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Situation001:
Shocking details posted on Facebook has got many people angry and slamming the man for humiliating his wife and her family, read the details posted below by Sandra Ibeh and lets know your opinion, was the man right?
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Sandra Ibeh Posted :

Tomorrow is 31st December 2019 and the last day of this decade. While some are in celebration mood, a man has decided to humiliate a whole family by pulling out of his church and traditional wedding scheduled for tomorrow somewhere in Anambra because his bride to be cheated on him 2 months back.
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In as much as I am not in support of what the bride did, I equally condemned the groom's last-minute decision. He knew that his bride cheated on his since October and didn't confront her. He went along with the marriage preparation putting the lady through so many stress while he remained in England hatching his evil plan.
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He came back to Abuja on the 28th and told his mother this morning that he's not going ahead with the wedding.
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The painful part of this whole thing is that he's acting as if he's doing the right thing. Spoke with him, he was laughing and the next thing he said was that I can provide my brother to take his place since everything is in place. He carefully planned to humiliate this girl and her family and to be honest, this is wrong.
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Bride to be has been crying uncontrollably in the village. She admitted that she made a mistake and she regrets her action. She had more to drink during her friend's birthday and ended up sleeping with one of their mutual friends (action she greatly regrets) without knowing that it was a setup. The next day pictures were sent to her fiance and he held on to it and acted normal until today.
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I asked him why he kept quiet and continued with the preparation, he said that he wants the girl to feel the kind of pain he felt when he saw the pictures.
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I honestly think that what he's doing is wrong and insulting to both his family and the bride's family because both families have been preparing for this wedding and are ready until he called this morning to cancel.
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Every other person is against his decision except his older brother but he's not ready to change his stance.
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This is not the kind of news one should be hearing at the end of the year. It's painful and annoying.

Meanwhile, the girl said that he had cheated on her before and she forgave him.
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My question is, why can't he forgive her too and call it even? Why grandstand? asked the poster..
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Forgiveness isn't by force ....it's a man's world

Adefatima:
Yes we are dirty but abia and Igbo land is the dirtiest city on earth

Oni Bondi ..very dirty folks ...very fetish

Adefatima:
I don’t have time for long story
When you eat from your human restaurant update me on the taste

The whole nation know Yoruba to be fetish people ! I don't get it ....you guys are justbunch of terrible lots ! Very dirty set

Employ them, they would be doing juju up and down
Leave them in street they would be mining skulls


Terrible mindset and

JOHNSONSOLAFUNMI:
Why do they call yoruba hypocrites and cowards?

Abiola stood his ground, Awolowo was jailed , fela battled against the military regime, Obasanjo was jailed, fela ransom kuti, foremost nationalists were yorubas, the yorubas stood against the fulanis and pushed them back, even when the yoruba civil war was going on, cowards don't fight wars, not even the hausa fulanis were involved in war like the yorubas, not even the whites, but you still label us cowards...

Why do you call us hypocrites, backbiters, zik backbite Awolowo, by forming alliance with the northern peoples Congress, so he can play the second fiddle to the north, and what did Awo do, he stayed in his south west and made the region and his party a formidable one, before your officers killed northern elites, and unified the country under aguyi destroying the whole regional governments, ojukwu went into exile, leaving his deputy a Calabar man to surrender, he went with the promise to procure arms and ammunitions for his people, so who's the coward?

Read oyo history, and tell me if a coward can stand against the alaafin, even the white marvels at the level of our government, the yoruba nation has never called for secession, even the north called for it in 1959 igbos in 67, what do you think will happen if the yorubas starts aggravating for one?

Calling Ibadan brown roof cities shows how great it was and it's still till date, or you think a white man will write a poem for her just like that, ibadan has 16 local governments, that's a fact and she didn't come bout that because she's big, she has the population and industry even if she's an interland yoruba city

You call them hypocrites but you didn't vote for your leader in 1999, yorubas gave more votes to PDP in 2019, than the whole south east put together and you still call us hypocrites, what do you want us to do, emigrate to your erosion laden towns, No! we don't do that here, we have our cities to protect and defend... it's senseless and plainly stupid to call Lagos a slum, their oba threatened you, you all cried foul that she's no man's land, go to idanre (not so popular) but she has centuries old crown and regalia in her palace and see history you won't find anywhere in the east, Noah's boat, the footprint that fits all feet except you're a witch, there's nothing in east that you won't find in yoruba towns. Except ekiti there's no state in yoruba land without more than 5 cities, (not market)not to talk of olokola free trade zone, agbabu bitumen deposit and large industries in sagamu generating igr, go to ondo south and see oil which you'll never find in the east.

Yorubas have been dominating since time immemorial, they have history and traditions which you can only dream of. Go to yoruba towns and see their obas name their predecesors from the time they settled, and about skull mining, the okija shrine obj demolished is in osun, oyo, Ekiti, Ondo, lagos or Ogun?

There's no reason to hate on us, sorry if you're still pissed with Awolowo, for turning you to savages and wild animals or fajuyi for decapitating your soldiers, sorry for your loss but you have to move on, until yorubas are ready to let you have your freedom, you're going no where

Kanu that couldn't come for his mothers burial, that ran away under the cover of darkness is an hero right?

You just have to stop all this shit, yorubas were the only one that stood against tyranny and dictatorship in this country, or yorubas are the one that made the 1 million man match for abacha?

Until the yorubas want you to secede , you can't be do nothing and if Lagos is a slum, please leave it with your pirated CD buisness and Barrow pushing, go to yorubas roads how you hawk galas and drinks, do you pay taxes for that, how you've littered their main roads with your okrika business, but they can't do that in the easT and you'll still call us ingrates and beat your chest like animal


I hate been tribalistic, but reading your crap about us on nairaland made me one, thank God osewa is not igbo, hell would have let loose tey tey.


Even FFk the worst of them all, your pseudo leader is more courageous than any igbo man, what of fayose that drag it with Buhari, Saraki, dino, abeg abeg, know your mate and stop calling yorubas bad names or else you'll see 1967 ²'⁰

Apart from kanu that ran away, name any igbo man that has stood against Buhari like ffk, Fayose, your gra gra that made you loose the war is coming back to hurt and haunt you down, learn how to plan and organize like yorubas, bola ige is an igbo man?

We are called OMOLUABI for a reason, I started having resentment towards you, the day an igbo guy (first born) beat up his father like better beating, his name is UCHE CHUKWU, and an igbo man (BABA OYINBO) used his wife for ritual, this happened in every tribe but because some bloggers are able to source for news more in yoruba cities doesn't exclude you from the rituals unless you count sacrifices made to yoruba gods as money ritual

Yorubas are liberal, why you'll see a Muslim father and a Christian mother live happily for years together, well to you Kaduna was no mans land before the real owners maimed and chased you away, well calm your nerves, we won't do that but if you persist, all of you will be thrown in the lagoon

Shhhhhhh

PenlsCaP:
SMH.. i dnt know why u people ar.like this.?
U only saw the bad he wrote about yorubas.
But u dint see the good side he wrote and the bad side he also wrote about other tribes too.

Why are u yorubas so biased like this?
And again u asked "are ipobs realiable"?

Of all the tribes he wrote down u only haf to pick out ipob.
Why are u guys so obsessed with ipobs.?
Pls i need an answer.

Igbo are their gods

CreekCommando:
Yoruba people should understand that money that will last cannot come from shedding blood. It must come from your brain and long time cumulative earnings. All those Otedola this Adenuga that you sing in your songs have oil wells gotten from political patronages. Too much rituals in the whole South West states which was the sole reason I moved my investments out of that region. You're not even sure of anyone when you're traveling on their roads.

The worst is that when you employ Yoruba to manage your firms or Businesses they end up using juju on you.....not all but many

Sophisticated ones ...

YorubaPikin:
Thanks. Oh really? What do pastors say not to make them visit their relatives in rural areas?

The have this mentality very wrong mentality that most of the folks at the countryside are diabolical...it's a mindset game though...it makes them stay out in their churches...

1Sharon:
You're the ignorant one.

How many Nigerians know indigenous hausa names??

Arabization is slowly eroding your culture.

It is not slowly...it has eroded their culture and that of fulani....fulani still have their names a bit but culture is gone

zicoraads:
I'll excuse your total ignorance.

He is right...Islam has eroded the north...it's in North you would hear someone bearing Jibril Muhammed and Musa Islmaila...these are Arabic names

fairfora:
Our main problem is perpetual stooge we have subjected ourselves to in the hands of the so-called Great Britain, the world's renown parasite. Since the beginning of the insurgency, France has played major roles in curbing their activities with less efforts from the british people. Some of french doctors ( Doctors without Borders) were abducted and even killed by boko haram. The last time I checked, a British court slammed a huge sum which could deplete our foreign reserves overnight as penalty or damages in the case of P and ID. France would never have allowed this injustice to be done to any of their colonies

I think our leaders, both past and present are selfish. Immediately after independence, we have failed to adopt french as a second official language, sticking only to english. In Europe, hardly would you find a country who doesn't speak English, including france though they have always preferred speaking their language. I was in Germany some years back and there I met a guy at the airport. I asked him for a direction to where I was going as a taxi guy but he pretended as if he didn't understand English. Later he came to meet me and began speaking fluently...and that's the way an average german behaves. They may not like speaking english but the majority of them understand and speak well.

Being bi-lingual as a nation brings about even and speedy development. If you speak my languages, I'd deal with you in all eagerness and fairness...its normal but the reverse is the case with British. They are haters and unwilling to help especially in an area where they feel they can't see anything to eat. Our politicians loaded their banks with looted money from and they're busy doing business with it. Whenever our country makes any move to bring the money back home, they come up with stiff conditions which would end our country parting away almost half of the money.

I hope the French language learned in most private schools is sustained. We need to break this jinx of one language which is english. Hardly would you visit a francophone country and see learned people who do not understand English and that's where they have an edge overseas over us...in football clubs, in schools, fashion or show biz and wherever they find themselves...they always thrive and adapt easily.
Whereas, their anglophone counterparts would have to enrol in a french school to pick up. Amazingly, french and Spanish are very similar so anybody from a fanconphone country can easily understand Spanish when spoken. It brings about ease of doing business internationally without barriers.

The ECO issue wouldn't have been there in the first place, had our government adopted French a subject from day one in our public schools as a second official language for the sake of economic integration of our region . This is why I've always faulted the amalgamation of 1914, which we are not finding difficult to repeal even years after it's expiry. All the franco phone countries in west Africa put together, ate not up to the Nigerian population but are far better in development than we are as a nation. They are well-organised with less issues of insecurity and corruption. The amalgamation was put there by the British to keep enslaving us. I hope this is repealed someday.

You ended up writing bull fúcking shít trust me..you are canvassing for learning of French instead of learning to stand on your own as a nation.... Sweden didn't adopt Euro as a currency...Nigeria can opt the fúck outbbutvwe have clowns as economists

Gforce2015:
You are the most successful tribe in the world but there is no much successes traceable to your erosion ravaging and moldy land. Expect for your fraud driven tendency across the entire globe.


Tueh!

Must you answer every clown

Why do we make things complicated in Africa...a simple overhead bridge would do this and divert traffic's

ContractKiller:
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You are a clown and racist....first we are humans before race

YorubaPikin:
Hello, these are my children. I am from Poland, my husband is from Shaki, Nigeria and they were born in Finland.

We started our Instagram @Yoruba_Pikin and @Naija_wifey to encourage parents to speak their native languages to kids especially when living abroad. Our kids speak 4 languages, it's not been an easy journey but thanks to our persistence and love for our countries we made it happen! Now they can easily communicate with their grandparents and any time they travel to Nigeria/Poland they aren't scarred bcs they understand what is going on around them. Every family has its own way of upbringing the kids and please, keep in mind that it's our own way.

Biracial marriage and multilingual children are a real challenge but we both have the same values in life and both believe strongly in God. He always makes a way for those who believe!

Awesome ..here in Nigeria most kids of upper and middle class don't speak local language...that is the tragedy we are in...they don't even go to villages because pastors have fúcked their brains up...they are stuck in Lagos and city centres

Life is funny those in Europe are speaking native languages to their kids while parents in Nigeria are speaking foriegn languages to their kids

Here in Lagos , in my area many Yoruba kids don't even know anything in Yoruba ...all English

The same thing in Owerri...you see kids speak English fluently but can't speak Jack in Igbo

enemyofprogress:
And so fokn what? Private jets are meant for human beans and not for animals, so OP this is no fokn news

What about human rice

PVision2020:
The Almajiri school of Sheik Inyass you attended at Adavi can't make you think straight. Even if you're going to come up with a conspiracy theory, put up something a little bit plausible.

Let's assume US is responsible for Boko Haram, Iswap, Isis, Fulani herdsmen, Religious crisis in the north, Muslim brotherhood, Alshabab, Hamas, Hezbolah, Al-Qaeda, Ansaru, Al nusra, Mujahedeen and every other evil you can think of on earth.

My questions are

1. Why do US find a willing tool in a particular set of people to carry out these assumed heinous crimes?

2. Why will they (US) take interest in countries with little or no Economic values but rather protect and even form alliances with similar countries with Economic prowess (e. g Saudi Arabia, UAE, Kuwait, Lebanon, Brunei)? what did US stand to gain in destabilizing Nigeria with a budget not up to a state department in the US, that they won't get in 100 folds in UAE? or why will US sponsor Alshabaab in Kenya when Kuwait or Saudi will give them over million times what they want in Kenya?

3. Let's assume US are fallible of the two above, Why can't the terrorist direct their attacks on the US who is the alleged culprit? What concern an aid worker in Nigeria with a supposed crime of USA in Syria?
Or what connection is their between the cartoon of Mohammed in the Scadinavia and the massacre in Northern Nigeria?

Successfully provide answers to this questions and I will believe your conspiracy theories.

awesome

RichBoy247:
I am a Yoruba Muslim. If you fight me, I will fight you and I am 100% sure that you stand zero chance. If you see a mad man picking and eating from refuse site, do you join the mad man in eating from refuse site? Anybody that attack another because of religious difference, such a fool or group of fools deserve to be shoot with AK-47, survivors should be re-shot with AK-49.

Have you ever seen Ogun, Sango, Amadioha or Okija worshippers attacking non adherents? Even the fools that worship at the so called Church of Satan do not attack non Satan worshippers how much more those that claim to worship God.

Anyone or group of people be it miscreant Church goers (Christians will definitely not), senseless Mosque goers (Muslims will not) or of any religion whatsoever that attack people of another religion on the basis of religious difference, so nincompoops should be shot at sight. No need of arresting such nonentities, they do no deserve to live in the midst of humans.

You made sense...how I wish Muslims would think like you

Yoruba kings and drama everytime.

Kapilta:
no tribe in Nigeria fought more war thab Yorubas. We fought the fons known as dahomey, we fought fulanis, we fought nupe, we fought binis. Just name them. The nupes conquered Lagos, it was retaken after many years, the binis did, it was retaken too. Even Ilorin that doesn't originally belong to Yoruba abinitio was fought over after the fulanis killed afonja and Yoruba won the war till after the brits integrated the system and handed it back to the fulanis. Yorubas deliberately handed over to be colonized by the brits without war even OOni of Ife wrote letter to the brits to come over to Ife after hearing the Oyo empire has accepted them. If there was a fight, you think the brits would have a smooth ride? You must be joking. Even the Yorubas in now Benin delibrately sent letters to the French who were then in Togo to come to their land.

Which war did you fight more than Yoruba. Better read ogbeni.

Lozl... You fought war when Afonja went to buy machinariies to fight for him... Alimi took your lands


Dahomey women defeated you....

Benin came and had their military in Lagos


Which war and land did you win from your so called wars


Make I laugh abeg

Kapilta:
smh. See tacticts. Like war is not war. You bring the modern war, even the ancient war, we never go find trouble, they brought it to us. So bring the war and let's see.

But before you do, don't forget Benjamin Adekunle and don't forget how Awolowo perished millions soul with just pen and paper. We'll be waiting for you

all the years when our forefathers were fighting defending our lands i wonder were yours were.

And yes, i said it in my first post, we didn't fight Brits, we deliberately accepted them with open hands, Ooni of Ife even had to write them letter to come over to Ife. Same way the Yorubas in Benin wrote invitation letter to the french who were then in Togo.

We don't fight unnecessary war down here unlike you, you fought brits for 30 years but at the end, you were captured and still colonized, you fought biafra war ending up with with plenty casualties losing million souls and yet today you are still here. We don't fight unnecessary war here, bring to us an unavoidable war and you will see maybe we are trully cowards or not.

Dude you didn't have the guys to fight british

Kapilta:
no tribe in Nigeria fought more war thab Yorubas. We fought the fons known as dahomey, we fought fulanis, we fought nupe, we fought binis. Just name them. The nupes conquered Lagos, it was retaken after many years, the binis did, it was retaken too. Even Ilorin that doesn't originally belong to Yoruba abinitio was fought over after the fulanis killed afonja and Yoruba won the war till after the brits integrated the system and handed it back to the fulanis. Yorubas deliberately handed over to be colonized by the brits without war even OOni of Ife wrote letter to the brits to come over to Ife after hearing the Oyo empire has accepted them. If there was a fight, you think the brits would have a smooth ride? You must be joking. Even the Yorubas in now Benin delibrately sent letters to the French who were then in Togo to come to their land.

Which war did you fight more than Yoruba. Better read ogbeni.

I am not talking about ancient war


.Yoruba never fought Brits and also we are talking about modern warfare not now and arrow war

BuhariAdvocate:
took British 30 years to tamed igbo. Even the almighty benin kingdom that proved stubborn was chained and led out from palace. How much more a society that unrest and not structured like igbo people during precolonial era. British met yoruba people as a well organized society.

Yet it took the British less than a month to capture Yoruba...in short yoruab was a walk in a park

She has demonstrated the saying...."I would die for love "

If you leave me I go die....that music is ringing now



Now the port soul has gone

Dude is cute...thank Lord that you escaped from that mad ass....

My people my people

Oh my Aba ...when would they clean you up

We don't make noise...this is Awka the capital of Igbo land ....

Abia1stSon:
Abia state is a large sewage . We need to elect qualified people to lead us in Abia state

tell them

ChilledPill:
Anambra needs to be wipe away and nuke to the ground.

That is not Anambra...can you us the place...even the car numbers aren't Anambra


Zuzuwe