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naijadeyhia:
Many of you here giving advice are still kids yourself who still have rebellious tendencies so you would always want to stick with the OP. However OP I am not on your team. Allow me to tell you why.

1) I first took time to go through your posts here on nairaland as well as your diaries including those you said " the stories were true but names changed" and you really need help....i will come back to this shortly....

2) You are the second child but the first son and you wonder why your father is being hard on you? I am also a first son and all you lamented about I experienced it too but until I realised that my dad was not the problem and that I had the problem things never changed.
You see like you I and so stood up to my dad often but only on issues that were right especially after I became born again but I never stood up to him in disrespect but calmly passed my message across. I have slept in the rain, sun, got disowned at a point, slept with church members and eaten with them as no food was forthcoming from home because like u I was also . labelled a black sheep so you see your case isn't peculiar.
It is the one whom the father loves that he chastises the most and until I learnt how to draw close to my dad and engage him in truly meaningful conversation I was my own problem.
I had my fair share of hotels and women and it was as if I was hellbent on dis gracing my family until I had to stop and think and make some major adjustments and today I am my father's best friend as we joke around as friends not even as father and son. FYI my dad is now 68 and I around 40.
He wanted me to be an urban and regional planner which I studied in school but inside I wanted to be a musician or a businessman so I deliberately chose to do a biz of my own just tons pipe him but it only made matters worse.
However today all things have worked together fo Good because I am now fully into real estate but from all business angle as I develop and sell properties.

My dad really loved me in his own twisted way but I had to discover that and will myself to move towards him Same way u need to discover yours and move closer.
Only intense anger would make make a father wish his son was dead and I would like to say that his expectations from you as a first son and your actions or inactions pushed him to that point.

I dare say that perhaps peer pressure is one of your major problems as you seem to be having more influences outside your home and foolishly bring those influences into ur fathers house.
He is the captain of that home and not you...LEARN AND UNDERSTAND THAT! Why you get your own place and pay your own rent then feel free to do as u please.

I am a father now so fully appreciate what my dad tried doing when I was young. You OP will soon see the bigger picture as right now u are not.

Back to number 1 above... i want you to tell yourself the truth which at a point in this your submission u did when u said "u are demonic" . Ask yourself if your head is in the right place and if your actions match the impression u want ur dad to have about u. Clean yourself up OP....clean up your mind, ur thoughts and the words that come from u. REBRAND and you will see your dad do same.

On a final note, every father has n expectation for his kids and yours is not an exception. You will also have expectations for your kids when they start coming and perhaps you may give them corporal punishment when they fail to live up to your expectations. Sit down and give your life a thought OP and u will see that your dad isn't that bad.

Cheers!

A wonderful piece worth my pausing again to comment on.
I'm yet to advice but in a case I don't, this dude has done justice to ur case.
Op is even smarter than his advisors asking him to leave the house when his education is at stake. Guys no be nollywood o! If he tries it, chances that he will make it is slimmer than u guys watch in the movies
Make I continue dey read

aloeeverhealth:
Don't mind your Father. My Dad did the same and today he's regretting. Why? Because every family member avoid him, even his grand children. He's now lonely and craves for everyone's attention which he can't find. I pray your father realizes soon because he will be the one to pay for it. Every toxic people should be avoided. Even though, he saw me through school, but he made sure I payed every kobo with my cry or with my sweat.

Now that he's lonely, I'm trying to love him, but I don't know how to do that. Due to past memories of him cursing, beating us like animals and slaves

Your write up made me comment before finishing what I'm reading but I have to advice U real quick.
Ur dad's way of training might be bad to you but I can say he meant well and punishing him now is so wrong
I had a dad that sent us to Creative Minds Foundation, a white man's school and even when flogging was strictly prohibited, he made a special case that we should be exempted and flogged, what wickedness I thought, but now I adore him for all those harsh trainings cos without them, I wouldn't be who I am
U said it urself that he saw U tru school, who does that? A friend or Foe? I rest my case

Ya welu ya karia m
Funny enough I can do this. Recently discovered I don't fear dogs anymore cos I raise them and I'm used to them so if I stay with them lions, I might get used to them
Story for the gods

Haba! So u guys don't know the end of this gist? Ok lemme inform u guys, the Op vex buy goat, and the goat is almost getting to one year so this gist is long old and gone.

dorcky:
@apitch where is your location ... I think I will visit your kennel in person .... as at when they are posted, they very much more available okay ... Kapish....

It will be my pleasure hosting such a big man but the truth is that I don't have a kernel, not planning to have one yet, I'm just a regular guy obsessed with dogs.
I just enjoy the company of my caucasians and have no plans to breed them for now, also I stay far away in the east, Anambra to be precise

Nice one

Nice one
Keep it up bro

Bia leksmedia, I go fight U oo! If u no understand me, read again, I just dey pity U cos ur dog fine
My Oga Prodeegee, carry on with ur experiments, I understand U but when u have time, help make here fun once again
Oluomoadebayo don run, so did Arcbay, who una wan free pet section for?

That's the problem with us, we are resourceful and freely help when we don't have a name, but immediately a name is established, we realize we can now make money out of that which we once gave freely and that which made us who we are.
Everybody cannot be a blogger and my dear friend Prodeegee, you are an icon for people on pet section NL but you are loosing it cos you are not as resourceful as u use to be and now this blog ish.
My 2cents

Watch out for swelling of the vulva and dropping of blood

My broda u don't need to be ashamed, Kenya identifies the importance of agriculture and they are working hard to fully maximize their output so do most African countries but 9ja still depends on the almighty oil that only benefits the rich n politicians, negltting agriculture which if properly harnessed will make oil look like poo
Imagine when Kenya discovered oil, the president begged them to pretend it's not there and go on with the agric reforms
My only regret which I can't help is that i am already a Nigerian

Export to Europe?
Very soon 9ja will start importing from them

So why didn't u clear urself from the beginning, and u are the one acting childish cos I follow those guys u mentioned on fb and belong to some group together which proves that I've seen the pix before and I still maintain that the pix are old.
Grow up dude, I didn't call u a scammer cos u've been doing biz here since and I know U as untoucheable but when legit guys behave strange, guys like us will always raise a red flag
Advice: always give current pix, even if u are marketing for someone, ask for current pix. Daalu

chucky234:
lol you pursue that guy comot for nl

Na the guy pursue himself, I even viewed his profile and discovered he once advertised TOX's Cauc and was enjoying praises like he raised them

Impressive

U see urself, u want to advertise the first pix and if someone gets interested the send the later.
Please prove me wrong and take another shot of the LAST TWO pups on the LAST THREE pix u posted initially
Easy right?
Before u do so, I have a little clause so u don't send another old pix. Hold their left leg while u snap so it can be established u complied to my request
I rest my case

What did I conclude here? I said I've seen the pix before(the last three), how is that conclusion? Or do u want me to un-see what I've already seen?

Bro it depends on some factors, first are u independent, do u have ur own crib etc if not then u are on a long thing
When I got my first dog, I was running a project then in my fathers house and he called me and said I should return the dog reason, that my mum doesn't like dogs, I said yes Sir! And the next day I left his house, now he is dragging my dogs with me, always asking me to comeover for weekends with them

Those pix are old! I'm sure I've seen them b4

ayobami52:
For me I really don't like dogs. Pls y do you guys even like dogs self

Get urself one and the mystery will be revealed into u

I don't even bother myself visiting that site OLX cos it's full of scam.
If I need a new stuff, I have Jumia or konga deliver it but if I need one on one individual deal, NL is the place
To avoid all these, always bookmark ur pix

Ur dog is bored, try and exercise him more often

I'm seeing boxer puppies but I stand to be corrected

And the badass Kangal didn't make ur list

bushdoc9919:
Because sadly, many farmers in Nigeria do not pay back their loans (true).

Eg.....Zamfara under Yerima gave some loans to farmers...which were not paid . Govt had to beg them.

Anyway.....i think eventually grants and cooperatives are the way forward.

I didn't imply they shouldn't get their collateral but not crazy ones like a structure on a land with C of O! Haba! Na farm I wan farm no be importation

Nice one!
Even the so-called BOA are not giving any one digit loan and expect crazy collaterals, immediate pay back plan and I wonder what's the different with the normal bank loan

Alright I heard u all but why are we all sentimental on dogs we love n breed rather than the fact/truth?
I know about dogo my brothers so spare me the hype, I downloaded the video only to discover the mountain lion was a puma(didn't know that before now)
Caucasians are lazy and fat yet they do wonders
Pls let's learn to be open minded and argue with facts devoid of sentiments
I've seen dog fights and analysis and I tell U that Kangal and Caucasians are thhe baddest of all
Rot kills pitbul, pitbul kills jaguar doesn't make the Rot stronger than the jaguar
I rest my case

espionagesavvy:
A bull dog can kill a Caucasian shepherd, a Caucasian shepherd can kill a wolve and even a lynx.

Bulldog kill caucasian? U know the rest