₦airaland Forum

wonder233:
The simple reason is that the UK, like most places in the west is a place of freedom and economic empowerment especially for females. This brings out the true nature of Nigerian females who have been married purely for economic reasons which originates from vacuous trado-religious beliefs.
So a lady who sees it as an anathema for a woman to earn money is suddenly in a clime where she earns her own money at par or even more than the man. She automatically disregards him and leaps to the new found freedom of sleeping around with different men, which has always been their true nature, but are forced to conceal with false modesty cos of the conservative Nigerian society

Aptly and well put

Jennyclay:
Men should learn to spend on their wife/girlfriend without expecting anything in return

Personally, Even though the man has spent billions and trillions on me, if there’s no love in the marriage I will seek for divorce.

It’s better for the woman to leave the marriage than to start cheating on the man.

Been expecting u to be foolish as usual

BigBelleControl:
The boys gave their best but their undoing was wasting of too many chances and making silly errors.
In the match yesterday, one player's two silly errors led to the two goals they scored against us.
The defender was ball watching in front of his own goalpost until a Burkina Faso player tapped the ball in and the same player went ahead to cause a silly penalty.

Nduka Ugbade is a good youth coach with top notch tactics but he needs to work on his team converting chances to goals. Same with Emmanuel Amuneke.

Their gameplay is immature, they only rely on speed instead of conserving energy and playing tactical football
They run faster than the ball, poor ball control

The main issue with this match is most of them not calming down to play a sensible game play instead just rush rush waste of energy football

Kwenu people get lowkey billionaires mehn
Head bursting

I’m so sure most people against this are women and we know why

cococandy:
Sweetie “purity” is not for women alone. You hypocrites try to use your bibles to justify your obsession with policing women’s vaginal activities. If you want to be biblically accurate, you’re asked not to have sex before you marry your wife and afterwards make sure you stick to her alone.

But like I said, y’all know how to pick and choose what suits you at the moment. Notice how it’s to held in honor among all not just among women?

“Hebrews 13:4
Let marriage be held in honor among all , and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.”

this girl dy muzz me
So are u submissive to people giving u money coz idg
Lol because men are providers u think u guys don’t have roles
Ur role is just to enjoy, you’re not to bring anything to the table right

cococandy:
apparently not providing according to the royal decree’s of culture and religion?

Or do you guys pick and choose whatever suits you at the moment?

No wahala if that’s what u want to prove, but the decree expected of a woman is being pure…are u a virgin
If you’re not then keep quiet

Dannysaka:
You have no issues giving your guys money but when it comes to ladies, they are leeches? But you want to still get under their pants?

There’s no problem if you’re an olosho, just tell people ur price and we will know it’s a transactional thing

Me giving my guys my own personal money is my personal business, you and my guys are not in the same lane

And my guys won’t bill me incessantly or unnecessarily, you guys are always hungry, always in need…
How many times have u sent the person sending u money money too bfr

Y’all know the game, but instead make take accountability una go dy disgrace una self for here

sunnnnyuu:
I see nothing wrong because she asked him for lunch, why do he chat with her? Men chase women too much, he can't see woman passing by he will talk to her, see her online disturb her through inbox, if you can't control your feelings don't complain about their request character

U dy think so?

Nawttiboi007:
Cos it's easier for women to get sex with even added benefits.. while men on the other hand doesn't get sex easily they must spend. Women can seduce any man without any stress.. but na only man pocket fit seduce woman

What you’re defining is prostitution, many ladies are into prostitution in disguise of relationship or flexing

Beat ur chest and accept urself for who u are

Dannysaka:
Exactly.. you hardly see rich guys complaining, it's the broke ones always shaming

so this means you’re admitting you’re a hungry human being, a leech

Your definition of rich guys is even subjective, and who told you they’re not complaining, you can’t even know they are because u don’t care to know, once u chop money

cococandy:
Providers whining about providing. As usual

and what are u supposed to be doing

ZINNYBANKS:
The only way this can stop is that men should start asking them for money too.

Nah..the only way for it to stop is for men to hold their ground and be smart

Once u know the game, these leeches would starve and respect u join because women innately hate simps themselves

Ijaya123:
Which gender use over 90% of sex gadgets available today?

Ask her which gender do body surgery the most, stupid bbl these days, shey no be because of knack

Merch:
This type of girls are everywhere

Favour dy ask for favour

ecolime:
Mad? How?

It's business bro

Leave the idiot make e dy teach made man how e go run him business

ZIMDRILL:
again i never said the behavour as an excuse, am only pointing at why are people behaving that way

And i fail to see why you cant understand my point, every behaviour is caused by something, whether one uses it an an excuse or not but the behaviour reflect on people reaction to something

And what I’m saying is, if something is responsible, u should have self awareness and know
The main thing is to fix up when u know, nobody should feel comfortable with their shitty behavior and dwell on the fact sth is responsible
I get ur point, but it’s not a good dwelling place
Everybody should work on themselves as u want sth better yourself , strive to be the better thing

ZIMDRILL:
am not using product of environment as an excuse, but understanding were the behaviour comes from

If u use where ur behavior comes from as an excuse, then others could do that and escape accountability as a result
We’re still back at the same problem

Fix yourself up if you’re shitty
Pointing fingers is an easy thing for everyone

ZIMDRILL:
they became cocky becoz men made them that way she is a product of her environment

You find her cocky then she is out of your league (get the fruits you can reach)

If you’re a girl, then that’s the problem with u guys
U guys can’t always calm down to listen to points, u always think you’re right then when the consequences come u play victims

Which one is product of environment, why do y’all always look for excuses, why not take accountability that u have a shitty attitude and work on it

Lol u just proving my point with ur comment, it’s obvious u will practice hypergamy the way ure talking, lol out of my league, don’t worry once u become hyper successful u can go for more powerful men, that’s what most women do, then when you see the consequences later, don’t come to cry victim

1Sharon:
I hear what you are all saying.

How comes when Funke Akindele threw Jjc out of the house, men made a big deal out of it. As if blasphemy took place?

Men throw their wives out of their houses all the time and no one bats an eyelid.

When a woman is successful, the men fear she may be rude, just as the men are.

The word used is throw, which is cocky in the first place
I don’t think anybody knows the full story, but the story sounds cocky which kindof proves the idea we are debating on

Men who throw their wives out because of infidelity are justifiable but men who do that because of their own selfish reasons are the ones that deserve every backlash from the society

And I don’t think I’ve ever seen a man throw his wives out because of infidelity and bashed by the society

Because once a woman becomes successful there’s a high probability she will be cocky and unsubmissive, two captains can’t lead a ship

It’s rare to find a highly successful woman being submissive, that’s why men rarely marry such

They’re just scared of being disrespected which is highly probable with those women

Evolutionlove:
Oloribvruku Adanu Omo.

Na your useless Parvnts for house be Ode.

u just dy solidify my point say u be ode
I no sabbi say na parvnts dy ur own house

Evolutionlove:
Is it your unclothedness.

Wetin concern you Amebo.

Ode, anything you put on social media is people’s business whether u like it or not

If they give u positive comment, it makes u smile and it’s their business then, but once negative it’s not their business
Rubbish

aceman88:
According to the write-up, APC's argument here is that, the American Court was not against Tinubu but the various sums of money lodged in his account ooo.

So those crucifying Tinubu should free him ooo because the guilty person here is his money which American Court has arrested and prosecuted and not his very person who is innocent. In APC's voice ooo

Can u imagine the utter foolishness of this people
Like say u will forfeit a large sum of money like that without putting up a fight

What happened to Yoruba ronu

Always a solid standpoint that people can’t take what they dish out
It’s the fight between good and evil, nothing else

Some guys are oloriburuku o…this are the types that allow ladies insult men anyhow, I think strict laws need to be made and enforced to negate this compulsion indiscipline to get what u want at all cost

wallex1983:
One thing I am not just happy about is how Sanwó Olú allowed people to cause violence on his behalf.

Violence or no violence, he would still have defeated thy Rhode 'Rogue' hands down.

You go buy tissue tire

No be person wey fit attend inauguration una go do inauguration for

GogetterMD:
Falz really needs to take a chill pill sha. Elections don come and go. Though not perfect with some irregularities across board, it can still be adjudged fair and reflected the will of the majority (Obidients please rest with the stolen mandate rhetorics).
Let's heal and build a better country of our dreams, regardless of whatever political affiliations we belong to.

You be idiot trying to sound wise

Yoruba people still dy pay 50% Yoruba ronu kee una

PoloG:
If people should do that to them now, they will cry marginalization

Ode give them accommodation for ur area now