₦airaland Forum

"When you "settle down" it means you have established an exclusive relationship, committing yourself to that one person, after being unmarried. This also means all your energies should be dedicated to making that relationship mutually beneficial to both of you. It is no more "me" mine" and "I" but "we" us" and "ours". Marriage has its highs and lows, but you learn a lot about yourself and the other person along the way.

Unfortunately it seems a lot of people get married for the wrong reasons and choose to do dishonourable things whilst married. When people focus on themselves and not the other person, they choose to live as though they are unsettled thus the extramarital boyfriends and girlfriends."

U too much.
U hit the nail right on the head.
"When people focus on themselves and not the other person, they choose to live as though they are unsettled thus the extramarital boyfriends and girlfriends."
U sound like some1 l know. which religions organisation do u belong?

u pple no go kill me.

He's jus 1 thief out of the hundreds in Abuja.
l wish they all face the music.

:-x :-x :-x

i just giggle.
cudnt lauf even when l had course to.

what a tight connection

@ poster.
Taste just twice and boys for that matter, then let me know how far.
Sincerely,l love twins, esp. identical twins, but cant handle it.
If am at home fully as a wife, then l can manage it, but certainly not with work.

dont even think about it.
Av got a boy as a 1st child and l know what became of me.
When l had the 2nd boy, its as if all hell were let loose.
Kids are interesting n am happy to have them, but they can also be a handful.
Imagine 1 having 4 at the same time.
its WHAT THE HELL?

The 3rd pics,
is that a Dog or its relation.
with the leg, it looks like a dog.

WHAT THE HELL?
Seriously, am in love with the 1st pics.
though stressful but interesting and terrific.

ok yek.

a joke with d highest personality in the entire universe involved.
its 2 big. jus dont, ok.

Av seen it b4, but it stil make an interestin read.
Jokes asides, its fact about most women.

stil trying to laugh.

Were ni e.
LOL

yeah

Wonders they say shall never end.

wuld choose to be a doctor. Ordinarily wuld av choose to be a lawyer,
but not appy with the way some doctors are handling healthcare in Nigeria.
Am a very patient person, so l'l be glad to help those that are in need of sound healthcare delivery.

My Husband felt deeper love for our 1st son when l had him, probably because that was his first.
He still love his kids, but not as much as when the 1st 1 came.
A mother's love does not diminished. So we cant compare.
Very few men love dia kids as much as their wives.
Nice piece though.

the painful aspect of this situation is that some of us consult the general hospital
because of their expertise.
Av patronise several private hospital and realize that they seem to want you to keep coming so that u'l obviously keep paying.
l was once treated for malaria in a private hospital while pregnant.
l went back 2 days after to complain of painful urination and the Dr.(another Dr. in the same hosp.) said l av infection.
i paid for treatment and to my amazement i realized l was given almost the same drug for both treatment with the exception of the injection which l dont know the content.
l didnt realise this until after taking the overdose.
When l went back, l overheard d 2nd Dr. telling the nurse that he didnt check my casenote.
that's a mistake they will hardly make in general hospital.
The government needs to do something about the inhumane treatment metted out to patients in those hospitals.
anyway, they (govt) wuldnt care cus they dont patronise them.

@ dani.
nice joke

@ poster.
what do u think?

this is joke section, u can ask d moderators or seun
to open a riddle section or better still take it to romance.

really?

luck seem to b finding him.
as long as patience remain patience with herself n not get carried away with tummy tuck
she should be fine

supporters of olden day marriage seem to think women are d problem in modern day marriage.
I think its both ways. Why i aprecia8 olden day marriage 4 it values, l prefer modern day marriage 4 its balance.
Those wu hav d fear of God and really wants to be a role model to their children, imbibe the values in olden day marriage into their modern day marriage.
In those days men seem to marry out of necessity (children),not love and treats their wives as slave or second class citizen, but now, its suppose to be love and care on the part of the man while the woman reciprocate the love and care together with respect. that doesnt mean the man should not respect his wife as well.

I'll neva blame tuface, but the women.
Am sure he didnt ask any1 of them to get pregnant 4 him.
even if he did, if does woman have dignity, they will not accept.
They wanted to have kids 4 a celeb.

Nigerians
or Ibo/Yoruba
Which 1 r u?

@ Nelson
LOL 4 studioCFR