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Crime › Re: Zhao Zhiyong Executed For Raping 25 Underage School Girls In China by Apus: 12:06pm On Jun 06, 2019
whereas our own politicians have been raping us left-front-back and centre since 1960.
Politics › Re: Bride Mocked After She Shared Her Traditional Wedding Photos by Apus: 9:12pm On Jun 04, 2019
low budget tinz
Family › Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Apus: 12:03am On Jun 04, 2019
callmemercy:
Lol, you just made me remember the beatings I used to receive from my mom while growing up. I eventually had to devise the innocent look so as to escape beatings.

And really, it's funny when I look back to my younger days and try to compare those days with my present. The contrast is vast.

But honestly, being an introvert may have ruined some things.
I hope it hasn't ruined anything for you as well?
Funny... i was like d black sheep of d family back then.

I've lost a great deal of old friends or atleast for lack of communication. Tried a reunion with some old friends years ago. It didn't work out. I just felt lost in their midst. Right now i prefer dealing with pple in their little doses.
Family › Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Apus: 11:40pm On Jun 03, 2019
callmemercy:
I just stumbled on this post and I am really glad the OP decided to start this thread.

For me, life as an introvert has been one big roller-coaster. I became an introvert when I got into junior high school, a once bubbling child just suddenly started craving privacy. It was a huge change and my mom just didn't know what to do.

As an adult now, I crave my privacy fiercerly. I rarely meet up with online friends, I have online friends I have been chatting with and haven't even met and don't think I wanna meet.
I can strike up a conversation with a new face, but I look out for the person's reaction to determine if to sustain or cut off the convo. But around my family and the few scattered close friends I have, I am a clown.
When I'm outdoors, I, literally, feel as if I'm being suffocated. I get bored easily, but I'm curious, so I read up a lot.

I hate unnecessary talks or critical talks especially if it relates to my looks or lack of make up, I have learned to defend myself by being sarcastic or just give a blank look. I am still shy, but not as terribly shy as I used to be.

I love writing and it has always been my means of escape.
I dunno if this an introvert trait, but I can be unyielding most times, I never do anything I don't wanna do, no matter the amount of cajoling involved.
This is so me.

While growing up, i was all shades of trouble. Rarely stayed home but busy gallivanting the whole neighbourhood with friends. All of a sudden i became self conscious of myself and started withdrawing from my erstwhile social life. I laugh real hard at myself when i think of what i have become. Imagine, the once notorious me is now someone who has been indoor for the past 3days now just pressing phone,reading and watching movies.
Romance › Re: closed by Apus: 6:08am On Jun 03, 2019
Person dey owe u money come put you for Is-coming and u no wan spoil your friendship. Siddon there hunger never flog u tire. Ur brain no tell u say na only u dey d friendship? Or d guy don help u with money matter before??
Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by Apus: 4:21pm On May 29, 2019
Mizwisdom:
Does this mean I can apply tomorrow?
Yes please.
Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by Apus: 5:23am On May 29, 2019
The Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) is scheduled to hold a Treasury Bills (T-Bills) Primary Market Auction (PMA) on the 30th of May 2019. T-Bills worth NGN 67.37bn will mature, and an equal amount will be issued in the 91-day, 182-day and 364-day instruments.
Romance › Re: Can You Decide The Gender Of This Creature? by Apus: 6:44pm On May 28, 2019
only Igbo women have that amount of testosterone. Igbo Amaka!!!
Health › Re: Help Me!!! My Skin Is Rough by Apus: 5:33pm On May 21, 2019
oga go run blood test then we can take it from there.
Celebrities › Re: Inside Michael Jackson's Home & Ultra-private Bedroom Before His Death by Apus: 10:16pm On May 19, 2019
All these people saying vanity upon vanity are just trying to console their losers' mindset. Even poverty is vanity.
Family › Re: My Mum Is Retiring Next Year, What Business Can She Do? by Apus: 8:21pm On May 19, 2019
Davash222:
Funny enough, you're not minding your business.
U try too hard to be funny on a serious thread. It's ur likes that jump about polluting every thread on Nairaland. You should have minded your own business in d first instance.
Celebrities › Re: DJ Cuppy Is So Local Even With All The Money Her Parents Have - Lady Reveals by Apus: 2:55pm On May 19, 2019
If it was the other way round, this same low life will still call her a spoilt rich kid.

Anty minding your business is now a good business!!
Crime › Re: Pregnant Woman, Mother Of Three Commits Suicide In Ogun State(photos). by Apus: 2:45pm On May 19, 2019
How can you run for help after drinking sniper as though you were forced to drink it in the first place??
I thought suicidal pple are supposed to be brave.


To those nursing suicidal thoughts... all I'll say is "give it time". I've been there before and trust me nothing lasts not even your present predicament.

Whenever I'm faced with any life challenge, I say to myself "and this too shall pass".. I pray, work towards improving myself and things begin to fall into place.
Family › Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Apus: 11:12pm On May 18, 2019
cry

Education › Re: Uniabuja Student Sentenced To Death By Hanging For Killing Brother (photos) by Apus: 12:49pm On May 15, 2019
Idiot

entitlement mentality don Kee u.

Even as the only male child, I had to leave d comfort of my father's house to make something of myself.

Every part of your body complete na to kill person u sa bi. Na worms go soon dey with you.
Romance › Re: Is This The Most Handsome Man On Earth? by Apus: 8:02pm On May 14, 2019
BORNTOSUCKPUSSY:
name 1 nigerian wey fine reach am huh
I don tell U say na me.



Jokes aside, d likes of Bryan Okwara, Somto Akanegbu ET Al still game. Make e go chop Naija sun for one year first.
Crime › Re: Video Of Two Oyinbo Ladies Fighting Goes Viral As Nigerians React by Apus: 6:43pm On May 14, 2019
Eledes!
Romance › Re: I've Been Insulted Alot. Pls Recommend Me A Good Beard Cream. by Apus: 6:37pm On May 14, 2019
This question has been over flogged. Truth is you have to wait your time(genetically). At 21 you are not even supposed to be this worried cos many do not have any till they are 25.

If You can't wait, I'll suggest you get minoxidil the 5% own or weed soaked in original methylated spirit and rub religiously everyday on your face. If you do not see even a single strand after 6months, bros just lock up.
Romance › Re: Is This The Most Handsome Man On Earth? by Apus: 6:20pm On May 14, 2019
Then you haven't seen me wink wink

Forget hair and colour some Nigerian men fine pass am sha
Crime › Re: Solomon Yellowe Killed By SARS, Corpse Deposited In Mortuary - Sibling by Apus: 5:43pm On May 13, 2019
To come Naija come visit sef don dey scare me. Which way Naija??
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Adeboye Built Intensive Care Unit For Plateau Hospital (Photos) by Apus: 9:59am On May 12, 2019
Daddy freezer right now
Family › Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Apus: 6:21pm On May 11, 2019
Guys is this true cos this describes my relationship with pple

Romance › Re: Very Important Advice To Young Men At Early Age In Life by Apus:
Abeg abeg spare me this!

It's d same line most parents have used to send many young people into a life time of misery. See this life no carry manual come.

Asides finance, at 25 most men are not even ready(mentally/psychologically) and with marriage it's a whole different ball game. And yes, money plays a huge role in d success of any marriage.

Yes it's a good thing to marry early but ask yourself are u ready?? When you are, u don't even need a Prophet to tell you.
Romance › Re: What Is This Medicine Used For? I Guess She Has Gone To Sleep With Another Man by Apus: 9:39pm On May 08, 2019
It is one of those STDs
Crime › Re: Nigerian Car Dealer, Okechukwu Henry Stabbed To Death By Robbers In South Africa by Apus: 9:58am On May 05, 2019
This matter don tire me
Family › Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Apus: 6:23pm On May 04, 2019
R2bees:
I Hate it when someone keeps looking at me.. Stop ffs!! Except you are a fine girl. hehehe
Lols!! dem dey appr8 God work for ur body na.

Truely, those piercing looks can cause discomfort. On a good day I just stare back or pretend not to notice.
Education › Re: FUTA Warn The Use Of Earpieces In Campus (SEE WHY) by Apus: 11:30am On May 04, 2019
Uyi168:
.. There is no such thing as fate..
There is more probability that it does exist.
Education › Re: FUTA Warn The Use Of Earpieces In Campus (SEE WHY) by Apus: 9:25am On May 04, 2019
something must kill a man.

when a person has been fated to die the cause of death can be anything.
Family › Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Apus: 8:51am On May 04, 2019
I don't get why pple deem it necessary for an introvert to socialize and meet people often. The world out there is full of selfish individuals who will waste no time to rubbish your good nature(my experience: being an introvert) which may cause you to slip into greater depression. So, it is not imperative as an introvert to make friends especially those they are not comfortable with. Trust me there are droves of friendly foes out there.

The key thing is to discover yourself, know what makes you happy and stick to it.

May your intuition guide you.

Good day!
Politics › Re: What Is Wrong With Nigeria Pastors by Apus: 1:05pm On May 01, 2019
You made a whole lot of sense.


No pastor will ever scam me of my hard earned money in the name of tithe. I've lived with pastors and I know the ungodly things they do with members' tithe. Evil things men do in God's name.


If this trend continues, then no one should complain about the type of political and religious leaders we have.

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