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[quote author=j-girl link=topic=141281.msg2362615#msg2362615 date=1213236137]Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!
Antidote you have killed me!
i've not even stated my preferences on the lip issue yet because i don't look at lips but I'm thankful for the ones i have now.[/quote]I have?awwwwwwwwwww, torry torry oooo, my bad , Was just keeping it real, [quote author=~Xerxes~ link=topic=141281.msg2362618#msg2362618 date=1213236236]I think i prefer weed-smoking lips. . . . . .Thick and very dark.
It epitomises toughness, ruthlessness and i don't give a hoot. [/quote]Pul ease, Think about if electricity goes and you turn around to face your hubby, smack in your face with those "hell-ugly lips" I would scream like Jason and Freddie were about to devour moi

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=141281.msg2362598#msg2362598 date=1213235587]don't let me get X-rated here. but what do you honestly think is going through those girls' minds? They are probably wishing they could kiss you and it stirs up emotions in them. In other words, you cause emotions in women![/quote]LOL, Dont get me started in here, J -Girl there is difference between having pale sexy lips and those lips that resemble lipstick pink( that's gay jor )

But honestly, I would rather put my delicious labia-dentals on a pale-lipped dude than one who looks like he has been passing the dutchi pon de left hand side, since he was 4

[quote author=amber_ella link=topic=17478.msg2362323#msg2362323 date=1213227635]lol - You wouldn't know either way. A true lady never spills her secrets. [/quote]LOL, you tell him, We might give you a water-down version, but NEVER the real deal

sheniqua:
I left for a couple of hours and here I am again.

Ga lang, I am enjoying the thread, May God have mercy on some these Pastors souls

@Jenny and Osisi, you guys are still here?  I may have to contact the pastors of both y'all churches to hook up Mr. Jenny and Mr. Osisi with new wives

lalaboi:
thats what u'll say! i bet you're putn on an attatchment rightnow!

Men and their warped thinking ,

I dont need attachments dear, I was beautifully created by the Master himself. If God wanted me to have long nails he would have made me with them,

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. You poor thing, Had the fever too and migraine, but its this freakum weather, Don't worry I emptied the man's bottle of vodka, It must knock it out by force

[quote author=amber_ella link=topic=17478.msg2362164#msg2362164 date=1213225050]Anytime someone I love or care about is in need, I want to help. Of course I would offer to help if I had a boyfriend who was going through hard times.
What is money, anyway? What is it worth, if not to take care of our loved ones?

There are more important things in life than having fake hair and nails!![/quote]

I just love this girl , Well said honey. Life entails so much more, It's funny how we take things for granted,

arianne:
assumin its the truth like u suggested, is being compatible a bad thing, would he rather ba happier always on the other side of the page, when he's up, she'd down or when she's in , he's out? besides i believe filal fondness takes awhile.
after saying i love you in spanish abi?

Did I imply such?

I dont believe any two people are alike, and yes compatibility is important even in platonic relationships, The thing is many of us don't under the meaning of compatility, We somehow misconstud it with stupidity,


[quote author=j-girl link=topic=141213.msg2362050#msg2362050 date=1213223193]@ Topic, Just as usual. He's found someone else.
THe thing about this is that if you feel you're too comfortable with someone - you start taking things for granted. Maybe he's actually too compatible with her[/quote]Where have you been all day? You've hit the hammer on the nail hon,

arianne:
a friend of mine @work is on the verge of breaking off her relationship of 2yrs with her guy. she said they begun dating while he was in nigeria and upon his departure they decided to make it official as in a committed relationship.basically, the rest of the relationship as been ova the phone and occasional visits which she makes abroad . the guy came back 2 weeks ago and came up with this line of how they are too close and too compatible to be lovers and says they're better off as close friends, that brother & sister kind of friendship thing. clearly my friends upset but i feel theres more to it than meets the eye. first of all , i thought compatibily was a thumbs up for any relationship, and secondly i believe the brother & sister sort of friendship thing takes time to build up, how can u claim to be too close or too compatible with someone u barely dated for about 6 months before your trip i think she needs to find out more, what do yáll think??

Gave the guy the benefit of the doubt.Maybe, just maybe he is telling the truth for once, On a lighter note, men are known to spew shit when inside a different saga is waging war, Being honest with one's self is the best therapy one can offer,

I have, not too sure if I would again though, It depends,

Again, without losing any calories, this is a personal question and I have given my personal answer,

This is a very personal question, no doubt, For me it's honesty, everything else will fall into place,

lalaboi:
but theres is gona be a time when u really need it! would u still continue being proud!

It's NOT being proud dear, It's protecting your reputation. And if that times do come, I would rather depend on siblings or a friend, I can guarantee you they WON'T use it against moi.

I have already made my post bold and clear, I do NOT want a red cent from any guy, As I said I don't them to throw it in my face later on, I rather doing everything for myself

lalaboi:
lol! yea! i know! but if your guy gives to u without asking! would u accept or decline?

My apologies, It's the heat

Uche2nna:
I know You would like that.


Now here is a flip side to it,

Women most times know what is going on but would prefer not to admit it.

And you are so right, Many women may have had past relationships where they endured the same or worse behaviour and for fear of "starting all over again" decide to stick it out. A very dangerous practice, if I may add.

The truth is I am really confuzzled about this who cheating thingy. If two people aren't getting along, cheating should NEVER an alternative. just let go and move on. Why suffer thy self?

lalaboi:
the guy should help when it matterzzz! like in the scenario above! but when the girl gets used to it, she's gona start taking the piss!!

if i wer the guy, she has to ask before i can give! am not santa clause!

the guy might be even planning something for the girl!

from another poiny of view!

if i hustle my money, u go 1 follow me chop am
na me bring u come lagos abi london abi usa? like i look like your fada!

lets face it some gals are irresponsible!! always want to depend on guys!

I was empathizing with you until you made such an intelligent claim. FYI NOT ALL women depend on men, I am a living testimony, As I said earlier I would rather starve, then take a dime from any guy, ask my ex,

Uche2nna:
Yeah, thats right. But it is still a catch 22 situation. Once he knows of your suscipicions , he covers up his tracks. I would


And by the way, it is said if a girl starts suspecting his man of cheating, chances are he is. Men most times are not that crafty. But women? Now thats a different story.

You are so right, I have discovered that men arent as witty as they may want to force us to believe, When it comes to hiding their tracks, they suck miserably

Uche2nna:
I heard You loud and clear.

I am just wondering why You would confront him knowing damn well he is going to deny  


_{And prolly start covering his tracks}

C'mon, would you like your girlfriend to assume things about you, or asking? I mean, asking is your way of giving him the avenue to clear up any loose ends. Now remember the topid didn't say " If my boyfriend is cheating  It says " If you suspect Now that's the difference. SO asking is the only choice you have, since you have NO tangible proof, YET

Riskie:
Don't talk to anymore girls

LOL, OH ma dayssssssss,

big father:
More like what ?

ok.was to ask as well, So poster, be a bit more explicit,

sistawoman:
confronting his friend or him for that matter is the wrong thing to do. Just sit back enjoy the relationship and know that everything done in the dark will come to the light. I can't tell you how many things just come to me and lay themselves in my lap. [b]All truth is reveled in due time.[/b]I would in casual conversation just remind him that if he was to ever cheat that yall would be over (if of course that is your will)

Exactly my sentiments, I have been preaching that for 15mins, But Uche didnt hear me o

Uche2nna:
LMAO

You are really picking up in your Naija slangs

:PSo wait, didn't you know am Igbo?

Uche2nna:
Did You expect him to say yes?

Uche these are the times when I know the devil wants me to turn back to Neelsel/Islander days,

NO olodo, I never implied such, That's why I continued on by saying, If he wasnt telling the truth, then it would catch up to him, seen?

@topic
Why call his friends? Bird of a feather, flock together. Get to the source, Ask him if he's cheating. If he says no then believe him. If on the other hand he is, let him be. With time he will use his own "rope" to "hang" himself, Nothings stays in the dark forever. One day the truth MUST comes out. Trust me!

whitelexi:
When the cover is all u can see nko?

Then you should ask around, Maybe there were a few satisfied avid readers who saw beyond the cover jor

whitelexi:
Interesting. . . now u sound like u get people easily pissed off

Don't judge the book by it's cover( or so they say, right? )

presido1:
Exactly
As u know gyls shit smell like tomorrow no dey.

You are not serious,

Men's shit will make a landfill look smell like a rose garden

whitelexi:
Define Humorous

NOt a tight ass who gets pissed off easily.But rather someone who would crack me up with his silly-ass-ness, even though everyone else dont find them funny,

Humorous
Down-to-earth
Honest
Loving
NOt at all sloppy
Truthful
Well rounded
A great communicator

Riskie:
You didn't say that before

I apologise,