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Health / Re: Abortion Rates: South-South, North-East Top by anumide(f): 9:43pm On Nov 16, 2015
omusiliyu:
The south west people are educated and follow the holy books.

Marriage first before sex is their doctrine
Hahahahaha grin
that was a joke, right?

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Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by anumide(f): 8:27pm On Nov 16, 2015
yanabasee:


You're not just stupiid... You're sentimentally stupiid and local.... I should have known!
classless, useless, senseless, shameless, witless pig. it took you 12 hours to look up the meaning of sentimentally?
what a pity.
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by anumide(f): 3:58pm On Nov 16, 2015
yanabasee:


You don't sound intelligent...

I'll excuse your ignorance!

Smh for lagoz girls... Always stupiid...
stop taking out your frustration on me, ode oshi.
BTW blockhead, I am not a Lagos girl, and it is all of your female relations that are stupiid.
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by anumide(f): 3:57pm On Nov 16, 2015
oluamid:


Sorry, I don't get into muddy fights. Fight your own wars tongue tongue grin.
bad boy. tongue
oluamid:


Sorry, I don't get into muddy fights. Fight your own wars tongue tongue grin.
bad boy.
Family / Re: The Mastermind Of The October 2010 Bomb Blast,charles Okah's Daughter Set To Wed by anumide(f): 6:45am On Nov 16, 2015
lipsrsealed undecided happy married life.
Celebrities / Re: Ejiro Okurame Buries Dad (Photos) by anumide(f): 12:42am On Nov 16, 2015
Babyphinas:
RIP DEATH IS A PRice WE ALL GOT TO PAY
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by anumide(f): 12:20am On Nov 16, 2015
oluamid:


I sure hope you haven't been listening to Adele. Yeye woman that lady.
there's one yanabasee above, he needs help. please assist him.
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by anumide(f): 12:18am On Nov 16, 2015
yanabasee:


Is comprehension an issue?

OP stated categorically that he and the girl had sat over it and yet it doesn't work out... They're not hurt... They've had different views about things and so..it doesn't just work out for them...

Look... He didn't say he wants to handle the situation! You don't actually know what he's passing through, why advice him to deal with the hurt? Do you know if the girl in question is an ardent slut or some promiscuous free giver...and the dude can't withstand it...?

You shld read and digest what u read properly! I gave that advise becoz I didn't see anywhere he stated tht he wants to reunite... He begged for advise on how he'd breakup with her and I stated my view and you gather some fake balls to say it's wrong! grin do u smoke weed?

And sorry if you got entangled with a mental deranged dude...that's nanaf my effing beeniz! Capisce?

Wetin you dey talk? see as you're jamming everything together. sleep biko,you need rest. Pele o.
BTW, he is not mentally deranged. judging from your write up, he should be your psychiatrist sef
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by anumide(f): 10:53pm On Nov 15, 2015
oluamid:

Don't be so sure.
My day has been a bit hectic. Yours?
relaxing. had friends over.
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by anumide(f): 10:50pm On Nov 15, 2015
all this breakup talk can depress person walahi. lemme gerrout of here. whatever you do op, don't listen to Adele. she go just frustrate you. #okbye
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by anumide(f): 10:46pm On Nov 15, 2015
oluamid:


"Too broke to buy airtime". Haha, Classic!

Funny cos you don't even know who I was referencing.
baby as long as it is you, airtime was the issue. how was your day? tongue
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by anumide(f): 9:57pm On Nov 15, 2015
oluamid:



I broke up with her via WhatsApp. It worked. Now she hates me.
honey, hate is such a strong word.
BTW, if you will tell the break up story, do it correctly. you were too broke to buy airtime.
Romance / Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by anumide(f): 9:39pm On Nov 15, 2015
yanabasee:


You'll never breakup with her if you're still single... You have to get emotionally attached to somebody else and also let her have a man in her life( somebdy that will treat her well and show her love)... That will dismantle your relationship...

This is so because... You guys are emotionally attached...even when you don't want to believe you have feelings for each other... And until that emotions are diverted to someone else...then it'll still be attached to you...

I needed to know what really happened that you seek to end a relationship of three years and above
wrong!
they should both learn to deal with it, hurt, heal and become whole again on their own before dragging someone else into their lives. if not, he will end up making making the new girl miserable. I once dated someone whose story was just like op's. mehn, it was the worst ten months of my life and the biggest mistake I have ever made. (and I have made a lot of them).
Family / Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by anumide(f): 10:39am On Nov 14, 2015
Mindfulness:

His theories were revolutionary though.
that I agree with.

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Family / Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by anumide(f): 10:34am On Nov 14, 2015
Mindfulness:

grin grin grin grin grin
Sigmund Freud the cocaine addict.
grin grin grin grin grin
my dear. plenty theories, he couldn't cure himself of a bad habit.
Family / Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by anumide(f): 10:34am On Nov 14, 2015
Mindfulness:

grin grin grin grin grin
Sigmund Freud the cocaine addict.
grin grin grin grin grin
my dear. plenty theories, he couldn't cure himself of a bad habit.
Family / Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by anumide(f): 10:31am On Nov 14, 2015
aaronson:
First off, ignore every persons who be telling you talk to God because, that's their way of not helping but think they helping. No God needed here, this is human behaviour and social psychology.


Human has this tendency to act childish and its called FIXATION in psychology, what this means in essence is before your hubby got married to you, he's been having sex with random girls and your marriage to him isn't an excuse not to continue.

Now, bare this in mind, He doesn't hate you but the love is hidden and shrouded by his fixated habit of extra marital affair. This happens because a man's brain only focuses on only a single task unlike the women's brain which is capable of multitasking. This is the reason, Women are good at keeping multiple partners in secret than men.

Enough of education, How can you remedy this situation at hand?

Run a psychological test on him and see if he still care about you, Since you pregnant, its a lot easier, when he's in the house, just pretend, how ?, break down in pain and ensure you continue in the pretence of excruciating pain till he takes you to the clinic so the doctor would really ascertain you fine and need rest. then when you both get home, make him understand he's the reason you broke down earlier and it was a post traumatic stress he's been putting you through, let him see your tears again at that point in time and watch his reaction and response after then.

Note- He might not quit that fixated habit of extra marital affair but I bet he would up the affection and care he has for you which was hidden.
someone just discovered Sigmund Freud?

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Family / Re: Must Read! Omoni Dishes Out 6 Important Tips For Proper Child Nutrition by anumide(f): 8:15am On Nov 14, 2015
cheesy I'm watching anchor baby now.
Romance / Re: I Caught A Guy Sniffing My Panties In School by anumide(f): 7:32am On Nov 13, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
In my 100L in school, I caught a guy in my lodge sniffing my panties. I promised to report him to Papa (the caretaker) but he started pleading that it was the devil's work. After many hours of pleading, I allowed the matter to die. Throughout the short time he stayed in the lodge, he wasn't comfortable. He never dared look at me in the eyes and he would always feel embarrassed when with other lodge mates and I happen to show up in their midst. I know he would be thinking I had revealed it to some people in the hostel winkHe didn't stay till his rent expired; he packed out to live with a cousin of his at the other side of town. He always avoided me on campus. I pity him sha; he was just silly wink

I think this act is not only disgusting but shameful! Most guys do it at the slightest opportunity they get! I don't know what they benefit from such!!! I wonder the type of sexual pleasure they get Perverts! cheesy
kai! they taught me this thing in psychopathology o. I think it is called Underwear fetishism or something.
there is a name they call it when it becomes like a neurotic disorder. but I can't remember.
Politics / Re: New Lagos Governor Ambode Incompetent - The Economist by anumide(f): 6:44am On Nov 10, 2015
Okanokan:


By that time all of us don die finish, so who go come judge am.
grin
Okanokan:


By that time all of us don die finish, so who go come judge am.
Family / Re: A Father's Message To His Daughter Who's About To Wed by anumide(f): 9:12pm On Nov 08, 2015
undecided undecided
Family / Re: Things That Bring About Failure In Today's Marriage. by anumide(f): 7:01am On Nov 08, 2015
unfortunately, bruised and battered women have given feminism a bad name. I am a feminist, and I don't hate men. No gender should look down on/disrespect the other.

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Family / Re: Help!!! Her Husband's Physique Does Not Turn Her On by anumide(f): 9:19pm On Nov 06, 2015
misspicy:
nairalanders this issue is disturbing me una no get advice?

lalasticlala romancelanders no get advice,help me show the rest nairalanders biko embarassed
Honey, your friend is frigid. she just carry "physique" cover face. she needs to see a sex therapist ASAP. This is the reason I didn't choose marital counseling as my area of specialization. too much wahala.
Politics / Re: Some Ministers Will Have No Portfolios, Buhari Insists. by anumide(f): 8:23pm On Nov 03, 2015
:Dwe will have ministers at large. grin
Politics / Re: Some Ministers Will Have No Portfolios, Buhari Insists. by anumide(f): 8:21pm On Nov 03, 2015
we will have ministers at large. grin
Crime / Re: Nigerian Army Detains 4 Brothers Two Years Without Trial - Sahara Reporters by anumide(f): 8:08pm On Nov 03, 2015
lipsrsealed seriously speechless.
any day I try to revive my Hope for this country, one bad news will be on nl front page waiting. God save Nigeria.

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Romance / Re: I Am Ashamed Of Myself Right Now... by anumide(f): 5:00pm On Nov 03, 2015
Omotayor123:
I just pray you won't receive a text message from her telling you she's pregnant!

For a lady like that, it's not far off.. Sorry OP wink
well, he shot the fluid into a latex. whatever that means.
Travel / Re: Lagos-ibadan Expressway Gridlock In Pictures by anumide(f): 4:12pm On Oct 30, 2015
Fynestboi:
Pictures... .




Punch....


http://punchng.com/2015/10/2199
hahan!!!! you pipu can lie o. obara chisos!!!!! cry
Fynestboi:
Pictures... .




Punch....


http://punchng.com/2015/10/2199
hahan!!!! you pipu can lie o. obara chisos!!!!!

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Romance / Re: Three(3) Common Misconceptions Women Believe About Men by anumide(f): 7:36am On Oct 30, 2015
Tedassie:
vague!
receive understanding in Jesus name.
if you truly read the post, you will notice I was replying specific points.
1. he said men don't like women with personality disorders. 2. men don't take women who ask them out for granted.
Romance / Re: Three(3) Common Misconceptions Women Believe About Men by anumide(f): 7:33pm On Oct 29, 2015
Tallesty1, I have a lot to say regarding your post, but I am lazy when it comes to typing, so I will just pick two points
1. every human has at least one personality disorder, otherwise known as maladaptive behavior. hence the phrase "nobody is perfect". if men don't like women with personality disorder, then they are all hypocrites.
2. men are natural hunters. testosterone is to blame. i believe most men will prefer to do the wooing. my point is; stop generalising.

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