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ibechris:
The only thing I want to learn next year is Crypto and nothing more.

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Na only one source of income you get?

Dey play!

For this current Naija economy, you dey do one job. You never know say, you fit get side gig wey no go stop your current job or you fit use am as your full time job.

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Goodman024:
Give me some ideas please!

What do you have passion for?
This is the right step out of Poverty is to imitate not the lifestyle of the wealthy, but imitate their known source of wealth. Why start a business that you don't know a single person doing such business who is a Millionaire? You are not doing business. You are just being busy. I discourage people from going into several types of businesses. But if they decide to go on, it is their choice. If they succeed I will be surprised. If they do not succeed, I will not be surprised.

No business is 100% guaranteed of success. I know. But unless you are a great Innovator, please focus on doing business that you know several people doing it who are already Millionaires and Billionaires.

Paragonpric:
Good afternoon everyone, am a 28 year old guy with good successful businesses and I can say I am doing well all thanks to God.

The problem I have is my inability to spend money on myself, I don't dress well nor do I eat well. People often doubt if I have the things I have cos I don't look it at all. Am modest to a fault, I haven't eaten chicken for the last 5years am being serious here. I just find it extremely difficult to spend money on Myself.

Sometimes I wonder what's wrong with me. I asked my few friends if I give off poverty mentality vibes and they said YES. Growing up was really really tough on me as i come from a very poor home, I don't know if that has affected my psyche.

Please how do I defeat this mentality

It's great that you're recognizing this pattern and seeking to change it. Breaking free from a poverty mentality can be challenging, but it's definitely possible.

Identifying the Root Cause
1. Childhood experiences: Growing up in a poor household can significantly impact your relationship with money. It's possible that your brain has wired itself to prioritize frugality over self-care.
2. Fear of scarcity: You might be subconsciously afraid that if you spend money on yourself, you'll run out or not have enough for the future.
3. Self-worth tied to money: You may believe that spending money on yourself is indulgent or unnecessary, and that your worth is tied to your ability to save and invest.

Strategies to Overcome Poverty Mentality
1. Gradual exposure: Start small by treating yourself to something you enjoy, like a nice meal or a new outfit. Gradually increase the frequency and value of these treats.
2. Self-care budgeting: Allocate a specific amount for self-care and personal expenses each month. This will help you prioritize your own needs.
3. Reframe your mindset: Challenge negative thoughts by reminding yourself that taking care of yourself is essential to your well-being and success.
4. Invest in experiences: Instead of just buying material things, invest in experiences that bring you joy, such as travel, learning a new skill, or attending events.
5. Seek support: Share your struggles with a trusted friend or mentor and ask for their support and guidance.
6. Practice self-compassion: Be kind to yourself as you work through this process. Remember that it's okay to make mistakes and that you're doing the best you can.
7. Celebrate milestones: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small they may seem.

Additional Tips
1. Dress for success: Invest in a few quality outfits that make you feel confident and professional.
2. Eat nutritious food: Focus on consuming healthy, balanced meals that nourish your body and mind.
3. Take breaks and practice self-care Regularly take time off to relax, recharge, and engage in activities that bring you joy.

Remember, overcoming a poverty mentality takes time, patience, and self-awareness. Be gentle with yourself, and don't be afraid to seek help when you need it.

It's understandable that you're feeling overwhelmed by your partner's constant complaints, especially when they seem minor to you. However, it's essential to approach this situation with empathy and understanding.

Communication is Key
1. Choose the right time and place: Find a private, quiet spot where both of you feel comfortable and won't be interrupted. Make sure you're both in a relatively calm state of mind.
2. Use "I" statements: Instead of accusing your partner of being overly critical, express your feelings using "I" statements. For example, "I feel overwhelmed when you point out small mistakes I make" or "I feel like I'm walking on eggshells to avoid making you unhappy."
3. Specific examples: Share specific instances where you felt her complaints were unfair or excessive. Be objective and focus on the behavior rather than attacking her personally.
4. Listen actively: Give your partner space to share her perspective and feelings. Listen attentively to what she says, and try to understand where she's coming from.

Understanding Her Perspective
1. Reflect on her past experiences: It's possible that her complaining behavior is rooted in past experiences or insecurities. Try to understand if there's a deeper issue driving her behavior.
2. Acknowledge her feelings: Validate her emotions, even if you don't agree with her perspective. Show empathy and understanding, and acknowledge that her feelings are real.

Finding a Solution
1. Set boundaries: If you feel like her complaints are becoming too much, it's essential to set clear boundaries. Let her know what you're comfortable with and what you're not.
2. Encourage constructive feedback: Suggest that she provide feedback in a more constructive and specific manner. This can help you understand her concerns better and address them more effectively.
3. Foster a positive and supportive environment: Make an effort to create a positive and supportive atmosphere in your relationship. Encourage each other, celebrate small wins, and show appreciation for each other's efforts.

Evaluating the Relationship
1. Assess the overall relationship dynamics: Take a step back and evaluate the overall dynamics of your relationship. Consider whether the positive aspects outweigh the negative.
2. Consider counseling: If you're struggling to resolve issues on your own, consider seeking the help of a couples therapist. A professional can provide guidance and support to help you both communicate more effectively and work through challenges.
3. Prioritize your own emotional well-being: Remember that your emotional well-being is crucial. If you feel like the relationship is becoming too draining or toxic, it may be necessary to reevaluate whether this relationship is healthy for you.

ritaprincess:
i wish someone can gift me 10k. Let me manage for this week
This year has been hell for me.

You want to turn it into a bigger den, right?

Digitalfinga:
I need money to treat my dry cough catarh which is giving me sleepless night,am loosing my breath,

Pls help
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Agbo Julius
Opay

Did you read what the OP wrote at all?

It sounds like you've had a profound realization. Recognizing that your gateman's aspirations and desires are valid, despite his occupation, is a beautiful display of empathy and humility.

Life's Lessons
1. Social status is not everything: Your experience has taught you that social standing or occupation doesn't define a person's worth or potential.
2. Empathy and understanding: By putting yourself in your gateman's shoes, you've gained a deeper appreciation for his feelings and desires.
3. Self-reflection and growth: Your newfound awareness has encouraged you to reevaluate your own life and aspirations.

Breaking Down Barriers
1. Challenging societal norms: Your story highlights the importance of challenging societal expectations and biases.
2. Fostering inclusivity and respect: By recognizing the value and dignity of every individual, regardless of their occupation or background, we can create a more inclusive and compassionate society.

Moving Forward
1. Embracing life's challenges: As you said, "Life is hard," but it's also full of opportunities for growth and learning.
2. Pursuing your goals: Don't be afraid to chase your dreams, just like your gateman is pursuing his own aspirations.
3. Treating others with kindness and respect: Continue to spread empathy and understanding, and remember that everyone deserves to be treated with dignity and respect.

Keep shining, and remember that life is full of surprises and opportunities for growth!

kingimmade:
hello AngelSlay
kindly repond to m dm

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WE ARE HIRING!!!!!

Job Title: Manager 

Job Field: Electrical Supplies (Cables & Wires) 

Location: Alaba International market, Ojo, Lagos

Employment Type: Full-time 

Experience: At least 2-3 years in a similar role 

Salary: ₦100,000 - ₦120,000

Candidates must live in or around Alaba, Ojo

Job Overview: 
We are looking for an experienced and responsible Manager to oversee daily operations in our electrical supplies store, specializing in cables and wires.

Responsibilities: 
- Manage inventory, including ordering and restocking of electrical cables and supplies. 
- Supervise staff and ensure efficient customer service. 
- Oversee the organization and cleanliness of the store. 
- Track and manage sales, providing regular reports to management. 
- Ensure proper handling, measurement, and packaging of electrical supplies. 
- Ensure compliance with safety regulations and store policies.

Requirements:
- Minimum 2-3 years of experience as a Manager, preferably in a related field. 
- Strong leadership and organizational skills. 
- Ability to manage inventory and maintain stock levels. 
- Good communication skills and ability to resolve customer issues. 
- Proficiency in basic computer skills for report generation and good math skills. 
- Candidates must reside within or around Alaba, Ojo, Lagos.

How to Apply:
Send your CV and a brief cover letter indicating your interest in the role to rdconsulting0@gmail.com

with the subject as- (Manager, Lagos)

*Vacancies*

We are recruiting the following positions for a Lagos based client:

(1) *Accountant-* Bsc/HND, chartered accountant is an added advantage, able to do management account, postings, account reconciliation. 4-6 years experience

(2) *Inventory Supervisor* Experience working in inventory, 3-5 year experience, must have qualifications in either inventory, supply chain, procurement, mathematics.

(3) *Facility Supervisor* - 3-5 years experience as a warehouse or facility supervisor, HND/Bsc in any related field

Interested and qualified candidates are encouraged to send CV to: jobs@stretchitconcepts.com

Lies of the Year

ublight:
Before you contact us, please read carefully.

The job is just to input prompts in chatgpt and copy the answers.

It is simple to do, trust me.

It is an educational material. Precisely basic science and technology for primary schools. Primary 6,5, and 4 only.

You are only to generate text, not images.

You will also generate questions after each lesson.

All you have to do is prompt chatgpt.

Again, you must use only chatgpt or grok. Only those 2 are ok

Which should we call. The one that ends in 6058 or 9795?

JoeSoapy:
Been seeing people talk about this survey side hustle lately on Twitter but can’t seem to get any that pays. But I know for sure that some folks are eating good from it

10 pounds a day do the maths and you only work for few hours

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A vacancy exists for a female Corp member seeking a PPA or a one-year industrial training student in Lekki Phase 1, interested in IT customer support.

Interested candidates should send their CVs to recruitment@zeta-web.com.

zoeymikey:
I don't have a laptop

In 2024?!

I see so many comments here on grades and all that...
All i can say is irrespective of what you graduated with, pick a career path that matches with your personality and stick to it, become better at it and get certifications. You're good! And this is for people who don't want to go through the skill route.

My brief; i went to university, Came out with 2.2 Ent and business mgnt.. when I started applying for roles, i was getting offers at the bottom of the food chain. Then i saw the need to upskill myself being that i was really good at managing people and bringing out performance in People. I begged my friend to take me up in his little organisation as an hr officer and was doing certifications, joined groups related to my line and got a mentor.. 6 months into that i updated my cv to a year as an hr officer and applied to a multinational company as a grad trainee in hr.. i got the job because i understood the basics.. Now I'm 4years in hr as a manager at my age.
Not to brag but I don't stress to get a new job.

In essence.. a degree doesn't stop you from developing yourself and standing out..

This is my experience and 2Cents.. I'm not here to argue but encourage someone.. byeee

Christmas celebrations in Nigeria have undergone significant changes over the years. Here are some key differences:

- Shift from traditional to modern practices: In the past, Christmas celebrations were deeply rooted in traditional practices, with a focus on community and family gatherings. Today, there's a noticeable shift towards more modern and Westernized practices, with an emphasis on individualism and consumerism.

- Increased commercialization: Christmas has become a major commercial event in Nigeria, with businesses and corporations capitalizing on the festive season to promote their products and services.

- Changes in traditional food and drinks: While traditional Nigerian dishes like jollof rice, fried chicken or goat, and tomato stew are still popular during Christmas, there's a growing trend towards more modern and Western-style cuisine.

- Growing influence of social media: Social media has become a significant factor in shaping Christmas celebrations in Nigeria. People now share their holiday experiences, traditions, and cultural practices online, creating a sense of community and connection.

- Increased focus on charity and giving: Many Nigerians now use Christmas as an opportunity to give back to their communities, with a growing emphasis on charity work, volunteering, and philanthropy.

- Changes in family dynamics: With more Nigerians living abroad or in urban areas, Christmas celebrations are no longer limited to traditional family gatherings. Many people now celebrate with friends, colleagues, or online communities because of the insecurities.

These changes reflect the evolving cultural, social, and economic landscape of Nigeria, while still maintaining the core spirit of Christmas as a time for celebration, giving, and community.

Olalan:
Dear Nairaland members please I need a decent two bedroom apartment in Lagos. Please I kindly drop your number if you know anywhere available on the mainland.

Where on the mainland?

Congratulations on your internship offer. Considering the cost of living in Abuja, consider the following expenses:

Monthly Expenses in Abuja
- Rent (single room in Lugbe): ₦150,000 - ₦180,000
- Feeding: ₦30,000 - ₦50,000
- Transportation: ₦40,000 - ₦60,000
- Utilities (electricity, water, etc.): ₦5,000 - ₦10,000
- Internet and phone bills: ₦5,000 - ₦10,000
- Miscellaneous (sundries, entertainment, etc.): ₦10,000 - ₦20,000

Total estimated monthly expenses: ₦120,000 - ₦200,000

Given your internship salary of ₦100,000, it might be challenging to cover all expenses, especially considering the high cost of living in Abuja.

Factors in Your Favor
1. Frugal lifestyle: Your simple and non-materialistic lifestyle will help reduce expenses.
2. Upcoming NYSC allowance: Your NYSC allowance will provide an additional source of income.
3. Potential for remote work: Your cloud/software engineering skills may open up opportunities for remote work, which could increase your earning potential.

Recommendations
1. Explore affordable accommodation options: Look for shared apartments or rooms outside Lugbe to reduce rent costs.
2. Budget and prioritize expenses: Create a budget and prioritize essential expenses over discretionary spending.
3. Develop a side hustle: Utilize your skills to develop a side hustle, such as freelancing or online tutoring, to supplement your income.
4. Prepare for NYSC: Plan ahead for your NYSC deployment and consider how you'll manage your finances during this period.

Overall, while ₦100,000 might be a tight budget for Abuja, your frugal lifestyle and potential for additional income sources will help. Be prepared to make adjustments and explore opportunities to increase your earning potential.

jericco1:
Surveys oo

It’s the only thing that makes sense for me.

What's this survey all about?

Veenbanks:
Synthetic trading. I bless the day for venturing into this industry.

What's this all about?

dauntless15:
Surveys and research, atleast 10pounds a day is sure.

How?

tope777:
=$1,160..that's basically some people forex trading earnings in a day.

They should also show us their loses.