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Ah, I must have misunderstood that part. There is something wrong if a husband is forcing his wife to give him her salary. There is nothing wrong if the wife is willingly giving her salary to her husband.

NoToPile:
You don't see anything wrong with a woman giving her husband all her salary under serious compulsion a. k. a by fire by force?
Keyword here is by force .

Just asking.

Pees123
Why do you think he is behaving the way he is behaving?
Have you tried talking to him about how you feel?
Have you told his mother/father or your own mother/father about the situation of things in your marriage?

I believe getting to know why he is behaving the way he is, would help you understand him better, and enable you to know what to do next.

You did not see a good virgin girl to call your girlfriend abi?

The first bolded,
Was she speaking generally or specifically? There are aspects of life where men would be superior to women and vice versa.

The 2nd bolded,
Again, were these women speaking generally? In this case, generally, career women don't make good wives. However, specifically there would be some career women that do make good wives.

[s]The 3rd bolded,
There is really nothing wrong with that, unless the husband is not trustworthy or responsible. [/s]

What I'm trying to say is that, the points you raised to support your opinion that, educated and career women can be foolish too, are not good points.

*ADDED*
The 3rd bolded, I initially misunderstood it. someone explained what you meant, so please ignore the 3rd bolded.

bukatyne:
Education or exposure has nothing to do with these things.

I have seen women who have achieved fantastic stuff at work still believe men are superior to women;

I have seen women who are high fliers still tell you that 'career' women don't make good wives'.

Or the ones that give their husbands their salary out of serious compulsion.

Educated men still do stuff that makes you wonder where they left their sense.

I know a senior academic staff in the university that was regularly beaten by her efulefu husband.

Like my people would say: Oro ife, bi adanwo ni

true.

afroxyz:
Agreed. But evil would flourish faster when people live in isolation from each other.

The era you grew up in is not like now. The world is much more evil than then.

afroxyz:
When we were growing up as kids, we knew other kids not just in our street, but the area. Everyone knew everyone's house, siblings and parents. Today, my children don't even know the name of their neighbours let alone play with them. We think it's a sign of civilization and mind your business, but it shows how far apart we have grown and how we are falling as a society

Omo forget it is possible na only you dey the compound. They must be preparing you for something. At the appointed time.....

gentlestdude:
you forgot to add magodo... the only person in our compound I've spoken with in 2 years now is our security guard guy, and I'm sure there are other tenants too only me can't be living in that big compound

The bolded,
she was tapping your light

PrimadonnaO:
I think it largely depends on the neighbourhood you live in.

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I've been in my current place for over a year, and I only know one neighbour by name and face.

And that's because both of us share a gen house, and in the first month when I moved in, her light was on my meter.

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I'm sure I have about 6/7 other neighbours, but I don't even know their faces, let alone names.

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But in my previous place, we were all neighbourly... 5 blocks of houses occupied by young people.

I am an introverted extrovert. I like to keep to myself. But since I am the one collecting the Nepa bill for our compound, I must know everyone's name, and I have their phone numbers.

Okay, thank you

PotatoSalad:
Amazon fire stick. A streaming drive.

have you ever liked a guy?

Elianawalker:
it's either you are lying... if you are not, then that's a very dumb thing for a matured man to do...

the bolded, ehyna
but that was really harsh from you.

Skyfornia:
There was a lady that was madly in love with me but I wasn't feeling her...we were both living in asaba before I relocated to another state. So on this very April 1st, I lied to her that I'm in asaba and currently hanging out in a popular bar, she asked if she can come join me and I said yes..according to her, it was raining heavily in asaba that night but she defiled all odds and entered the rain to come meet her lover(me)...she got to the bar and asked for my spot, I told her to come upstairs, she came upstairs and couldn't find me, she was shivering cause of cold...she said she is upstairs and can't see me, I told her to come to the toilet that I went to pee...omo the girl was doing as instructed cause she was madly in love and eager to see me...it was when she entered the toilet and couldn't find me that I told her it is a prank(April fool)...

This girl never forgive me up till today even though she is married now...though I regretted my actions.

Any time we spoke on phone she always remind me of that incident and will end up asking me to send her airtime so she will forgive me...I have been sending airtime o and she still never forgive or forget

She named her first child ( a boy) after me...

Lol what did your dad say or do?

Frank25:
Hello nairalanders today is regarded as world pranks day...., let's share pranks that went wrong.

Mine was when i told my dad that i impregnanted three ladies in our compound, the reaction my dad ignited gave goosepumps and chills down my body

Till today i am still regreting why i made that move.

Lol that prank was not worth flogging him, there are other pranks that deserve serious flogging.

soik:
When I was 8 years old, my best friend pranked his only sister about one of their big rich uncle based in the USA came with lots of gifts. Told her the uncle is outside waiting in the car.

She rush out and burst into uncontrollable tears on seeing nothing.

If not for my friend was the only son, they would have flogged hell out of him.

She refused food that day.

Northernblood5

Aid that they use to enslave africans?
When the IMF and world bank which are both controlled by the west lend money to africa, it is make sure that africans are perpetually in debt. Did you know that?

Read what your fellow african is saying about China https://qr.ae/pGHE62

I am Tanzanian.

China is not helping Africa. China is trading with Africa, and sometimes investing in Africa.

“Helping” is what Westerners pretend to do. But we know what their game plan actually is. It’s far from helping.

Westerners donate inconsequential amounts to fund things like “democracy”, “human rights”, “women empowerment”, “education”, “health”, “wars” etc. Things which have little impact to development, and are not sustainable (ie they don’t make money) so they’ll help Westerners create the myth of perpetual Africa aid.

The real deal in terms of economic development is industrialization, and not human rights, democracy, women empowerment, etc. Little things like those take care of themselves once there’s industrialization and the money is flowing in.

ayindejimmy:
I'm sure you said they lent us.

We are talking of people giving us free money and you telling me about those lending us money with interest. Does the two correlate in your book?

When it comes to aids, the US and EU give to Africa more than any group of countries.

Mind you, China is desperately lending to Africa for a reason and when you add the aids coming from the US and Europe, it's more than whatever China is lending Africa

God bless you!!

rottennaija:
Africa don't need their donations. Its their way of importing inflation to the world and keeping Africa on its knees.

That guy you are replying must be very ignorant and he has serious inferiority complex.

ken6488:
normally I usually ignore comments like you but let me reply


Speaking of donating, that's a scam

This white racist get *4 of what they donate to us by illegaly exploiting African many more

Do you know most Franco phone Africa countries don't have a central bank but use France currency


Actually you are the pig and slave

We don't fucking care about what happens to them, it is best we even stand with Russia

Russia has never
Invaded, colonised, or destroyed any African country in history


Russia is even Africa best friend

Speaking of millions is china not helping Africa



The west should mind there self we are not there slaves

Lol, the same US that refused to sell arms to Nigeria to fight boko haram under Jonathan because, Jonathan refused to allow homosexuality in Nigeria?

Northernblood5:
Ungrateful Black Africans, Ask your leaders

God bless you!!!
Many Africans don't know the harm these westerners are doing to Africa and Africans

jumper524:
if EU wants to help adricans, they can do so by stopping the heavy devaluation of our currency as well as stop the arms supply of weapons to terrorist.

How has all those aid benefitted Africa?
Those aid have been used to enslave Africans and force us to remain perpetual beggars!

There was a video on youtube explaining how the west especially America has made Africa poor, unfortunately that video was taken down.
You can google "confessions of an economic hitman" and read how America terriorises countries and subjugates other countries' economies.

https://nairametrics.com/2020/07/27/how-the-united-states-plans-to-control-the-african-development-bank/

https://qr.ae/pGEy6h

Northernblood5:

But, when it's time to donate to developing countries, You see Africans receiving huge amount from EU, Ungrateful people. Time has come for the world to end the war in Europe and avert WW3 through economic isolation of Russia, Africans are now bringing out useless sense they couldn't use to develop.

African idiots hating US is just doing so out of Jealousy. US is more organized and ahead of most Black African countries and nothing Pigs can do about it unless the start voting like people that really wants to develop

Africa just better stay away from this conflict!!

Guy it was a joke na, haba!

Terrier99:
Yes. Your parents occupy my BQ.

Guy why?

PotatoSalad:
You live in the bush bro?

What is a fire stick?
Also, people watch DSTV because of football

PotatoSalad:
People still watch DStv? Just buy a fire stick or cast your screen to the TV. Watch at will.
Glo should disassociate themselves abeg. In a sane county, the network should have ceased to exist. They should work on fixing their damn network.

Actually everything started from the US. Just because other countries implemented their own foolishness first, does not mean much. This homosexuality, and all it accompanying nonsense, gained momentum in the US during Obama's tenure. It was after the US started promoting it, that other countries followed suit
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The US continues down the path of foolishness.

How does that solve the problem?

You did not hand over a collapsed country, but you handed over a corrupt and failing country.

All those that sent fake alerts should be traced and arrested!

Men work hard and smart so that you don't end up relying on anyone for your survival.

Warning to all Men:
If you people like don't bend down, and work, continue wasting away your lives on SM, or fooling around with foolish friends you call, 'my guy, my guy' or 'my guys'. You might end up like this Wisdom, coming out to tell the whole world how incompetent you are. Shame!!

Crypto currency is making young men all over the world good money, but so many Nigerian men have refused to even study or learn about crypto. Instead you people dismiss it as fraud or it is too hard to learn

iLegendd was right when he said, if you have heard of crypto and you have not tried to find out more about it, something is wrong with you.

What I said still stands nah.

Romanoff:
I said she was talked into the relationship. When push came to shove, she realized she couldn't marry the man and wanted out.

Lol we don't have details, but if I am to go with what you said, she was talked into a relationship and then she was talked out of getting married?

If for instance we are both right, or even one of us is right, she is not marriageable in my opinion. Someone that can be swayed like that....naaahh. Any where the wind blows smh

Romanoff:
Or she was talked into the relationship and has realized she can't marry the guy.