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pray a lot. then indulge yourself in things that don't remind you of your relationship-work and all else,
whatever the case, only God can see you through

that's sad. maybe the writers couldn't keep the storyline of a repeated day. . either that or the station couldn't afford broadcasting it anymore.

@poster,

2 wrongs never make a right bro. you shoulda let karma take care of the chic instead of taking the law into your own hands, walked out of the relationship when you noticed her love for vanity. this bad habit would have gotten her into trouble sooner or later.without you instigating it.

as for advicing her like a sister,can't tell you what to do just know, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

God!

don't know if you are sexist or just deluded if u believe the crap you just posted. there is an equal number of non-marriage material males to females, if at all,there's an inbalance,males definitely take the cake

do you disagree? place your proof.i think we would all like to know how you got to find this so-called info

hahaha, nice one Cayon

@poster
don't understand why you would ask someone to state a reason as to why they haven't fallen in love yet. it means the person either hasn't met the right person or whatever. no one can state a reason for not falling in love.
and nope.haven't been in love before.most things we see on TV are just fiction or very rare

LisaM31
ver@y sorry about d heartbreak, words can only do little. haven't been heartbroken but i know this much
you need time to heal. obviously its going to be hard doing things without the guy you spent such a significant part of your life with. try not to rush anything. you can't be friendly with him just yet. you need to cry all the hurt out before you can truly move on. don't subject yourself to indoor stay throughout. from time to time, be among close friends and family.you know, the people whom you trust the most, when you see your ex,try not to focus on the hurt he caused, but look on the bright side- YOU WOULD RATHER NOT WANT TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH YOU!. at least he wasnt leading you on
might seem like a long time but soon enough this phase would be in the past.something you would have learnt a lot of lessons from.and you'd get your very own prince charming someday
hope you believe in God. as a solid christian, i think the medicine you need and should seek is God.pray fervently for him to see you through this. He sees your hurt and definitely hasn't forgotten you. cast all your cares at his feet.
wish you alla the luck dear

thanks everyone especially sistawoman. that helped

left me more confused than i was before

people i'm still waiting, anyone in d house?

This might seem funny to some people but seriously,i'd like to know in detail, what it means when someone says he/she has "feelings" for another person. what are feelings exactly? romantically speaking i mean, is it of fondness or what?,
and it would be nice if its not explained in a 'butterflies in your stomach' kinda way.(i don't get that description)
really need ur help guys.no insults i dey beg

NO BE LOOKS I GO CHOP!
sadly so, looks in guys doesn't do so much these days. money talks in all the languages.

If that's what love's all about, i choose never to love, God forbid. wasting your only life for no good reason. really feel for the parents,relatives, and friends. may their souls rest in perfect peace

the answer to this is simple, -DIEFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS!!!. kapish

@ Tope2000,
so love the way you put that statement, abeg tell them. their cheating ways have reasons, but in a girls case,she's condemned as a HO!!!!!

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The first thing a man looks at in a babe or lady are her boobs.

[quote][/quote]ok, seriously, i doubt that's the case cause it if is that means the minds of all males are highly perverted. that's just nasty. if i could know that that's what a guy looks at when near me, i'd safely keep my distance.especially when i'm not revealing any inch of my boobs whatsoever.  even the thought makes me sick. guys control yourselves

@ sista jay. think you meant 'stepford' and not 'bedford' wife. except of course,it was said that way on purpose.
@ poster,
dont you need to be a full time housewife to do all that, cause seriously, even at that, doing the afore mentioned is not very feesible. you need to be very jobless, very hardworking, and very desperate on being a husband pleaser. i mean seriously, its all bull. its a good thing you dont agree with whoever made that up. i know i won't do all those things, lai lai. in as much as i want to keep the hubby happy.
and besides, doing all that won't guarantee your husband not having a fling with someone else. you might be the homekeeper but not the bedkeeper if you get my drift. men are wicked species, so don't be decieved. no offence intended

i see. kpele o. hard i know. never fallen in love so cant say

too many pick up lines are annoying. you hear new, different, crappy ones each time. anything involving the words 'baby, familiar, love" at 1st sight always annoys me. and how dare you call me shawty. seriously dont. anytime shit like that happens, i just ignore the joker. silence is usually the best answer, provided you dont touch me or anything

well said Seun.
guess its just part of karma. na so life be .
do u really mean you were a player or you just had an open relationship, as in non exclusive. cause it doesnt sound like you were being a player

Class matters and will always matter especially in this present age, that's a fact, no one should ever pretend it doesnt, that one na white lie

are you dating 1?, if so, try o, wish u luck?

my best should be Pierce Brosnan and Roger Moore, love their movies

@ poster
abeg live your life jare. there aint nothing wrong with not being hooked up. especially if its by choice. take your time. doesnt mean you'd be alone forever. i'm single too and honestly don't think i'm missing much. even if i am, dont really care. nothing do u my brother.
but just a question, how old are you?(if you dont mind)

definitely a tricky and dicey issue. don't really like the idea. anything can happen. that girl might be a jezebel, or the bobo fit loose control. or still, nothing fit happen. just thing the couple should sit down and talk it out. he might find an alternative way to his present living situation, who knows . just need to communicate

Wise? errrr, NO. . does it happen? hell yeah. sometimes turns out the ex and the best friend are made for each other. got a lot of disadvantages to it undoubtedly, but some cases you just can't help. would be easier if you date someone else though, but, shit happens sometimes. na so life be. wouldnt want to be in such a position sha, too much drama. it kinda depends on the case sha. for further answers, consult the series, one tree hill if you dont already watch it

well, if your sure you love the other girl, you just gotta sum up courage and tell your poor fiancee.   it sucks being the dumped one.  you seem to have a working conscience so obviously you feel bad.  nothing can be done now, just make sure you hurry to tell her. postponing the inevitable just makes things get a lot worse, plus, you dont want her to hear the news from elsewhere.   you obviously care a lot for her. she might be crushed, but it would be better than faking love.   the truth is bitter but must be said one way or another.
   wont it be great if her soulmate was around the corner just waiting for the opportunity , or that she is actually in love with another .   that would be perfect and a very beautiful situation in my book.     bottom line. just sit her down and spill the beans.  
BUT BEWARE- MAKE SURE U TRULY LOVE THE OTHER CHIC, I WISH U ALL THE LUCK

don't keep a diary.personally see it as a bad idea. i keep a journal which is kinda boring and is readable by friends and family. no bad secretive things i dont want someone finding out is written there. do it mostly for fun. its nice reliving your past events when you go through it. u make reverence practically.