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FILEBE:
The society at large is also responsible, Nothing is being censored again. Songs containing vulgar languages and suggestive dances are all over the place for both kids and adults. Which of the kids hasn't heard Naira Marley? Th other day they invited a deejay to come play for a secondary school and all he was playing was the vulgar Naira Marley's song. Fireboy abi Joeboy's Peru, Omah Lay's put it in is all over the radio and TV . MTV base is all about girls twerking. Seee that small Rema sef dey use half clad girls do video

You're very right things are really bad in Western countries.
On quora one of the American men i follow write an answer, and in that answer he made it known that, girls as thing as 12 years were allowed to get abortions without parental consent in the city where he lives, Chicago.

abbey621:
I'M SORRY BUT I'VE GOT SOME BAD NEWS! Compare the Nigerian society to that of those in South Africa, USA, England, France etc, you'll discover that what we've seen so far is childsplay, what is coming is too big for my mouth to say!

With great power, comes even greater responsibilities. With great advancements comes even greater temptation, kids ages 10 are now having their own mobile phones, most are on social media, some even have Tik Tok. Meanwhile parents are working more hours, they are constantly stressed and depressed, many hardly see their kids for more than 2 hours during weekdays, so what did we think would happen?

You can't eat your cake and have it, wither do your best and pray to God that your kids turn out okay or sacrifice by monitoring them left, right, up and down but also praying that you didn't miss anything. All in all, na by the grace of God kids nowadays remain mentally and physically stable, I'm afraid the WORST IS YET TO COME!

"men are always the evil ones in the eyes of society"
If you'd can please replace society with men. Instead it should read, men are always the evil ones in the eyes of men.
This is because it's is men that jump first to start calling for heads to roll when they hear rape or anything sexual.

Men are the problem of men.

HardMirror:
1. Are children of these days worse than the older generation?

I see a lot of myopic comments claiming the world has spoil finish. This is not true. Underage children has been engaging in stupid things from the days of Adam and Eve. Children that grew up in an environment where they learned about sex early always end up having sex early. When I was still in Primary school in the 1990s, I knew some of my classmates who where already sexually active and I attended one of the best schools in Jos.

The problem is the internet only makes it easier for children these days to get access to porn and things that corrupt them. Children will always do stupid things it is not a new thing or a big deal sef. They are children and need guidance.

Many of us judging these kids 2ould have used our phones to watch porn if we had smart phones back in our days too. Children are curious and porn would interest them.

2. Private Schools with wahala.
This Is another short sighted thought people are propagating. They think private schools are terrible in management.
They are talking of Dowen collage cultism and now chrisland issue. They say private schools are over rated. Well, they are wrong. If any child trusts you and tells you what happens in their schools, You will fear god.

Secondary school girls are doing runs in public schools and all their classmates know
The boys are doing yahoo.
They have cults too. Infact cultism from secondary school is very very old especially public schools.

3. Only girls are victims
people have been one sided judging matters always against the males. If not for the video leak, many Nigerians were already out calling for the heads of the boys. Women know they can always get public sympathy and they are abusing it. They are using it unduly to revenge and hurt people they dont like. They cry rape when they need to deal with a man. Is it not a possibility that it was the girl that initiated the truth or dare game? Do we even know if it was the girl that initiated sex with those boys? We dont have these answers yet people jumped into conclusion and many even insisted that the girl must have been drugged by the boys because they believe only boys can be bad. Girls are always good


4. Where did we go wrong?
Humans have always been bad, humans would always make bad life decisions. Children particularly would do things that are wrong because that is how children are. Exposure to social media is not helping them, giving them mobile phones is not helping, movies, music are all confusing them.

The worst influence on these girls are Ladies. You ladies always twerking online, always taking suggestive videos. The only thing you do on tick tok is dance and twerk. You sexualize every picture you take even pictures you take in church. The younger girls begin to develop the wrong mindset that sex is the most important thing most of you girls cannot take a picture without emphasizing your butt or boobs.
. The reason why I focused on women towards the end is because there is this assumption that it is men that sexually expose children. The moment a child is discovered to be sexually adventurous, the public begins to ask that all the men in the family including the dad of the child be suspected. This has been the way it has been for ages, men Are always the evil ones in the eyes of the society. That is why the mum of the chrisland girl came out to play the same old rape card instead of addressing the moral delinquency issue of the children involved

This is not nice at all.

Mtchew propaganda.

Lol. I'm not.

dalass:
I smell jealousy

Nothing intelligent about the comment. Those pictures are just memes. You obviously don't know how memes work

dalass:
The most intelligent comment I have read so far on this thread

You obviously don't know how memes work

erad:
Omo... Nigerians are f**king myopic
So every stranded girl now is going to see a guy?
I weak for una matter.
Do you even have any idea how home delivery works?
This is sad mehn, seeing images and creating the worst case scenario for them just for clout.
Wetin go teach una go teach una.

The bolded,
That is just silly!!

Ybaby:
Kids need thier parents.

Thier Dad to provide, lead, discipline and give courage

Thier Mum to nuture and everything else

We need laws that force men to share their wealth with the mothers of their kids so the moms can nurture their kids not KPI at work.

Women are extremely talented at spotting patterns and this gift to be able to spot any changes in their kids however (that is why a man cannot cheat his woman will catch him) the only glitch is that she needs to have available time to do this effectively- she cannot do this while chasing KPI at work seriously.

If a woman feels she will be left with nothing if the man chooses a younger model then she will put her job and business above all else, this is why our laws must insist the father of her kids provide for his kids so she can atleast (fi eyin ti to awon omo eh) use backrest to raise her kids properly.

We can outsource cleaning, cooking but raising kids and fccuking our man can not be outsourced and we need provider men for this to happen.

Now women!!

if you have a provider man and you choose to put anything e.g work, church, mosque ahead of raising your child just know you have failed no matter how rich you are ..no matter how impactful you are in other things.....those human lives are the ones God put in your care directly and you will account for them directly. You are also playing with your saved pension.

My heart goes out to these kids and they are much more of them in schools nationwide.... the schools are rotten but it is not the teachers fault at all... you cannot pay someone 100k and expect them to parent 20 kids... it is a formula that will fail and has failed. Teachers can teach arimethic but parents teach morals, manners and it is every moment and every day so very hands on job.

I blame Chrisland for hiding it and not looking after the kids properly in a country away but I blame the parents especially the mothers for not raising thier kids properly and it is not cane that raises a child it is words, stories taking advantage of teachable moments and all this needs time investment.

Lets retrace our steps and becos if women donot raise well baked humans then what sort of society are we going to have.

Before you reply nonsense to me pls know I am not on the internet to fight with faceless people but to share my valid thoughts.

Ah I would not have been among those that would have cried blue murder o!!!
Instead, I would have been among those that cried, "let proper investigations be carried out and people should not jump to conclusions!!"

bukatyne:
@bold:

You captured my thoughts beautifully.

I have not watched the video however, if nobody did, we would have cried blue murder that an innocent girl was raped at Dubai.

Those who started the rape story should have thought about the consequences of starting a false story.

Lol
So after watching the video do you still insist that the girl was raped?

purejustice36:
That’s a very unreasonable reasoning
A rape is a rape and child Indecency is child Indecency
Anyone who would add fake information just to make the news viral deserves a jail time and that’s on period bc that’s defamation of the highest order

So cockroach can bite?

Rape had to be added to make the story sensational
"10year old girl raped in school by classmates" or "10year old girl caught having sex with classmates"
Which one is the better captivating headline?

killmods:
How can any rational human call that rape.. she was even smiling at a point.. Parents have a lot of work to do. Sending kids to good schools isn't enough. Bring up ur kids properly.. some other kid was even laying on same bed waiting his turn.. Its obviously not new to them. 10 yr old girl riding dick. Nothing fit shock me again after this

Guy who said virginity is the only requirement you should look for?
Of course you have to look for other qualities in her too.
Who said virginity guarantees that your would not divorce?

If you choose to misunderstand what i said earlier that's your choice.

Non virgins carry emotional baggage

Virgins generally, have any advantage over non virgins

takimsipho:
Virginity is not my only requirement in marrying a girl thats what i am trying to say. If she is an illiterate, lazy, stubborn and obnoxious i should marry her just because she is a virgin? I have stayed among hausa muslims, they get married to 17years or less old virgins and they still get divorced within 2 to 3 years. Being realistic is not settling, is sex all women have to offer? I can meet a virgin and if she still lacks in other qualities I won’t marry her. Guy i no like liability, virgin or not. Say she no be virgin no mean say na ashawo she be, ashawo sef was once a virgin. Immanuel Kant said character is found in logic and not emotions or feelings. And what makes you think say no be me wey go dey bleep person wife to be? Two can play the game, i am never threatened by a woman’s sexuality because I know say even me sabi the game. I have exes who married too, as a guy, as long as i can keep making money i can out bleep anygirl for body count. Even at 60 years i fit still dey bleep on my own terms. I don’t have a victim’s mentality

People like adding rape to inappropriate sexual intercourse, so that it would carry more weight.
If the news that broke said, 10year old girl having sex because of truth or dare, do you think the news would have been explosive?

purejustice36:
That wasn’t a rape case at all
She was riding him like a pro
The family needs to investigate that lil girl very well

1. Isn’t she supposed to be a virgin at 10?
2. She looked more mature than a 10yrs old girl
3. Where did she learn how to ride a co*k like that ?
4. They need to ensure someone in their family isn’t sleeping with her bc she rides more than a hoe

Fear little girls of nowadays

Both

VladimirPutiin:
Should we blame parental or societal failure for this shameful act ??

These kids are below 12 from what I heard.

The bolded,
Keep deceiving yourself, your gist might be worse than the OP's own.
There are a lot of virgin girls out there. Your job is to find them and never settle.

takimsipho:
I don’t expect to marry a virgin cos thats so far fetched these days. But atleast decency and trust is very important in human relationship. All these starts with women not marrying the man they love but whoever is available, na her family she just embarrass. And the biggest problem in modern society is that girls what to emulate only the terrible things that men do, but ordinary dig gutter dem go say dem no get power for that one. Thats why i tell my babe all the time dat if i follow wetin i dey see online, i no go marry anybody. Its has almost an abomination to carry good mind for any babe, e be like na you go be the mumu. No be every guy get time to bleep around, some just want someone to build a life with. Nobody is an angel agreed, but who wants to dine with the devil. No be every body spoil oooh

If you're not careful you, yes you, would end up marrying a damaged person.
Nothing beats a virgin girl for marriage.
Imagine, break up sex.... mtcheww

I would not be surprised if those men were raped by some Alhajis when they were mere now boys. It is also possible that those men grew up doing it and it became ingrained in their pschye as normal.

As much as we protect the girl child, we must also put more effort in protecting the boy child, a lot of sick things are happening to the boy child.

Homosexuality is abnormal and an aberration

Happy Easter bukatyne

bukatyne:
Nice read.

However, I am a HUGE FAN of personal responsibility; I only focus and deal effectively with things within my circle of control.

Hollywood has the right to produce whatever kind of content they will to suit their target audience.

If it doesn't suit us, it is our duty as parents and guardians to choose the entertainment that reflects our values for our kids.

The Bamiloyes have done extremely well in the Christian movie genre. Rather than stop at writing this epistle, I hope they will see a critical need for Christ based entertainment for kids and cater to it.

Happy Easter.

The second man in the sentence, "Man's inhumanity to man" stands for both men, women and children.
So it is correct.

Kriss216:
Man's inhumanity to Woman, rather.

I used to like LiveScore until I started getting the timing wrong due to their 24hr time format.
I've since switched to espn app.

Presley87:
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Person carry gun go watch match?

uptownemmygee:
Since when them come shoot one EYE boy for viewing centre, I no dey try am again bcoz the kind injury wey follow me go house that day eeehh, omoh nah laff my homies dey laff me that day, my babe that year just dey cry anyhow sef

Invite your friends na!!

seunny4lif:
I also watched from home but it’s boring as hell
Nobody to face and argue with.
It’s boring and sometimes I ended up just changing the channel to something else.

Viewing centres #200

Lol not everyone has money for DStv

EKONGKING:
Still surprised that people visit viewing centers in Nigeria instead of watching from home

You can always invite your football loving friends to your house, if hyping and trolling helps you enjoy the match

Ademola47:
It's usually boring watching football ⚽ matches at home.

There will be no hyping and trolling that makes it fun...

She sucked them dry

bukatyne:
What happened to the previous ones?

You don't mean it, when was it changed to gender equity? Is it a global change or its just in Nigeria?

bukatyne:
What is gender equality to you?

BTW: the buzz word is now 'gender equity'.

During pregnancy that is when temptation is highest for men in committed or serious relationships, because the pregnancy can stop the couple from having sex.

Asin i wonder what such ladies are thinking or trying to achieve.

GOFRONT:
Pant inside Black tight inside trousers.......pvssy nor fit breathe Felicia.

Inyama nyama....very irritating