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spectroscopic:
Imagine if Buhari does his ancestral DNA test and finds out that he has 30% Igbo genes? What would Igbos do?

They will claim to be Jewish n abandon their Igbo heritage

felixomor:
Lolz
U r the trash

U're a good man.


If u want to pay tithes, just pay it! U don't need to twist any portion of d bible to make a point! Ur money, use it to do wetf u want! Ko kan aye!


I stopped being a xtian, a long time ago sha

felixomor:
I am the trash

Dust to dust! Wtf do u think u were before

lonelydora:
If Jesus was here on earth, he would have driven Bentley and have private jet. Jesus used a colt no one has ever driven on...that shows he wants the best for himself.

Many people argue that Abraham paid tithe once to Melchezedek. Remember Abraham paid tithe of 5 nations...Just imagine someone bringing tithe of America, Russia, China, Germany, and France or UK to you, will you allow him pay again? And moreover, he met Melchezedek once in his journey


See my brother, i don't subscribe to tithe cards...reason i don't pay tithe in any church that use cards. i also prefer to pay tithe in any church the pastor uses Bentley and PJ than one the Pastor uses keke or trek.


The earlier we stop using the World's system to apply in the Kingdom's system...the better for us.

One day i will teach Freeze what he does not know in the bible. I too busy to reply him for now.


You don't pay tithe...no wahala, but allow us to continue to pay..as long as it is working for me.

U n dat felixomor, try sha!

Cart dey

Chariots dey

Horse dey


Na (steal) him (steal) d donkey o


They made money, even, had a treasurer, but didn't see it fit, to use it in buying a donkey o


U're here, trying to justify trash


If u want to pay tithes, just f*cking pay it, n stop trying to assuage ur conscience!

Still jungle justice. Those guys were unarmed! Abi, where their guns, wet dem dey takerob?

Zykod:
In life, things hardly go along to plan. This is a creed i hold close to my chest. This is not about planning how marriage will be, but financial planning within the marriage. The other areas is left for the Lord and who knows, but for financial aspect, i believe many marriages have strains due to a lack of financial planning and planning ahead in this department will reduce if not 30% of issues that affects the/a marriage....

May God help us, marriage is something i've been shying away from, and have refused to open up to, but the moment is here, running away can no longer help matters...


Thanks for the advice

Its a rite of passage into full maturity. Few have d mentality, to do away with it, totally.


To each, his own. Hope u attain great success, in all ur endeavours.

Zykod:
Wow @ 10 years ago Sir. I'm humbled. Looking forward to getting married next year by God's Grace. How can we compare plans?

Guy, not all marriages work with plans.


Nigerian ladies, have ds mentality, of getting married at all cost. To achieve this, some will willingly swallow a toad whole. After d marriage, d stories that touch, will start.


U can only truly know d woman u married, after d marriage itself. Pple rarely, change their innate character.


Like op here, her hubby, probably married her cos, he was getting away with sh*t during courtship. Now, she's standing up to him, he's probably one surprised nigga. Wondering how he missed this part of her


Keep ur plans, till after marriage. Immediately, we chose d date, my/our plan/s went awry(plans, she agreed to, in writing)

Have u asked ur betrothed, her plans? Have u compared plans? Does she key into urs?

Marriage is a very humbling experience. Just avoid marrying someone petty n don't be petty too! If u both can see d bigger picture, things will pan out.

Zykod:
Nah, when finances are planned out ahead, it deals with 50% of the fluctuations and issues that causes fluctuations.

My mentor worked in HR in Mobil for over ten years, so she had the wisdom, she pulled my ears, you must not give any girl belle till i see your plan and i approve it. SO, i created a 20 years plan, it involves health, education, entertainment. I looked it up this week, i was happy God gave me the understanding. I intend to publish it to help other people looking for such systems as they look towards marriage. Funny, it requires planning, and i've noticed when financial problems are removed from marriage, problems becomes alleviated substantially

I heard Dangote is supposedly on his 4th marriage? Atiku's son n daughter-in-law, are at loggerheads. Caroline Danjuma abandoned her marriage to TY Danjuma.. Money solves sh*t!

Eccle 7: 23-26

We need to compare plans
Prepared mine 10+yrs ago.

After God, fear women. Amazing creatures. Unfortunately, I luv them

Zykod:
That's it, there's a consistent archaic pattern in the husband's ideologies about marriage, and it won't change without serious talking to...He needs someone toremove those barriers he has in his mind/brain.


* She resigned

* She relocated

* She was made to face uncertainity ( due to his lack of consistency )

* He isn't wise with spendings

* He physically assaults her

* She's subjected to functioning in a toxic and uncertain environment

* Refuse to take the bull by the horn in getting back on his feet

* Puts more effort to "chatting"

* Wants lesser work, but absolute control and the money he didn't contribute much into making



The guy needs to grow up, i swear



I'm not blowing my trumpet oh, even though i'm just looking towards marriage, i have a 20 years blueprint for my marriage, up till the kids finish university, why can't we have futuristic foresight in this country and plan ahead?

Hope u end up with d right lady. I wasn't born wise in marital issues. Experience, was an unwanted teacher.


No one on this earth, can predict how his/her marriage will work out.


Am still trying to get back on track.

vislabraye:
U must be joking. Maybe u should tell that to someone from Benue state.
If you are truthful to your self, has herdsmen killed the way they have in this administration?

We heard 765 was killed under gej, within 2014/2015. Nobody disputed that figure, from reno to gej himself. Forget figures from 2010-2014 o


Now, start counting d dead since pmb's inception, n give me figure?!


I pray for a lasting solution. Violence/Deaths never solved any thing. I have friends I call, after every round of deaths, to ask d situation on ground. Numan deaths today, I called a friend from there, just a while ago.

I'm also angry, at PMB, for not taking fast n hard action/s sooner. But, placing all these on him, is laughable

Zykod:
The lady is receiving too much abeg bros, your head is there !

Starching

Ironing

House Keep

Child

Intimacy



If the guy was working, there's legitimate excuse, rather he's chatting, as a single or married man, haba....people don't read before they attack, those attacking the lady aren't thorough in their analysis

What most don't get is, u don't have to go physical, to abuse someone. And, her story has shown a consistent pattern of her husband's archaic ideas on marriage.



Made her resign from a well paying job.

Starving a pregnant lady.

Refusal to put in more effort to assist her laundry biz.

Knowing quite well how much she has sacrificed financially to d marriage, refusing to acknowledge it.


If she truly was selfish before, he wouldn't ever know how much she's saved!

Oyindidi:
Hear from both sides before you pass your judgement

I know.


But, sometimes, u hear a side n just have an intuition. Esp, when u've experience.



That lady isn't being appreciated. That's her beef.


With d little, I know(I see ur posts) of u; u won't take same.

vislabraye:
Herdsmen are killing everyday. Meanwhile, keep hailing.

I prefer solutions, instead of pointing fingers! PMB didn't create d herdsmen crisis, nor did he worsen it. That's a fact.



But, I'll like, if he can truly, bring it to an end, or at least, miniscule clashes. So far, so good, he's succeeded in cleaning up, a lot of mess, why shouldn't he be hailed!

Oyindidi:
And you are?

A guy, who relates! Everyone should carry their weight, firstly.


Though, not educating d kid, was a no no. To imagine, I used to snub family for romance

factwriter:
Oh really?

Looking for someone to do your dirty work for you while you continue sit on your lazy-ass and wail!

In case you haven't realise it, TRUE democracy doesn't come cheap...

...you gotta earn it.

Comprehend

I stand with PMB


Just tryna give d wailers, a reality check.

Laeroy:
The funniest thing is that he accuses me of same, He said my ideologies bout marriage are now obsolete and that I must discard them, This is majorly the cause of the never ending issues btw us, But each time he wants to make me feel guilty, he reminds me of Ephesians 5:22-23, (The submission Tales), however I also remind him of christ being the head of the church , which he is to submit to, which makes me ask him all the time.,,.Daniel, Do u submit to Christ in everything you do

Don't let him break ur spirit pls. And, holding on to material possessions, is a no no. If he wants d car n house, let him have it! It'll has a way of distracting u.


U can always buy urself another car n build a home. Call his bluff, hopefully, he'll come to his senses. Don't deny ur kid, because of him. That's d only place I believe u're wrong! And, should u go, don't leave her behind, pls.

Oyindidi:
Hmmmm...minor issues if you ask me, men use words like that to make their wives to be submissive. Do you still love your husband? If you do try to be more submissive and I believe he won't use those words again.

Pls, stop! Everyone should carry his/her weight! A case of emotional blackmail. Gave up her well paying job n d fool is still ungrateful? Abegi!



Its good she called his bluff, let things play out. Hopefully, he'll come to his senses, if not, she shouldn't allow him, break her.

So, where d finished bridge?

ChangetheChange:

Zombie oh zombie

Seems u wailers don't get reverse psychology! The masses will still vote PMB, because dey'll feel, Aisha is in their corner!



The question u'll need to be asking; is she gonna divorce him? is she gonna campaign against him? is she gonna actually take steps to derail/dicourage, his 2nd term agenda?

Gofwane:
Op, you think we are bush people ba?
did you see any of us here with tribal marks?

This your lie can make Satan to shout 'jeso kreste'

Lie ke?


It can actually happen, n I've had something similar happen. Way back sha, too refined nowadays

imhotep:
You are right

http://dailypost.ng/2018/01/18/fani-kayode-reacts-prof-muhammads-claim-benue-belongs-fulani-herdsmen/

Caveat Since after d Dan Fodio war!

thunderfirebubu:
buhari's smelly anus fall on ur senses

Ur anus, too, smells!

imhotep:
Those communities REJECT so-called cattle colonies.
Its not by force to sell land.
Stop land-grabbing and manifesting GREED in the name of sufferstication.

Land grabbing n greed, remind of just one tribe


Fulani, don't do land grab. Since some states have been driving them out, we're yet to hear of them refusing!

imhotep:
Zimbabwe farmers did not go murdering Kwara villagers and claiming human rights

Why should they They were given power, access roads, govt allocated land, access to financing etc


Ordinary land, wet govt wan give herdsmen, u're all complaining abt, u're still complaining!

imhotep:
ashjay-1 and sarrki will know

I'm neither God, nor a god! Htf am I supposed to know?

Palm plantations failed.

Rubber plantations failed.

Cocoa plantations failed.

Groundnut pyramids disappeared.

U'll kept quiet, no complaints. But, u're all now angry, d herdsmen have not branched into ranching! Can u'll reset ur brains?

imhotep:
Did anyone force you to sell your community land to anybody ?

And, is govt taking over our community lands, without consultations n compensations!?

imhotep:
Will the govt also provide free land for those that produce pigs, chicken, turkey, yam, cassava, cocoa, catfish, rice, beans, goats, sheep, guinea fowl, etc etc etc.

Your level of non-reasoning will lead you to the Libyan slave market, in chains.

I remember d kwara state govt, inviting d Zimbabwe farmers, with offers of free land n basic amenities. No uproar, since they're oyinbo ba

imhotep:
You are recycling this gibberish because your village has not been invaded and genocided. abi

U are writing gibberish



Herdsmen attack, is a different ballgame, from taking over! They attack(mostly reprisals to perceived wrongs) n disperse, unlike some, that buy large swarths of ur community, then turn round to insult ur generosity n then claim superiority over u

mekaboy:
There is nothing like igbo colony. Igbos like every other business position their business in one particular location like every other company. Their business does not succeed on the destruction of another man's business like the fulanis.

For the fulani business to succeed, they have to destroy someone's farm business, and that is wrong.

There is nothing special about cattle business and I see no reason government should give them special attention. Once in a while government will ban the importation of an item, the igbos that import that item are left to adjust without government intervention.

If people ban open grazing in a state, it is left for the fulani to move to where it is acceptable or find a way to adjust or go into another business.

Thanks, for trying to be sane, in d midst of all these madness



The kind of biz d herdsmen are involved in, requires a large landmass, certainly unaffordable to d average herder. It behoves govt to provide it.


Nomads have been a part of d fabric of this nation n can't be wished away.


There were grazing reserves n cattle paths n as some have said, rural n urban dwellers, have been encroaching upon these. That, there, is d cause of d conflicts!


Dairy n beef, are billion dollar investments. Nothing works in our country, so, why are pple angry, d herdsmen haven't branched into ranching!

imhotep:
ashjay001 is reasoning like one of these entities in the photograph below ===>

See those specimens, with their majestic horns



I trust my unreasonable, educated illiterate brothers, to masturbate all over d thread, with ur victim mentality!



I'm yet to hear anyone complain abt herdsmen, claiming ownership of their lands, post-independence!

Its only my igbo neighbours, that claim to be developers of other regions n as such have unalienable rights!

elgramz:
You're just being an ignoramus. All this things u said the igbos got or are rewarded with, did they get them legally or did they come in and forcefully take it with impunity?
If you truthfully answer this questions, then you will know that there is absolutely no similarity between what the Igbo's are doing and that of the Fulani. The Igbo's go and invest in a place and become part of the community, living and doing their businesses according to the law, the Fulani come into a place and destroy their host community killing as many as they lay hands on and occupy the place. Has the Igbo ever attacked any of their host communities, killing and destroying their properties and forcefully take over their land? They don't!!!! They live in peace with you and join in the development of the community

U n coluka, are probably d daft ones here! The Fulani take, temporary residence. They actually take permission from d village head, for temporary lodgings.


What brings abt d killings are reprisal attacks for farm invasions, carried out by cattle. Fulani doesn't take over any land!


A lot of u, are quite ignorant, about d relationship btw d farmers n d herdsmen. U'll just sprout uninformed opinions!