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omusiliyu:
The south west people are educated and follow the holy books.

Marriage first before sex is their doctrine

yanabasee:
You're not just stupiid... You're sentimentally stupiid and local.... I should have known!

yanabasee:
You don't sound intelligent...

I'll excuse your ignorance!

Smh for lagoz girls... Always stupiid...

oluamid:
Sorry, I don't get into muddy fights. Fight your own wars .

oluamid:
Sorry, I don't get into muddy fights. Fight your own wars .

Babyphinas:
RIP DEATH IS A PRice WE ALL GOT TO PAY

oluamid:
I sure hope you haven't been listening to Adele. Yeye woman that lady.

yanabasee:
Is comprehension an issue?

OP stated categorically that he and the girl had sat over it and yet it doesn't work out... They're not hurt... They've had different views about things and so..it doesn't just work out for them...

Look... He didn't say he wants to handle the situation! You don't actually know what he's passing through, why advice him to deal with the hurt? Do you know if the girl in question is an ardent slut or some promiscuous free giver...and the dude can't withstand it...?

You shld read and digest what u read properly! I gave that advise becoz I didn't see anywhere he stated tht he wants to reunite... He begged for advise on how he'd breakup with her and I stated my view and you gather some fake balls to say it's wrong! do u smoke weed?

And sorry if you got entangled with a mental deranged dude...that's nanaf my effing beeniz! Capisce?

oluamid:
Don't be so sure.
My day has been a bit hectic. Yours?

oluamid:
"Too broke to buy airtime". Haha, Classic!

Funny cos you don't even know who I was referencing.

oluamid:
I broke up with her via WhatsApp. It worked. Now she hates me.

yanabasee:
You'll never breakup with her if you're still single... You have to get emotionally attached to somebody else and also let her have a man in her life( somebdy that will treat her well and show her love)... That will dismantle your relationship...

This is so because... You guys are emotionally attached...even when you don't want to believe you have feelings for each other... And until that emotions are diverted to someone else...then it'll still be attached to you...

I needed to know what really happened that you seek to end a relationship of three years and above

Mindfulness:
His theories were revolutionary though.

Mindfulness:

Sigmund Freud the cocaine addict.

Mindfulness:

Sigmund Freud the cocaine addict.

aaronson:
First off, ignore every persons who be telling you talk to God because, that's their way of not helping but think they helping. No God needed here, this is human behaviour and social psychology.


Human has this tendency to act childish and its called FIXATION in psychology, what this means in essence is before your hubby got married to you, he's been having sex with random girls and your marriage to him isn't an excuse not to continue.

Now, bare this in mind, He doesn't hate you but the love is hidden and shrouded by his fixated habit of extra marital affair. This happens because a man's brain only focuses on only a single task unlike the women's brain which is capable of multitasking. This is the reason, Women are good at keeping multiple partners in secret than men.

Enough of education, How can you remedy this situation at hand?

Run a psychological test on him and see if he still care about you, Since you pregnant, its a lot easier, when he's in the house, just pretend, how ?, break down in pain and ensure you continue in the pretence of excruciating pain till he takes you to the clinic so the doctor would really ascertain you fine and need rest. then when you both get home, make him understand he's the reason you broke down earlier and it was a post traumatic stress he's been putting you through, let him see your tears again at that point in time and watch his reaction and response after then.

Note- He might not quit that fixated habit of extra marital affair but I bet he would up the affection and care he has for you which was hidden.

StephanieEzeh:
In my 100L in school, I caught a guy in my lodge sniffing my panties. I promised to report him to Papa (the caretaker) but he started pleading that it was the devil's work. After many hours of pleading, I allowed the matter to die. Throughout the short time he stayed in the lodge, he wasn't comfortable. He never dared look at me in the eyes and he would always feel embarrassed when with other lodge mates and I happen to show up in their midst. I know he would be thinking I had revealed it to some people in the hostel He didn't stay till his rent expired; he packed out to live with a cousin of his at the other side of town. He always avoided me on campus. I pity him sha; he was just silly

I think this act is not only disgusting but shameful! Most guys do it at the slightest opportunity they get! I don't know what they benefit from such!!! I wonder the type of sexual pleasure they get Perverts!

Okanokan:
By that time all of us don die finish, so who go come judge am.

Okanokan:
By that time all of us don die finish, so who go come judge am.

misspicy:
nairalanders this issue is disturbing me una no get advice?

lalasticlala romancelanders no get advice,help me show the rest nairalanders biko

Omotayor123:
I just pray you won't receive a text message from her telling you she's pregnant!

For a lady like that, it's not far off.. Sorry OP

Fynestboi:
Pictures... .




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Fynestboi:
Pictures... .




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Tedassie:
vague!