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Politics / Re: Remi Tinubu Refuses Close Door Meeting With Dino Melaye by anumide(f): 8:13am On Jul 20, 2016 |
Yeye Asiwaju however corrected one of Saraki's
Security Aide who called her Yeye instead of Yeye
Asiwaju saying her title is either Yeye Asiwaju or
Erelu Are Ago...
Lol
Joker
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Travel / Re: Please Help, He Is About To Be Deported From Uae by anumide(f): 9:38am On Jul 18, 2016 |
VocalWalls: Well written.. You just saved me from the stress of typing |
Family / Re: 10 Gender Stereotypes That Used To Be Different. by anumide(f): 8:26pm On Jul 14, 2016 |
[quote author=Fabulocity post=47544882]Source: listverse.com
Hahan. Waris your own na. |
Family / 10 Gender Stereotypes That Used To Be Different. by anumide(f): 7:47pm On Jul 14, 2016 |
1. Now: Pink For Girls, Blue For Boys Then: Pink For Boys, Blue For Girls Today, pink is often associated with all that is delicate, romantic, and feminine. However, an article from a 1918 magazine declared that pink was for boys and blue was for girls. The main reason behind this was that pink, which is derived from red, is a stronger, war-like color and thus more suitable for a boy. Blue was considered more delicate and dainty, and thus more fitting for a girl. Nonetheless, these color recommendations were not written in stone, and different department stores recommended different colors for boys and girls. Some, like Maison Blanche, said that pink was more fitting for a boy and blue for a girl. Others like Macy’s declared the opposite. It wasn’t until after World War II that the color pink started to become associated exclusively with girls. The real shift, however, occurred in the 1980s—partly because mothers who grew up wearing gender neutral colors wanted to adorn their daughters in lace and pink and partly because it became more common to find out the sex of unborn babies. 2. Now: Dresses Are For Girls, Then: Dresses Were For girls And Boys. If you look at photographs of children from the 19th century, you might not be able to tell if you are looking at a boy or a girl. That’s because from around the mid-16th century right up until the early 20th century, little boys wore dresses. Before 1550, people of all ages wore tunics or gowns of some sort. Young children, regardless of sex, were also associated with and cared by their mothers and thus it may have been appropriate for all young children to wear skirts. Other factors, such as lack of toilet training, the ease of expanding a skirt compared to pants (clothing was quite expensive back then), and the desire for children to remain innocent or sexless for as long as possible , could also explain why dresses for boys were common. Nonetheless, adults could easily distinguish boys from girls because boys’ dresses were more tailored and they tended to be made from plainer and stronger fabrics. When boys reached a certain age, usually by eight, they were “breeched” or dressed in pants for the very first time. Breeching was often a formal ceremony marking the boy’s ascent into boyhood, and parents who were better-off often gave their sons a child-sized sword or a toy weapon of some kind. Eventually, new fabrics and detergents were introduced, which meant trousers were easier to wash and iron. After the 1920s, it became more common for boys to wear pants. 3. Now: Cheerleading Is Almost Exclusively A Women’s Sport Then: Cheerleading Was A ‘manly’ Sport When cheerleading originated back in the mid-19th century, it was seen as an all-male sport, which included gymnastics, stunts, and crowd leadership. Being a cheerleader was similar to being a quarterback, and it was considered one of the most important things that a young man could take away from college. Eisenhower, Roosevelt, and Reagan were cheerleaders, as was Jimmy Stewart. Women cheerleaders were unheard of. However, when men were deployed to fight in World War I, women happily filled the vacant spots in the previously masculine cheerleading squads. The returned men were less than enthusiastic with this development—they thought that cheerleading was far too masculine for women and made a serious effort to try and push them out. Some schools went as far as banning female cheerleaders altogether. Nonetheless, World War II soon followed, and men were once again called to fight. Women took this opportunity to further dominate the sport, leading to its trivialization. Eventually, the profile of an ideal cheerleader changed from a strong athlete with leadership skills to someone with a cheerful disposition and good manners. 4. Now: Knitting Is For Grannies (Or At Least Women) Then: Knitting Guilds We're Exclusively Male During the Middle Ages, knitting became extremely popular, and knitting guilds were established to protect trade secrets, improve the quality of the profession, and boost business. Most interestingly, these guilds were exclusively male. Young men who desired to become master knitters were expected to devote six years of their life to training. These high standards meant that knitting was considered a form of art and members of knitting guilds could count on being revered and appreciated. This did not last long, however. In 1589, the first knitting machine was invented by Englishman William Lee. Not long after came the Industrial Revolution and more sophisticated knitting machines were developed. This resulted in a decline in hand- knitting, and the once serious trade became a parlor hobby for women. 5. Now: Hot Chocolate Is A Drink For Kids And Women Then: It Was The Drink Of Choice For Warriors The Aztec emperor Montezuma II limited the consumption of hot chocolate to warriors, merchants, and nobles who were willing to fight. Both blood and chocolate were thought of as sacred liquids, and thus hot chocolate was served at the initiation ceremony of new Eagle and Jaguar knights who had to endure a penance process before being allowed to join the elite Aztec army. In Spain, hot chocolate was drunk at bullfights, and in England, chocolate houses were often associated with one of the Parliamentary parties and as a consequence often turned into full-on gentlemen clubs. The Cocoa-tree Chocolate House for example, was frequented by the Tory party. Hot chocolate was also a drink of choice for explorers and adventurers due to its ability to provide warmth, nutrients, and energy. The explorer Robert Falcon Scott made his men drink hot cocoa five nights a week—mornings and evenings—during their unsuccessful attempt to be the first men to reach the South Pole. During the Revolutionary War, World War I, and World War II, hot chocolate was distributed to soldiers to help them recover and boost their morale . 6. Now: Men Don’t Cry Then: Weeping Men Were Neither Feminized Nor Condemned In Homer’s Iliad, the Greek army repeatedly burst into tears, and Zeus, the god of sky and thunder, wept tears of blood. King Arthur cried often, such as when he had to go to war with his good friend Sir Lancelot. In medieval romances, knights cried because they missed their ladies and because they didn’t get to go to tournaments. Tears were abundant in real life too—one ambassador was so moved to be addressing Philip the Good (the Duke of Burgundy) that he kept bursting into tears while the audience at a peace congress sobbed as they listened to the speeches. During the Middle Ages, tears were proof of your guilt and a sign that you deserved forgiveness, so men actually forced themselves to cry in public to impress their peers. No one knows how or when public male crying disappeared. Some say it was the result of urbanization, which meant that increasing numbers of men ended up living among complete strangers. 7. Now: Computer Programmers Are Nerdy Young Men Then: Earliest Programmers Were Women In the early 1940s, the world’s first computer programmers were hired. The University of Pennsylvania employed six women to work on its ENIAC machine, one of the world’s first electronic computers. At the time, programming was thought of as a low-skill clerical function. Hardware development, on the other hand, was dominated by men. When personal computers emerged, it became more common to buy them for boys than for girls, even if girls were just as interested in computers as boys. In addition, male programmers began creating professional associations and discouraged the hiring of women. 8. Now: Stockings Are For Women Then: Stockings Were For Men Long before women wore tights, men wore a hose (a type of stockings or tights), an important staple of the male wardrobe. During the Middle Ages, European men wore male tights on horseback. In the 16th century, shorter tunics became all the rage, exposing more of the leg. Men felt they had to have nicer legs, and the fashion of the time began to accommodate these manly desires—the hose turned into one garment that extended all the way to the crotch. The hose was often worn with high heels to further enhance the appearance. King Louis XIV of France was particularly fond of this look. It wasn’t until later than women started wearing stocking. The first pair of female pantyhose was not invented until 1959. 9. Now: Beer Brewing Is Associated With Men Then: Brewing Was A Woman’s Job Initially, when men were out hunting, women were out gathering ingredients that were needed to make other foods and drinks, including beer. As time passed, women not only continued to brew beer for their own families but also sold the surplus to strangers. In 13th- century England, records from one town show that less than 8 percent of brewers were men. In 18th-century England, certain laws claimed that tools used for brewing were solely the property of the woman. The woman’s role in the field of brewing began to change during the Middle Ages when monasteries brewed beer on a larger scale to satisfy travelers’ demand. Many women were prosecuted as witches, and some historians highlight the clear similarities between brewsters (the feminine form of the word brewer) and illustrations for anti-witch propaganda —frothing cauldrons (full of ale), broomsticks (hung outside the door to indicate the availability of ale), cats (to chase away the mice), and pointy hats (to be seen above the crowds in the busy marketplace) 10. Now: Men Are More Interested In Sex Then: Women Were More Interested In Sex In one ancient Greek myth, Zeus and Hera argue about who gets more pleasure from sexual intercourse—the man or the woman. They ask the prophet Tiresias, who had once spent seven years of his life as a woman. Tiresias answers that if sexual pleasure was to be divided into 10 parts, only one part would go to the man and the remaining nine parts would go to the woman . All over Europe, it was believed that women had great sexual desire and thus were labeled temptresses. Why else would childbirth be worthwhile if the sexual pleasure was not greater than a man’s? How and when this stereotype became reversed is not exactly clear, but some historians believe that it was the result of Protestant ministers portraying their congregants (mostly middle- class white women) as moral beings rather than seductresses. Women welcomed this portrayal because in a way. It helped them develop certain superiority over men. Source: listverse.com/2016/07/13/10-gender-stereotypes-that-used-to-be-different/ |
Culture / Re: Women Want To Be Men, We Can’t Be Equal – Ooni Of Ife’s Wife by anumide(f): 4:30pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
I am a feminist and I won't apologize for it. But I have a problem with people demanding equality. If you demand your right from someone, it means that you acknowledge that the person is superior to you, you would be giving that person the right to mistreat you. Respect is earned. If a particular situation is Frustrating me, I deal with it or walk away. I am a queen. I refuse to be a victim. 2 Likes |
Politics / Albert Ilemobade Deliberative Democracy Corner by anumide(f): 6:13pm On Jun 17, 2016 |
Remember the FUTA ex-vc that was murdered last year? It's time to immortalize him. Albert Ilemobade Deliberative Democracy Corner (AIDDC) A call for membership Are you a … • Qualitative Researcher? • Democracy Expert? • Political Analyst? • Community Development Actor? • Youth Development Actor? Do you want … • To be talking and acting on Public Issues for Democratic Decision Making and Problem Solving? • To start engaging the elected representatives on behalf of your community? • Your voice to be heard in the scheme of socio-political issues that concern you? If your answer is yes, kindly enroll as a member of the Albert Ilemobade Deliberative Democracy Corner. The corner will be officially unveiled to the public on June 21, 2016 to mark the first anniversary of the death of Prof. Albert Adeoye Ilemobade, the former Vice Chancellor of the Federal University of Technology, Akure (FUTA). Networking and Cocktail Party will follow. Time: 3pm. For more information, visit Educare Trust Youth Centre, Concorde Lane, Aerodrome GRA, Behind Ventura Cinema, Samonda, Ibadan. You can also call any of the following numbers: 08023865772, 08072151673, 08077847167 P.S Lalasticlala please take this to the front page. Thanks.
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Celebrities / Re: Felix Ochuko ‘Atol-Atol’ Is Dead by anumide(f): 6:50pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
Felix I am still in shock. It still feels like a lie. Rest well |
Family / Re: 3-Year-Old Boy Missing In Lagos by anumide(f): 3:27pm On Jun 01, 2016 |
OLUJOSHINS:Walahi you just read my mind. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: I Don’t Mind Dating Falz – Simi by anumide(f): 10:03pm On May 21, 2016 |
Hmmm
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TV/Movies / Re: 15 Movies You Ought To Have Watched In The First Quarter Of This Year by anumide(f): 2:15pm On May 19, 2016 |
Wives on strike.
Anyway, Explorers, check out this link
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Education / Re: Answer Script Of University Of Uyo Student by anumide(f): 10:21am On May 16, 2016 |
christiese:Haba mummy, chill now? Before she tok 1, you don talk 200. Kilode. |
Business / Re: Dubai Banks Order Closure Of Nigerians' Accounts by anumide(f): 9:53am On May 16, 2016 |
Tolexander:UAE didn't close down accounts. They temporarily restricted transactions until the owners of the accounts provide valid residence visa. And you can't have a residence visa except you work there, you are a student or a dependant of someone who works there. My mom just received a mail from her bank. |
Politics / Re: The Notable Difference Between Jonathan And Buhari's Subsidy Removal by anumide(f): 11:24am On May 13, 2016 |
Wrong!!!!!! The difference is:Buhari started with fuel scarcity, so that when he removes the fuel subsidy, Nigerians will be too weak and tired to complain. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by anumide(f): 4:54pm On May 11, 2016 |
Everyone is to blame here: 1. The husband who probably murdered the wife. 2. The wife who should have packed out and file for a divorce. 3. The pastor that pleaded on behalf of the husband 4. The mother that watched her daughter continuously get battered [/b] 5. The sister that should have paid boyz to deal with the man severely[b] |
Romance / Re: 7 Signs That Show Your Current Relationship Has No Future by anumide(f): 11:11pm On May 04, 2016 |
Nice list DanceVille but that number 1 isn't always true. |
Celebrities / Re: Singer Ketchup Involved In An Accident In Dubai, In Coma by anumide(f): 10:49am On May 04, 2016 |
durella32:Why? |
Celebrities / Re: Olukayode Salako: TeeBillz Is An Irresponsible Married Man by anumide(f): 9:40am On May 04, 2016 |
PissedOffWeed: If she no carry the pregnancy shake ynash, where she for see money give teebillz to barb hair? How she for take repay the 45 million wey him borrow? Him for dey see like 1.5m steal from her per show? She no go buy pampers and baby food? The husband wasn't complaining because he needed her to be the ATM, the means didn't matter to him. |
Family / Re: Freeman David, A Nairalander Is Dead! by anumide(f): 11:07am On May 02, 2016 |
BlissB I understand that you don't want to dishonor the dead, but please tell me he didn't commit suicide so that I can stop this noise in my head. Adieu David 1 Like |
Family / Re: Is Pregnancy Before Wedding The Best Way To Avoid A Childless Marriage? by anumide(f): 6:13pm On May 01, 2016 |
DeMekus:Before I state my opinion, where in the Bible is it written? @ the bolded? The Bible is very clear on fornication/adultery. Hebrew 13:8, 1 corinthians 6:18, 1 Thessalonians 4:3. You can justify your actions with whatever, but don't criticize the "Nigerian christain" for been a Christian. |
Family / Re: Most Guys Don't Fancy Wearing Wedding Rings by anumide(f): 4:55pm On May 01, 2016 |
Project400:Why are you bothering yourself? Does that one look like a researcher to you? He's just jonzing. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Most Guys Don't Fancy Wearing Wedding Rings by anumide(f): 4:51pm On May 01, 2016 |
mubarak001: Hahahaha. You conducted a project? I see why no Nigerian University is among the 1st 1000 in the world. bible Engagement ring 1 box/ suitcase of assorted clothes An Umbrella Yams (42 big tubers) or more… Palm Oil and Vegetable Oil (25 Litres) Honey (1 bottle) or more Kolanut (Obi : 25 pieces) Bitter kola (orogbo) Alligator pepper (42 pieces; Atare, ) Sugar cane Maize/ corn Cake (Aadun) Fruits (Assorted ) Rice (1 bag) She-Goat (Pregnant) Yoruba Traditional Cloth (Aso- Oke) Bride price Salt (1 bag) Bottled water Wine (1 bottle) Soft drinks 1cow Does that look like free to you? 1 Like |
Family / Re: Most Guys Don't Fancy Wearing Wedding Rings by anumide(f): 4:50pm On May 01, 2016 |
mubarak001:SMH |
Family / Re: The Newest Couple In Yenagoa, Bayelsa State by anumide(f): 4:39pm On May 01, 2016 |
I like simple weddings, but you were too defensive. I started noticing everything wrong after you exposed them. You wife is pretty, her gown simple and her chief bridesmaid cute. Happy married life. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Am I Wrong Fighting My Husband's Younger Brother's Side Chick? by anumide(f): 4:26pm On May 01, 2016 |
ephemm: @bolded There is a very promiscuous military guy who has HIV, here in Lagos. Dude has been taking his meds, told his wife they were vitamin supplements and continued having unprotected sex with her. The woman had rash on her vag1na, the doctor suggested she go for test, turned out she had been infected. What she didn't know is hurting her. 12 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by anumide(f): 8:52pm On Apr 30, 2016 |
scully95:I am sorry sir, but you got me confused. If the reason why the children should be in their father's custody is because their mom may be promiscuous, then this customary act was formulated by hypocritical sexists. Who can be more promiscuous and polygamous than the African (especially the yoruba) man? That one cannot influence the children abi? Secondly, do you honestly believe that Tiwatope should give Jamal to the Father? I mean the one that cannot afford baby food and pampers? 3 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Charles Novia Writes On Tiwa Savage And Teebillz Saga by anumide(f): 3:25pm On Apr 30, 2016 |
She cleaned him out. Finished his ass like he
messed up hers the day before.
Dude’s likely to see any bathtub as a river after
he watches that video.
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Politics / Re: Who Wrote This Slogan? "Borno, Home Of Peace" by anumide(f): 9:43am On Apr 25, 2016 |
nunogomez:It was people like you Ben Murray Bruce was referring to when he said Nigerians have no sense of history |
Celebrities / Re: Nnamdi Oboli Celebrates Omoni's Birthday by anumide(f): 11:01am On Apr 22, 2016 |
kemmary:22 years |
Celebrities / Re: Adaeze Yobo Counts Down To 26th Birthday by anumide(f): 2:45pm On Apr 11, 2016 |
Folks here are forming amnesia. She was just 18 when she won the crown now, fresh outta high school before Yobo married her. She's 26 for real. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 4 Things Employers Hate To See On Your Cv by anumide(f): 6:15pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Ojestas:honestly, I don't know. 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 4 Things Employers Hate To See On Your Cv by anumide(f): 5:34pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Ojestas:it depends, where I am, it's kind of a norm to have your passport photo affixed |
Romance / Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by anumide(f): 8:14am On Mar 19, 2016 |
Estharfabian: lol. I've missed these big black fonts |
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