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She looks 99% like the guy. He should be man enough to accept the baby. Why accept to sleep with her when you knew she was a minor then? Too bad for some guys.

gabinogem:
Go to the barracks & report the issue to MP(military police). They will certainly handle the matter appropriately.

Take this step above and never say, it is nothing as someone above stated. You must follow this up and have him reported immediately.

The army do not take this issue as nothing as they will surely discipline the guy and the lady too.

The guy dey weed?

I think you messed up by accepting to work for a job that was not documented.

I blame you for even keeping that long with the useless man. I would advise you to get out of the job and look for another job. With your vast experience on the so called job, you should be in a position to have come across someone or company to join where your job is guaranteed.

queenblossom:
That not a big deal na. I bought my husband a car which both of us will be using too and he bought a house for me which both of us will be living. At d end d car is for d both of us while d house is for d both of us too. So kini big deal

Well said my sister. You are right cus you are responsible and too knows that whatever your husband got and what you got too belongs to both of you. Long live my sister and God bless you.

Florblu:
This are the kind of men we need in our society.

Note that buying a house in the US is not the same here in Nigeria. In Nigeria, it is an Outright purchase whereby you make full payment and the house is yours.

In the US, you just make down payment for a property like that and you finance it for the number of yrs till you pay off, then the house becomes yours. On that, you must be credit worthy to be granted that privilege.

American ladies work real hard unlike our ladies who are too dependent on guys to provide for them.Don't just say that is the type of men we need in this country. Just say, that is the type of ladies we should have in this country. Even in the US, American ladies look for Nigerian men cus them be pay master as they spend on ladies unlike their American counterpart.

dotman4real007:
naija policemen are worse than armed robbers, the policemen stole your car. They are just forming ignorance. awon ole in uniform!!!

Exactly. The fear of the Nigerian police is the beginning of wisdom. Laugh with them in pretense and be wise in doing so in order to protect yourself.

redsceptic:
Can you buy fuel with POS everywhere in Nigeria? In Benin where I live, only ONE filling station allows cashless transactions. Can you buy pepper? Chicken? salt? carrots? cucumber? groundnut oil? half crate of eggs? one loaf of bread? pampers? tin of baby food?

Can you pay your washerman with POS? or mai-guard? or tailor?

Nigeria is an informal and unstructured society. The cashless policy will not take hold for at least a decade. The CBN is incompetent else it should know this

Well said my brother. One problem with Nigerians is that we are copycats. We like to copy what other societies that are 1 million miles away from us are doing.

How can one talk of the use of POS in rural areas and even in 90% of our urban areas by this time.

The current Apex Bank managers are not economists hence their poor judgement. I weep for this country as the government only employ their own party members into strategic position of governance even when they are not qualified to be in that position. You can have a biologist as a minister of Sports or economic adviser to the government.

BeeBeeOoh:
And you want me to pity them when armed robbers massacre them?? Lai Lai



NPF remains the worst thing to have happened to Nigeria & Nigerians

Joy should be the best word when any Nigerian policeman dies.A drunk mobile policeman armed while on duty is just what one see in this country. How can a Nigerian Police officer on duty while armed be seen in a beer parlor consuming alcohol and all sorts of liquor and nothing is said about it. Will their superiors tell us that they are not aware of this their act and has done nothing to discipline their own on such acts?

We can see the result of theirs now on such a promising young man. We wait for IG to respond to this.

There are people money cannot change and she is just No 1 on the list. Too ugly indeed. God I am sorry.

Look at the way those officers of the Nigerian Police were slaughtered and buried in a shallow grave. An officer on an official duty for that matter.

I do not care how Nigerians feel about The Nigeria Police image issue, for killing these officers while on an official duty, the killers MUST not go free.

The Law enforcement officials should go after the remaining gang members and they should be publicly executed. Their sponsors should also face same punishment.

They should find out from him all those that sponsor them.

Listened to the supposedly voice recording of Wike on Channels TV and I reserve my comment over that comment.

If actually he made such comments, he stand to be prosecuted over that. I think it is time the so called immunity protecting the so called governors and their likes be removed for some crime like this.

Look at the way those officers of the Nigerian Police were slaughtered and buried in a shallow grave. An officer on an official duty for that matter.

I do not care how Nigerians feel about The Nigeria Police image issue, for killing these officers while on an official duty, the killers MUST not go free.

Op, have you tried to find out why he doesn't wanna come close to you after child birth?Could it be that you have failed to understand your looks after giving birth to your baby? Could it be that you do not take care of your hygiene after birth?

There are some women that stink like poo after child's birth and fail to keep themselves neat. They do not understand that they should birth always and apply deodorants that would take off those odors that comes with child birth. It could be that your guy is the type that cannot be open to tell you the truth. Most ladies tend to ignore most of their responsibilities of taking care of their environment and their body after birth while expecting their guy to still jump on them after noticing those negative side of theirs.

Op, go back and look at yourself properly to know where you have gone wrong after your child's birth. Most ladies forget themselves and even their environement after birth. Most ladies after birth , you cannot even enter their room because of the odor that emanates from their room or house.

The reason is that most Nigerian men does not know what is meant by love making and having s3x.If some men can discover that sensitive part that drives a woman crazy and then stimulate the man at the same time, then both can enjoy S3x.

Op, the issue is that you must have gotten a man who only just enter your body and gets off after dropping his fluid hence the problem you are having.

He doesn't know what love making is. Most ladies enjoy having their boobs sucked for a long time while at the same wriggling up and down while it lasts.

May God Almighty declare spiritual war in whatever place they have kept this boy IJN. Those who kidnapped him will NEVER know peace until they release this boy.

Perfectionist11:
ARSENAL

Monday: draw bayern in the champions league

Tuesday: Surrendered a 1 goal lead @ Everton

Sunday: Surrendered a 1 goal lead at the Etihad

Go from 1st to 4th in a matter of week...

Life of an Arsenal fan is like a tragedy from a Shakespeare book.

Good analysis from a good sports analyst. Arsenal has taken over their birth right position as the 4th position rightly belongs to them. Premiership Title is an abomination to Arsenal unless one wants to wish them death. God forbid.

Arsenal has finally gone back to their Rightful position- 4th position. Nothing can change that Birth Right Poistion

His madness just started hence what he did and they needed to take him to a mental home or deliverance,

He should have been sentenced to death rather than this so called 10yrs whereby he will not even spend up to 5yrs or whatever.

The senators are afraid of Magu hence their refusal to confirm his appointment.If he has been siding them, they would have approved his appointment in advance.

midolian:
Wat sort of rubbish s ds?

You call ya hubby a Money Making Machine?

Worst concept ever!

Very bad concept. People dont make use of their brain b4 displaying them.Because they see others doing it, they fail to reason b4 doing their own stuff.

Maybe she wants a crash after choping the man money.If the money no dey there, she will definitely find her way.

I believe this crazy pre-wedding been displayed by some guys recently is just making some people not reason intelligently b4 displaying their crazy pre-wedding pixs.

One should note that all these yeyebrity issue is something one should know that most of them live a fake life style and try as much as possible to hide under who they are not.

Most of them met in clubs, drinking joints or in their line of duties while living a fake life style. When a man meets a lady in a Night club, smoking and winning all the way and they figure that they can handle marriage if they come together., is not possible.


You cannot stop a lady who has been living a fake life style, clubbing and sleeping with different men, hoping that when you gets married, that she can stop, is not possible.

Only 5% of them can be able to live a normal life just like Joke and her husband and people should note also that Joke's husband is a British trained actor hence he was able to handle his marriage with his lovely wife.

Nigerian yeyebrities live a fake life style hence they cannot stay together.

Ok, from that part of the country? No problem. Maybe the guy could not do his duty well when in action.

examhall:
https://360jamng.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/15305985_880512868757728_5116586448006414336_n.jpg
Lol!
The guy looks like his fore-father!

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Source: http://360jamng.net/kiss-daniel-shares-photo-of-his-younger-brother-who-looks-way-older/

maybe he lives on drug =like smoking weed.

Most guys who act this way must have been the ones their parents pampered and gave them free hand to do whatever they want and maybe when one scold them, the mother would want to defend them.

He has been in Ireland since when he was 7 yrs and maybe his parents here in Nigeria. It's too bad having your child murder you.

That is why it is wrong sometimes to all a young guy stay away from the parents when they are too young.

Since you have not received salary for the last 6 months, what of the egunje Mr. Governor?

Governor, your salary for even the eight yrs is of no use to you because the backyard money that you get every month is even more than the annual budget of some countries in Africa.

The so called "I have not received salary for over 6 months" is a publicity stunt.Go tell that to the gods.

Because of jealousy of another man taking their women or seeing how beautiful they will look when their bobby or backside shows hence their men wants to protect them by mandating their women to be wearing hijab.

Now that it has turned to be the ONLY way they fall victim when they use that means to be killing themselves, I think it is high time that they ask their women to only cover their head or face. Let them stop wearing long dresses and make their dresses to be tight on them. With that, it will be very difficult for them to use that means again to be killing innocent people.

Since it is a security threat to themselves and others, it will be in the interest of all to ban the use of the hijab.If they still see it as their only way of dressing, then they should not be calling for any form of help when they kill themselves.

Most of these men controlling the affairs of this country, got their so called degree/certificates through proxy.One need not blame their ignorance when they give their speech.

iliketheSunrise:
you only called the police b/c he didn't give it to you (b/c you wanted to confiscate it or whatever your intentions were), which to me doesn't make much sense. besides the fact that it's his (though it's a fake bill, it's still his, so it wasn't your place to demand it from him), collecting it wouldn't solve anything b/c he probably has other fake bills he could still use. you were going to let him go after collecting it anyway, so he could've still gone on to use his other fake bills elsewhere. as you can see, taking the fake bill away from him doesn't get to the root of the problem.

stop the rubbish herein. He has every right to collect it from him and his refusal prompted op to call in the police.

It all depend on on the attitude of the culprit when he asked him to hand over the fake money hence op decided to involve the police.

Your action shows that you too can do same. If maybe he had explained to op how he came about it, maybe op wouldn't have involved the police.By allowing him go with the fake money is wrong.

[quote author=khemisty post=51727418]do you have to call over 40 times? u sound like u are monitoring her, even if she is not doing anything with a guy, ur over possessivenes can push her away[/quote

Anyway, you are on point. Though making calls over 40 times goes to show an act of possessiveness which is a very dangerous act in any relationship. Over possessiveness could trigger murder or abuse.

LilChamp:
I am currently in a relationship of 4 years, I started dating when I was in the University then she was in 100 Level, since then alot has happened.

I remember a day when she called me that her mum sent her to give a guy who was his family friend food stuffs in his apartment, then she was staying in the school hostel and just came back from home, I later got to know she wasn't related to the guy in anyway, they were only primary school mate but she gave me that excuse in other to visit the guy in his apartment.
Alot of other lies which I can't explain all through this forum.

Now that she is currently serving far away in an eastern state, I called her this night but she wasn't picking up, also called her friend whom they stay in the same hostel but she told me she is outside and not currently in the room.

I later gave up after calling her like 40times without picking up. At around 10:00pm she flashed me with a number, when I called her back she said she misplaced her phone and she is currently looking for it, she told me she has informed the OBS crew in camp and they are making efforts in helping her recover the phone.

She later called back with her phone and informed me she has seen it that same night.
I don't know why I didn't believe her and I insisted on knowing what really happened and why she hasn't been picking my calls.

It was after she knew I wasn't ready to believe what she told me that she later opened up that she knew her phone was ringing and didn't misplaced it.

I challenged her that she must have been with a guy outside at night, though she denied it at first and later opened up that I was right.

The truth is I have been totally faithful to her and always believed she is the right girl for me.

I don't know what to do at this Junction, I really need advice because I don't know if I should still hold on or not.

Pls I need reasonable advice from mature folks

You only entered One Chance and should be able to know that you are in a very big mess. She is not adding up and if you continue with such relationship, well, it's gonna be a very big problem in the future as you can NEVER ever build up any more trust on her person.