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Politics / Re: Detained Security Guards, Widow Didn’t Deny CP Entry,Lagos Estate Tackles Police by ashjay001(m): 1:19pm On Jan 04, 2022
Doubleoh7:

My point is, if we are arguing rights for the CP was the reason why he arrested the guards on his way in. What then was his reason to arrest the replacement guards on his way out if not that excess display of power and propensity to annihilate a perceived "insolent " person that persons in power display in this country. Just like the el zakzaky you referenced, was it really necessary to go to his place of worship and kill everything that moves and level the place, after dealing with his followers on the road, all because a general's convoy was blocked. Using a sledge hammer to kill a mosquito is not a demonstration of strength in my opinion


It's a 3rd world country. Stuff like that, are the norm. Expecting civilised behavior from members of the ruling class, is the aberration.

I'm not making excuses for him, but I can almost imagine the replacement guards being reluctant to allow him leave without releasing their arrested members. Pple like that, need little to no excuse. Someone that arrested a mother and her kids and you're acting shocked he's arresting replacement security men
Politics / Re: Detained Security Guards, Widow Didn’t Deny CP Entry,Lagos Estate Tackles Police by ashjay001(m): 10:10am On Jan 04, 2022
Doubleoh7:

Yeah I get it. And on his way out of the estate he was delayed for another 1hour because the estate Security wanted to know why he was leaving so early and I guess that was why he came down and ordered the arrest of the replacement units of the Security guards which was what lead to the complete blockade of the estate as there were no Security personnel with access cards to open the gate for passers-by. Discernment


Lol
Do you know why El Zaky was arrested and his followers massacred?

On one hand, you guys are pissed we're in a 3rd world country but always hold the standards at 1st world civilization grin

In a 3rd world country, it is very wrong for mere security men/protesters to delay the head of a law enforcement agency for whatever reasons.

As much as it is unpalatable, I believe the CP was within his rights, to refuse to state where he's going within the estate. The worst was, they could discretely have sent someone to tail him not hold him to ransome
Politics / Re: Detained Security Guards, Widow Didn’t Deny CP Entry,Lagos Estate Tackles Police by ashjay001(m): 4:10am On Jan 04, 2022
Islie:



Wisdom will never depart from you, how will a whole CP stay in traffic for such minutes if his details wouldn't have come down to harass everyone if he has stayed just 4mins not attended to.

Who are they deceiving with their press statement
Discernment. You and doubleoh7 should realise the estate didn't deny the 30mins delay allegations! Why should the CP give details of where he was going to pple he protects?
Family / Re: My Parents Are Using Their Lives To Ruin My Future!!! by ashjay001(m): 8:02am On Dec 30, 2021
Phillipsburg:
It's a long read because I had to pour out my mind wholeheartedly. Please endeavor to read through.



I so much hate my dad right now. And even my mom for supporting him. I can always remember how unfortunate it is for me to find myself in this family in the first place. Infact, not having a family is better than this living hell I found myself because these people are bent on ruining my future with their own life.

My father is the person who will be fighting with my mom in a brutally physical manner where they'd be running after themselves in the street after almost stripping themselves naked. He's the one who doesn't know how to reprimand his children except by using curses. He's the one who would go out and come back drunk and turn everywhere upside down. All these I've endured for almost every part of my life and my mom has refused to leave him saying because she has kids for him.
I know some of you people will start saying all manner of things about how you would have cherished your parents if you had one blah blah blah but this is hell. It's choking me I feel like dying.

I just met a girl who happened to be my girlfriend and we've been together for some time now and my father is help bent on separating us because he doesn't want me to marry close to him so that there wouldn't be clashes between him and the mother of the girl because he feels the woman is a violent person.
As they've turned the house into a place of sorrow, i couldn't think of spending even a minute inside the house. I usually spend the evening with this girl at her place and return when everyone at home must have slept. The next thing was for him to start cursing at the girl and even threatening to go to her house and throw tantrums.
I just want to get out of all these because it's choking me. I can't breathe. I feel like I'm losing my mind because of everything. The emotional torture I feel whenever they start fighting. How angry I feel when he starts cursing everyone and shouting at us in front of the house and disgracing everyone of us throughout the whole neighborhood. The way he go about gossiping and talking bad about his own children and wife to outsiders and the whole neighborhood. I'm sick of everything.

I just wish I was born without a family because I'm even afraid of imbibing his behaviors and acting like him when I later settle down. I will never forgive him for making me become who I don't want to be.


If you're truly tired, you walk away!

You don't have your own place, but you're bothered about who you want to marry? Get yourself out of your toxic environment firstly abeg

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Travel / Re: Air Peace: FG Confirms That UAE Has Increased Flying Slots To 7 by ashjay001(m): 7:46am On Dec 15, 2021
AuntyVanessa1:


Don't tell me the skinny skeletal thing from Daura has any balls with him, because if he does, Iswap, Boko Haram and bandits won't be using humans for feast in the region he claimed he's from.

He has enough balls, it's all about sabotage.

Every other region is experiencing a lull in the insecurity chaos, but the north has persisted and its gory news everyday! Since when do bandits burn alive 42 persons? To pass which statement? They need this pple alive for ransom.
It will all come to a head

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Travel / Re: UAE Stops International Airlines From Boarding Nigerian Passengers To Dubai by ashjay001(m): 3:10pm On Dec 13, 2021
Greenbuoy:
This gídígbò dey sweet grin grin

For we wey no get UAE go ba gringrin


God go help pple wey get business for there
Romance / Re: What's The Most Unintelligent Lie A Partner Has Ever Told You In A Relationship by ashjay001(m): 12:20am On Dec 13, 2021
ugodson:
[b]She told me they were having a party to end the seminar that they booked hotel for them,well I just wanted her to enjoy herself cos of work stress. I believed her (my wife o) later called that night she didn't pick and she called me back and said they were done she is missing me as a mumu I was naa. Got to know later like 3weeks later there was actually a party but there was nothing like hotel accommodation for anyone.
She believed I won't find out she spent the night with another man.hmmmmm I SWEAR IT STILL HURTS I SWEAR.

I was just a fool to even see her off in getting a taxi to the island.
FEAR PERSON WEY NO FEAR WOMAN.
Can you imagine she took my kids away from me,I have asked sent her messages let's go for a divorce dis girl hasn't said a word.

Secondly she came back late around 11pm she smelt of alcohol asked where she has been,she told me she was with a client and she drank red wine and d so called client told her it's good for d heart,married woman

Please this a true story. Please guys Fear woman never give her 100 percent trust. NEVER[/b]

Like say, you still want her? Just get a lawyer and sue for divorce shikena, which one is waiting for her again?

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Religion / Re: Should A Christian Also Read The "Sixth And Seventh Books Of Moses"? by ashjay001(m): 10:04am On Dec 12, 2021
BabaCommander:
OP, it seems you are lying.

Point 1.
If you are a believer, and an adult, why are you interested in creating a thread about a book you already know to have a demonic origin?

Point 2.
Your claim that your friend went mad because he was gifted the book is false. Either they lied to hide the origin of his insanity (most likely hard drug abuse induced) or you made up the story yourself.

The reason for saying this is;

1, Anything spiritual requires a participation.
2. Having a book or even reading it without believing in it will have no effect on you whatsoever.
a, Reading a self helo book will not help you unless you practiced the steps required of you.
b, Reading the bible without truely believing in Christ Jesus will not grant you salvation.
c, Merely recieving or reading the 6 & 7, the 8 & 9 or 10 & 11 books of moses if there are anything like those will not make anyone go insane unless he participated in the rituals and demonic invocations if there are any in them.

I have seen and read the book, just like I would read any novel I could get my hand on in my teen years. A friend's late dad has many of the books like that.
Can't even remember anything about the content now.. but I can bet that non of us (group of friends experienced anything extraordinary)

I won't recommend anyone going to read it or any book like itm though, because it's a waste of time. And more importantly, don't believe the hype about those books, it's designed to make people courious and fearful about them. There's nothing to see in it.

God bless you jare. OP and his likes are the ones that have made Christianity a religion of fear. Fear for powers and principalities!
Politics / Re: Buhari: How Obasanjo Diabolically Double-crossed APC Chieftain, Bisi Akande by ashjay001(m): 11:42am On Dec 10, 2021
Wiseandtrue:

grin grin grin come, who give Buhari mic grin abeg collect the mic before he disgraces us further!

How can a president of a country be talking like this

This is the same president telling youths not to visit herbalists that charms doesn't work

Yet he's confirming the efficacy of diabolical means

So Tinubu survived It means that Tinubu is more diabolical than Obasanjo grin cheesy

Comic relief president! [/b]


Diabolical, doesn't mean juju alone biko
Politics / Re: Bukola Saraki & Wife Celebrate Daughter, Tosin's 30th Birthday (Throwback Pix) by ashjay001(m): 10:45am On Dec 08, 2021
yetunsbay:
raw facts pls not Nairaland premise

Raw facts how? Is that something you expect in a public place?

I stayed in ilorin and have family there. There're some things you know, but can never get hardwired proof.
Politics / Re: Bukola Saraki & Wife Celebrate Daughter, Tosin's 30th Birthday (Throwback Pix) by ashjay001(m): 9:33am On Dec 08, 2021
Politics / Re: Bukola Saraki & Wife Celebrate Daughter, Tosin's 30th Birthday (Throwback Pix) by ashjay001(m): 9:10am On Dec 08, 2021
Leverage2021:
Liberal Muslims have one thing as priority

Christian wife

He was a Christian, politics made him convert

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Family / Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by ashjay001(m): 9:09am On Dec 08, 2021
50pseamer:


Not yet, I sent her the link, she is the one insisting on special criteria, so I asked to to look for it, I have sent her my own suggestion.


You Don enter one chance jare. Her kind of mindset don't get compromise. It's their way or the highway.

I don't see you winning unless something changes her mentality. Prepare for the worse case scenario. Reduce the number of kids, cos ladies like her will frustrate your relationship with them, once you get divorced.

Na dem plenty pass, entitled babes, that don't understand the first thing about having a marriage

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Romance / Re: I Am Scared To Ask Him When He Wants To Get Married. Help!!! by ashjay001(m): 8:59am On Dec 08, 2021
ngoziwrites:
He doesn't talk about these things. I would love to know his plans, goals etc but we don't talk about it.

Sometimes I say do u know we haven't had some deep discussion. He says these things aren't planned

Suggest a live in relationship and he will accept. With time, you guys will get married. He doesn't trust women.

Forget having a wedding initially. If you can't do without having a wedding, just move on.
Politics / Re: Buhari Fires AEDC Management Over Strike by ashjay001(m): 5:34pm On Dec 07, 2021
Maxymilliano:

Buhari doesn't have the right to sack anyone. AEDC is privately owned.

Shame on you Tyrant

Their license expired early this year, it hasn't been renewed. They were on borrowed time

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Education / Re: As Minors, What Happens To The Students Who Tortured Sylvester If Found Guilty? by ashjay001(m): 11:10am On Dec 06, 2021
DubaiLandLord1:
They will be charge for murder

On this Issue, is the law in Nigeria and the USA the same?

He didn't die immediately, can't be murder
Sports / Re: It’s Abuse!’ – Michael Owen Slams Manchester United’s Use Of Cristiano Ronaldo by ashjay001(m): 11:26am On Nov 29, 2021
paulolee:
DTS his opinion..big thumbs up to carrick for starting both sancho n dt bailey in dt game bcox i never expected such
Sancho got d only goal n baily had a wonderful game n I pray e keeps his shirt
united fans should get used to such surprises bcoz dt new rangnick is a master tactician n his tactical brilliance dnt support predictability...
I keep telling people dt a pep dt I know is incharge of dis squad, he wont keep starting cr7 in big games after he went silent against Leicester, Liverpool, city n even Watford...

He went silent because, man u were defending for their lives against those teams you mentioned. Against teams they attack or press, then his games shows.

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Politics / Re: Banks Begin Deduction Of Loans From Chronic Debtors’ Accounts by ashjay001(m): 11:24am On Nov 01, 2021
June15:
Until thy kingdom come, them no fit do nothing.. deducting customer's money with their consent, is like embazzlement

The law was recently passed, I believe�

It's a win for Nigeria. Who dem go borrow billions, wey no go become billionaire
Travel / Re: Construction Linking Bonny Island By Road (Photos) by ashjay001(m): 4:57pm On Jul 13, 2021
htdot:

Zombie, its the state government... Buhari has not done anything in the south.

Wailer, educate yourself and stop broadcasting your ignorance in public spaces wink

https://www.julius-berger.com/references/bodo-bonny-road-rivers-state

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Religion / Re: This Is For Those That Believe God Does Not Exist Because He Can't Be Seen by ashjay001(m): 10:54am On Jun 12, 2021
falcon01:
Why all these grammar?? I'm not saying that Hod doesn't exist oo but what I'm saying is if God exist He wouldn't need you people to be doing grammar Trying hard to prove he exists. Just give em something tangible or stfu!

You have less than a 100yrs to spend on earth, max of 150yrs!
Why does any God need to prove his existence to you?
What are you doing differently, that he hasn't witnessed, over and over again?

Humble yourself. He really doesnt care, if you worship him or not!

He's not bothered about your stay on it, he has soo made everything perfect in its own way. Life takes care of itself.

Just humble yourself and try make something of your life too
Travel / Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by ashjay001(m): 12:43pm On May 08, 2021
fairheart:
Yes! The more school hours apply to, the better your opportunity to select the best one and, perhaps, receive funding.

Sevis fee must be paid before interview and a coupon must be generated to make this payment. However, interview appointment can be scheduled before payment of sevis.


Hi. Pls, I sent you a dm and would love to have a private conversation with you, if you don't mind? Thanks

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Family / Re: So This Is Marriage? by ashjay001(m): 2:05pm On Apr 12, 2021
robosky02:
Oyindidi


You try sha. But, I dont forgive sha. Esp, if you continue the same character/misbehaviour, after several warnings.

The 2 have to display mutual respect at all times. No one is doing the other a favour
Crime / Re: Trooper Azunna Maduabuchi Sentenced To Death By Firing Squad by ashjay001(m): 6:50pm On Jan 12, 2021
nuban07:
The soldier who sat before a court-martial in Maiduguri, Borno State capital was arraigned for shooting Lieutenant Ngorgi in July 2020 at close range in Bama Local Government of Borno State for refusing to grant him a welfare pass.

Anger leads to destruction. If he can do this to a fellow soldier imagine a civilian. These guys need brain checks regularly

Anger or depression?
Romance / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by ashjay001(m): 10:04am On Dec 17, 2020
Anoymus:
wow!

You're a thinking man, I wasn't.

Do your investments abeg, if you full finish, invest in her.
Education / Re: These animals Are Capable Of Taking Revenge (Photos) by ashjay001(m): 5:15pm On Aug 02, 2020
KingTom:

No sir cheesy

OK. I had a colleague that had the same experience.
Education / Re: These animals Are Capable Of Taking Revenge (Photos) by ashjay001(m): 2:29pm On Aug 02, 2020
KingTom:

I've seen this happen before, beside my house lies a telecom mast. Apparently the crows had placed several nests atop those masts, when the engineers came, they threw everything down including the crow eggs, the one who climbed up and threw those things down was attacked by a flight of crows grin see as sky turn black that day... the boy who lives across picked one of the birds and started nursing it, I kid you not, these crows would hover around him from down the street till he gets home. They called him the Crow Whisperer, meanwhile anytime the telecom engineers come to top diesel, the crows will attack that particular engineer, every single time grin fascinating creatures, those crows.

You stay at Iyana Ipaja/Alimosho?

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Politics / Re: Edo: Charles Ude Drags APC To Court, Seeks Ize-iyamu’s Disqualification by ashjay001(m): 10:03am On Jul 23, 2020
thesicilian:
I'm surprised nobody thought of this ever since.

1. Once they appealed, status quo remained! No argument, whatsoever!
2. APC NEC ratified the verification and primary elections! Unless, the courts want to be smarter by half sha

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Family / Re: My Sister In-law Tried To Scam Me. by ashjay001(m): 12:46am On Jun 04, 2020
Amya:
I've been looking to get a federal agency job in Abuja for a while now and haven't yet had any reasonable connection.

My sister inlaw ( husband's sister) a lady in her mid 40s who's divorced and a hustler type still trying to find her feet called me up one day and told me a friend of hers had a connection for Civil Defence and i should email my CV right away to her. I have never discussed jobs with her before so the call took me by surprise. I wasnt particular keen on Civil Defence and as a lawyer i had my sights much higher on parastatal or agency jobs. She might have sensed my reluctance on the phone and she went on to say

"I'm just doing you a favour ooo, many people are hoping for opportunities as this"

She had this tone of urgency.

I didnt especially like how she was hurrying me as i never approach anything with desperation and as such, have never been scammed. I told her I'll get back to her. Two hours later, she was messaging me on whatsapp that she hadn't seen my CV on her mailbox. I replied her saying

"Aunty i haven't sent it ooo, is the job slot free because me i don't have money ooo"

This was a very dicey situation for me because this woman is over 10 years my senior and i wanted to be as diplomatic as possible without causing family wahala.

She read my response but didnt reply.

Very early the next morning she called me and when i picked up, she said that the job wasnt free but the price wasnt too much, just N350k. That i shouldn't worry that she'll call my hubby (her brother) and ask him for the money. When i saw she was still pushing, i opened up to her that even if i wanted to pay for a job slot, it definitely wasnt going to be a Civil Defence job as i had my sights set on agencies and parastatals. I knew she was upset by how her voice changed. "Agencies? What's that?" I told her like NNPC, DPR, NCC and the likes
"NNPC? ehnnn.. Okay" She cut the call and i heaved a sigh that it was over. It wasn't.

Two days later, this woman called me again to tell me she has an NNPC job for me.

(you've gat to be kidding me!)

She said that her friend knows the director and he asked for one million but after begging him, he agreed to take 500k she started with her hurrying tactics that i had only 24hrs and if payment wasn't made before then that the offer will be withdrawn. At that time, NNPC were done with their recruitment process and i didnt even apply and knowing how stringent NNPC recruitment was, i knew that offer was impossible. She went on that if I didn't have the cash that she'd call her brother (hubby) to make the transfer immediately. I knew right then without a doubt that this woman wanted to use me to obtain her brother by all means. She can try to scam him directly and if he falls mugu, good for her but why try to use me in the scam? I went further with questioning her on the supposed NNPC job. "Please Aunty the director that is helping, where is he?
" Abuja nau" she replied getting irritated with my questioning.

She was in Lagos and i was in Abuja at the time
so i asked her if i could meet the supposed director one on one and pay him directly and even promised to reward her and her friend handsomely if the deal pulls through.

"No" she said abruptly "you pay the money to my account and ill give it to my friend to make the payment. All you have to do is just hope and pray"

Pray... That word. I knew then without a doubt that this Aunty was trying to scam me.

I told her "Aunty please dont be angry, i know you mean well for my future and want me to get a good job in NNPC but right now I've already paid part payment for another job somewhere and i wouldn't want to invest in two places at once" That wasnt true, i just had to get her off my tail once and for all. She was shocked. She angrily cut the call. She wanted to finesse her brother out of some cash using my future, what happens when the real slot comes around. Would i expect him to pay twice?

Her mum (mil) called me and started blasting me. Saying I'm feeling too big to be helped and her daughter was only trying to help me and now she never wanted to have anything to do with me again. That i should call her daughter and take the offer so that peace would reign. I didnt. Even my hubby blamed me and i couldn't even open my mouth to tell anyone i thought the whole setup was a scam. That's such a big accusation to make. The family dislike for me grew worse because of that incident.

Please did i do wrong?



Modified: For those asking me to talk to hubby, ofcourse i did but he genuinely believes his sister was trying to help and since i couldnt point out outright that the whole thing smelt of scam, hr thinks i rejected the offer because of pride. But i know better. It didnt cause serious issue between us though.

Correct bae.

Thank God, your hubby understands sha. She was betting on you wanting to be in her good books. I hope your hubby doesnt offend you sha, you stubborn pa �
Crime / Re: Uwa Omozuwa: Edo State Police Command Arrests One Suspect by ashjay001(m): 7:09am On Jun 02, 2020
MaestroID:
Wow.. Nigeria Police Now have Finger Print Database...

Make dem sha catch all those FOOLISH FOOLS FOR THEIR ACT. RAPIST SHOULD BE HANGED, CASTRATED AND SHOT....

BVN and SIM registration?
Romance / Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by ashjay001(m): 12:36am On May 31, 2020
hilaryCU:
Hello Everyone,

Please, I want to know how to recover a room that a tenant packed and left witj the keys.

The annoying thing is that, they are owing a year and six months rent. Please, how do I recover the room.

Thanks all

Get to a police station, if they cooperate, they will help you.
Or go to court and get a court order
Family / Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by ashjay001(m): 4:34pm On May 22, 2020
Ebus12:


I can't fight him
He is older than I am

He is bigger than I am
Forget his age.... His stature is like that of a giant

Lol
There is a lion outside, looking for whom to devour and it has caught you.
Next time he tries beating you, carry a plank or something. Just make sure when you hit him, you hit him on a arm, side or leg. Make sure you use it, when you pick it.
He's a bully and you're now his victim
Politics / Re: Teniola And Teniayo Saraki 20th Birthday: Toyin Celebrates Her Twin Daughters by ashjay001(m): 9:18am On May 13, 2020
bennyxt:


Their mother. Saraki is an attractive guy. The woman spoil all their children. See her top lip and look at her daughters.

The combination of both parents features, didn't work for them. If not, both parents ain't bad

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