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I don't think you will have peace with this relationship if you go ahead into it. The signs are there coupled with her mother asking her to get out of the relationship. Since your mother again is against the date, another problem and this goes to show signs of danger ahead. The taste of friendship is not the taste of marriage.

Get off this relationship and allow her to be. You will overcome it and pray for a good woman out there that can be willing to reason with you. Wedding is not even a guarantee for a happy home.There are people who only did traditional wedding without white wedding and they are living happily.

Traditional wedding is the real wedding and not the white wedding.

Learnt that Diamond bank is having issues. Why not go to any of their branches or where your account is domiciled if closer and find out from them.

StOla:
in Nigeria a whole Attorney General and Minister of Justice can be assassinated inside his own house, with 6 police officers claiming to have all gone to have dinner at the same time, and the culprits will never be found.

Now a whole retired Chief of Defence Staff of the armed forces can just be attacked and murdered so easily, for whatever reason, and I already know it is a crime that will not be solved.

When will Nigeria ever change for the better?

Remember when you are in power and truly a Nigerian citizen with protection, rights and privileges, that you will one day relinquish power to become a regular Nigerian victim who has no protection, no rights but ample assault and misery.

If the top echelon of the security apparatus in Nigeria, rather than embezzle funds that would have secured the country, had done their duty and served patriotically, they would have retired into the tranquillity of a peaceful nation.

If elected officials had used public funds to provide critical infrastructure and healthcare, they would have no reason to seek healthcare in Dubai or UK or Germany, only to die the minute they arrive Nigerian hospitals in a bid to avoid arrests for money laundering charges abroad.

Exactly on point.You just said my mind.They cannot run away from their sins.Those they have all failled will come after them.

So Mikel also fathered two outside？A boy and a girl？Then two face is not alone.

Ladies, it is high time you start befriending these SARS men and start poisoning them. Befriend an officer and poison the idiot of a person. They are not fit to stay among the living.

She is right.No matter how intelligent a man is, a woman truly knows who the father of her baby is.Only science can help a man to determine if he is the true father.It id high time men chill and humble themselves ovet the issue of ownership of a child. Many first born are not the through biological child of their parents.

For a governor to make such hate speach, then this country is doomed for life.At his position in life, does he look forwad to another exalted office in his life again in this country？
He has shown to the world that Nigeria CANNOT EVER be united with people like Ajemobi.Be it Housa, Ibo, Yoruba, so far as blood flows in us, we should all realize that we are here on transit.Too bad for this nation

Dukeolumidemans:
Anything Nigerian Police is a no no for me. Wrongest breed to make ur friends....if ur constantly in contact with them, u will understand what I mean...just a fact.

Congrats to them anyway.
*#*Ain't no hater*#*

Well said.The guy looks as if the lady forced herself on him.One making any form of friendship with a police guy should better watch his/her back.Some of them can be deadly in life.

Peter Obi has dwarfed all other candidates. The current VC is just not with facts and Obi has figures to buttress his point. The two women are just not good at all especially the black woman who is just off point and doesn't even know what/how to answer the questions thrown to her.

Op, your days are numbered. First, he is aware of your number and can plan to get rid of you. For calling you is another danger ahead.

Listen, you are already in the picture and the force man believed that you are the reason the girl is messing up. Getting rid of you by such a guy wouldn't take him anything since he knows your place of work. Just be careful as reporting and putting yourself forward could be the end of you. Her parents are there and witness the beating and never did anything and you because you are showing interest would want to show off as a big boy who cares. That could be the end of you.

Don't they have CCYV in the shop? With CCTV , the guys could be identified. A shop selling such phone should have a CCTV.

She messed up. Why not Atiku/Obi and the back side, Wike. It is as if she wanted Wike as Vice President.

mogbojaiye:
Dat was what I also thought but my dear dis is nigeria

U wan catch thief for nigeria? U go spend pass the money way d thief collect from you


On a more serious note, I think there was an insider within d bank that contributed to this whole process
And from my view banks are not been helpful in reducing frudulent act in this country

But don't you think that maybe the guys sweet talked the sales girl by trying to be friendly and asked for her to give him her phone in order for him to key in his number and in the process, entered a code and got her actual balance without her knowledge in a split seconds since they must have acted like big boys. With that, while inspecting the phones they needed to buy, they programmed the alert and when paying, they now sent the alert to her phone. The whole process looks funny. The sales girl could be involved or it was also an insider job.For the transaction to show the actual balance goes to show that something fishy happened.

noble71:
yea I know but that thing up there looked staged.

You are right. It was staged hence it shows the actual account balance of which they never argued when they received the credit alert.

deolu2000:
Any transfer that does not reflect my initial balance will be detected has hoax, after all the men can never know my initial balance, except of course if the sales rep confirmed that her balance before the transfer was correct while the men made the transfer, then she must be part of the scam. it's that simply..

Exactly. For it to show the correct A/C balance after the fake credit of #482,500 was transferred goes to show that an insider was involved. The sales rep could be part of the deal by giving them her actual account balance and it was programmed and stored as Draft. How did the guys get to know that there was an actual balance of #3,034 in the said account of the sales girl?

From the post, it could be that the so called Sandra who is maybe the manager or whatever could be the person that planned the whole scam and hipped it on the poor sales girl. How come she now asked the sales girl to pay for the loss.Why couldn't her own account not receive amount at that point but instead asked the sales girl to give them her own account? It was an inside plan by either. Both should be responsible for the loss.

After trying to fake transfer to the owner of the shop and it could not go through, the sales girl now presented her account , and it pulled through showing the actual credit and also actual A/C balance.

Eberechi24:
Linda contradicts herself. I remembered what she posted on her ig handle when she gave birth. how she wants to be a mother before her birthday. Everything she did was calculated. She was desperate.


I love strong and independent woman, but manipulative ones I don't fancy- say it the way it is.
Shola was the played one here, at least he didn't advertise their relationship on social media.(that is if they are in any relationship)

Please There are good men outside nl, don't shut your heart against them.

You are right. Linda forced herself to the guy. I earlier stated herein when she wrote her episode that when they met at a restaurant, that the guy said he never knew her and that got her interested to pick interest on the guy for her first time of meeting. How dear she say that as a blogger and such a person like Sholaye, that she never knew him too?

Now, she went ahead to say that the relationship was on and off but he kept coming back, and later during the breakup, they again started seeing secretly. As an adult, who said her pregnancy was a mistake, does it mean that any guy she met, you open your legs without protection? She needed the baby as she stated that she was afraid of menopause as she was about getting to 40 yrs, she needed to have a baby hence she wanted a man of the guy's status to be the father. It was not a mistake but a planned deal by Linda to have that baby. There is nothing wrong by having a baby, but trying to proof her innocence as if she was raped by the guy and abandoned is wrong. She wanted the baby and there he is and since she has the means, let her go ahead and take care of him and stop to defend herself as if she is holier.

Disgusting sight. Ladies are getting destroyed through some of their crazy actions like this. Tomorrow, if she gets infested with any kind of decease, they will start look for deliverance.

Linda, you have no single moral explanation at your age to say that it was a mistake made out of the so called relationship that put you as a baby mama.

Linda, you knowingly had an unprotected sex with an adult male at your age and status hoping that the guy would marry you and you call it a mistake you did because you never saw it coming is wrong.

You forced yourself to him and as a blogger of your status in the media world, you cannot claim not to know Mr. Sholeye as you claimed. The mistake or whatever you claimed should be put behind and continue with your life by taking care of the baby as you have the means to do so. In the present world, every man wants to survive and you thank God you have the means to pull through. No explanation herein would rewrite the mistake you have made and no how you can try to explain to the world of what went wrong.Nobody would wanna believe you. Only you and Mr. Sholeye knew what transpired between both of you in your closed doors. When you were snicking in and out in your hideouts, nobody was informed and you opened your legs in-between with the guy in your closet without protection as an adult, what do you expect? You needed a baby more than the guy and you have got it as you explained that you were about hitting 40 yrs and afraid of menopause.

I hereby put it to you that you needed the guy more than he needed you and that is the gospel truth, hence your present situation.

In this world, nobody is a saint and we should stop name calling as all human on the face of this earth is perfect in the sight of God.

Linda, what you need to do now is to stop most of the name calling of people that has made mistakes in their life. Most baby mamas you have called or written about them in your past, never did what you have just explained. Most of them too were victims of their pasts.

Nwodosis:
Oshomole, put your mouth in order and leave PDP out of this!

Look at how this cow Oshomole, is sweathing and maybe smelling and I believed that the first lady is not even comfortable standing beside that ugly ape that has destroyed APC.

The person who made this law must be unreasonable.What kind of breaking just traffick law would attract such penalty that would warrant the person's car to be forfited to the government?

T?here are no good roads and visible traffic signs and all these untrained and uneducated traffic officials,LASMA and these official
armed robbers known as the police would wanna turn this as an avenue to harrass innocent Nigerians. This will empower any officer to lay any trumped up charges on any person that would make them collect your car,send you to prison and now change the car to their personal use.
This is no law as these officials would targget good cars on the road, lay an allegation of any traffic offence and there you are to loose your car you spent your millions to get to one criminal empowerd by the government.

This APC government is a curse to us.

Lanre4uonly:
That's their way of life.

Exactly. Most Northerner s life all centers on abusing this set of poor innocent children by asking for their hands in marriage because of the level of poverty of their parents.

Senator Yerima also bought a minor from Egypt and till date, nobody knows if the girl is alive or not. They love to suck innocent breast.

3 life sentences translates that if he happens to die in prison and while been taken to be burried, he wakes up, he will be taken back to same prison to continue his prison time.If he dies again and wakes up the second time, he will be taken back to continue his sentence. If he finally dies there in prison and has not yet completed his time, his grave will still be chained for life.
So, his father should not even think of anyway out for him because he threw away a good life he had, of which millions of children were begging God to give them, he through Islam, messed up his life.

What of the families of those he would have taken tbeir lives, he never considered them？His best option should be to even end his life ib his cell room, rather than wasting Tax Payers money.

I think OP is not telling the truth here. How can an adulth not have his travel documents with him at the point of departure when he is not a minor？ How come your so called friend cannot come here on nairaland forum to say the truth and you op, the story teller is here saying what you do not know. There is no way an adult will board an aircraft without his travel documents with him, even if he is been deported, the law officers must get travel permit to have the individual be allowed to board the aircraft with the law officers with the individual onboard

Magalan:
Despite the weight of Aisha's allegation on the presidency.. no one, including the VP have come out to dispute it for almost 3days now..

You do not have a Vice President. You have a hand picked man who is being remote controlled by some cabals. They can even send him to attend Naming ceremony or burial.

Tonymegabush1:
I think I subscribed to his observation regarding this issue outright closure or sealing off properties is not the right way of doing things in this country we waste 2many resources yet we claim we don't have money

Not only that. Some buildings that are been destroyed by some government agencies, why can't the government collect those houses, complexes. and covert them to government owned buildings rather than destroying properties worth billions of naira.

Op, trade softly herein because most people asking you to contact them or give them details might turn out to be scammers. Since you are a Nigerian, and you came down here to do the so called court wedding, why not come back home and approach same court because you should know where the court marriage was done. Report officially and possibly, you should go with a lawyer and get it resolved. It is not a big deal.

Stop sending people your details online as you might end up messing yourself up/

Ogechi, may favor never depart from your door step. As you have served this young lady with your strength and substance, so shall the world serve you and favor and blessings shall dwell in your home forever.

To you beautiful angel, God who sent that Ogechi to you was for a purpose, He has shown you that He is with you and will supply all your needs according to His riches. Your condition is for a purpose and God is aware. Just be happy as your days ahead will be full of happiness from above.

Respect55:
Those of u insulting me, just pray u don't get urself into messy situation like this. It's obvious u don't know what u are saying.

She has been calling all my numbers since today and I refused to pick. I'm in a safe place but indoors.

I might be going to my church tomorrow morning to report. I'm ready for their back seat. At least, we will serve it together. Then she can't do any poo again.

Call me a weakling if u like, I know I'm not. That I want peace doesn't make me a weakling. It's not as if I can't harm her unnoticed, I just want this to pass over me in a peaceful way.

Op, please and please, you are still young and there is future ahead of you. There is something good in you and the devil would wanna go through this lady to harm you. To me, for now, find a safe place far from her and be safe or get out of that environment. Even Jesus, when He was born, Pharaoh was not happy over His birth and he instructed his men to kill all the first born, but a message came that He should be taken out of His birth place. Get out from there and do not fight such lady as she could arrange cultist for you.

Gofwane:
Forget about all the noise she's making, she is only doing so because she knows you have a weak heart. Imagine, a lady is making you shake like a dice. Chaiii!

For me, violence is met by greater violence. If you do anyhow, you go see anyhow. Period!

This not a good advise considering that most ladies like her could go any length to get him down.

For me, let him locate to another state.Most of those PH ladies are hostile and could do anything to get him down. Don't underrate such lady.
Op, relocate to avoid the story that touches the heart.

Is it by force to be loyal? Are they that call themselves lords not human? Ambode has right to either respect or not anybody, just like everyone here has right to life. Tinubu has made himself a lord over Lagos and APC and has taken all Lagos state wealth to himself and immediate family. Making his daughter, the Iyaloja of Lagos. Too much of greed is sin.

Your friend is just not normal. What he did is totally wrong. The lady prepared the food and no matter how hungry he was,or close friend he is to you, he was supposed to have waited for her to come out and dish out food for him,. No matter he he got provoked by the lady, he was supposed to have kept to himself. By beating up the lady goes to show that he has no respect for you and how undeveloped he is. For me, he should be locked up as he is mentally not stable, unless you are of same character.The house is not his as he is a visitor.

simpleKUSH:
That ugly girl doesn't even deserves to see 2019

May what you wished that little Princess be your portion and may you not see same 2019.