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SportsRe: Game Over For Eagles... by Apus: 10:27pm On Jul 02, 2019
HONVick50:
The super Eagles of Nigeria have been drawn against the Indomitable lions of Cameroon and Definitely this is the end of the road for them..
So they should start warming up and get their luggage's ready to come bk on Sunday morning....
Says who??
Same Cameroonian side that's also struggling. You go shock dt day. Atleast make u na try still dey encourage ur own na.
RomanceRe: How Do I Tell My Friend The Truth by Apus: 10:10pm On Jul 02, 2019
Zimgirl321:
I have a male friend who is in his early 40s. Over the past few years he has been trying to find a wife which was proving to be very hard. 2 years ago he met this lady in our church and they were getting along well. They had a few hiccups along the way but this expected for every relationship. Some months ago I started hearing rumours about his girlfriend and how she was sleeping around with a married man in the church. Also, it was rumoured that the lady was kicked out of her old church for the same behaviour. At first I ignored it but the rumours have started again. My friend confided me that he intends to propose to the lady shortly. Please may you advise me if I should tell my friend about the rumours? I am scared to say anything because I don’t actually have any proof that his lady has done anything wrong? I know he will be really crushed because he really wants to settle down and start his own family.
If you got no proof just keep quiet or better still confront the said lady without the know of your friend. Even if she did, she might have turned a new leaf.The last thing your friend needs now is to be suspicious of her. Leave it to him to find out himself.
CrimeRe: I Started Having Threesomes At Age 3 - Doctor Narrates Sexual Abuse Ordeal by Apus: 6:39pm On Jul 02, 2019
Twitter stories

CrimeRe: Man Seen Using Sniper To Preserve Stockfish At Oyingbo Market, Lagos (Photos) by Apus: 6:58pm On Jun 30, 2019
Even beans. These aboki s might be the end of us in Nigeria
CelebritiesRe: "Say No To Rape": Naira Marley Dances To His New Song. Davido And Others React by Apus: 6:39am On Jun 30, 2019
With this ur worwor legs

Those who soapy also tend to be potential rapists. It's most times just a lack of opportunity of which time reveals. I've been there before(even though i'm not a rapist). It starts with a thought process, then soapy and then rape. It takes d grace of God and personal decision to stop indulgence.


This wan na yeyebrity abeg. Bad influence.
CrimeRe: Man Burnt For Stealing At Polytechnic Nekede's Back Gate (Graphic Photos) by Apus: 5:00am On Jun 30, 2019
Who did this to us in Africa.. no wonder we were called babaric. We still are.

too graphic!!
RomanceRe: Why Sue Her If You No Rape Her by Apus: 9:06pm On Jun 29, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
He is atheist, do not waste words on him.
I knew right from onset my sister..lols!!

It's weekend and i'm even bored myself. Thanks for d alert grin
RomanceRe: Why Sue Her If You No Rape Her by Apus: 9:04pm On Jun 29, 2019
CosmicPhoenix:
you have not answered my questions only dodged them.the europeans told you that the gods of your ancestors are evil and that the christian god is the one true god and you believed undecided
What i do know is that asides idol worship we've had the idea of who d true God is before the white men came. This they won't write in their reportage of Africa's history to swell the believe they were d first to bring "God worship". How how else did we get d notion of whom God was in d Yoruba creation mythology dt referred God as Olodumare. Christianity is just religion. Africans had access to God and d idea of whom He was pre-historical period.
RomanceRe: Why Sue Her If You No Rape Her by Apus: 8:40pm On Jun 29, 2019
CosmicPhoenix:
god too has pride if he cannot forgive a crime committed thousands of years ago to save innocent billions.one thing i dont understand is why an omniscient being will create an angel knowing fully well that angel will rebel against him,get cast unto the earth and put innocent billions in suffering.which provision of escape did our african ancestors have during that time because i know they worshipped 'idols' during that time so they did not know about 'blood of lambs' sacrifice?
As to your first question i understand u are alluding to d concept of freewill which till now you have vehemently been in denial. If by tomorrow you wake up as a Christian and U see yourself worshipping a God you didn't choose to serve, how will you feel?? Boring and uninteresting...right?? Still same U said God should save people who did not ask to be saved right??


As to your second question, it is your own salvation you should work out(Phil2:12). Much of d history we've read especially about Africa has been proven time and again to be Eurocentrically biased. They told you we worshipped only idols and u believed
RomanceRe: Why Sue Her If You No Rape Her by Apus: 7:35pm On Jun 29, 2019
CosmicPhoenix:
jesus is the intercessor na im business.god's inability to forgive the devil whether he asked or not will send innocent billions to hell yet christians say he is omnibelovent,also since god knew jesus is the only way mankind can be saved what stopped him from sending jesus to earth a long time ago(during noah's time) thereby saving millions from eternal damnation?
The devil was cast out from Paradise cos of pride same pride did not allow him ask God for forgiveness. Realising the destruction that awaited man, God, in His infinite wisdom and mercy prepared a means of escape. First in the blood of sacrificial lambs. Which means those who existed pre-Noah's time had a provision for their escape. Later in d blood of Jesus (the perfect sacrifice). So you can see, nobody was and is being left out.

Same pride deters many from pleading for God's forgiveness. Or what do you think prevents many from asking of what they need from someone yet refuse to do so to their own detriment?? You can't save someone who is not willing to be saved.



May you be broken
RomanceRe: Why Sue Her If You No Rape Her by Apus: 7:10pm On Jun 29, 2019
CosmicPhoenix:
it was not stated that god forgave them which means jesus preachings about forgiveness is a scam grin and it was not written that the one thief finally entered paradise with jesus
Jesus played and He is still playing d role of an intercessor/solicitor. His teachings on forgiveness is still very valid. You pray/intercede for people must be backed up with their willingness to receive and that is where faith comes into play. That is, such person is expectant..

Even as Human, you can never give anybody what you are not sure he/she is willing to receive.

I perceive you are an atheist oga.
RomanceRe: Why Sue Her If You No Rape Her by Apus: 6:59pm On Jun 29, 2019
kazyhm:
Lol...see your life outside
lols!! i can see urs is inside-out.
RomanceRe: Why Sue Her If You No Rape Her by Apus: 6:57pm On Jun 29, 2019
CosmicPhoenix:
the people jesus asked god to forgive,were they willing to be forgiven? grin

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and where was it stated that they were forgiven. To buttress this point, why was it just one thief that entered paradise instead of two.

You cannot give a pig bread. He go just waste am go chop sh**t.

Use ur head oga!!
RomanceRe: Why Sue Her If You No Rape Her by Apus: 6:51pm On Jun 29, 2019
CosmicPhoenix:
did jesus say your enemy should ask for forgiveness before you forgive him,did jesus not ask god to forgive the people who nailed him to a cross undecided did they ask him for forgiveness?
oga go siddon. Forgive someone who is not wonting to be forgiven neither is he any remorseful.

Talk another thing abeg!!
CelebritiesRe: Airplane Seat: Wole Soyinka To Mo Abudu - "This Was What Happened" by Apus: 7:45pm On Jun 25, 2019
cattylove7:
pls is it real/fake i mean d uni www.cattylovegist.com
E fake die!!!
CelebritiesRe: Airplane Seat: Wole Soyinka To Mo Abudu - "This Was What Happened" by Apus: 7:39pm On Jun 25, 2019
Me am still finding d said university oo. I wan apply for my PHD

PhonesRe: TECNO Pouvoir 3 Smartphone 1st Impressions: Super Slim Powerhouse by Apus: 2:39pm On Jun 21, 2019
Tecno just have a way of killing d fun. Just when i was looking for an upgrade to my pouvoir 2 with 2GB RAM. Battery life is top notch though.


Xiaomi to d rescue
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikah Is All About Immorality!amstel Malta Will Loose Customers-grace Amah by Apus: 2:32pm On Jun 21, 2019
She go soon reason ur matter. The way that woman take dey react u go think say na thunder rape am.
RomanceRe: Why Does This Happen To Me Alot by Apus: 9:59pm On Jun 13, 2019
I can relate. Sometimes i have to look myself in the mirror again to be sure i'm not looking awkward.
I've learnt people become uneasy around more attractive people so i try as much as possible to dress moderately, not the type that screams "i am attractive, and i know it!!"
RomanceRe: Can You Possibly Decode This Picture. by Apus:
I see a man who just got informed about his betrothed's infidelity with his best man/friend(as evidenced by the mischievious/guilt look of the man in black behind).

And the woman leaning against the door revealed the evil schemings between his betrothed and best man/friend out of sheer jealousy or some sort.
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Apus: 9:44pm On Jun 11, 2019
Right now, there's this uneasiness with me when an anonymous number calls my line. I never pick them
even if i have an idea who it may be. Funny thing is i don't regret it. Even if the call was from Mr President amd he ain't on my contact list we not game. Though i get to apologize, I find it rude when an anonymous number calls me. Atleast inform me before calling so i know how to compose myself.
I installed Truecaller after much complaints from people.

CrimeRe: Zhao Zhiyong Executed For Raping 25 Underage School Girls In China by Apus: 12:06pm On Jun 06, 2019
whereas our own politicians have been raping us left-front-back and centre since 1960.
PoliticsRe: Bride Mocked After She Shared Her Traditional Wedding Photos by Apus: 9:12pm On Jun 04, 2019
low budget tinz
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Apus: 12:03am On Jun 04, 2019
callmemercy:
Lol, you just made me remember the beatings I used to receive from my mom while growing up. I eventually had to devise the innocent look so as to escape beatings.

And really, it's funny when I look back to my younger days and try to compare those days with my present. The contrast is vast.

But honestly, being an introvert may have ruined some things.
I hope it hasn't ruined anything for you as well?
Funny... i was like d black sheep of d family back then.

I've lost a great deal of old friends or atleast for lack of communication. Tried a reunion with some old friends years ago. It didn't work out. I just felt lost in their midst. Right now i prefer dealing with pple in their little doses.
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Apus: 11:40pm On Jun 03, 2019
callmemercy:
I just stumbled on this post and I am really glad the OP decided to start this thread.

For me, life as an introvert has been one big roller-coaster. I became an introvert when I got into junior high school, a once bubbling child just suddenly started craving privacy. It was a huge change and my mom just didn't know what to do.

As an adult now, I crave my privacy fiercerly. I rarely meet up with online friends, I have online friends I have been chatting with and haven't even met and don't think I wanna meet.
I can strike up a conversation with a new face, but I look out for the person's reaction to determine if to sustain or cut off the convo. But around my family and the few scattered close friends I have, I am a clown.
When I'm outdoors, I, literally, feel as if I'm being suffocated. I get bored easily, but I'm curious, so I read up a lot.

I hate unnecessary talks or critical talks especially if it relates to my looks or lack of make up, I have learned to defend myself by being sarcastic or just give a blank look. I am still shy, but not as terribly shy as I used to be.

I love writing and it has always been my means of escape.
I dunno if this an introvert trait, but I can be unyielding most times, I never do anything I don't wanna do, no matter the amount of cajoling involved.
This is so me.

While growing up, i was all shades of trouble. Rarely stayed home but busy gallivanting the whole neighbourhood with friends. All of a sudden i became self conscious of myself and started withdrawing from my erstwhile social life. I laugh real hard at myself when i think of what i have become. Imagine, the once notorious me is now someone who has been indoor for the past 3days now just pressing phone,reading and watching movies.
RomanceRe: closed by Apus: 6:08am On Jun 03, 2019
Person dey owe u money come put you for Is-coming and u no wan spoil your friendship. Siddon there hunger never flog u tire. Ur brain no tell u say na only u dey d friendship? Or d guy don help u with money matter before??
InvestmentRe: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by Apus: 4:21pm On May 29, 2019
Mizwisdom:
Does this mean I can apply tomorrow?
Yes please.
InvestmentRe: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by Apus: 5:23am On May 29, 2019
The Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) is scheduled to hold a Treasury Bills (T-Bills) Primary Market Auction (PMA) on the 30th of May 2019. T-Bills worth NGN 67.37bn will mature, and an equal amount will be issued in the 91-day, 182-day and 364-day instruments.
RomanceRe: Can You Decide The Gender Of This Creature? by Apus: 6:44pm On May 28, 2019
only Igbo women have that amount of testosterone. Igbo Amaka!!!
HealthRe: Help Me!!! My Skin Is Rough by Apus: 5:33pm On May 21, 2019
oga go run blood test then we can take it from there.
CelebritiesRe: Inside Michael Jackson's Home & Ultra-private Bedroom Before His Death by Apus: 10:16pm On May 19, 2019
All these people saying vanity upon vanity are just trying to console their losers' mindset. Even poverty is vanity.

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