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Elder001:
I think you were trying to sound sarcastic by creating this thread.

There's no where it is written that if a woman should hit you, you shouldn't hit her back. Yes,if a woman insult you, hit your mom you can't do anything because she hit your mum not you. The best you can do is to get your mum to hit her or sue her for criminal assault.
This thread is a way of trying to justify the actions of some beasts who call themselves men.
I want to make it clear that “you've no right to hit anyone whether man or woman as long as he/she didn't hit you first or doesn't pose any serious physical danger to you”.

This doesn't in anyway absolve men from the inhumane acts they've carried out against women over the centuries in the name of cultures ,traditions and protection.


When some people say feminist hate men even though I know they don't, why shouldn't they hate men?

After everything men have made women to go through over the centuries.
From banning women from voting, seeing them as properties and sex objects - not allowing them to work or get education.


The hatred is justified.

Chubhie:
Depends on the nature and character of the woman you married. It also says a lot about your choices and decision making.

I for one shall not be caught up with a lady whose default goto is violence or verbal abuse. Now, even when I mistakenly sticks my kini into that hot girl's pant, I expect her to handle it like civilized humans do in grace and poise.

martinskelly:
I am from imo state and i have this lady from akwa ibom that i am seeing or will i say dating.
We have been together for like 9months now and i like her, she is a contract worker in the same company i work, though me i'm a staff. So one thing led to another she got pregnant for me but i did not deny it when she told me that, but the issue now is, i am not ready to get married now even though i like her very much but she keeps on pushing me to marry her and saying that her people will abandon her if she doesn't bring the man that is responsible for the pregnancy.
On the side of my family, i told my my parent about it coz the pregnancy is about 8months now but my father insisted that she delivers first before any other thing can be done. The funny part of this whole thing is that, she has not told any of her siblings or even her parent, so where is the abandonment coming from? So i persuaded her today been sunday to tell either her elder sis or brother, she yielded to me and called her elder brother in akwa ibom. She explained everything to him and the brother asked her to tell me to call him which i did. But, the thing i don't understand is that, he told me not tell anyone that my girl is pregnant even if her parent(there parent) calls me today, till i pay something to the family.
My question is this, she is the second daughter and what is the most likely price to pay to her family or even her bride price(she is from akwa ibom).
I am not financially stable for now but i have changed my mind to do something.

Rosay15:
As I like dis guy reach, he don dey fall my hand.. Wetim b dis nonsense wey he dey sing now?, so na true say fame and money dey reset some people brain cus I can still remember wen he never blow, his song dey make sense at least bt now I rest my case..

topgear:
I think this is a good question.
Cuz the bible says women shud submit to their husbands and a woman's place is under the authority of a man.
I wonder if this is also applicable to the church.

It is a fact that no women was ordained as a priest or prophet in the bible but women were involved in evangelism and also ministered to men but they were Neva ordained.

I think biblicaly women are allowed to preach and minister but not lead as a General overseer or head of a congregation.
U are right ,I will gv u two verses to ascertain ur point. These are : 1 cor14:34-35 and 1 Tim 2:11-12. Pls study and quote me bk for feedback

iLegendd:
When you tell these men to learn how women and relationships work, they'll scream, "Mtcheew. Make money and you'll get any woman." Now they've made money and can get any woman, but there is still something missing and that is: knowing how women work.

The moment they see a beautiful woman, especially lightskin, they fall madly in love and neglect all her bad behaviors. They're afraid to lose her. They spend all the money they made on her and neglet their siblings, parents, and extended family.

Some years later, they'll finally lose her (because they have no idea how the dating world works) and she'll take 50% of all they own if it's in the US.

I don't pity these men. A relationship can only last if the woman loves the man more. Otherwise, it will crash. Those men who love their women more will always cry or be cheated on.

We have done the research for you. Read our relationship books and you'll know better. We teach men nothing but the truth.

AZeD1:
What did you do(drink/eat/smoke) to come up with this sh*t?

Do you know the work of a mechanical engineer? Heck do you know the job of an engineer?

lacemose:
what in earth name is this , Nigerian Man Today Proposed To His Girlfriend In Public And
Received A Dirty Slap


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NF_IJgdTMI0

cc: lalasticlala, mynd44

kapelvej:
Thank you my brother. But some of the statement you wrote there are making worried. It appears you know me, because those things you mentioned are all true.especially this : YOU HAVE LOST HUGE NUMBER OF LOVED ONES. I sincerely do not want to be known, I don't like social media marital battle. I just want advice and move on with my life. Thank you so much for your time. Please if you know me, pm me

kapelvej:
I understand your point, but is is not reallywrong go love someone truely, it is just that people abuse it

Mmmguy:
Plz I know there are men on this forum that has passed through what I'm facing.


I am a working class young man in his early 20s, my fiancee is in her final year in the university. She will have to do internship before service, so basically she still needs at least 3 years b4 she can settle down. she is younger than me. She is a virgin and I'm her first. She wanted us to wait till marriage which is still 3 yrs away based on her education. Our parents are aware of the relationship, so also is our religious leaders. I am not a virgin and as such it's difficult to wait. My job exposes me to different beautiful girls everyday and I give some free rides sometimes. In fact, I have one who intends to visit me this coming weekend but I haven't given her my final response. I have resorted to masturbation in order to quench my thirst for sex but it's not working.

She has made it known to me that she will rather quit than have sex before marriage.

My options are either to cheat or end the relationship ( I don't know of any other option for now). The latter is tough considering that we have both made sacrifices for the relationship, also her parents take me as their son. She is actually very good in other aspects including respect, submission, cooking, dressing etc. I don't want to loose a good woman yet I find it impossible to convince her. But I'm dying of konji everyday.

Anybody who has passed through this stage should pls give me the best advice.

P. S For the trolls here, I intentionally avoided romance section in order to get mature responses, so I wont dignify u with a response if u want to troll me.

Bass123:
Guy you lied! I have been very good to my girlfriend but she still say bye �. She even told me she has a boyfriend even when I did not chase or abuse her. But I realize I was too damn good and gentle which in my next relationship oboy! I will have other side chicks because I found out that gals like competition which I respected this one for it but she dumped my sorry ass.
Give her heaven and earth � a gal that wants to leave will definitely leave just like mine.

What about if u had married her, she wouldn’t have left u. My tot though!

mxpinky:
hmmm it's not easy at all o
situation getting super worse everyday