₦airaland Forum

alutacontinua: my planet is hostile to humans.
I do the visitations.

Well,busy packing and making stew for my last 1 day in a little place in Neptune.

Talking about hostility,I like it!

I actually do snore;trust me so well.

alutacontinua: I reside in Jupiter
and we're some hours behind planet earth

When am I getting an iv and a visa to visit na?

alutacontinua: I reside in Jupiter
and we're some hours behind planet earth

Oh,dearest alien!

alutacontinua: yes, I am
I'm some hours behind Nairaland

Oh,really?How do you mean?

alutacontinua: Nairaland

speaking of Nairaland, what was your username during your 'sabatical' leave....we both know you've not been offline since 2011



#just curious

Same name.

Yes,apolonius as always. Still up?

PointB: But people are talking about all the issues he raised every day, even here on Nairaland? How does he mean by people are not talking? Or is there any particular voice he wants to hear?

Soldiers are also fighting and dying every now and then trying to curb the security challenge? How could he say nothing is being done? Is is that these sacrifices by the soldiers amount to nothing?


By the way, can he tell us what he has done as Governor of his state?

That guy has transformed his state seriously.Jigawa state is one of the developed and progressively governed in Nigeria.

For those who talked about GEJ organizing his impeachment,that will be like an hyena taunting a lion. Some persons are by nature and impact history untouchables.

alutacontinua: cos I have to get back to work
been off for 3 weeks and I tell ya, it's so sweeeeet to wake up when you like and sleep when you like.

I am hoping to enjoy same from month end when I get into Naija. You have rested enough na,go back to work joor.

So outside rest wetin you do again na?

alutacontinua: it'll be a stressful one

How and why na?

alutacontinua: Did you ban her?
what happened?




I'm just there jare. Been a lazy week for me and I kinda don't want it to end
Today being friday makes me

Pele. The week ahead will be a better one.

alutacontinua: Where's ewuro1?

How far na?

shoefreak: **cellotapes her mouth** yawning already?! When he isn't not even a todder yer?

Hi y'all!!!! Hey newbie!!! That ur moniker reminds of an eye defect shha




Ewuro1_5!!!!!!!!!!! Come ooooooo!!!

Really?Tell me about it o!

Brothers,it is a sad one. The about a trillion that was appropriated for this war on insurgency this year has all gone into their deep pockets.

The killings continue,even soldiers are too ill-equipped to defend themselves talk more of fighting to keep people safe.

Yet this most fortunate Nigerian to have become a president by fate with no money nor real networks is fighting hard to leave it and all of us worse than our story has ever been.

Again,just when you expect the moderators to move this to the front page to stimulate thoughts,educate and debate for purposeful campaigns,they do not give a damn as it is not an anti-APC thread.

cococandy: I didn't see the OP say his wife objects to him sending money to his family only that she shows lack of interest.
It may be because she assumes you already do and no need to start asking you.

Or she thinks you don't care about her own parents hence her seeming disinterest in yours


Your joint account, does all your income go into it?
If not, then I can see why she thinks you're probably giving them on the side.

No reasonable woman will stand in the way of you helping your parents in their time of need especially when you can afford to. So find out through communication if she's really not interested in their welfare or if she thinks you have it sorted out by yourself.

Secondly don't ignore your parents in law because you think they already have enough. Since your wife doesn't work,I'm sure she may be longing to give them occasional gifts and treats but may not be able to as she has no money of her own. I know financial care should be given to those who need it more(your parents) but your parents-in-law are still part of your lives and do them good as often you can so that if there's any underlying feeling of resentment that making her not care about your parents,it will be done away with.
But all this can only be achieved through communication. Let her know that your not sending regular upkeep to her parents is not because they are not your parents but because they are doing fine by themselves and not so much in need of it.

your joint account thing? Just leave some personal money for yourself in a private account but every family needs a joint account.

Well said. Yes,his in-laws do need to be shown that care and love that manifests itself in financial and other gifts too,even if not regularly.

Thinking about it now,I agree there should be a family account;your point on a personal account for him is sound too.

Sagamite: You will end up with corrupt, moronic person that have looted you, leaving your kids and future generation have a debt round their neck which they continue servicing for another 50 years in their poverty.

This is what you get when cretins vote for person leaders like GEJ!

No better words sir!

singlefade25: bro, ur head dey there, na now Nigerian go dey pray bible, abeggi, I support peter, do me, I do u.

Thanks.

[quote author=Feedmemore][/quote]Thanks.

The women who commented have impressed me. They have said all you need to know your duty to your parents from the money you solely earn. No wife can be an obstacle to reciprocating the love that nurtured and made you. It is enough that she knows that you are giving them money.

And it is a weird thing to note that an account is joint and she dictates what is spent even when she contributes nothing. Op,be a loving but real man.

Yes,they were a team. "We" was the key and remains the key to a happy and eternal marriage.

For their souls,may God grant eternal joys.Amen.

Why are people giving themselves too much powers over another's choice of a wife? Is Peter not matured enough to make his choice of a bride freely? And to imagine that Jude took his dictator attitude to the level of being absent from Peter's wedding is plain stupidity.

Peter has done what a reasonable man will do. Any sibling that does not attend my wedding because of his/her idea of who I should marry will not see me at his or hers.

Life is too short to be trying so hard to please people who believe they own your life.

cococandy: I'm a reader.
Nothing much to share but I know I make a great lover too

It is a pleasant news!

I can't say it better.

cococandy: Lmao

The same policy should dictate that they all submit the names of wife 1 and 2 from the beginning na.

cococandy: I can relate

Sure?You wanna share?

As always nobody will give a damn!

We are in a season of daily designs to loot all there is and embezzle all that is left of our national funds and resources, to stay on in power and sustain the ruining and wrecking of our present and the promises of the future.

Goodluck to all of us!

"President Goodluck Jonathan on Wednesday forwarded a letter to the National Assembly, asking the lawmakers to urgently approve a $1bn external loan for the Federal Government to confront the terrorist Islamic sect, Boko Haram."

"The letter dated July 15, 2014, was read on the floor of the Senate and that of the House of Representatives on Wednesday, by the Senate President David Mark and Speaker Aminu Tambuwal respectively.In the letter, Jonathan explained that the external loan was urgently needed to upgrade the equipment, training and logistics of the Armed Forces and security services in order to enable them to confront the insurgents more forcefully."

"The National Assembly had in the N4.6tn 2014 Budget provisions, appropriated N968.127bn for Defence on account of the Boko Haram insurgency."

Source:http://www.punchng.com/news/president-seeks-1bn-loan-to-fight-boko-haram/

What do you think guys?

What has happened to NTA is really what happens to a public institution that is retrogressively transformed into the propaganda arm of the versions of visionless and irresponsible governments we have had over the years.

Across Nigeria,our powerful men have destroyed our great and promising public institutions;at best,they have kept them functionlessly weak like the NTA.

She is obviously a terrible babe but your hubby has not played his role well.

As it is,he is supposed to have said no to the new arrangement to bring her back to your home with the pregnancy. He still has not done well.

What do you do?Take it all in,ignore her,avoid giving her the opportunity to taunt or insult you, and face your life as painfully as it all is. Of course,still respect your hubby. Time delivers the best justice. Mark my words today,your hubby will chase her out in due time.

May God's wisdom guide you.Amen.

BraveGuy: Well, I have twice watched John Lennox tear apart the arguments of Richard Dawkins in philosophical arguments:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J0UIbd0eLxw

Check-out the Monk debates between Blair and Hitchens too,then Intelligence Square debate between Hitchens-Fry and Onaiyekan-Ann W-combe. Great one you have shared. Thanks.

Weah96: Great! Now you're faced with the small problem of deciding which, of all the available Gods, is the right one. Who is the HE God?

LOL!

I know that one joor. You never know?

I have always maintained that even the missing one was shot down too. And there is a conspiracy to keep that buried to avoid war.

Peace to the dead.

Niseamaka: This topic is about beauty not character, and talking about character, are you married?, are you a saint?, marriages these days are filled to the brim with negative tales, maybe yours is an exception. Must we dwell on problems always, sometimes we`ve to throw problems aside and talk about beautiful and positive issues.

I respect your points,but I feel that in championing beauty subtly or directly we inspire people to aspire to it over and above what should truly matter,character.

But,hey,freedom of expression in all its variations is allowed.