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anonymuz:
bro that's exactly what I'm experiencing too. She caring very emotional....I once used attitude but e no work. Tried communication bridge e no work too.

Tell her you want to build your career. Your career is the utmost now, it might work.

Zinny25:
I wonder y good guys meet bad gals and good gals meet bad guys. I just tire now I see y they say like charges repel and unlike charges attract.


Please all these good guys sef where una dey Na only bad gals una dey jam. Because almost all the threads in this romance side are similar

The matter tire me too sisi... .

To the OP your ex was a player but you never saw it.
Having male friends is not a bad idea, but always hanging out with them and passing the night in their place is a big problem.
She was cheating on you period.

I know it's hard to let go but you just have to let it happen. If you venture go back and apologize, she would toil with your emotions again.

I don't know why bad things always happen to good people.

franchasng:
its really pathetic. A friend in US once told me about some Nigerian guys living in the US as citizens working in top companies but they are still doing wire fraud to make $millions to come back and pose like billionaires from other peoples sweat.

We Nigerians are too selfish, too wicked when it comes to money and very crooked.

What excuse does a guy living in USA legally as a citizen working in a blue chip company doing Yahoo Yahoo have to give Will he say its unemployment that pushed him to start internet scam when he is gainfully employed in a big firm in a lovely country that cares for her people

Greed is the bane of our society. We are just too greedy with money, its a sorry situation for Nigeria reason we can't seem to get it right with our leadership

It's so pathetic.

franchasng:
my dear don't blame the ladies o, guys are crooks! When a Nigerian guy decides to scam a lady, no god will save her o. My anger and worry is why are Nigerian guys so mean and heartless in issues of life

We are too selfish, reason we do money ritual using other people's life, engage in robbery and all sorts of social vices just to outshine others as if life is a competition.

Nigeria is bleeding from all angles

This is coming from a male on nairaland, that means all hope is not lost.

I can point to some male friends working and earning good salary but are still into yahoo things. They scam white ladies all in the name of love, worse thing is two amongst them are married.

franchasng:
When u read or hear the action of some men, u will begin to wonder if they are humans or animals with donkey brain. Seriously, I still find it difficult to understand the reason behind some people's action in life.

Life is truly weird seriously

And the lady that he got married to didn't ask him the source of his money. Or rather do her own investigation.
Some ladies are only good at investigating if their boyfriends are cheating or not.

We should cultivate the habit of investigating any personality we want to settle down with, far or near. We should ask questions.

iceboo:
Lol. I saw the job advert too ND I was wondering

Lol. No be small..

NinaJoy:
Me too o,I wonder and wot a weird test too,let's wait den

Yeah.

missyojo:
I applied for the Customer Service Officer position and I was sent a mail with a link to write the online test but on opening the link, the response I got was error occurred. I sent a mail to them with the response I got but I haven't been responded to. Please anyone who has experienced this should tell me what to do. Thanks

Same with me dear, but I saw the advert for same position yesterday. They are funny people, is it that none of us passed the test?... I'm just wondering.

His late wife was a desperado. See what impatience has caused, six months to his release she couldn't just wait.

I pray they grant his request. And for the kids, growing up without their biological parents, I can imagine what they are going through.

I'm happy for those that were shortlisted. At all all na e bad pass.

I made enquiries on this Edubridge, I decided to pause. After free online training by google, they expect me to go and pay such huge amount for training. The most painful part is, they tagged it Graduate trainee.

May God help us in this country.

Pweezy:
Pls does anyonw have d link to apply for DSA at Union Bank

Workforce group recruits for them. If their office is close to you, go there.

The man should relocate please. The margin is so huge.
I have an aunt who was in a situation like this. She is a nurse in shell. She got married to a man who is not working (it was just street hustle). The man relocated but believe me, the man is the one controlling her bank a/c till date and thank God the man is not a Gold digger too. It all boils down to humility on the woman's part.
They put heads together and formed a private school, the man was made the Director of the school. The school is one of the best and most expensive in their location now.
But I know pride won't let some men do it.

I can relate. This research is correct.

If you are working already and earning above 100k and not married, I would suggest you buy a land because land value appreciates. But if it is the opposite start up a business. It depends on your location too.

My one cent.

Nice

I received a mail for an interview, but I'm a bit confused here because of the Chinese language inscribed in the mail.
Name of sender/company in Chinese and some other things. I need help.

Touchinglives:
have an offer in Edo

I'm interested
Can I send a pm?

Aitee1:
You won't learn now tomorrow you'll be blaming her for giving birth to "ikot antia"

Please could you tell me the meaning of antia?

pocohantas:
C'mon keep kwayet. If they say they won't marry naw, una go still call them feminist and evening newspaper. While reminding them of menopause, as if you are the gatekeeper of the womb.

What she did is what you all have been advising women to do. "Invest in their broke/hustling boyfriends". You still wan yab her.





That said, this account seems to be a corporate account.

. . Jesu...

But the guy is damn heartless. 2.9 million is no joke.
This is the height of betrayal of trust.

coldFLARES1:
I tells you!! Even before getting married, I've never been favourably disposed to liquidating for weddings, however, a combination of factors changed that.

But now, even my wife had been conscripted into the army of favorites for "lowkey/budget" weddings. The costs of wedding can make one suffer financial dislocation too early in marriage. I just hope people ignore the glam and simply do what what is legal and customary.

Let him who has ear, let him hear.

coldFLARES1:
Well, that's you that won't allow the glam of a church wedding constitute yet a needless drain. Well, I saw/was requested to do some stuff quite similar to those in the list by an Anglican Church in Warri.

Na so I cut rope follow my in-laws and bluntly told them I don't have the cheese to foot such bills. Eventually, they paid and I had my peace.

These situations arise because women have tend to deify pastors and make them wield powers that appear to be more than those of parents during the wedding process. Now tell why people don't simply want to do traditional marriage and forget all these drags?

Perhaps, the feeling of the white wedding gown that makes these ladies look gorgeous that day I guess, because I know if majority of them encourage their husband to be not to do church wedding they would definitely succumb to it.
I may be wrong though.

Imagine saving whole lot of money for a wedding that would last just few hours. People come eat, drink and go. Then the evening of it, the real marriage starts.

NwaOhafia:
its suppose to be traditional wedding and then have a pastor pray for you and thats all. But you know our african mentality wont let us to that

It's still a matter of choice though...

NwaOhafia:
Christianity needs to encourage church wedding.

I remember by service year at Akwa ibom. Throughout my stay there, it was only one wedding that recorded in the entire village. The rest was just-park-your-load-come-join-me

Traditional wedding and church wedding which is more important?

If I'm in the church I would go for traditional marriage and ask any man of God to come bless my wedding ring for me that same day. It would save me and hubby a lot of expenses.
Church wedding is for fancy.

hopexter:
Not if the guy is everything to her, joy and happiness would never be the same again. Nigerians usually don't condescend to suicide instead they embrace depression which is usually where they find safety. This is where you know that life no sweet at all.

Moving on is a choice. I rest my case. Do have a lovely day.

charliebiz:
Excuse me for shooking mouth on this una love matter but why this kind response. You not married but in a relationship or you looking for a reason to leave that relationship. Ladies, please be straight forward. Some guys like me hands off ladies in a relationship. Response like this sounds like you ready to jump ship.

You're funny.
Have a nice day.
CIAO!

hopexter:
How can someone go through something as terrible as that? I don't understand what you mean move on in such a heart shattering situation. You can only pretend to move on in such a case cos usually it takes years to completely move on.

Do you want her to wallow in depression then maybe think of committing suicide first?
Unless she has committed series of abortions for the said guy, hence she can wallow in depression and pains for a very long time.

Life is sweet, not until you realize some things are not worth dying for then it would be very easy for you to quickly move on.

Antipob777:
The same way one useless Igbo ipob guy used me for seven years, ate my monies, food and married another girl at my back while still dating me.

He used my money to pay bride price and wed.

Igbo guys are criminals and will never go unpunished.

He enjoyed everything in me and left nothing for others to enjoy.


Thunder will scatter him.

7 years is much babe. I hope karma visits him soon.

Oma307:
lol, I need serious response

I'm not married. Hope you're cool with my answer now?

Oma307:
hope you are married now if not I am available

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