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pterygott:
stubborn isn't exactly the right word. . . I think they're go- getters

i had to go look up your profile

i think this response pretty much sums it up

it all depends of the lady in question

wants it or not

fatty

i like the use of your word

decent man, those are as rare as the women

of course a decent man deserves a woman deserving of him

the question is this ,or should be this

if a member of the opposite gender had my character and personality

would i want the person?

hmmmmmm

mama

am thinking about it ooo

@SwtNsoFLyy

everyone hets hazed

i dont even think you got one

do come back,


anyways that was pretty neat stuff reading

_{*****hmmm he wonders whether he shouldnt take a lead from that*******}



Gran maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

email addy not correct

@poster

what you described is not stubborness

but perseverance

which i consider an admirable

and am sure most women do too

agreed when the direction its

channelled towards doesnt favour the recipient

it can be annoying.

perseverance shows strenght of character.period!!!

yeap i know that,

its a matter of perception

thus ma


let them go figure

aint it true

fatty27:
You guys are doing well on this credo forum. I am honestly enjoying it. This is obviously the only forum on romance section where love and sex are absence. Tell us mishoo, ariblaze, olanajim a.k.a Dr mirror, you were all telling us about role nature assigned and the role you assigns yourself. Could you guys apply that concept to love angle? Is it possible for nature to have predestined a particular man/woman as lovers? Why do we have so much break ups here and there and what can we do about it? Is love natural or man made? Let's hear your wisdoms in this area. I have read Dr mirror's contributions on love so I know he is aware of this. Stop wearing protection, remove it. If you are hurt, we shall help you apply balm. We have lots of babe here willing to give your broken heart a good patch-up if it is ever broken at all.

in response to your enquiry

i am gonna add something i picked somwhere read and give me your take

here goes




1. Ms. Gold-Digger

Advantages
a. You have someone to manage your money.
b. She always looks good.
c. She makes your other boys jealous.
d. She makes you look good.
Disadvantages
a. When you get broke she'll be gone and take what you have left.
b. She makes sure she has a child by you to sue you for child support.
c. Once your boy comes up she'll be on his arm the next day.


2. Ms. Freak (secret lover)

Advantages
a. She knows all the right positions.
b. She'll try everything more than once.
c. You're never unsatisfied.
d. She'll do all the things your girl won't do.
e. She doesn't mind being your freak, as long as she catches one too.
Disadvantages
a. Eventually, because she's a female, she'll end up catching feelings.
b. She starts to act like she's your "main".
c. She messes with ya boy and act like you in the wrong for telling that she's a freak.
d. Eventually her stuff gets old. And you need a replacement.



3. Ms. Independent

Advantages
a. You don't have to worry about buying her anything. She got it.
b. She's intelligent, sassy, confident and determined.
c. She's great for (business) conversation.
d. She keeps it real and has goals.
e. She knows how to please a man.
Disadvantages
a. She will continuously let you know, that she can handle it on her own.
b. She will eventually say forget you and get a Love Machine.
c. She will consider you another one her play toys, or goals.


4. Ms. Dyme

Advantages
a. She's top of the line.
b. She stays looking like a fantasy.
c. She has the body of a goddess with the face to match.
d. She considers herself a "model"
e. All the girls envy her, but she doesn't care.
Disadvantages
a. She's superficial. She cares only about her looks.
b. She honestly lacks confidence and will annoy you about the way she looks.
c. She's probably dumb as hell and if she's not her personality is dry.
d. You have to constantly keep your game up because every kat is gonna try to get her.





5. Ms. Tomboy

Advantages
a. She's cool and laid back.
b. She'll be willing to play rough with you.
c. Of course, she loves sports.
d. Her body is athletically divine.
e. She's easy to talk to and fun to be around.
f. She's a diamond in the rough.
Disadvantages
a. She'll remind you too much of your boy.
b. She might not want to change her appearance.
c. She might actually beat you in basketball, football and track.


6. Ms. Ghetto

Advantages
a. She's not afraid of any other female or male. She will fight to keep you.
b. She's down for you. She'll be there to bail you out of jail.
c. She's always stays fresh.
d. She can cook up a storm. She can make the best out of a bad situation.
e. She keeps it real and keeps you satisfied.
Disadvantages
a. She doesn't know how to act in public.
b. Your mom can't stand her.
c. You get into it with her every other second.
d. She's willing to fight another girl looking at you PERIOD!!!!.
e. Her weave colors are distracting and her vocabulary is minimal .






7. Ms. Good Girl

Advantages
a. She's always there for you.
b. She's intelligent, classy, kind, sweet and cool.
c. Your mother loves her.
d. You can see yourself falling in love with her.
e. You are her first everything.
f. She makes you feel like a man.
g. 8/10 you will be her first sex partner
Disadvantages
a. She's an A or B situation either: A. You're not gonna get any until ya'll are married or she will make you wait A LONG TIME or at least till he feel like you really like her and not just tryin to get some, or, B. She said she never done it she said she never tried she's sitting there telling a lie.

8. Ms. Main


Advantages
a. She is the one you respect.
b. She probably may know about the others but might not care.
c. She has all the qualities you want in a female.
d. You've been with her forever.
Disadvantages
a. She starts getting very suspicious and calls you every moment.
b. She will devise a plan to catch you in your act and then kick your ass.


9. Ms. Psycho

Advantages
a. She's fun and spontaneous.
b. She's down to earth.
c. She loves you unconditionally.
d. Everything about her is too good to be true. So everyone loves her.
e. She makes you feel loved.
Disadvantages
a. Don't you break up with her. She will stalk your ass.
b. She keeps pictures of you everywhere and knows everything about you.
c. She can manipulate the hell out of you.
d. She will consider herself wifey even if she may just be that chick on the side.
e. Messing with her can make your life a living hell.

10. Ms. I have a Man.

Advantages
a. She may have a man but she'll mess with you anyway.
b. She looks good.
c. You have an intense night of passion with her.
Disadvantages
a. She'll always come crying to you about the problems with her man.
b. She'll get you caught up and then leave you anyway for her man.
c. If you piss her off she'll get her man to come beat your ass.
d. She'll unofficially make you her man once she gets pissed off at her real man.


11. Ms. Tease

Advantages
a. She's tempting and a nice piece of eye candy.
b. She's intelligent, athletic, respectable and SEXXXXXXY.
c. She knows how to turn you on without touching you.
d. Everything she does is just so sensual.
e. She can bring you to that point and make you wait to get it.
f. Every time you see her you catch a mini orgasm.
g. Every kat wants her cause she's so mysterious and that makes you want to get her first.
Disadvantages
a. NO matter what you think or do you never get it.
b. She probably has a long distance boyfriend somewhere that you will never know about.
c. She gets you hard and leaves you like that. (Unbearable)


12. MRS. RIGHT

Advantages
a. She is not sexy, fine, or a dyme but she is BEAUTIFUL and therefore encompasses all of these descriptions.
b. She is intelligent, sassy, funny, outgoing, determined, strong and classy.
c. She can cook or at least order a meal that is just like your mother's.
d. Her personality is just as beautiful as her body.
e. She believes in God and follows his virtues.
f. She knows that a relationship requires a 200% quota yet she gives her man an extra 10%.
g. She can please her man in anyway. Mentally, Spiritually, and Sexually.
h. She makes you recognize your full potential as a man and completes you.
i. She's always there for, no matter what your dreams are.
j. She's not afraid to tell you the truth and set you straight.
k. You can talk to her and confide in her, she's your best friend.
l. You love being around her more than your boys.
m. You can share your most intimate moments with her without sex.
n. You can have a bad argument with her and then have the BEST Mind Numbing and passionate love making fest ever.
o. She's always willing to find a way to work out your problems and will often take most of your shit. But she's also intelligent enough to leave.
p. She's nothing like any other girls you've met. She's your woman. THE RIGHT ONE
Disadvantage: You've probably met her, or had her in your life but got too consumed with Mrs 1- Mrs 11 that you let her go !

everyone has a weak point/link(lol)

its not hiding it matters but how to guard it

but the irony is this

who will hurt you would hurt u

regardless of how jealously you guard it.

deal it

@mishoo

cept i dont get the topic well

but mishoo you are aware of this that

if you roll with anyone

they are supposed to have an effect on you albeit positive or negative

if you roll someone who doesnt have an effect on you then you need to move on


thus the change in the cottonwool colour

olanajim seems to want a shield

whatever for i dont know

@olanajim

i dont have a special interest in you

am just curious by nature

meanwhile rubberband


is a bad comparison it

folds when exposed at different temperatures

to make it worse when stretched beyond its

elastic limit, it snaps were it for snapping alone it would have being ok

but the snapping causes a backlash of pain , to the holder

and thats a flaw,

why not compare with an absorbent

a simple or typical example would be the cotton wool

which has the ability to absorb everything sent its way

and when it has to much it lets some go

without altering its state,

being macho doesnt mean you shld be granite

come on you can do better than that

i dont know who you are duh!

@iice

hello grannie

this has nuthing to do

with whats right or wrong

but whats you!!!

i like to have a feel

for people

@olanajim

well said yet again

unrelated question

abeg which course you study

what are your social/religious leanings?

lol @ drrionelli

mandora

as i like to believe

is a very good friend

so all that was in good faith

am ok just tired



but now am on my way home yipee

we lack



perseverance

doggedness, steadfastness. Perseverance, persistence, tenacity, pertinacity



thats the major reason

it takes a lot of strenght to take a fall and standup again

especially along a particular course of action.

other related reasons

knowledge/the know how

sadly most people don't know which direction or what to do(including yours truly )

the information needed to progress

other people factor(the hold people back syndrome)

this is common in nigeria especially in multinationals,where you have people fellow nigerians holding back other people's shine

ethnic beliefs


this affects in more ways than one

but the only example i can comeup with,is that of an able bodied begger

who begs for no other reason but the fact the his/her family are beggers

like lineage profession


sticking to the known and mundane ways

we(nigerians) right from time shy away from trying new things

and if you can't risk, it all you can't gain it all

the cushy nine to five jobs

the mandatory graduation from university

the need for gratification now

and yeah the most irritating

lack of proper guidance counselling whilst at a tender age,

@mandora

please answer the post

quit challenging me

i give up

It is a matter of fact that environment had impact on what a man become in life. I strongly believe in that. My argument is that we all have a specific mission that must be discovered if we want to live in harmony with God and be happy.

i really cant challenge that bit.



so touche'


(it was fun lets look for something else to veiw from different angles

it seems someone isnt a good mood today

u could have availed yourself of the Dico,before asking

afterall ask and you shall receive



P.s copying out the dictionary meaning wasnt.

it was 2clicks away

na you know oooo

am keeping mum

on second thot

are u saying i am saying all this

at my discomfort

@NaJa HaJe


hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

so wear googles

point.!!!!

complicated you must say,

hmm two envelopes(never looked at it from that point)

the idea of destiny is scary,meaning life is mapped out

i lean more towards the concept of freewill, and i think the first envelope

probably filled with latent,inherent talents

what we do with this said talent is entirely left to you,which brings us to the 2nd envelop(freewill)

but do you also know that the enviroment

thats why a person whose latent talent might be that of a prodigy

can just be the conductor collecting your bus fare

or an awfully talented singer(torturing our sensitive ears)

in the case of the later the person might have zero musical talent

but with constant association with people inclined in the direction

the person might fancy himself/herself a singer

my good sir,

i dont fault find,i certainly dint in your case

i tease, i yab(and this is reserved for people am chummy with)

if my response with respect to the quote is what you call pointing out your fault[color=#990000][/color]

sir,you are sadly mistaken

i only opened the window for a debate

because if we critically look at it

strip the whole english it was shrouded in.

the question i posed is

Do YOu believe in Destiny?

@poster

your statement is rather  jaundiced

how about if someone says

finding a good woman is much harder than looking for king solomon's treasures!!!

but that would also be prejudiced

the truth is this,

the bitterness of the world have clouded the real good in most people

somewhere within layers of everyone lays stacks of good

all we need do is drop the sham and pretenses

and yeah you have to put the good in you on display

to get equal reaction from the other gender.

P.S

having sex,has nothing to do with pride

i have being  privy discuss from ladies

basically playing guys emotions(is that not emotional rape?)

pride which is a measure of self worth and i repeat it has nuthin to do with sex,cept of course you are giving the sex in exchange of something else

subject for debate

I would therefore play the role nature assigned me so others can build on

it.

do you honestly believe nature has a designated role for a particular person?

i dont.

i believe a person has a right to choose who he/she wants to be

so that statement should be rescripted to

something along the lines

'I would therefore play the role i have assigned myself to, so others if they find it worthwhile can build on it. '

Why not accept the rule of the game and have fun while learning from others

sir,

i just might enjoy this,


but have you learn from any post thus far?

what do you see