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I am 35 years lady,from the eastern part of Nigeria. average in height, chocolate in color, a graduate but a business woman. Needs a mature man from the age of 37 and above that is ready for marriage.

mysticalman:
hey you talk too much

That's my opinion guy, air yours and I will respect it.

karian:
I wonder why people go about creating this perfect picture of what they want in their spouse forgetting that no one is perfect. I have come to realize that most people here tends to want either a graduate, a working class or business partner. what happens to the undergraduates, the job seekers, etc? Are we trying to say such people don't deserve to be loved too? If u are a man and u are financially buoyant, u can establish
any woman of ur choice to your taste and
same thing goes for the woman too. pls my dear people let us have a rethink because all these qualities we are looking for might not be all we need to make a happy home. I pray God answers all our prayers and blesses us with what is best for us. thanks

Marriage is not a child's play, before anyone thinks of marriage the person has to be responsible and at least have a roof over your head and a means of livelihood no matter how little, this applies mostly to the male folks. Most ladies have picked up guys and brushed them up and in the end hv their heart broken. So my advise to men that are ready for marriage is to at least hv a house even if it's one room and a something doing then a woman can come and compliment him.

myGod80:
pls will HIV + cause one to have weight ..fat.....even NOT yet on drug...

No dear, it's your life style and you eating attitude that will cause you to add weight and not HIV.

healed170517:
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chadwidfriz:
i wish i had Bros like you.
i would have finish my career by now
i thought it was over coupled wf d fact that i have seen many die including someone who infected me
i just wanted something to kill m because i cant kill myself
and you know funny people,clowns etc always live a solitude life .

Pick up your life and start living, I am living 7 years with it and still counting, started drug 2 years back, doing a business I so much love and enjoying my life. Don't stop chasing your dream dear. Cheers

I am a lady of 34 years old, from Abia State, fair in complexion and average height, needs a serious minded And responsible guy that is tired of playing and really wants to settle down, kind hearted and fun to be with, must be AA genotype wise. contact me: miraisaac@yahoo.com

chadwidfriz:
Whewww up to 12 pages of wasted time. Typing efforts and mb
See pray scroll down the pages. Get a mail of who atleast suit to what u want)(know it can never be perfect) email him or her get his /her contact and begin to hook up wf tge pesin or dz place will jyst be advert corner
I want to be seeing results not adverts
#we are on this together #one love..
I pray you find yoir heart desire
Flowflexy@gmail.com for any assistance

Exactly, need to see results, most people here are time wasters, they set goals that are unrealistic, no one is pertect even outside the internet, no marriage is perfect, every good thing needs hard work and perseverance, nothing works if seriousness is not involved. Pls let start reading testimonies.
Cheers.

Serves them right, tell them to take things easy, they refused, they want quick money, the worst part is that you don't even see what they do with the money. I wish all 4 were even killed to avoid them re- enforcing and coming back to kill that guy that sold them out. Kudos to the Nigerian police force that got there without the usual delay.

I am a 33 years old lady from Abia State, a graduate but self employed, AS Genotype, average in height, fair in complexion, based in Lagos, a Christian, responsible and fun to be with, want to meet a responsible serious minded positive guy who is ready to get married, between the ages of 33-45, AA genotype and a Christian.
Here is my contact; miraisaac@yahoo.com

fsb:
The good news is that viral load testing is no longer targeted (where doctor only requests it under specific circumstances and for specific patients) but routine (for every clients on ARVs)

Any client who has been on ARVs for at least 6 months is eligible to have a viral load test. The viral load test measures the number of viral copies per milliliter of blood as against the CD4 test which measures the absolute number of CD4 T-lymphocytes, which is an indirect measure of a person's response to ARVs. Aside that the viral load is a direct and sensitive measure of how well the virus is getting suppressed as a result of ARVs.

To simplify this, if you have used ARVS for at least 6 months and has been adherent, your viral load should be less than 1,000 copies per ml, although it's better to have much lower numbers such as under 20 copies per ml. This iis known as virologic suppression. If you have achieved virologic suppression, it's much easier for your CD4 to rise (cos there is minimal viral replication; the process of replication destroys CD4 cells). With a rising CD4, your immunity is in better shape and you have a minimal chance of developing an opportunistic infection such as tuberculosis.

Yes that's true, as at last month my viral load was 22 after using the drug for just 6 months, my advice is for patients to be consistent with their drugs, try as much as possible not to skip ur drugs, it's all well, we shall overcome.
@awepluz, stop that self pity, it's one of those challenges of life, take ur drug and live ur life, it's not a death sentence, I have been with it for 6 years and still counting, I look healthy and I am healthy. I have met patients that have lived with it for 15 years and are as healthy as every other non positive people.

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GenBuhari:
You yourself has not taken the HIV drugs and I thank God you have not because if you had I doubt you would be still here 4 years later.

Its ironic that you who have remained healthy by choosing not to take the drugs are advising other to take the drugs that would kill them.

Please stop arguing senselessly from a position

Just go on the internet or Youtube and search for HIV / AIDS hoax and learn for yourself.

Those who are taking the drugs must stop immediately at least suspend taking your drugs until you have done the research about AIDs hoax.

I did not choose not to take the drugs, I am not taking it because my CD4 count is still high, don't deceive people cos this guy's CD4 is already low so that he will not die. HIV is not a hoax, it is real, I hv seen people that are taking their drugs religiously and leaving normal and healthy.

GenBuhari:
Stop taking those tablets. They will kill you.

Do everything naturally to boost your immune system and you would be ok.

Pls Gen Buhari stop deceiving people, if you don't know jerk about HIV just keep off this thread.
@Aweplus, take your drugs, eat lots of vegetable and fruits like watermelon and cucumber, eat well and healthy but still take your drugs. HIV is no longer a killer disease, I have been living with it for the past 4 years and I still look good, make sure that you don't miss your appointment and your drugs.
It is well.

Hi guys, I think we need testimonies here naa. Has anyone hooked up or even gotten married yet. We need to know that there is hope.

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Obinoscopy: Yes, provided they use condom and the person with the virus is compliant with his/her medication. Presently, we even have medications for sero-discordant couples. This will ensure that the man does not infect his wife and vise versa for the rest of their lives

Do they give this medications for sero-discordant couples in Apin clinics or you get it from the pharmacy?

[quote author=Zona.com]Whats up with the custom job dear? Hope you are fine[/quote]I'm alright thanks for asking, I just ignored that my uncle cos I don't know what the outcome would be, I'm now into biz and have forgotten about white collar jobs entirely.

I have been positive since 2010 but not on drugs yet, my cd4 count is still on the high side, but I do take immunace ( immune boosting drugs).

@Tishat Thanks for d word of encouragement, you are one lucky woman to get ur man despite your status, wish mine would be as easy as urs cos my guy is negative but we use condom though, I'm wondering how to break d news to him.

[quote author=gree-die]i don't get it, i ve heard and read dat guys can sleep wit hiv positive gals and not be infected as long as dey don't ve fresh/open wounds. some say its bcz of d se.xual organs involved. i ve always dismissed it cz der is no medical proof. are u saying dat its actually possible? wow!

its a pity he ran 4 40...a better guy ll come along[/quote]I too was surprised but that was what really happened, yea they said its easier for girls to contact than guys except when open wound is involved.
I said amen to the prayer of a better man cos I need am, .

MRbrownJAY: @poster
sorry but i dont follow you any longer. . . . . . .
so you had unprotected sex with your guy BEFORE the test and then decided after to go and have the test, only to discover that you were + but not him?!
well i guess if he isnt - now, he might not be along the way. some people on ARV drugs would show a - test result while they are positive. . . . . . . . . .dont be fooled people!

as for your story, although very hard to believe in 9ja, i guess you found the right guy so hold on to him until you pass away.

Its very much true cos my ex that we were making love without condom for like one year took me for HIV test and I was positive while he was negative and still is negative but unfortunately he ran 4 40, it takes an extra ordinary man to stay after founding out.

, Airforce are you match making, the guy is inlove with his girl naa no time to look at another girl HIV or not.

[quote author=liftemeupolord ]I am a young graduate. Was tested positive oct 30th. Well am geting along with it. But my challenge is getting married. My fiance is negative I proposed to her a week b4 I got to knw my status. Again how do I was tested to have type A&B at d same time. But my CD4 count was 465. Its has not been easy. Again I am propering for nysc. What do I do. Is there a team dat handles /manage people with such cases there in d camp ? For now am in Abuja where do u advice I go for treatment.@ airforce thanks[/quote]That's †ђξ same problem I'm facing now, how to disclose my status to my guy though I don't even know his status but cos of his lifestyle is believe he I negative, I don't S̤̥̈̊ι̥ǝ̥ǝ̥ρ̥ at night again cos of too much worry, initially I was cool with it but now I'm getting worried and its seriously affecting my health, I don't know what to do.

[quote author=tolu_walase]I live and work in Lagos.very close to ikeja but I don't like the idea of going to A̶̲̥̅ General Hospital. Tђξ crowd and it's close to where I stay[/quote]You can go to LUTH at least it not close to where you stay, I go there, people minds there business and everyting is organised.

Fulfilling

A bu m onye ka I na echere Ooº°˚ , echiche oma Ooº°˚
Onye njo di ka mu ka I na echere echiche oma Ooº°˚ 3x

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Applelady, how did your appointment go in July?

And hope you've been bearing up okay? Just checking to see if your fine as it's been a while you've visited this thread...[/quote]Thanks for ur concern, just down with malaria ++ but taking Amatem as prescribed by a doctor otherwise I'm fine, not started with ARV yet but will go for another appointment this month end.

FlowerPower: @OP
I'm sorry to hear that have human immunodeficiency virus, but as everyone else said, it's not a death sentence as long as you take you antiretroviral medication. Taking your medication does not mean you don't have faith in God. In fact, it shows that you recognize God has already given us the answer by providing knowledge for doctors and scientists to create the drugs that that keep the disease at bay. Pardon me if I'm over stepping, but I think you and "applelady" should think about meeting and seeing if you two might be compatible. At the very least, you could offer each other support. Blessings.

Hahahahaha, abi oooo? You are not over stepping at all, Ʊ are on †ђξ right track, thanks dear, really touched.

Acidosis: Please endeavour to start asap..

It is not in my hand †̥☹ start, it is the doctors that has to say when I will start, they said my CD4 is still high, it is when it gets to like 350 that I will start, meanwhile I'm on 'immunace' an immune booster. Acidosis, is it risky cos they wouldn't want to start giving me drug even if I ask them till I get to 350.

@op I have been diagnosed with HIV for †ђξ past two years but yet †̥☹ start treatment, I was advised †̥☹ eat well and take immunE boosting drug like immunace and I have been taking it religiously. My point is that it is not a death sentence, you can still live a normal life as long as Ʊ didn't go about broadcasting it †̥☹ †ђξ public who will in turn make ur life a living hell. Go †̥☹ any general hospital of ur choice and register with them for close monitoring.