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Sonnobax15:
See who's talking about wisdom

you can't just justify what's wrong simply because you were a victim of it or because you threw yours away cheaply in exchange for indomie noodles and like two eggs.....

I know you ain't a virgin,na why you dey feel pained be that But relax sis,so long you've got a good character besides your slacked towtow,you may be lucky enough to get one Aboki who's gonna propose to you someday.

I think we should close this thread already o
imagine what a human is saying to another human

is this the kind of abuse people are willing to face all in the name of marrying a virgin?
yall should imagine this person as a woman that was married as a virgin

enjoy yaself baba, i hope you had an orgasm after your rants

jmoore:
Virginity means no sex.

Do men have vagina/hymen?

It takes character to abstain from all manners of sex.

You're mixing things up oga.
According to English Language, virginity remains intact as long as there's been no PENETRATION, regardless of other dirty things you've done. So one can claim to be a Virgin and yet engage in all sorts of impurity.

And the fact that men have no hymen and hence no clear means of knowing their status is one of the main reason why the virginity debate is so unfair! You think many girls are Virgins because they're "willing"? Many are just scared due to the culture we practice here.

Elxandre:
Funny.
Let's say virgins have self control.
Does self control make 100% of good character?
Does it make one respectful?
Does it make one loyal?
Does it make one patient and not hot tempered?
Does it make one considerate and generous?
Does it make one honest and truthful
Does it make one non-manipulative?


Christians make it seem like sexual purity is the only virtue preached in the Bible, whereas it's just one of them.

That's exactly my argument.
God bless you big.

As if virginity is what keeps a family or marriage.
No one is encouraging promiscuity, it's just about speaking facts and truth

snowat:
There is nothing funny here Mrs, you are just too ignorant to Know that anal penetration looses one's virginity, being a virgin as a guy or a lady means not having having any form of sex, self control and being disciplined. Both in males and females. Being a virgin is like having some good characters, you just need little more to be the perfect girl or guy that anyone wants.

Nooo
If you're adding all those things to virginity, then you're already talking about character. VIRGINITY means NO VIRGINA PENETRATION, regardless of other sexual activity.

snowat:
it's very rear to see a virgin do that, and much more common in non-virgins. Talking about character, you haven't met a lady you think she is of good character, and ended up being a devil. LOL, I pity you. It's better to look for a virgin First and then check for good character, so as not loosing on both side. You can't tell me it's impossible to find a virgin with good character, because being a virgin entails discipline, self control and good moral.

I get your point because there's always an exception in everything.
We all also have different things we look for in marriages and relationships so our preferences would always differ.

But after getting a Virgin, what happens after you've had your first sex? Does it guarantee her not going after men since there won't be a "meter" to read anymore?

Have you also considered the condition that led to losing the virginity? What if she was forced or just purely ignorant? Just as you said, people can also change.

And when I say non Virgins, I'm not talking about people who have turned themselves to prostitues but those who have just lost that "status".

Sonnobax15:
It's good to console yourself especially when you ain't a virgin

exactly what we are talking about!
its your type that would insult your wife over the slightest misunderstanding

you might be a virgin but you lack wisdom.

coolsegun2002:
A Virgin is a Virgin..... not someone that has pressed, penetrated in the asss.... and all sort except the vag!na.....

See..it is almost impossible to find a woman discipline enough not to let men ravage her body with several abortions to match....and not have a good balance of other good characters...,.

U are trying to paint a hypothetical situation of a nasty virgin woman vs a hoe that is kind and humble with all the nice character in the world..,
The world hardly ever works this way...

Have you seen a hoe that is humble
Hoes are usually arrogant and proud, especially when they meet with the people who are below their customers class.
if you tell me of a virgin that has the other fruit of the spirit, sweet! but i would always take a girl who is generally good in character than a saucy girl who carries the status of a vrigin.

Its like taking a virgin man thats a wife beater over a non-virgin but calm and caring husband

diplomatic thank you

coolsegun2002:
It takes lot of discipline not to spread legs anyhow...discipline is hard, discipline is not minute....

i think i just quoted your other message with an answer to this.

so many people engages in all other sexual act asides penetration just so they could maintain the status of a "virgin"... whats the point??

also, virginity status would end one day, but character continues to define you till you die.

coolsegun2002:
U don’t get it..... not spreading legs anyhow is good character

character embodies so many things, and "not spreading leg" is just a minute fraction of it.
a person could have self control when it comes to sexual escapades but that same person could rain insults that could lead another person to depression.

Character is what sustains marriage, not virginity.

I feel this was an intentional and subtle message from the USA

demitola:
That's very good! This funny youthful generation would rather be calling their father's mate a mad man (Soro soke weyrey). How do you get some meaningful response by that?

While you might be right, I still believe that everyone who took part in the protest played their own important roles and no one should be tagged negatively.

As a matter of fact, those people deserve more credit coz they were the ones that withstood guns and intimidation from security operatives during the whole time, while they constitute the larger number of those who died as heroes in this struggle.

We see alot of constructive comments everywhere and everyday, and experts are always talking excellent ideas on TV and radio on a daily bases. Do you think government would have taken things serious if there were no persons occupying the streets day and night?

It was a team work and everybody played their parts perfectly well, so let's not look down on any set of persons coz of the way they choose to make their grievances known. This is the same attitude we're trying to get rid of from the political class.

The fear of the unknown go make girls leave guy wey no get money

Who came to share movie scripts here

ive been avoiding this post for like almost four days coz i know say go almost cry with the different stories wey go dey.

They keep screaming FAKENEWS until they can no longer hide.

If it's FAKENEWS then they should take legal actions against Sahara Reporters.

We haven't forgotten the Shi'ite massacre yet.
They kept lying until the were exposed.

Click like if you checked the mirror but still don't know where you belong

Melvinism99:
And you think he would have defeated buhari?

TELL ME SOMETHING

Youths are yet to understand what's behind an election and that'll be our greatest undoing in 2023.

freshvine:
Cross Riverians behave like oyibo people

They really really do!
I spent four months there last year. It was a whole new level of experience for me. Except for the burning of thieves sha

I just like this man. Hardly will you hear anyone speak against him.

Man retired in perfect peace. Even imoke is hardly heard of.

There's a new wave of corona in the West already, with even more staggering numbers than the first wave and countries have started going into lockdown again.

I just hope it doesn't get in here to avoid wasting months and people's life to another lockdown.

ZIINI:
Abi kini gbogbo radarada yii bayi

Radarada gbaaa

HRHQueenPhil:
I pray for an educated ibo man. I love how they spoil their wives.
Am not a fan of delta and bayelsa..hoping for someone to change my mind

You're mistaken with Delta. I'm Deltan and all my uncles treat their wives very well.

Nigerian couples are always fighting but never stop producing babies

Don't be quick to judge.

But when you hear "thanks for the call my brother in the Lord", just know that you've become the chief corner stone of friend zone.