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DestinedForGrea:
It seems pretty much like you don't know what you want here.

If you're not interested in her, then why should what she does with her personal life bother you so much so that you had to go through her private chats?

You claim she's manipulative, I don't know about that, but you don't seem to be innocent of this claim.

If she's your friend as you've claimed, then you should advice her to refrain from that lifestyle you detest (which also includes the sexual escapades you share with her) and at the same time learn to respect her privacy.

I don even confuse ontop woman mata

I met this lady and we became close. We have been going out for some time now and she doesn't seem to be after my money because she doesn't even ask me for a dime.

She loves my company and often time she asked me to be her boyfriend which i told her we should be together as friends and not as lovers. Although we fuk most times.

She was always with me. Going out with me, cooking for me, watching movies with me etc. But then i realised something odd about her phone always ringing and she always giving unreasonable excuses about the caller. I told her to always be honest irrespective of the situation and that since we are not in a relationship, it will enable me to connect more with her and even accept her for herself. Also, whenever we stroll out, small boys would call her and even taunt her with sexual words...

One day, she came over and i told her to open her phone for me or stop talking to me. She opened the phone and then i noticed that she is a community project. She doesn't discriminate, she gives cheerfully, if you understand the gist.

The guys are just so many and the chats are just so nutty. Always claiming love and even crying and sending pics of her tears to different guys...

When i saw this, my attitude shifted a bit. She would come also but the strong connection was no longer there. So i told her to bring her friend and arrange her for me to fuk. I threatened her that i would stop talking to her if she doesn't arrange her friend.

She brought the girl and i fuked as usual. After the sex, the friend started telling me strange things about her lifestyle. So terrible though but i already knew. Her friend was asking me to date her(herself, friend) and forget her... That explains why she was saying those hurtful words about her supposed bestie.

I don't give her money, so we need to be clear here. But then, the girl is very manipulative. She would profess love to me on texts, on calls and even beg me not to leave her even though we are not dating.

More stranger is that, since i met her, my luck has shined exponentially. This is not up for argument because i know what going on around me. She shines in good luck around me. But then, she is beginning to show her true side as a hardened girl. She got eyelashes which i declined her not to do. Her coming to my place has been limited. And she seems not to care if i fuk her friend.

I feel attached to her. Maybe because of the luck i was draining from her. But now, i just want to forget her. I want to live my life like she doesn't exist.

What would you do if u were in a similar situation?

SoNature:
This country is not serious.

How can a president be appointing RECs?

How can you appoint the judge who will be in charge of your own case?

Who wrote that yeye law?

as in ehn, d werey wey write the yeye law go don die sef and leave people to dey face am.

All the power of the country are under the control of a single man. In USA, the judiciary is independent and appoint their judges. So also other organs of state.

But 9ja own, president controls everything.

Opc police

ghettochild:
Japa

d bit*h is addicted to me. She cries, texts, threatens etc

She's smart though but got a bad reputation.

benuejosh:
some of you sound so disgusting.

you're very irritating to me.

Imagine you accusing someone of being disgusting

ghettochild:
E b like say honey dey ur gbola

The gal is manipulative with very bad reputation.

Imagine walking with ur bit°ch and some guys start making fun of her for being used by many.

Imagine meeting guys constantly and they keep bringing the girl's topic up about how cheap she is


What will u do ?

ghettochild:
You are a bad boy.

see wetin e don turn to...

Cos i accused her of lying to me and sent her from my house...

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

my ex gf had thesame issue...

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Peter Obi Atiku's boy-boy.

that doesn't answer my question

Zxcvbnmghtr:
On your Mandate we stand Jagaban!

is peter Obi the president ?

What concerns Peter Obi in that post ?

Ona go die miserably as ona nor wan allow d innocent man rest so.

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Roboto11:
Was it too much for Reno to demand Obi foot the bill?

is Obi the president or Actors guide ? What position is Obi holding currently to warrant that gesture ?

Y is ur president and his appointed ministers not doing anything to help a ailing icon while you condemn a man that is not holding any public office.


Make ona try dey get small sense

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TruthsFM:
Hmm 🤔 meanwhile,

You don’t apologize and set someone up for a tweet that na/

i nearly fell victim to this tatafo post of zero economic relevance...

Joelobioha:
Wait your unfriended your Introverted friend due to annoyance from a teenager..man was juts chill and refuse to interfere in your banter..

I was already tired of his other shits before this happened

Pierocash:
So the foolish terrorist still had the gut to remain in his house with his family in Gaza? Did he think Isreal is joking? Oponu

he think say na joke...

Terrorist must die

Kingsnairaland:
I challenge you to find three things that everyone on earth can agree on..

All of you are ignoring the main terrorist = The United States of America and her puppets (NATO).

They do not blow up one or two buildings, they blow up countries.

They do not kidnap one or two people, they kidnap thousands (Guatemo bay)

They do not kill two or 200 people, they kill thousands to millions of people

They do not steal oil tankers, they steal oil blocs and even a whole country.

They do not belong to one or two terror groups, they create and fund terror groups (Taliban, Isis, al aeda, hamas, boko haram etc).

While you lot are here deceiving yourselves calling small flies terrorists, the main terrorist is out there constantly causing death and misery all over the world.

They steal lands and give to whoever they like.

Only few understand the above..

abeg shutup

Terrorist looking for sympathy.

Y not sympathize with d one's in ur north here... Hypocrite

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Maybe u av a spiritual wife that carries bad luck.

I have met such people before. Even their bfs will suffer too.

You have to make a tough decision for yourself and ur kids. But whatever that is, do not let emotions decide for u.

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Kevineleven:
Teenagers can misbehave since they are only children in adult body, you need to warn her seriously, but i believe your outburst sent a clear message, she will behave herself now.
But your reaction towards your friend's attitude is a bit much.

She got the message...

I will try to behave more appropriately next time. Thank you for your contribution.

NCBLOG:
Another Terrible News, Coming From Kaduna

Don't Forget, Bring This SAD NEWS

bad news will kill u. We will soon post bad news about u soon

Shapeaso:
Any man that control his tongue and knows when to speak and when not to speak is a wiseman. Your friend is one.

he is a coward. I can't say much but e even can't take care of his own shit because of fear.

NJV:
Maybe u should stay home more often.
Get other means of coping with boredom, even if it means picking up new hobbies.
And no matter what, never physically chase after anyone cos it's all shades of childishness.

thank you very much for the insight. I truly appreciate your suggestions. I will put it to use.

Ginaz:
I think the girl is secretly liking you, these are tactics to get your attention. kindly ignore her as she is still a child, your reaction was simply too much.

thank you for the clarification. Can we talk on WhatsApp, i have some few personal questions i would like to get answers to.

Shapeaso:
Op, you acted like a mad man. Your friend is a wiseman. How old are you?

don't mistake cowardice for wisdom.

He is a coward and a silent killer...

I know what am saying

DaddyRochie1642:
So you dropped your phone and car keys on the ground just to run after a teenager.

Oga to slap you dey hungry me.

lol

I dey vex though

KiNg0G:
keep living in fairyland kid

ok boss

sunnymighty:
You are overreacting, don't need to be that hard on your guy, accept him for who he is. We all react to situations differently bro. Peace!

nor be my guy i dey reason sef... Na my reaction wey draw full area attention

That guy na silent killer... I know wetin I dey talk... Na boredom still dey make me go em place

KiNg0G:
Immediately I saw car and raced after a teenager I realized your a teenager.

nawa for u o... Na ur type make me put that explanation of "I didn't ask her to fu*k me"

Ona IQ too low i swear

Project360:
Too much reaction

pls explain boss