnaalogy now, what will become of you then?

Sirnucy Lafiagi
PoliticsWhere Is Abba Kyari, Chief Of Staff To The President? by amodu(op): 6:36pm On Mar 17, 2018
Abba Kyari, Chief of Staff to President Muhammad Buhari is a very popular figure in this present administration who is always seen alongside the President at occasions, gatherings and meetings adorning his usual white Babariga and red cap.

However, recently, I observed his conspicuous absence which birthed my question about his whereabouts; where is Abba Kyari?
CrimeRe: Badoo Cult Members Bundled Into A Car After Being Arrested In Lagos. Photos by amodu(m): 8:02pm On Mar 13, 2018
Badoo again
TravelRe: Amaechi Inspects Lagos-Ibadan Rail Line, Promises Delivery By Year End (Photos) by amodu(m):
sarrki:
Thank you
Don't mention bro.

Please, never hesitate to call me out to follow suit in this liberating course.

Always mention me please. Let's give it to them together.
TravelRe: Amaechi Inspects Lagos-Ibadan Rail Line, Promises Delivery By Year End (Photos) by amodu(m): 7:01pm On Mar 12, 2018
sarrki:
On behalf of the Southwest Progressives

I say Pmb Mungode

Thank you Mr President

Thank you Muhammadu Buhari

Thank You Amaech The lion and Conqueror of the South south and South East politician
Sarrki, you're doing a laudable job here defending the hope of the hopeless.

And the never relenting act with all the slighting is even more laudable.
PoliticsRe: Singing Of National Anthem In Yoruba, Here Is The Yoruba Version. by amodu(op): 6:28pm On Mar 12, 2018
seunowa:
This goes to show dat u av a brain defect
No doubt
Gaskia
PoliticsRe: Singing Of National Anthem In Yoruba, Here Is The Yoruba Version. by amodu(op): 11:16pm On Mar 11, 2018
wallex1983:
This is not correct. It's simply:
Dìde ẹ̀yin ará
Wá jẹ́'pé Nigeria
Ká fi' fẹ́ sin'lẹ wa
Pẹ̀lú ọkàn t'ígbàgbọ́
Iṣẹ́ àwọn akọni wa
Kò má ṣe já ṣáṣán
Ká fi tọkàn tara.
Sin'lẹ to fún
Says whohuh

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