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RomanceRe: A Girl I Cherished Had Broken My Heart,,pls Talk To Meeeeeee: by arramyjay: 2:12pm On Sep 06, 2008
Siena:
Had broken your heart?

In the past then, so I guess your heart's fixed now?

Or, has she re-broken it? undecided
Oh u are so mean he meant now she just broke it.hey fsudoka so sorry about wat u are going true but the truth is that she didnt love you at all,they say u dont knw the heart of a girl until u see her in different situations or environments.Guy wipe your tears brace urself breath in breath out u have a bright future ahead dnt waste another wink of tear on her,it is ok.U will heal ok.
RomanceRe: How Do I Handle This Situation by arramyjay: 1:45pm On Sep 06, 2008
U will get over him soon why not chat with ur boyfriend,enjoy moments wit your boyfriend.
RomanceRe: Why is Love so Painful at Times? by arramyjay: 1:37pm On Sep 06, 2008
Sweetie some guys are just so mean and heartless,can u imagine if the girl doesnt give her all in the relationship they will ask questions like Does she love me,or what is love or is money love u knw and all sort of questions the reason u hurt is becos u probably loved the guy and u are too emotionally into it but it is nt our fault tht we get too emotionally involved it is just becos we are who we are and did you tht d women are more stronger than the men?It is becos we are very emotional/sweet and very sensitive in nature tht is why with most women the guys dont notice.
RomanceRe: Is Money Love by arramyjay: 1:20pm On Sep 06, 2008
No money is nt love,but money is security.Guy u make me laugh,u had better wake up from that love spell she has cast on you becos men if u continue like this i tell u will be broke very soon.wake men.
RomanceRe: What Is Attraction? by arramyjay: 11:35am On Sep 06, 2008
And i am guessing u are slim,u knw it is like they say opposite attracts,I dont think it is abnormal.
RomanceRe: Protecting Yourself From: Love and pain by arramyjay: 11:26am On Sep 06, 2008
Sweetie the truth is that you cant remove that wall all by yourself.If the guy is 4 real he will understand that u have being hurt that is why you hv a wall covering your heart and he will play a serious role in letting you see that he is real and ready to love you by doing that it naturally melts away i mean the wall.
RomanceRe: Would You Have Told Her? by arramyjay: 11:20am On Sep 06, 2008
The guy is crazy becos he has being in a relationship for 3months and he didn't see fit to break things up with the other girl if it were truly a fling.if i were the guy i wont tell the girl i wud hv broken up with the other girl,and if i were tht girl i will walk away becos if it was a fling then i shud hv ended.
RomanceRe: Who Should Apologize? by arramyjay(op): 11:18pm On Sep 05, 2008
LadyT:
shegirl please don't start. angry
Start what?
TravelRe: How Do I Obtain A Visa To Singapore? by arramyjay: 7:53pm On Sep 05, 2008
I dnt knw the name but i use to see a lot of informatics student go there to eat.
TravelRe: How Do I Obtain A Visa To Singapore? by arramyjay: 7:52pm On Sep 05, 2008
tosinbabee:
please how much is the airfare ticket?
Lol african restaurant if you want an african restaurant u hv to go Mohamed sultan road it is actually very close to harbour front
RomanceRe: Living With My Boyfriend: Is It A Big Deal? by arramyjay: 3:05pm On Sep 05, 2008
mesmya:
i know u live wt urs,your post don show am

you're looking for smone that will atleast give u a credit here

other might but i wont,get ready to be dumped in d dustbin by d time hes tired of u
Oh Oh u are just too much well said.That is the truth.
RomanceRe: Living With My Boyfriend: Is It A Big Deal? by arramyjay: 2:58pm On Sep 05, 2008
Men it is BIG DEAL,what decent girl leaves her parents house to go stay with a guy,That is nt right men.
RomanceRe: How Can I Move On After A Break Up by arramyjay: 2:53pm On Sep 05, 2008
You guys are very mean do u realize the state of mind she will be right now?and u post all sorts of things it will break her spirit totally she asked a simple question if u dnt knw wht to write dnt write cos it is really nt fair to joke abt other people's emotions.Now sweetie like don_Ese wrote u need to cry it out now u cry not beacause u are foolish you cry because you want to move on,and the only way you can do that is not by CAB or replacing him,it is nt easyy i tell you but u will be fine because the truth of the matter is tht u are better than him,1st u cry,then u smile and then u pay back,by being a better person than he will ever be u knw they say payback is a bitch.so let it out girl cry if u have to ok,for watever goes up most always come down.I tell you when u bounce back u will be fine,and u will look back and say u better off without him.
RomanceRe: Ladies I Need your Advice Urgently Pleaseee.....it killing me by arramyjay: 2:36pm On Sep 05, 2008
You guys she is nt in danger.now let me ask u some questions,How sure are u tht he will marry you? 2ndly cant you hasten the marriage?becos u obviously need his name to get tht money,and what exactly is the position u hold in the company OH no pls dnt tell me u sit at home and watch the kids,becos if tht is the case then u need to his name this year i mean u need to get married to him this year,men like tht are very smart he will keep posting u,one day u will be fed up and u will leave,fine u have made a terrible mistake but it is all still good the question is have u learnt your lesson and can yyou now see how much you need his name for the money?marry him this year or if u hold a part of the company then u have a voice and you can invite a lawyer to intervene.
HealthRe: Nigerians And Dirty Habits: Can We Ever Change? by arramyjay: 1:53pm On Sep 05, 2008
Seun:
First of all, the whole of Nigeria is not as dirty as you describe. Just some parts of Lagos, and Aba.

People throwing things out of their vehicles: yes, that's bad, but it's not the reason we have floods in Lagos. We have floods in Lagos because it rains a lot. That's all there is to it. The gutters are not clogged because people throw waste in their gutters; the gutters are clogged because there's no place for the water to flow into. Much of Lagos is around sea level and the gutters don't reach everywhere. Many roads don't have gutters at all.

Question: Why don't Nigerians always use waste bins. Answer: which waste bins?

Why do Nigerians often pee in the bushes instead of peeing in toilets? Answer: which toilets? When was the last time you saw a public toilet in Oshodi or by the side of any road in Lagos? What do you do when you have to pee and there's no toilet close by? Question: Where do white people pee when they are camping? Answer: In the bushes, just like Lagosians. If you have a problem with that, go and construct public toilets in Oshodi.

Nigerians and their habit of complaining instead of taking concrete steps: can we ever change? wink
Seun walahi u are just too much,thank u my brother o,she probably doesnt live in niger becos if she does she shudnt have wrote any of things.
TravelRe: Nairobi Photos (kenya): A Beautiful East African City by arramyjay: 1:11pm On Sep 05, 2008
Oh wat a beautiful place i never knew that country was as beautiful as tht,but men pple from kenya dnt look or even act as if their land is blessed wit such beauty.
RomanceRe: Who Should Apologize? by arramyjay(op): 10:30am On Sep 05, 2008
grin I will my bad.
RomanceRe: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by arramyjay: 10:17am On Sep 05, 2008
engineerd:
If u must stay in the relationship cause your Love is so great, fine! But at least Learn to SLAP him back when he SLAPS u! just as he uses his palms to slap u across your face, then u also respond by back-handing him!
I agree wit you 100%
RomanceRe: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by arramyjay: 10:16am On Sep 05, 2008
engineerd:
If u must stay in the relationship cause your Love is so great, fine! But at least Learn to SLAP him back when he SLAPS u! just as he uses his palms to slap u across your face, then u also respond by back-handing him!
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I agree with you 100%.
RomanceRe: Who Should Apologize? by arramyjay(op): 10:12am On Sep 05, 2008
hollandis:
She still hasn't thanked me.Its my fault though.I should have at least informed her because she hates lexus
Men even if she doesnt like it she shud have at least said thank u,some1 might say she an ingrate but she is nt becos you knew she didnt like Lexus and u bought her one,i dnt knw men relationship is so complicated sometimes u are a good man,i am sure if u were tht guy in the story u wud have nt bothered if she said thank u or how she said it.
RomanceRe: Who Should Apologize? by arramyjay(op): 9:52am On Sep 05, 2008
hollandis:
The last time i bought a lexus for my girlfriend cool,she didnt even say thank you.She only got angry that I didnt even consult her
Oh my God men sorry u knw i cudnt help but laugh,sorry i hope she later said thank u,men some girls are mean.
RomanceRe: Who Should Apologize? by arramyjay(op): 9:43am On Sep 05, 2008
Now guys dont be too hard,look when it comes to relationship,it is so unpredictable ,u cud fight over extremely little things.
TravelRe: How Do I Obtain A Visa To Singapore? by arramyjay: 9:34am On Sep 05, 2008
darkroll:
Been to Singapore more than 10 times and immigration never asked me for BTA ( Well may be because i don't travel from Nigeria but depsite that it is my Nigerian passport am using and they never asked for BTA once )

If you going for a one week vacation as you said , Food , transport (Taxi, MRT) is cheap in Singapore but accomodation is a bit high depending on how luxurious u want the hotel to be . But i am very sure 1000usd should be enough and also do some few shopping .

Enjoy Sing! it is a great place
Oh Good for u becos sweetie i actually live in singapore ok.and if he is going for the first time he needs BTA,like u said u being there more ten times i am sure nt for tourism maybe for some other things tht is why they dnt ask for BTA.
RomanceRe: Help, I'm Tired But Cant Leave Him by arramyjay: 12:17am On Sep 05, 2008
Ok from my own point of view sweetie u have nt reached ur elastic limit just keep taking it one day and very soon u will be tired of it and u will nt only leave him u will indeed give him a taste of his own poison.Sweetie by then u will not need an advise. u will see.
RomanceRe: Refusal by arramyjay: 12:14am On Sep 05, 2008
Sisikill:
Honestly, some women really, really, really ask for it. How many times are we going to discuss what the Good Books says about refusing your partner sex? Even if they don't want to take other people's word for it, they can go read on it themselves? I mean it's not like they didn't go to school. It is getting really annoying because If they did, we won't be having problems here.

Anyway, I have taken the liberty of posting the most important commandment from the book for all to see, hopefully, it will sink in and prevent any more misunderstandings.

Thou Shalt Not Refuse Thy Man Sex or He Shalt Beat The Shit Out of Thou for He Is Thy Man and His will be Done.

Rule One From The Sacred MAN-LAW BOOK
what are u talking abt men,this only true when u are married to the partner in question,so dnt go quoting the bible verses tht favour you.He has no right to beat her up,u knw some guys really asking for whipping but we dnt beat them up we just scream at them i think shud talk hv u ever heard of tht word i will repeat again he shud TALK things with her.nt almost beating her.
Christianity EtcRe: Ladies Dressing, Even To Church by arramyjay: 12:05am On Sep 05, 2008
Olayinkaoj:
God have mercy. The show-off of breast through dresses that show cleavage or better still, full breast needs to be address in our society. Actually, they claim to dress to their taste and satisfy their own look but this is sad.
I was sitting behind a lady in our church here in Osogbo one day, each time the Pastor says '' You can have your seat'', the lady would turn to lift up her bag and Bible from her sit, thereby throwing out the two breast for me to see. She almost distort my essence of being in church that day.
How best can we let them see why they should hide their treasures?
lol u are so funny u shud have just simply told her.maybe next time she will respect the fact tht she is in the presence of God.
RomanceRe: Refusal by arramyjay: 11:47pm On Sep 04, 2008
U shud 1st be beaten seriously for even thinking of beating her she has every right to refuse you.U are just so blind to see that something has probably changed in your relationship which governed by sex becos to me it is obvious you are just after her body.
TravelRe: How Do I Obtain A Visa To Singapore? by arramyjay: 11:30pm On Sep 04, 2008
Hi visa to singapore is free but u need a hotel reservation and Ur BTA if u are a student u need 1,000usd if u are going for tourist u need 2,000usd BTA it is very important u hv ur BTA,people have being sent back because of insufficient BTA and ur ticket must be a return one u dnt necessarily need a yellow card but it is advisable to get it.
RomanceRe: What Can Of Guys Do Ladies Like? by arramyjay: 11:04pm On Sep 04, 2008
I will definitely go for tall and muscular.lol
RomanceRe: He Is Taller But She Is Much Older: Is It Comfortable by arramyjay: 11:02pm On Sep 04, 2008
Yea i think things are cool since none of them is complaining for now,but really it depends on the guy and the woman,if the guy is matured enough for an older lady like tht or if the woman is ready to deal with the guy's youthful behaviours u sure knw wat i mean.
RomanceRe: Who Should Apologize? by arramyjay(op): 10:26pm On Sep 04, 2008
LadyT:
They are both daft its a stupid thing to fight over.
oh yea and cos i am confused girl i didn't ask u to post me a "They are both daft its a stupid thing to fight over" i asked a simple question and that is all dont post if u have nothing to write.Thank u
RomanceRe: I've Had Enough Of Men! by arramyjay: 10:17pm On Sep 04, 2008
Sweetie its OK,most of them do that but they are some real guys out there.Dont hate them love them for that is when u will understand them.although some of them like it when they refer to them as "players" u knw they say dnt hate the player hate the game it is all bullshit most of them cant handle heartbreaks and you are better and stronger than most of them,if u want to really have fun then live by this "payback is a bitch".I feel your pain and men i gat Ur back on this 1.

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