Foreign Affairs › Re: Islamic Terrorist Wearing Fake Suicide Bomb Stabs Two In Streatham, UK by anataala: 6:20pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
The good thing he's arrested with out killing a single innocent sole, and but unfortunately he's a Christian and this is not first time a non Muslim was caught, no religion preach killing. Zooposki: There was one too in Nigeria trying to bomb a church in Kaduna. But they changed his name from Mohammed Allah-Arkbar Allah to Nathaniel Samuel. |
Politics › Re: Nathaniel Samuel, Suicide Bomber At Winners Chapel: How He Was Arrested (Photos) by anataala: 6:15pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Neither Muslim no Christian support the killing of any person. Blindersoff: In USA we had Muslim terrorist suicide bombers from Saudi Arabia, Lebanon, etc back in 9/11
But today we have non Muslim/ Christian terrorists who engage in random mass shootings in practically every state.
Muslim and Christians in Nigeria need to stop the hate and team up against this. |
Crime › Re: Someone Used My ATM Card To Shop On Aliexpress by anataala: 3:24pm On Feb 02, 2020 |
Place call to your bank to block your card, that one is instantly and then write a complaint and submit by Monday Danhoys: I am currently on it.. If not that today is Sunday, I would have been in the bank by now. They are yet to reply my messages in all their social handles.. |
Politics › Kebbi State New Executive Council Announced by anataala(op): 5:34am On Jan 31, 2020 |
List of the innaugurated Chairmen of Local Government Education Authority of 21 LGEAs in Kebbi State. The committee was innaugurated by the Kebbi State Governor, His Excellency, Senator Abubakar Atiku Bagudu at the Presidential Banquet Hall,Birnin Kebbi on Wednesday,29/1/2020. 1) Aliero - Prof Ibrahim Hussaini 2) Arewa - Dr. Muhammed Aminu Bui 3) Argungu - Prof Rabi Muhammed 4) Augie - Prof Muhd Aminu Bayawa 5) Bagudo - Prof Ibrahim Muhd Bandi Zagga 6) Birnin Kebbi - Prof Umar Aliyu Chika 7) Bunza - Prof- Aliyu Muhd Bunza  Dandi - Dr.Samaila Kamba 9) Danko Wasagu - Dr.Nasir Muhd Baba 10) Fakai - Prof Muhd Garba Mahuta 11) Gwandu - Prof Muhd Shalla Bello 12) Jega - Prof Suleiman Khalid 13) Kalgo - Prof Faruku Aliyu Kalgo 14) Koko /Besse - Prof Abubakar Dan Baba 15) Maiyama - Dr.Balarabe Isah Adamu 16) Ngaski - Prof. Umar Abubakar B/ Yauri 17) Sakaba - Prof Sanusi Muhd 18) Shanga - Dr.Abdulbasit Ahmed Atuwo 19) Suru - Dr. Sodangi Umar 20) Yauri - Prof.Sadiq Abdullahi Yelwa 21) Zuru - Dr. Sani Dantani Manga Signed : YAHYA SARKI S.A Media to Kebbi State Governor 29/1/2020 |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by anataala: 7:54am On Jan 29, 2020 |
Thank you GMD NNPC for the information. mmtukur: Nothing will drop today. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by anataala: 12:27pm On Jan 27, 2020 |
EH included don't worry but Gt would receive APL first.quote author=yungmin post=86148452]Watching and waiting lol.. but I'm EH and the news you guys share about EH is unpleasant...o[/quote] |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by anataala: 4:55pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
You owe nobody explanation gentleman. Don't screen shot your chart and exposed it in this forum with out his concent. dalhjana: In summary Danwani to the MIBs  |
Politics › Re: Why Yoruba Will Leave Nigeria By Bayo Oluwasanmi by anataala: 7:31pm On Jan 22, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Ansaru Planning Renewed Attacks In North-Central Nigeria - Sahara Reporters by anataala: 3:23pm On Jan 22, 2020 |
where are the intelligence documents? who are the Chinese smugglers and their names? how are they going to carry those weapons from Burkina Faso to Nigeria and how did they knew the weapons are going to those particular states in Nigeria to cause a mayhem. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by anataala: 1:47pm On Jan 21, 2020 |
Dear comrades
Let's keep our hope alive and never give up. Let's continue to pray and always have a positive mind on the issue.
Best regards |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by anataala: 12:25pm On Jan 21, 2020 |
Ina goyon bayanka, bai kamata yayi irin wannan magana ba. ya kamata ayi hatara. habishat: Bawan Allah cire wannan post din. Ba girmanka bane. Haba mana. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by anataala: 11:17am On Jan 21, 2020 |
Amin Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum., Ya ArRahmar Rahimin. GeNeRaToRBoi: Ya Rabb (O God),
Please do not put all APL hopefuls to shame, many are patiently waiting for this week to go without APL so they can rejoice... |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by anataala: 1:46pm On Jan 20, 2020 |
That EH there's a lot of inconsistent report, i pray the APL would be roll out together. fidebbs: EH inclusive? Before u assume the question is irrelevant and come for my head, chill abeg. Let BasDost answer the question. Oya! |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by anataala: 6:13am On Jan 20, 2020 |
This is a relative question, you must be specific, are you referring to manager, deputy manager etc Onweke: Please how much does NNPC pay monthly for experienced hire ??. |
Crime › Re: Ignatius Odunukwe Kidnappers & Killers Arrested, Corpse Recovered (Graphic Video by anataala: 11:39am On Jan 19, 2020 |
Na Igbo headmen, 80% of crime in the FCT na them, please let take their Biafra and go. kestolove95: Igbos doing igbos since 1557 |
Politics › Re: Gowon: No Regrets Fighting Civil War by anataala: 6:24am On Jan 19, 2020 |
He's political value is limitless, and he's is very useful to Nigeria and Nigerian because he defeat Biafra and made Nigeria great. Drobitol: Gowon, does he has any political value again, useless man, big for nothing, pig! |
Family › Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by anataala: 2:04pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
You have to manage your mother. You doesn't have any other mother than her if she doesn't want the marriage I advice you to follow her wish. E685: My wife and I have been together for 8 years now, married for 5. I am 33 and she is 30. We now have our first child, a son who is just turning 1. He is everything to both of us. Before our son, our relationship was strong, although to be honest I’ve always been frustrated with my wife’s way of handling issues. I’m the kind of person who is very hard to get angry, I hear people out, and I talk out my issues. I listen to all sides and I think logically before emotionally. I seek therapy when I’m stuck. My wife is the opposite. She reacts with emotions first. She is very quick to be offended by anything. She will shut down and refuse to communicate until she has had time to process. I do all of the work resolving issues we have. I sometimes wonder if I ever stop taking the high road and work through our issues, if anything would ever resolve itself. So that being said, conflict management aside, we are happy. We are passionate, have similar interests, and make each other laugh.
Then there’s my mother. Where to begin. My mother, while seen as incredibly loving and generous to many people, is also a person who has been shut out of so many relationships in her life that I really just feel bad. My father and her are divorced. She has a genuine phobia of being left out - of gatherings, of relationships, of family. She is extremely smart and knows how to manipulate people into doing what she wants. She also widely seen as a “difficult” person. She is difficult in that she finds great offense to issues many people would not notice or care about. If she feels wronged, she will overwhelm the person who wronged her with incessant questions trying to make them feel her side until they cave in. In her closest relationships, her absolute need for the show of love and inclusion and validation cause the very people she is trying to reel closer in to push her away, a self fulfilling prophecy. My Mom, while I love her, is her own worst enemy.
Needless to say, these two, my wife and my mother, clash. At first they liked each other. The very first issue involved our wedding planning. My wife had a very clear plan for the guest list, and my mom asked for a number of her friends to be included on the list. My wife did not want that, got immediately upset and the situation blew out of control. My mom called me nonstop asking why my wife could be so cold, unwilling to see her side, or give in even an inch. My wife felt my Mom was making the wedding all about her, and could not believe she was called cold. She was “done”. My mom wasn’t paying for a cent of the wedding either so this was another offense. In the end I brokered a compromise, much to the dismay of both women. Each held the grudge for a long time.
Occasionally my mother would do something that my wife disliked, and my wife would be pissed at me for not standing up for her. Admittedly I had never stood up to my mother, I always took the time to listen to her side and find reason behind her otherwise inflammatory ways. My wife and mother had a falling out right before the wedding, and forced me to choose sides. I struggled as I found both of them to be at fault. I chose my wife and my mother hated it. Ever since, basically anything that my mother says or does, whether good or not, offends my wife. Even the most genuine attempts by my mother to reach out to my wife are smacked down. My wife has never made any effort to release the past resentment. Over the years my mother has attempted to take the high road, only to be barely acknowledged by my wife. I have always pleaded with my wife to at least pretend to like my mother. She did a bad job of pretending because my mother would always call me and ask why my wife appears to never care or never let go of past feelings. So both saw through each other, my mother would continue to act happy and loving, while my wife never would.
Anyway now our son came into the picture. He is amazing and being the first grandchild on both sides, the grandparents want to be around him every chance they can get. My mother visit every weekend. I told my wife we have to let her do this. My wife dreaded this. I told my mother that one of the weekends, we wanted her to visit on a Sunday (staying over till Monday morning) instead of a Saturday because we had plans that Saturday. In actuality the day was a birthday celebration for my father in law, being held at her parents house. She just didn’t want my mother involved in everything so she put her foot down. My mother wouldn’t take no for an answer and pulled it out of me what we were doing that day. Well she took great offense to the fact that she was not automatically invited, and couldn’t believe how cold, unChristian, and I loving my wife and her family were.
This stuff affects me greatly so of course I share with my wife, and she exclaims she is done with my mother. No longer wants to be nice or pretend, she is tired of how much my mother always wants it all to be her way and then throws out insulting and hurtful words about my wife to get her way. I get messages from my moms friends telling me how I need to see things my moms way, they would never exclude their mother this way, and that my wife is causing all of this.
And so here we are. I saw my mother the next day, and my wife removed herself from the situation by staying out for the day. It was incredibly uncomfortable. I told my mother how mad I was at her for always being so difficult and never just letting it go. I told her my real feelings about how I wished she could stop needing such inclusion and love. Her response was that she is justified in wanting to be included in everything, and that my wife has never shown her any love or effort and it was obvious, so what could she possibly do? I told her my wife is willing to work on this, perhaps in professional therapy. But in reality my wife wants no part of that and has no desire to mend anything anymore. I think she resents me for trying to mend things.
So what do I do? I’m frustrated with my mom for being difficult, always needing more and never letting things go, and saying inflammatory things when she doesn’t get her way. But I see that all she’s ever wanted was peace and love, and my wife never gave her that. I’m frustrated with my wife for getting so easily offended at everything my mother says or does, and I wish she could make any effort to see the other side and let go of such a grudge. My mother is definitely strong willed and manipulative but I think there is love there if only we could work through it. My wife is extremely assertive and refuses to let anyone wrong her twice. Both think the other has always been dead wrong, the entirety of the blame, and will never change. My wife is ok never seeing my mother again, yet my mother says she wants to let bygones be bygones and attempt to work through it. What should I do? Forever stuck in the middle. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by anataala: 6:44am On Jan 18, 2020 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by anataala: 6:25am On Jan 14, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Governorship Tussle: Tanko Muhammad storms out of Supreme Court by anataala: 1:41pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
He's the CJN. tammie24: And this one calls himself CJN |
Foreign Affairs › Re: President Rouhani Assures Soleimani’s Daughter Of Revenge (Photo) by anataala: 8:10pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Is there any documentary evidence to substantiate your claim? Does US or any international agency carry out an investigation that directly accused him of terrorism the region. Lorenzop: I agree a fully commissioned general isn't a terrorist but what you do call him when he covertly oversees the arming and financing of terror groups like Hezbollah, and militia groups in Iraq, Syria, Yemen etc ? |
Travel › Re: Barack Obama Paddling Shirtless On Hawaii Beach by anataala: 8:59am On Jan 04, 2020 |
Show us your own lifeless pictures. dFroshie: Lovely but the lifeless one can’t do this � |
Politics › Re: Bashir Magashi Named In $550,000 Fund Diversion, Buhari Silent by anataala: 6:44pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Herdsmen Hoist Flag In Orin-Ekiti, Near Fayemi’s Hometown by anataala: 7:57pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
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Business › Re: Air Peace: Fresh Facts Reveal Legitimate Aircraft Purchase by anataala: 9:15pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Nigerian media propaganda, let him travel to USA and depend him self. |
Politics › Re: DSS: We Didn’t Arrest Sowore In Court — His Supporters Were Only Acting by anataala: 6:16am On Dec 08, 2019 |
Please provide the videos. somziency: Who is that guy holding Sowore down? If not mistaken, he has been seen in other DSS videos like the court drama. |
Politics › Re: In Which State Was Abuja Before It Was Made The Nation's Capital? by anataala: 6:09am On Nov 04, 2019 |
North western state. That is the present Sokoto State. quote author=murphyibiam15 post=83713722]Does anyone have answer to this?[/quote] |
Politics › Re: Igbo Leaders To Meet In Ebonyi Over 2023 Presidency by anataala: 1:13pm On Oct 31, 2019*. Modified: 1:35pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
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Family › Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by anataala: 6:09am On Oct 31, 2019 |
And what's wrong with what she told you? igwegeorgiano: Friends on NL I greet you all. Trust your day is going well? It is with very heavy heart and confused state of mind I sent this post on this platform so you can advise me on what line of action I should take. Pastors and genuine men of God should also advise me on what to do as well.
There is this lady i have been dating for about a year and 6 months now. We love each other to the moon and most importantly we respect each other opinion and decisions. She is a born again christian who appreciates the things of God more than she appreciates me which of course I have no issues with.
When we agreed to start up a relationship after being friends for about 6 months, it was agreed that there will be no sex until the wedding night but at a point I asked her "what if we are done with traditional marriage rites are we still not gonna have sex? To my creates surprise she said we won't until church wedding is done. I did not actually took her serious.
Fast forward, on the 15th of July 2019 the traditional marriage was done in her father' compound in the east and all I was asked to pay and give was paid and given without any remainder . after the traditional marriage we went back to my house in abuja. Note that we were not staying together before now. I am base in abuja while she is in owerri. When we got home that night I told her we can now make love as husband and wife hence the traditional rites has been done and most importantly the bride price paid. To my amazement my wife bluntly refused. She told me she will never compromise her stand on pre marital sex
I have been very faithful to our agreement based on her claim that she is a virgin. But refusing me my right over her body after every thing including the bride price has been paid is something I can never subscribed to and to this end I have I have involved her parent and her pastor her decision however, still remain no sex till the wedding night. I am putting the wedding on hold for now until she willingly allow me make love to her and she seems not to be comfortable with my decision as well.
This is the dilemma I have found myself please I need your wise counsels on this. Thanks and remain bless. Moderators kindly push this post to the front page so it can have adequate views it deserves thanks |
Politics › Re: 2023: Igbo Leaders In Strong Push For Presidency by anataala: 7:25pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
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Crime › Re: Someone Withdrew Over 100k From My Account. I Am Depressed Right Now by anataala: 1:40pm On Oct 15, 2019 |
Dear Sir,
Kindly send complaint to cpd@cbn.gov.ng and lodge a complaint it would be faster, you will be paid in the shortest possible time. |
Education › Re: Anti-Islam Policy: University Of Ibadan Professors Petition Management by anataala: 6:20am On Oct 14, 2019 |
It's not rubbish Sir, we need respect other people's feeling, how will you feel if meeting was slated on Sunday for you, they complain about the timing 12 to 3pm is not appropriate for them because it's time for Jummat prayers. olajide8: What is all this rubbish? What concerns education with religion - these people have started again, they want to polarize the society with religion
What concerns school management and all this rubbish, why do they always have to force a private belief on others Abi Na only them get personal belief? |