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This is what misinformation or not understanding an information can cause. People are quick to jump into conclusions with headlines not getting the message.

The media sometimes not helping matter.
The matter is still on clinical trial.

Inasmuch as we need at times to blame persons or government in doing what we feel is not right according to our own views, should be done with maturity and sensibility.We must not Blame everything about everyone. From the people around us, to our Network and to government.

Now we blame the moderator on Nairaland for pushing to front-page what we think personally to be non-sense. Meanwhile as people we can't even set priority to ourselves, all we do is to be jumping to blaming everyone except ourselves. Meanwhile people here on nairaland are using the forum in making a meaningful Lives out of it, as found either in the property section,career sections, business sections and the rest.

What do B A N (Blame-Blame Association of Nigeria) we have now really want?

Even in our homes,we blame our wives and husband for not being the best spouses, we blame our pastors and Imams that they can't lead followers. Meanwhile simple leading a happy home or family you can't. Sometimes imagining Divorcees who could not manage their home, leading to divorce would still blame people in their relationship or marriage not in the instance to proffer practical solutions but to blame. Jumping everywhere, on everything Blaming everyone Mr and Mrs, member of B A N (Blame-Blame Association of Nigeria).

Blaming Federal govt about the Budget, but can't tell about the where about of their State budget is. Some don't even know the amount in their State budget neither knowing whether it was passed or not. Blame the Federal govt for not providing Job or not employing, meanwhile don't care to know if in their State there was even any job advert placed by their State govt.

All I am emphasizing is that as we always look out to keep blaming others we should not be unaware when OUR OWN is in shamble, ramble, disarray, underdeveloped, Scattered, disorganized. Mr and Mrs, of the member of B A N ( Blame-Blame Association of Nigeria ) your blame-blame life can only be taken Serious when people see how good you are at handling YOUR OWN.

Someone talk they blame,he doesn't talk they blame. What do B A N really want?

Too much emphasis on Blaming everything about anyone leads to Depression and Unnecessary Anxiety. That's why being a member of the Blame-Blame Association of Nigeria (B A N) would always keep you at unavoidable emotional and mental state that is associated with not always agreeing with others and most times you become characteristically insulting and abusive. Since not agreeing with everything you keep losing control and focus on the way you talk, think and act. And sometimes over time people begin to view you as un serious person to the extent that even when you are trying to make sense people will see it as Non sense.

Members of B A N never cares, that's what they are made of, but we still need to speak to you.

Most time what you B A N just keep doing is to only look out for what to blame.So you should learn to be rational and objective in what you do because the world is watching you.

Statement like this makes some of us believe that some people Don't Think before they Talk.

BabbanBura:
Hard luck to the family even though am not sure she impacted humanity while alive

Whatever or whoever, Nigeria will certainly prevail out of this pandemic ravaging the whole world right now.

Stalwert:
. Yet it is the Italians, Americans and UK returnees who have circulated it to our country.

It is well, God will continue to give you the fortitude. It's not easy.

mu2sa2:
God console the family. Very loving husband - good he has to hold his front with both hands in the first pic as he kisses his beloved, maybe so that oga no come wake up there and then. Fare thee well madam. Seriously, given their closeness, it will be almost impossible for Ben to get over this tragedy- this loss is truly irreparable. I am speaking from experience - lost a loved one about 23 years ago and the memory of my Godsend sister is as fresh as if she passed on yesterday.

Rest in Peace our dearest Mummy.

Nigeria will surely overcome this.

God bless Nigeria!!!

Buhari should address the nation AS IF IT'S FROM THEIR HEART. The President would only do that when his media team has seen it due.

Meanwhile tell your State Governor to address you that would suffice. Why waiting for president when the health ministries in both federal and state are doing the needful.

God bless Nigeria!!!

Hmmmmn, this is getting serious and people should learn how to be more hygiene and preventive against any suspected case.

We shall prevail.

God bless Nigeria!!!

Even though it is coming a bit slower than expected by me as a South South indigene. Better late than never and kudos to you the minister of Niger Delta and our dear President in releasing the funds for the project.

God bless Niger Delta.

God bless Nigeria!!!

I don't think any commando can be formed here. Because as far as there was no commando amongst them before them engaging in marriage certainly non will come after marriage.

However I agree that there should be an agreement and not absolute refusal to visit or stay as some do.

Sixfeetbelle:
There should be some sort of understanding concerning relatives coming to visit or stay for long. Yes, we understand they sacrificed heaven and earth for you but you didn't marry them, you married her and her consent should be required. This is where understanding in marriage is key.

Before inviting your family over, let your spouse know how long they will be staying so you both can agree on a timeline. Two months may be okay for you, but may be too long for her. If they overstay their welcome or turn commando in anothers house, problems will arise. Familiarity breeds contempt and if your relatives turn your house into a motel that they can visit every month by different people, jealousy and fights will definitely arise.

Marriage is a work in progress between two people. Never make any decision alone, especially as it will affect the other person.

One truly need Extreme Maturity to ignore some comments we see across social media this days. Even unfortunate Comments against some of our Revered Religious leaders.

It's really becoming unfortunate. Anyway we will get use to it and ignore when necessary.

Oshigun:
@OP.

Few will get your point because most here are the sentimental, tribalistic and hateful Nigerians your post is targeted at. Nothing a "Fulani government" can do right in their eyes. They can even. Laim Buhari invented Covid-19.

This whole Corona thing will blow over because it has to. That is its natural destiny of any new strains of flu. In the meantime we just have to ignore the childish and hateful adults amongst us.

Isolate your self from him, don't be emotional about it. We don't have two life. Meanwhile encourage him from a distance or call to check the hospital for test

FuckAllTheMODs:
Dem no talk anything since o...

Abeg, e make sense make I report a suspected case and how can I do that?

A friend who happens to be a flat mate has been sneezing and coughing since 2 days ago and he didn't isolate himself, he even went to work today.

I'm not comfortable with him around me anymore.

I need advice on what to do, please!

You get me very right.
Thanks for your insight

helinues:
Their new tone is why didn't we close our border earlier.

Meanwhile , they might still have complained should the border was closed earlier saying it was deliberate to hurt their business as they are the highest importer and exporter in the world

How can people who do not have confidence in themselves believe others?

I never said she died of Covid19 , I brought her narrative in base on the travel ban people were quick to blame the govt. Even the ekiti person would have protest the ban of flight from other nations soon.
So get me right.

powerkey:
You bigot !!!.


The woman at Enugu did not and never had covid19.



Get your fake info out of here.



You forgot that a white man In Ekiti state had covid19 and died of it in Ekiti.


You people should stop distorting history.

Stop misinformation of the public.

Still panicking, you never see something

chozzy:
Senseless ZOMBIES

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I see serious economic shock in most states in Nigeria especially those with lack of internal generated revenue in solely depending on federal allocations.

God bless Nigeria!!!

It's just inappropriate to easily draw conclusions against the President about banning of flight from other nations. Had it been he stopped or shut flight earlier, the case about the woman in Enugu, Ekiti, Ondo, Kastina and others states been refused to come home would have turned to Tribal war against the President for not allowing their tribe coming home before the outburst of coro.

Some would say where did he expect them to run to if not back to their home and as usual insult the President which has become their birthright.
And even wishing the President death would never change the fact that if we don't change we all will certainly face this pandemic together

In short most people said it is a Scam that nothing is existing. Now you are panicking, you haven't seen anything yet. We die here together if God wishes.

Let this sound as a warning that people should not always be Joking or be Ridiculously about everything because of irrational Sentiments.

There's always Light at the End of the Tunnel.
Spread information that would prevent the spread of Coro and stop spreading Hatred.

God bless Nigeria!!!

It's just inappropriate to easily draw conclusions against the President. Had it been he stopped it earlier, the case about the woman in Enugu and others states been refused to come home would have turned to Tribal war against the President for not allowing their tribe coming home before the outburst or coro.

In short must people said it is a Scam that nothing is existing. Now you are panicking, you haven't seen anything yet. We die here together if God wishes.

Let this sound as a warning that people should not always be Joking or be Ridiculously about everything because of irrational Sentiments.

This tells us that no single Nation is Perfect

frugal:
Twitter is worse. I stopped opening it. The whole corona thing has become one big distraction. Until hunger starts killing people or they start looting stores and other people's homes. The situation is not being managed well at all even by the so called big economies. Doom and gloom everywhere. Wetin?

So it has come to this. So people can live without America. Na wao coro you really try.

God bless Nigeria!!!

Diversification is key.

God bless Nigeria!!!

Good one from Nigeria.

God bless Nigeria!!!

May sister soul rest in peace Amen

I feel for my people especially from my South South. These are development during this democratic dispensation where we get the highest allocations including 13 percent derivative and the NDDC.
This is not development during the military regime as we can see from the history of the pictures.

Except during the days of Akpabio and Amaechi and Oshiomole that you can see similar infrastructure in the South South like done in the North now. For those who must counter, they must counter with pictures not stories.

Kudos to the north in the strive to changing their story silently without making much noise about it.

God bless Northern Nigeria.

God bless Nigeria!!!

Congratulations to you!

einsteine:
Nonsense.

The Nigerian police are the most corrupt institution in the history of Nigeria. I don't care about them or your feelings. Over here, we disown anyone who decides to join that corrupt cesspit.

This is childish, we have highly place people in Nigeria in terms of Morals,power and resources, whose children and Worth are serving in the Police. And with your childlike thinking call them Stupid families.

Anyway nothing Less is expected from people of your like Mindset.

einsteine:
Only stupid families will have police as members these days

It is becoming more and more necessary that we all need our families around us base on our acceptable and agreed timing, as recent events around us continue to support this facts and realities.

That's why there must be thorough investigation into this matter, as presently the Cross River Commissioner of Police have not made a public statement on the issue

davillian:
What kind of accidental discharge is this
Bullet strait to the chest.....

Nigerian police stations should have CCTV

The country is moving on and leaving the Pessimists behind.

God bless Nigeria!!!

This would be a good move..

God bless Nigeria!!!

Mr Governor Ayade, favor would come your way despite the almost insignificant financial resources accrue to the state at the moment.

God bless Cross River!!

God bless Nigeria!!!