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Came across one like that in Nigeria when I was still a bachelor. She was a bundle of beauty and I couldn't even quantify her beauty, but one thing I noticed was that I keep getting complements from people around that the lady was too beautiful.She came in and started staying with me.All she could do was to tell me she her name and that is from Ikare, Ekiti State.
I only remeMbered one thing whenever we sleep together,while having intimacy, she will be telling me that I was defiling her. I keep wondering what she meant by that statement. After the intimacy, she will sprinkle water into her eyes before she can sleep.
One day she came back late and I started questioning her why she was coming back late around 9.30 pm. She stood at a place and never said a word. After about 5 mins, I called Jesus, she shouted and said I shouldn't call that name, I shouted Jesus and she shouted back again and said I should not call that name, and I called her name, she shouted and said her name was not Fumi, that her name was Harare.
I was afraid and kept mute, by then, all her beautiful hairs stood straight and her eyeballs changed and I became afraid and never shouted Jesus because then, I go to church, one or twice a year.Later as I kept looking at her, she now sat down and said I should forgive her that something was wrong with her life and that something keep coming into her and it was someone that dropped her off from the sea that night.
The next morning, she left for work and I ran to my friend and narrated to him what happened.He took me to his pastor and they prayed for me and told me that I was lucky to be alive and that the lady was possesed and married to spiritual husband.That it was the man that was speaking through her. hat it was because I was not treating the lady bad hence I was not killed.
I was advised to bring her. I told her that we should go to church and she accepted and the day I was ready to to the church, she declined. I had to sell a story to her that my mother was coming and wouldn't want to see a lady with me. That was how I packed her things and dropped them off to her office at Ikeja. I ran away and later went for deliverance. Spiritual ladies and men are all operating.It is real

abbygeal760: thank you and
God bless..please may I have your email address,so as
To explain better to you.

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lynpetra: Adulterated Ibibio

Grammar at war. Some people just murder grammar and should not attempt posting anything here.

[quote author=mekus_74]Me and Faruk.
Abeg put this for front page too. others dey pose with celebrities. This one na my own[/quote]Ok, you were the one that Farouk was telling Otedula for phone that he would send to collect the balance?

So, why were you not arrested? Show your face properly so that they can fish you out. I will report to EFCC

[quote author=mekus_74]Me and Faruk.
Abeg put this for front page too. others dey pose with celebrities. This one na my own[/quote]Ok, you were the one that Farouk was telling Otedula for phone that he would send to collect the balance?

So, why they never arrested you yet. Show your face properly so that they can fish you out.

How much and can you display your price range here

Are you a lady or a man and what kind of job are you doing? Can give you a one room BQ with toilet, bath and kitchen. It is only good for one person. And if I may ask, where do you stay presently and hope you have someone responsible as a referee. Can allow you stay there till you can sort yourself out without paying but character matters here.You must be neat and to use the facility with due respect.

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vicoson: My wife says she did me a favour by marrying me, so I should be happy she married me.

We've been married for 3 years with 2 kids. Prior to our marriage we dated for about a year. She even moved in with me when she had accomodation problem for 6 months. During this period I saw hell. She showed me no respect, was playing her games very openly. Her phone rings 24/7, multiple love sms.

When I talk about settling down together, she would say her parents won't agree because my place is far-I'm from Akwa Ibom and she is from Mbaise. Obviously she did not want to marry me but she wouldn't just leave.

She travelled twice to check out some suitors while she was still leaving with me and I got to know from another source. She didn't deny it but said her sister's gave her the connection. One of those guys is an illiterate drug pusher.

Finally things got to a head. I dicovered condoms hidden in her handbag, I had to throw her out of my house. Somehow somehow, we hooked again but this time I only wanted to use her. Not quite long she took in. Although both of us had earlier agreed we won't marry each other, she later claimed she has started loving me but I did not love her anymore.
I went ahead and married her. I even did elaborate wedding. From day one till today, it has always been trouble.

Complaint, complaint,complaint. Nagging,nagging,nagging. She is at the centre of the universe, everybody must worship her, she must be in charge.

Trust me, with this pride I made sure she wields zero power in my house.

Before I forget, I am a Mechanical Engineer, she doesn't have a good O-level.

Yes, my emotions are on vacation, is it my fault?

Capital YES it is your fault. You knew her antecedents and you went ahead to marry her and you have babies out of this relationship. Men, you have acquired her, you have to be with her and sort out yourself.

Lady, I think you are giving too much for this relationship and in fact, it shouldn't be this way no matter what, unless you are not sure of yourself. Be confident and ask God for your love and man to spend your life with. You cannot force a relationship and from your explanation, I cannot see any good thing coming out of this as the man in question is using the word " You are choking me" as an excuse? Too bad.

Let him be and move n with your life and note that the taste of friendship is not the taste of marriage and looking for someone to be with for the rest of your life should come when you allow God choose for you. A man for you will only stand to correct your weakness and not to take advantage of your weakness to castigate you. How dear a man say " you are choking me"?
To me,give him a break and occupy your mind with something meaningful. You are a beauty of God's creation and if he doesn't love or like you, someone is out there to love you for who you are.

[quote author=who cares?]I can be a gay because of this guy![/quote]Do not pretend.You are gay and never pretend.

Good for him. A student robbing fellow students knowing fully well that these guys he robbed wile armed could be the next president of this country. If they had challenged him in the process, he would have shot and killed them. It is right for him as he has ben sentenced to die.

Well, having 3 lovely daughters is a blessing to you from God. Sure I know of a good doctor in Nigeria that does that and even many friends and families from South Africa and other countries who has benefited from that through him. Though I have four boys and would have wanted a baby girl but since I know that it is God that gives, my going to Dr for a female child could translate that I am not appreciative over what God has give me.

It all depends on couples. To me, I prefer my wife keeping our money in her account. I transfer my money to her account and this has made us to always plan things together. We do budgeting together and we go to the bank and she withdraws. She has never collected any money without my consent despite my advise that she can take money for any little thing she wants to do for the family. We plan and budget ahead by providing household needed items that lasts for about 3 months ahead.
We go to the bank together though we do not have joint account. I hate keeping money as I can give out my last to anybody in need.
Since my wife keeps the money, any amount I go out with, I spend within my limit and this has helped for us to carry capital projects and executing them without pain.Personally, I do not know how to hide money from my wife. I open up to her whenever any payment is made to my account, I transfer same to her account for safekeeping.

In fact, when couples carry themselves along, you wouldn't be having much problems planning and trusting each other.
It has worked for me and I believe that couples planning together will help in building up trust.

The House of Rep and Assembly should rise now and defend defenceless Nigerians in diaspora against this kind of treatment.

They should come up and handle cases like this than having a field day stealing the nation dry.

Keshi, are you saying that you and your NFA members cannot go to his club to meet him? If it is to collect money from Adanuga and other state governors, you people will be there before time. You rae not acting as if you EVER played the game of soccer.
These guys are your younger brothers and you should handle them as a professional and also try to make amends with them in order to forge ahead in building a stronger Super Eagles. You cannot be having problems with most of your old players. Try to carry them along.
I believe that after making use of Anichiebe for his services for this country, have you been following his health issue when he had problems and was not featuring for his club and you as a country and coach never asked for his health situation?

Seanjigga: Wht a Shame ! Lord appear 2 dis doubters & blind dem like Saul until dey believe ... Its takes da Holy Spirit 2 understand da BiBle. May u doubters nt end up like da thief on da left hand of Jesus. Blasphemy dis wht dis post is all abt.

AMEN.AMENNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

manny4life: I was about to quote that now when I saw yours,

He has already made up his mind yet asking questions, like I often say and will continue to say,

2 Timothy 2:23 "Don't have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels."

Best answer to people who has sold their mind to lucify, coming to this forum to vomit the words planted by lucify in their minds.

Charles Shaw: This Nigerian Bùm wil be Feeling Fly.
Fly dat u married ur fellow man's wife
Or that u married a Celebrity?
Both of u Suck

My broda, I wonderooooooooooooooooooooo. Will this change a man or the woman's attitude? No way. Well, we go dey look them while wishing them what they. wish themselves.

OP, what type of grammatical expression do you have as a subject here? I fearoooooooooooo.

(Types Of Husband. Men What Type Are You Women What Is Your Hubby.)?? plaese explain this!!^^

sakaguchi: Stop that!!!
It is you who need deliverance

When animals talk one need not argue with them. You need mental home.

adaobi123:

i've never met a calabar person before

Ok Adaobi. Because after eating dog meat, they started licking every part of you. By the time they are through with you, you cannot sleep without remembering the calaba man hence the OP is saying of her experience.

They are have the spirit of Dog hence their attitude and when they are angry, you own is gone because they will chop off your head.

This is complete demonic/spiritual problem. It is not normal hence you needed deliverance as a way out of this, if not, you gonna have a problem in future.

All she needs now is deliverance. Pla a trip with her to Synagogue Church of All Nations and get her delivered.
She must be having spiritual problem or spiritual husband that could be the problem of her even saying that does not have any more feelings for you.

She should be a good woman but that spiritual husband issue can't not allow her have a happy marriage.

Since ladies are afraid to talk, what of guys?To be frank, I have slept with well over 1,200 ladies. Nothing do meooooooo.If you like, laugh. na wetin I don go through processing.

It's been an old story and the police also have narrated such stories for people to be aware. I can't beelieve that people still buy such story/ies again.

richarts: The fault lies in the girls not knowing that u are a retardeen & a psychotic prospect.

Best answer for psychotic nomadic individual that the spirit of lust has taken over. How can he become responsible in life to think of settling down and becoming responsible? No way. Better go and live with animals.

Remove 10 yrs and replace with death penalty for even N1 Million naira should carry death penalty.
Also Reps and House of Assembly should equally carry same penalty.

onila: a girl u can carry and throw up and down

she looks co cute and delicate

you are afraid to rough play with her thinking she might break

aww

The best food for any right thinking man. I am so obsessed to slim ladies with good body structure.

Lady, I feel for you but would want to advise you that hanging in a relationship for that long is extremely very risky as you could end up mortgaging yourself for life because it can be easier for the guy to role on with his life than you, as aging and other side effect of long time relationship could play a negative role in your life.

Since you have stayed that long and you foresee a dead end, I will advise you for now, to stay off the relationship. To do this, call his attention and put it straight to him to define the relationship you have with him. Remove fear and face reality. The taste of friendship is not the taste of marriage. Therefore, wasting 6 yrs with a man and later the relationship goes sour, the woman bears the brunt most.

I believe that you are matured to go into relationship and it what you are looking for is for marriage, carry God along as you have to ask God to give you your own future husband.