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@ poster
u really cracked me up with this one, LMAO

abeg shun that thing, i have to say it, my guy no try @ all, he doesn't need to go to extreme lenghts for a proposal but seriously if any guy proposed to me that way, i wont find it funny one bit, i'm not so into all those romantic mushy mushy stuff and i dont want anyone assemblig heaven and earth for me, but proposing in such an UNNICE and BLAND way is unacceptable. enough to get anyone pissed, dem force you to marry? no be by force abeg, guess its true what they say, familiarity brings contempt, tufiakwa

ok personally, i cant give an age limit for someone to be able to be in a relationship, cause of different people and their levels of maturity, but i dont think it wise for people,especially girls to get in a relationship below 13yrs of age-especially not anything longterm or serious, they do tend to be vulnerable and somewhat unrealistic at this age(not generalizing) and at that young age, they dont easily grasp and believe that everything changes and there's no guarantee in life, there's no assurance the person you are with would always be as good, and there would be forever for the both of you, besides,if u start dating young, the chances of engaging in something sexual is increased by far, some people can become emotional wrecks and have long lasting traumas, there's a whole lot of negative to talk about so i wouldnt advice people below teen and early teen level to date, i'm 19,never been in a relationship( totally my choice ) due to personal reasons and i am kinda weird so, life is stress free and i love it that way, a bit lonely on a few occasions but its beats unneccessary drama, i would be in 1 eventually- with a dream prince who loves me more and we'd have a happy life together, at least that's what i hope for,
@poster, hope i didnt derail too much from what you asked , SORRY , good topic for discussion though

as they say, some doors cant be closed once they are opened. the case of lost virginity is 1 and i have to say, whoever thinks all that are virgins are that way because of lack of opportunity, has serious issues within. analysing it, i'd render the statement very irrational and generalized. its true some people would like 2 do, but dont have the opportunity , some have ample chances but choose not to do due to their personal reasons, in a case of sexual assaults,guess that situation could not be helped, the point being, whoever believes in the statement does so,because he/she is most likely not a virgin and finds comfort in believing such a sick thought, as people have rightly said, ita a mere consolotary prize for their sorry lives (hope i'm not too harsh) , as i am a virgin myself, i would firmly say, it aint a lack of opportunity, but a choice made due to my beliefs , kapish!!!!!

i kinda get people's fears on this whole love issue cause its a very delicate and dicey issue, its either the fear of being vulnerable and getting hurt or having to go through all the stress of truely loving someone, hell, some people are even afraid they'd never meet their perfect person or end up pushing the person away, and i get that, even i have that fear, but all in all guess the only thing u can do is wait ur time, be open to possibilities and let things play out, wetin man go do, i can only hope the timing is right

I absolutely hate midnight calls, i usually dont stay up late and so, once i'm sound asleep, i hate any form of disturbance especially with my phone, especially if its from someone i really dont want to hear from,i could probably kill you!!!, people who absolutely want to talk to me can buy credit and do it in the day, if i'm not asleep by midnight,then i guess its all good

i think crossing legs 4 girls is nice and comfortable, I,for one, do it a lot, as for guys, there is a way i think is appropriate for guys-not a lady way n definitely not a gay way!!, to me its all good,provided it doesnt look gross

save d last dance was a dumb movie to me, didnt like it. d part 2 was even more wacked than part 1. too much of a cliche sorry.plus dont think ballet n hip hop dance should ever be merged together.bad idea, honey was ok, jessica alba was da bomb and i loved the end dance, but i have to say, Step up definitely takes the title.the acting,actors, plot, dance was nicely executed, very nice movie to me, the best of the 3

just make sure u dont say any stupid things like 'i love u so much' or 'i can cross the ocean for u',all those stupid lines that are impossible to do, especially if u just met for the same time, u wont even cross the nearest stream for me, all those kind of lines just make me want to throw drinks in guys faces, what rubbish! i'm not a saucy bitch or snob but there are some things i just do not tolerate, and i totally agree with anyone who says this, if you use a wrong approach, i wont give my number ( at least the correct one), and when u give me yours i'd toss it in the nearest dustbin. u dey craze? who wants to get to know the other, me or you? and you want me to waste my own credit, no freaking way?, mail is the best option, that way u cant cut the line, goodluck

thanks so much u guys, ibkaye, jek_kad, mesmerize, HR.hotness, gamine, nana, guess i'm not so weird afterall,

just wanted to ask a couple of things, Is it possible that at the age of 19,you still havn't met anyone u can say you see in a romantic light, as in you want to have a relationship with? not that i havnt met some very good guys, am i just deceiving myself?, just never seen them in that light.plus if they're in my class and my age, the whole thing just seems weird, i'm just very good friends with them, how can u know u really genuinely like/love someone?(please no butterflies in my belly descriptions, i don't get that), generally when my good male friends start wanting more, they start to irritate me and then i give them space? is that normal?, and how do u turn someone down nicely? someone very good? i hate being the heartbreaker, its not fun at all and i don't lead people on, i need answers to all these and related things.please no harsh words or criticisms, i get enough of that, any contributions would greatly help, thanks in advance

i don't like taking pictures cause i am just so NOT-photogenic. i don't know what else to try. i used to be when i was little but i don't know what has happened. things just went haywire. i dont know what is going to happen on my wedding day. situation is critical

whao, its been ages i posted anything here. like 5 months. missed you guys.med school is stressing.from the look of things the show will wrap up on monday 31st, and it better. new year, new program abeg.welcome second chance. us that dont have GOTEL or the other channels can now enjoy the show too, thank God. wonder who shot carmelo. my guess is marcelo came back to do the job or don chucho, but i think thats unlikely.or maybe something is wrong with carmelo's gun and it shoots backwards

i totally have the hots for sawyer, love him through n through- accent n everything. did sawyer ever bang kate , i also like sayid, charlie n some other peeps, not really feeling jack but he's an ok leader, see what michael's love for his son has made him do. pls what happened on d last ep of season 3. wasn't able to watch. any info would help,thanks. @ big spif, who is the dude guy?

code and max are beginning to suck with all their gossip

@kevin, apology accepted, guess i too wasn't explanatory enough with the statement. could someone pls give catalina a brain cause it seems she is going to give in to amelia's ridiculous offer

@kevin. i know seb didn't try to kill eduardo. i only said he was accused of trying to kill him, didn't u read my english. and what makes u so Goddamn sure that carmelo isn't guadalupe's son? it hasn't been mentioned anywhere. i've watched all eps till date so pls get ur facts straight. let's just wait n see. don't get ahead of urself

i think carmelo might be guadalupe's son, but who knows. maybe martina or sebastian would turn out not to be his but let's wait n see. i'm so happy finally a different thrill to the program, the so called ''sebastian wanted to murder eduardo'' saga. entertainment finally. the seb-cat fight was really old

well they started 2day, but the naija girl doesn't look nigerian at all. she doesn't even talk naija. anyhow i wish she doesn't Bleep up. we have 2 wild girls already

d ones i ahte are the really cliche ones like when something falls and they both bend down to get it,then there's this AMOS-awkward moment of silence and they eventually makeout. :Psucks. not because of the scene itself but because too many people have done it.

watched only 1 ep. its kinda ok sha. boma n d yoruba girl r pretty

i pray this show makes significant headway soon and the so called 6 months ends cause i'm kinda tired already. could carmelo really be antoinette and guadalupe's supposedly dead son? a storm is definitly comin to that family. goodluck 2 them

the whole cast in this show ( and the protagonists especially ) as well as in all other mexican soaps have the same major problem. THEY ARE TOO STUPIDLY NAIVE!!!! how could catalina fall for amelia trick n why is sebastian so impulsive not even waiting to watch out for what would happen b/w his wife and eduardo? well its their sorry stupidity that leads them to wahala. the repitition in the show is 1 of the things that really annoys me. carmelo- i'm the boss's son. i'm a mendoza. eduardo- i'll not stop tryin to get catalina. i'm sure she still loves me. adela- we have to make catalina marry carmelo. its what's best for her and the family, and so on. the list is endless. so much crap

have they stopped d program cause i had the chance 2 watch it on 2 occassions but they didn't show it. if they've finished please tell me what happened?anyone could help

i know lorenzo would end up with silvia, laura would get what she deserves but i honestly don't know what would happen to isabella, do you? and what about alex. how would nati take the news about giocamo being gay?

hey iice, take it easy.a guy is romantic doesn't mean his wimpy or a girl pants(hopefully). in this part of our world i could probably count how many guys are romantic with my fingers only. anyway 1 of the most important things is he should definitely not tell me he loves me when we've never met or just met. its so annoying and cliche`. i could never be that gullible

the idea of sucking face and exchanging saliva is enough to gross anyone out so try not to take it personally.( i for 1 cant imagine doing it but its inevitable at some point) and also she doesnt want to give in to temptation so go easy on her. is she really loves you and is a good girl, its worth the wait. kudos

amongst the other qualities already mentioned, my ideal man should b someone who isn't so touchy feely. always looking for the chance to rub some part of your body. i don't know why but this really irritates me. if it gets so bad i can scream get ur hands off me!!! stay on your own sometimes abeg. again, if a guy so much as raises a finger against me for a really dumb reason, its only by heaven's name i'll forgive him. i am definitely not 1 to boost his stupid ego and pride

thanks mustay. all your updates are really helping. just want you to know how your efforts are greatly appreciated. keep it up

adela and ricardo really crack me up. if only luisa and catalina new it was a scam. let's see how far dis game is gonna go. sebastian's dad is gonna kill him because of his emergency wedding

dealt as in slept or what?

@ emad. the only imitation of 2 can play that game that i know of is break up starring ramsey nouah, genevieve n others and it was good. which one is honey again? and 2 rats was funny. at least when i watched it a few years ago