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Loyalblak007:Let's go and check on her |
I am wrapped in love of what my sight is seeing and for the fact that this quintessence city is situated in MY LAGOS. |
Does their thought matters, when you're making wave in your chosen career and smiling to the bank ![]() |
flokii:Hmmmm, by their fingers, you shall know them. I salute your expertise in this regard and commend you for the tutorial not minding the offering of no token. TWALE!!! |
I am just loving this new jerseys and training kits adorned by the Eagles. The very best I am wishing in Russia |
flokii:Can you teach me the right words ![]() |
GOATandYAMtheory:Yahoo plus... |
A sign for those who can reason! |
The Minister of Communications, Dr Adebayo Shittu, on Thursday relieved two of his aides of their appointments.http://thenationonlineng.net/communications-minister-fires-2-aides/ |
The tin never reach 5000 ![]() Someone should call me out when it does. |
tintingz:Since the crux of discuss is about marriage, the marriageable class was captured by the pictorial provided. Middle age can be partially considered but beyond is a no, meaning that we are not concerned about the class of 45 above which gave men deficit covering. In furtherance, look into homes, communities, religious centers, and the likes and be the judge who owns the highest population among men and women of marriable class. |
omowolewa:Hurray, Abba Kyari finally surfaced again. He was seen in the group pictures took tonight at the Aso Villa with rice millers.... As for Bayo, I don't know. |
tintingz:Here is a pictorial breakdown of the population distribution of Nigerian men and women of that marriage age bracket been discussed.
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tintingz:Sincerely, you have provided reasonable and visible options and I need to laud you for that. However, the population of the women folks outnumbering their male counterparts is a vital reason requiring consideration here. To aptly conjugate this gap is the advocacy for the piece above which is the saving grace. |
FreshBoss007:Ọlọpa èwo ń t'epe ![]() |
tintingz:Like ![]() |
Sometime in 2011, a few months after I got my first employment, I visited an Ẹ̀gbọ́n (of late memory) to discuss a farm business prospect on which I wish we could partner with him supplying the funds while I do the field work. After our discussion, he asked me, Prof., when are you getting married to your famous "two-at-once wives?" (back in the days I used to boast about marrying 2 wives at a time.) Me: Next year, in shaa Allaah. First, I want to gather some money so I can be able to cater for my family Him: Tor, may Allaah make it easy. Me: So, ẹgbọ́n when are you adding a second? At that point, the wife who had been calm all day flared up. AuudhubiLlaah! She exclaimed. Ẹ̀gbọ́n: I'm not thinking about it now or any time soon. Me: Ẹ̀gbọ́n, you need to start thinking about it fa. After 12 years of marriage you still are not give mathnaaism a thought? Ummu Fulaanah: You should start going now. I fear that you will corrupt my husband. Me: Cortupt bí tí báwo? Sunnah Annabi Muhammad ní fà. Ummu Fulaanah: Hùn-ùn wọn tún tí dé. Sunnah eyokan tí á má ń rí wọn sì náà nù. Laughter errupts Me: But on a serious note, what if Aboo Faulaanah decides to marry a small wife who will help you with house chores? Ummu Faulaanah: Did I complain to you that I'm overwhelmed? He can't even contemplate it let alone do it. Aboo Fulaanah: Don't say that ooooo. I may do it if I find one Hajia that pleases me fa. Ummu Fulaanah: "Your carpenter no fit use teeth remove nail." You know I love you and I cannot share you with anyone. I will resist every move to bring in another wife. Aboo Fulaanah: "I don't even have life for wàhálà. Multiple wives, multiple predicaments." ------------------------------ In 2012 barely a year later, Aboo Fulaanah had an accident and died on the spot. This afternoon, I was at Mandate market to buy meat when a woman buying beverages from a nearby stall called my name. I turned and saw Ummu Fulaanah. We exchanged pleasantries and the following conversation ensued: Ummu Fulaanah: Haaa Aboo, "this is your face?!" You didn't even ask after us since your friend died. Me: No vex please. "It's the mountain here that has blurred our sight from seeing the mountain there." How have you been and how are the kids? Ummu Fulaanah: AlhamduliLlaah! "The situation hasn't passed ìfaradà". As I was about leave, she said, "Aboo, please, remember us in your prayers. I've not been engaged to anyone since your friend died." Me: Is it that no one has approached you, or that you haven't found your preferred choice of spouse yet? She: All of those that have approached me are married and some are afraid of affording my responsibilities (3 kids), some categorically told me that I cannot take in my kids with me. There are some whose wives even called to threaten me to leave their husbands alone or else I will regret my life. Me: What about single brothers? Ummu Fulaanah: Aboo, which single brother will marry a widow with 3 kids? And even if he decides to marry me, his family members will discourage him. You know the kind of cultural shenanigans that our people are subscribed to nah. Me: Toh, may Allaah grant your heart desire soon. Ummu Fulaanah: Aaameen. Please, in case you have any responsible brother who would not mind.... Me: (in my mind) Experience is the best teacher. Now, if every woman have your kind of 'entitlement' and 'not sharing my husband' mentality, who will allow their husbands marry the widowed and divorces. Lesson: Always remember that circumstances of death or divorce may force you into being in need of another marriage. If you 'styliahly' or openly hate Mathnaalogy now, what will become of you then? Sirnucy Lafiagi |
Abba Kyari, Chief of Staff to President Muhammad Buhari is a very popular figure in this present administration who is always seen alongside the President at occasions, gatherings and meetings adorning his usual white Babariga and red cap. However, recently, I observed his conspicuous absence which birthed my question about his whereabouts; where is Abba Kyari? |
Badoo again |
sarrki:Don't mention bro. Please, never hesitate to call me out to follow suit in this liberating course. Always mention me please. Let's give it to them together. |
sarrki:Sarrki, you're doing a laudable job here defending the hope of the hopeless. And the never relenting act with all the slighting is even more laudable. |
seunowa:No doubt Gaskia |
wallex1983:Says who ![]() |
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