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The only person I felt bad parting from was my 1st bf. We were so into each other and it was just altruistic then one day he cheated on me and kinda got hooked wit d gal. I felt betrayed n broke up with him though he kept begging. The thg is dis; I felt pain then but more pain now cuz I had somfin good back then n till now I haven't found a man as good as he was. Sometimes I feel regret but again, how does one cope wit a cheat!

@ sex killz n d rest of you saying " is he ur husband"? Yes ooo,he is! The moment he chose to date her sex or no sex he became her father, husband and more! So many stingy guys out there, greedy people who believe in taking but neva giving. If he doesn't hv he should jst say he doesn't hv yet but wil try see what he can do. This chic is saying he never gives n u are there talking anoda thg! Giving goes with loving. Relationship is responsibilty! Stop making her feel foolish she is right!!

Hmmm, its sad how Nigerian men look down on/ say silly things about ladies in their 30's. What if she becomes 2nd wife n can't cope? She should leave d marriage shey and be called divorcee. Well I blame d sad state of the economy for this cuz men can't make a living enough to care for their immediate needs talk more of marriage. Well for girls below 30, its time u wake up and get serious. Quit d games n childish stuffs or else u'll find urself rushing to pick any stuff (dude) off d shelf to call husband.

I believe ese walter's story n that of this lady even though they both sound very odd. I don't know y people regard pastors who are mere humans with so much fear and silly regard. Respect your pastor but fear God and read his word more.

All the advice given here are so meanigngful. Its so sad that girls go through situations like this. Let's be strong and learn to appreciate those who appreciate us. Follow ur heart and do what u have to. We have just one life so live it up!

Nothing @ all. His loss, my gain!

"When I think of you"by Miley cyrus

This is pure truth.Am sure all u guys making mouth there are secretly evaluating your relationships. U better do so b4 u experience d pain.

I don't know why people look down on ladies who have a child out of wedlock. A friend of mine got seriously tongue lashed by his friends for wanting to settle down with a young single mother. I honestly consider them to be strong, bold and to be honoured.they in the face of rejection, resentment, criticism, shame and all manage to pull through choosing to give life to their babies. Many girls choose to abort their babies in order to escape this single mom category.for all it is worth let's respect them and give them a chance @ love!

[quote author=Glorified_Tunde]Many of u are ignorant and simply ranting like disgruntled psychopaths. Wot is 11 million naira to Winners Chapel Ota? Chicken change generated by 1 single branch in common Ibadan in 1 single service. U come open your disgusting mouth against man of God who may not even know this general attends church.

O ma se o. Many of u here will soon start using hypertension drugs on anoda church issue. Mtcheeeew! Mi o raye![/quote]On the last day we shall know wats up.

For one, lola isn't 25-30. She is about 35-38 now as I read sometime back. So havin a baby unmarried may jst be because of her age n maybe he promised to marry her someday. Am happy for them. Wish I was d proposed to wit dat diamond ring and range rover...hot!

Harbosede02: Av neva asked n will neva ask a guy out,sey wetin??no matter aw much i might be into d guy,i wud neva tell im m intrested in im...

I support bose. I won't ask a guy out cuz men are naturally chasers in that dept n its more respectful that way. But if he shows interest in me by asking me out, I won't do long thing. I hate it wen gals make men chase dem for too long, I feel its not matured and so 1780!.this doesn't mean that I dnt hustle, I jst dnt hustle men!

Burntcoal: oh ok tanks is it durin d trainin dat my writin wud b scrutinized or wat.

Yes. During the training. If u don't meet up u won't be staffed. But am sure you'll do far and above their expectations. 'Smiles'.

Am so glad that God is jst d same always. He said though our sins be red as crimson he'll wash us as white as snow. If God can accomodate this big time sinner, then I have hope n am grateful.

I wud quit if:
He cheats unrepentantly
Abuse
Stingy
Emotionally unavailable

Hmm, uche baby U get luck say dis dude marry u. U beta stop sayin what u won't do n direct ur energy towards family building. Don't 4get dat he aint ur bf dat u cud jst dump n move on, he is ur HUSBAND. Make God no let us see wetin pass us ooo! N men pls dnt cheat,it hurts us like hell.

Ever heard the saying " Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned"? Cheating hurts like crazy and emotions can really spill over. Not saying she did well cuz violence aint d answer. But imagin a gal who maybe in her very late 20's/early 30's.. Maybe she even helped him come up in life or supported him n he cheated. She went too far but dats emotions for u.

Eyah, I love it when young women kip it real like dis. Show off abeg, na ur money jor. She has gone tro a lot and deserves to rock life. Am coming behind u steph. Me gan gats hammer soonest.

Lovely cars galfrnd,Hapi for u! But uhmm, dnt know y u are showing us your backside in dat pose, u cud as well jst face front or sit on d black car. You're married now, act like one and keep ur 'trunk' for ya husby, tks love.

Its sooo cool seeing this. Dbanj pls follow ur sisters example and marry. Settle down bro...

The woman is question knows what to do, she's just scared to make the move cuz somwia inside she still has strong feelings for him. I guess one thing is to be learnt here: don't marry som1 with the hope that they'll change. If u can't accept d present package jst gather strength and move on. If u settle for less, u get even less than u settled for.

Adex097: Both mama and pikin marry footballer ...nawa o.

My dear, Gold digging of the highest order, nobody wants to dull! For da records, adaeze's mom is young, u'll think she is 7-10 yrs older than adaeze. Trim, classy and super fine.

But wait, let's forget about religion, laws and customs. Let's think as humans with emotions and good judgement; why should a child of 6-13 be married? That child is not physically or mentally matured/prepared for the weighty concerns of marriage. He is saying we shouldn't meddle in his private life! D moment u tried to convert your paedophile way of life to law in Nigeria, it became our business!! You want the law to back you up abi? Tis well! Make laws to reduce poverty and better the lives of Nigerians and you won't hv to bother ur self much about the sorry state of girls in the nation.

[quote author=Cupid4]Pls whch jobs are they recruiting for? and i wil appreciate ur constant updates on them, im staying close to the area[/quot

Fellow NLander,cud u kindly help me drop mine with them pls since u stay a bit close to them. Am currently not around and won't wanna miss out. If u kindly can pls send me ur email address so I can send you my cv. Thanks.

Please, I haven't seen any 21st century couple having a good marriage with one of the partners un-educated. Please I can't marry a drop out @ all God help me. We won't be relating on d same wave lenght n my spouse will kip taking cheap shots @ my educated status. Hell noooo!!!

Cuz its believed that they are very diabolic.

Well, they are appealing to the eyes and senses. Who no like better thing

candylips: Its a natural instinct.
When a guy or a girl is fine it shows a sign that he or she is fertile

What are u talking about? Wetin we throw, wetin u catch. Mtcheww

We gals tell our friends tinz. D snitch here is Tola n she beta not get comfy wit John Ooo! Cuz truth is he wil leave her some day. Debbie sowi ur little girly talk turned sour n u're going tro dis. John is obviously hurt as should be expected but dnt 4get ur gal power. Go to him and make sure u do all ur girly charms on him. Buy him a gift n love card too. It wil work magic. But if he still says nooo wit time, move on n count ur loss.

Well, I have 2 piercings and I get only good and responsible men.I and my friends got our 2nd piercings while we were still virgins. Its cool and its a matter of choice. Am not slutty in anyway and take it or leave it I and my frnds rep ourselves well! Duh!!

Just seeing almost every1 voting for igbo dudes is soooo disgusting. Maybe y'all consider arrogance, spending money (show off) as caring. They are so annoying, egoistic, cheats,users n controlling. If that's caring then pls dnt care. Yoruba's are cool and delta peeps! 4get ibo braggarts jor!

Ladies please don't bother treating a man like a Dog, just kick his ass to the curb n take a walk. Cuz @ d end if he is a mad dog, he will bite ur ass! But again Nicki 4get ur bitchy stance, men are humans capable of loving;u sadly attract ur type!