Family › Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by ashjay001(m): 8:17am On Sep 08, 2019 |
Martinez39: You know this can be helpful to families(especially children) in resolving a lot of things and undue hatred towards their fathers.  A deadbeat dad, is a deadbeat dad! Just that, time softens most pple. By the time the kid grows, the father might have left his old ways and be claiming innocenty! This goes both ways |
Family › Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by ashjay001(m): 6:00am On Aug 14, 2019 |
Sweettwenty8: You need likes for sure, his actions paints me as a bad cook but the truth is i cook good, so if my colleagues eat what i make because its free, he's got never ending family members that come around and I'll serve them and they'll ask for second helpings?
Plus shut the Bleep up i have Female colleagues your gf might be shagiing her male colleagues its not my problem Well, earlier in my marriage, I developed a carving for soft drinks while eating. I just didn't like the food. Yet friends and family couldn't get enough. Until she opened a restaurant and started bringing the food home, before I didn't need soft drinks again. But, by then, it was too late. The marriage is presently over. Not to scare you, but you might need to change your game. Insisting on maintaining your way of cooking, shows you might find compromise difficult. You didn't marry those other niggas o!  |
Politics › Re: Ihedioha Begins Removal Of Okorocha’s Overhead Iron Bars And Trees In Owerri by ashjay001(m): 11:38am On Jul 23, 2019 |
emmancipated: I just hope that this Ihedioha doesn't turn out to be worse than Okorocha. Let him get down to business and let all these petty fights slide. Same way, Ambode started. Petty pple, never leave good memories  |
Romance › Re: Man Blocks Girlfriend On All Platforms After She Got Piercing Against His Wish by ashjay001(m): 9:44am On Jul 19, 2019*. Modified: 6:44pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
niaralandtopuser: It is your right to do whatever you like with your body and his right to block whoever he want from a phone bought with his hard-earned money I tire o! She's insisting her friend has the right to pierce, but angry with the nigga, cos he activated his right to block  Werey! Bloody hypocrite |
Family › Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by ashjay001(m): 10:40pm On Jul 18, 2019*. Modified: 6:53am On Jul 19, 2019 |
daddytime: Your whining, lack of balls and enough mouth to banter with your wife is the reason why she and her mother have got zero respect for you, my brother.
If you could, just ignore them and forget the so-called wife with her mom.
Na dem go begin beg you say Eleru, wa gberu re o Fact! Step up your hustle but, you're looking for a wife who doesn't want to stay? |
Family › Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by ashjay001(m): 12:06pm On Jul 16, 2019 |
Timih: I'm very disturbed now 
This might be long
I don't know if he's the one assaulting her or she's the one doing so.. I don't even know what is going on
I got back from work, went to the bathroom and when I came out, I saw my son entering a room. He was calling her name and entered. I've been suspecting something like this so I used the opportunity to peep. I saw my son sitting close to her, putting his hand across her neck, this time she was giving a faint smile while putting her palms on her face. Later the boy went to her back and started squeezing her breast from behind. Mehn.. I'm sad, shocked, bad.. Everything. I called him and I pretended not to see anything, why? I know if I react, I'll severely deal with him and that won't change anything because he's been poisoned already. I feel like I've failed as a father already.
He's 7 turning to 8,the girl is 14. I seriously don't know what to do about my son, in fact I can't eat to think well. I'll be sending away the girl though but I'm sure that won't stop my son from doing things. Especially in his school. I'm afraid of anything that may happen.
First time I noticed a strange relationship between them, i called him, talked to him about not showing his pen.is to anyone, to keep himself covered and all sort, asked him questions about anyone touching him in any manner and he said no. I asked him about his friends in school.. He named 8 of dem and 2 of them are girls.
I've failed as a father. My wife is not yet back but when I tell her, she will beat the boy and that won't change anything. I don't know where I went wrong. The maid bathes the boy, dresses for him too. Maybe that's where the issue lies. My wife just gave birth and that's why we employed a maid to help her and take care of the house till the baby is old enough.
I don't know where he got it from, I've stopped my wife from watching movies on dstv anytime he's with her.. She only watches redeemed channel and maybe news then when he's asleep, she face her movies. She asked why and i said there was a day I came back from work, and the way he greeted me was very strange... Normally, I relate with him as if we are age mates.. I can say my guy, how u dey na and he replies with daddy, I just gentle... Just normal guyman things but this one is totally different and no one needs to tell me he got it from the movies.. No one.
Maybe I have to take charge of bathing him
He's a very smart boy.. Very very smart and that's my fear.. And for him to be exposed to this has duely affected me.
Please help me.. Abuse me, curse me.. I don't have a choice.. Just help me 
Pardon my English pls.. Just help A very smart 8yrs old, not allowed to bath himself  This one don happen already, make ur corrections with his siblings. I've got two of them myself. By five, they were bathing themselves. Though, I or their mom gives them a wash at least 2wice a month. Seems it's very hard for a young boy, living with a teen girl/unmarried lady not to be sexually assaulted. |
Health › Re: Kennedy Onoriode Ovabore Dies After A Brief Illness (Photos) by ashjay001(m): 11:59am On May 24, 2019 |
zoedew: You shoot straight from the hip! Do please get a copy of the Bible and read right through! Regards! Lol I've kind of read it, several times. It ain't saying anything different! But, are u saying the earth is less than 4billion years? Have u come across; a day before God, being like a thousand years to man? |
Health › Re: Kennedy Onoriode Ovabore Dies After A Brief Illness (Photos) by ashjay001(m): 8:03am On May 24, 2019 |
Donald95: He died a Hero Because he died fighting For True Democracy. He died defending Christianity all the world. Any body defending USA is defending Peace all over the world.
What Pissful people will do to Christians if power leaves USA is Better imagined than experienced Christianity, is just over 2000yrs old. Humans have been around for over 50000yrs.(fifty thousan) The earth has been around for over 3billion years. Life will go on, religion or no religion! |
Politics › Re: President Buhari Orders Immediate Clearing Of Apapa Gridlock by ashjay001(m): 1:26pm On May 22, 2019 |
lexy2014: I don't need read between d lines cos if I have read between d lines, it means d directive isn't explicit. D question I asked is this, do they need presidential directive b4 they no that they will clear d gridlock? Are u sure we are having d same discussion? I said d same gridlock that they are giving presidential directive 4 was cleared in February when buhari came 4 campaign & u are talking about osinbajo flying helicopter. What's d correlation? You can't read btw d lines then. Apapa road is a federal road. The military(naval) and paramilitary(customs), have probably taken over jurisdiction. Thereby, denying the lastma and the traffic police access or control over traffic activities. No one, apart from PMB can give them d directive, to shift their attentions, elsewhere. PMB's visit, is a state visit, and mountains are moved, to make it hitchfree. So much so, movements in d entire Lagos is affected! Not just apapa. Such restrictions, can't be placed on movement during the VP's visit. The military and paramilitary, probably think it's their duty to create those roadblocks and moving for d presidential visit, was just a temporary thing. If u don't still get it, after all these, don't bother. Let's just both move on, and continue on our path to a better life  |
Politics › Re: President Buhari Orders Immediate Clearing Of Apapa Gridlock by ashjay001(m): 1:08pm On May 22, 2019 |
lexy2014: Do they need approval from buhari b4 they clear gridlock? Who gave them approval b4 they cleared d gridlock in February because of buharis campaign in Lagos? If you read btw d lines in d article, you would see where military formations where given the order to dismantle all road blocks and clear out all their security apparatus from the vicinity! Who else can give such orders to a military organization? Have u seen the apapa gridlock cleared for an Osinbajo visit? I remember Osinbajo, flying a chopper on his last visit. Whereas, the presidential security team, can get it cleared effortlessly for the visit of the President. |
Politics › Re: President Buhari Orders Immediate Clearing Of Apapa Gridlock by ashjay001(m): 12:54pm On May 22, 2019 |
Owaincouncil: I hope they obey this instruction. But the headline is misleading. Buhari didnt give the directive but Osinbajo. So I pray it dtand. Osinbajo, chairs the task force, that reports to the President. It's probably Osinbajo's brain child, yet it would have been useless, if PMB didnt buy into it or grant approval.  |
Politics › Re: NASS Leadership: Why APC Accord May Crumble by ashjay001(m): 11:50am On May 06, 2019 |
justparamount: Henceforth I won't read any article on Legislative leaderships war written by any wailer. See the thrash being written fa  Legislative members from d ruling/majority party, are supposedly angry that the executive of the ruling party, want their members to be solely elected into ranking posts in the committees  And, some supposedly sensible, educated, intelligent, civilised individuals believe such  |
Sports › Re: Lionel Messi With His Wife And Sons In Cute Family Photos by ashjay001(m): 12:06am On May 06, 2019 |
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Celebrities › Re: Francis Odega Speaks On Beating His Wife And Kicking Her Out by ashjay001(m): 4:26pm On May 05, 2019 |
Livefreeordieha: from the comments I read here I can only understand why we have no jury system... The masses are humanoids devoid of common sense and pragmatic thinking hence they dwell in hypocritical illusion of being the holiest.. I'm Ara here!!!! Abeg, park! Na d same stupidity, full everywhere! If u read d list of pple let off d jury, in those so called saner climes, u go keep ur common sense to urself. The world is just full of stupid pple, we'll have to negotiate carefully n pray, we don't fall victim or av to join dem! |
Romance › Re: Man Gives Lady N2k To Help Him Prepare Egusi Soup, She Did This by ashjay001(m): 4:18pm On May 05, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: You are just being a typical guy on Nairaland. So, you don't see anything wrong in him inspecting the foodstuffs? And what do you mean by "Is she his wife?" na wa for una. Walahi, u get time for that guy! Me that was amazed, a young marriageable man, no get gas Come dey inspect join? See guys dey defend am  Ityaff finish! Even if u feel cheated, no be to shut up n no invite her next time? Werey ni gbogbo won(all of them mad  ), no shame! |
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Business › Re: Picture Of Dangote With Bottle Water That Got People Talking by ashjay001(m): 7:49am On May 01, 2019 |
sarrki: Aliko Dangote is humble to the core
You hardly see him spraying at occasion
Poor people claiming to be rich
If you actually sweat for your money you hardly spend it recklessly But, seriously, no side table for VIPs  |
Crime › Re: Zainab Aliyu Has Been Released To Nigerian Mission In Saudi Arabia by ashjay001(m): 3:29pm On Apr 30, 2019 |
NgeneUkwenu: They should extend the same to my brothers, who went on DEVELOPMENT MISSION in Indonesia, Pakistan, Singapore, Hong Kong and Malaysia but were WRONGLY charged for drug offenses.
Na agbaya u be  |
Crime › Re: Man Who Killed Father Of Chikelu Iloanyusi Arrested After 5 Years . Photo by ashjay001(m): 5:58am On Apr 28, 2019 |
ChangeIsCostant: The police has arrested the suspected murderer of father of former Super Eagles player, Chikelu Iloanyusi. According to reports, the suspect was apprehended on Saturday in Anaku, Anyamelum local government area of Anambra State.
Police spokesperson in the state, Haruna Mohammed, who disclosed this in a statement in Awka, said the suspect, Ikechukwu Emilie, was arrested in his hideout at Anaku following intelligence report.
The statement read, “It would be recalled that sometime in 2014, one Pa Iloanyusi aged 85 years and father of Ex-Super Eagles player Chikelu Iloanyusi was kidnapped and murdered by one Ikechukwu Emilie, a notorious kidnapper terrorizing Anaku and Otoucha axis in Anambra State.
“Suspect was rounded up at Phix motel Abagana where he jumped down from a three storey building with handcuff and escaped in 2014.
“Since then he became elusive and all efforts to get him rearrested was furtile.
“However, on the 27/4/2019, at about 1:30pm, following credible intelligence, Police detectives attached to the Command Special Anti-Robbery Squad (SARS) arrested the suspect Ikechukwu Emilie ‘m’ aged 30 years in his hideout at Anaku in Anyamelum LGA of Anambra State.”
See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2019/04/suspected-murderer-of-ex-super-eagles-players-father-nabbed-in-anambra.html See am, already looking sober. If u jam am, ordinarily for street, e go dey form don  |
Family › Re: My Grandmum Was An Idol Worshiper, Now This Is Happening To Me, Please Help! by ashjay001(m): 5:53am On Apr 28, 2019 |
ifyalways: Emma, im short of words at your situation. Im not religious so im blind to whatever religious undertones(if any) in your write up.
What about the investment you made with part of the loan? Ypu were not a novice in car hire/driving business so im truly surprised you invested part of that loan into town service.
You seem to be too trusting. . .and have very little business acumen. Can you take a break from all business and just look for a job, work,collect your salary, flex and save. No be all of us go be CEO or business man.
You could even look for an established church that will employ you. I assume Pastors are paid monthly 
Edit: Why do you need a pastor or fellow man to help you pray/conduct deliverance etc ,if at all theres any spiritual undertone to your wahala? MFM pastors are human too . . Just like you. You made bad choices and decisions,C'est finis. I see nothing spiritual with your problems. Who works and saves his salary with his boss?  Pray, bind and cast all you want, if you dont wisen up as a man and face the street headstrong, nothing will change. He needs a mentor or a strong woman/wife in his life. With all he's said abt d village, he probably can't do without traveling home for events/celebrations. He already has a good savings culture, save to wealth. Invest in properties. Surest form of investments. |
Sports › Re: Manchester Derby: Guardiola Doesn't Like Solskjaer's Comments About Kicking by ashjay001(m): 9:59am On Apr 24, 2019 |
Oh, they do do it! Always disrupting the fast counter!
All those niggling little fouls not even worth a card! |
Family › Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by ashjay001(m): 12:58pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Marriage26: Good day nairalander,
I am a popular jingo nairalander but got to hide under this moniker...
I have been dating my fiancee for the past 7 years, she had met my parents and I have met her's many times . We planned to get married earlier year. But it was the year my mother left this planet, I informed my family I wanted to get married but they declined, saying, it must be over years of mumsy's demise before I can marry.
We've fixed introduction days 3ice and it got cancelled by my father, what's his reason?
1. NYSC: I was posted to serve in the Northern part of the country 3 years ago, I went to camp, but I couldn't cope with the weather and couldn't leave my business as NYSC won't guarantee me job and I don't have other option. I absconded from the service and faced my business which I saved profits in 7 digits in same year, God made me comfortable.
2: He said I should rather impregnate the girl (backdoor talk)
I am close to my late 20s, he already banned all family members as many depend on him from attending my introduction. He cancelled my introduction without fixing a new date.
My in-law trust me and ready to release the lady to me as I haven't had sex with her since 2012 that we've been dating...
And Also, God had supplied all I needed for my wedding from A-Z.
Do you think this is a cogent reason?. I want to ahead with my wedding plans...
Kindly advise....Thanks If u don't mind getting disowned, no P. You might win, by calling his bluff or u might loose everything! No sex before marriage, is dangerous. Sexual compatibility, is a must! It might be nobody's fault, but it's real. The size of d D, might be a bone of contention on its own! |
Crime › Re: Zlatan Ibile Rescued By Soldiers After Being Beaten By Rival Cultists by ashjay001(m): 1:08pm On Apr 20, 2019 |
EzegeNG: It was chaos, last night, at the Gateway polytechnic, Saapade, Ogun State, as singer Zlatan Ibile was beaten up on stage by suspected members of the Eiye confraternity.
Trouble allegedly started when the singer got on stage late for his performance. Matters, however, got worse because he was rocking a beret of his Aiye cult group. .
Angered by his effrontery, one Eiye cultist identified as Ronaldo, approached Zlatan and removed the beret before attacking him. To prevent further anarchy, soldiers immediately moved in to whisk the singer away.
Watch the video https://zenithnaija.com/singer-zlantan-ibile-rescued-by-soldiers-after-being-beaten-by-rival-cultists/ , Fools! If dem waste him life now, stories that touch go start! Awon werey |
Crime › Re: 34 Female Strippers From Wealthy Homes Arrested In Abuja by ashjay001(m): 8:56pm On Apr 19, 2019*. Modified: 11:21am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Olalan: ".......Married with children" shameful. Shameful ke? U no hear say money no dey circulation? Person fit satisfy una like ds? If she steal/loot, na wahala. Better work, una no gv am. Now she still dey hustle una no gree dem rest U sure say her hubby no know where she dey resume every night? |
Crime › Re: Police Rescue Lady From Yahoo Boys In Delta State. Photos by ashjay001(m): 8:52pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
KingSango: Olodumare created them
And He is incomprehensible so we don't ever define one who is all
Some say Allah
Some Amen
Some Elohim Well, Olodumare created beings that then created carnal humans. Olodumare is incomprehensible to mere mortals. Good and Evil, burst forth from him. Why, we can only contemplate. But, that he has no part in the carnality of men, is what I refuse to accept. Of every thing, that is of Good n Evil, can't be, without the knowledge of the Supreme Being. |
Crime › Re: Police Rescue Lady From Yahoo Boys In Delta State. Photos by ashjay001(m): 6:23pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
KingSango: The Irunmole
Some Orishas are Irunmole and some Irunmole never have descended to this plane they created the heavens and Earth Something created d irunmoles/orishas? |
Crime › Re: Police Rescue Lady From Yahoo Boys In Delta State. Photos by ashjay001(m): 12:11pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
KingSango: There is the definitive God the one Al or El
Who is the All of all
No one knows or can tell you definite
Nothing compares to the All yet all are contained within the All
So we say Allah or Elohim for our limited understanding
When we say Olodumare we mean the God who is indefinite unable to define or decode
Descended Angels called Orishas created man they were extremely tall, dark skin, wooly hair they look African yet they are Gods Some of them live in the inner Earth
We Africans were created in their image that's why we have melanin and god abilities
Other humans were later created from the African woman's womb using the DNA of other species
In ancient times women were powerful priestesses and witches to be feared
The great mother is terrible in her wrath and most powerful of all the Black magick deities
She is the moon and can be the dark side of Saturn
The African woman scientist is the mother of all as women priestesses in these times could give birth without a man's seed Who created the Orishas, that created the carnal man? ?? |
Crime › Re: Police Rescue Lady From Yahoo Boys In Delta State. Photos by ashjay001(m): 10:27am On Apr 19, 2019 |
KingSango: The nature of man is carnal Who created the carnal man  |
Crime › Re: 8 Nigerian Robbers Sentenced To Death In UAE by ashjay001(m): 10:16am On Apr 19, 2019 |
GavelSlam: Even without reading the entire text, I could figure out some of these robberies had been successful in the past, hence the copy-cat capers there after.
Do not spare them.
As your justice system thinks adequate, apply its full force. Exactly my thoughts! Now, this recent robbery, makes a lot of sense |
Sports › Re: How Dundee United Became A Slang For Fools by ashjay001(m): 2:32pm On Apr 16, 2019 |
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Crime › Re: Airport Staff Arraigned Over Illegal Gold Dealings by ashjay001(m): 12:44pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
MhannyEra: Newsbroadcastnaija: EFCC, Lagos Zonal office, on April 9, 2019, arraigned eight suspected members of a syndicate of illegal gold dealers before Justice A.O. Faji of the Federal High Court sitting in Ikoyi, Lagos. . . They were arraigned on a three-count charge bordering on dealing in gold mine without lawful authorization, conspiracy and being in possession of raw gold without lawful authorization. . . The suspects are: Babagana Zannah, who claimed to be the owner of the raw gold bars; Ahmed Hamza Mannir; Manasseh Auta; Dahiru Habib Bali; Isa Umaru Ammani; Ajakaye Oladipo; Bamanja Jonah Samuel and Lasisi Aisha. . . The second suspect, Mannir, who was arrested onboard an Emirates flight to Dubai on March 1, 2019 at the Murtala Muhammed International Airport, Ikeja, Lagos, was allegedly helped by the third to eight defendants, who are employees of the Federal Airport Authority of Nigeria, FAAN. . . The suspected FAAN staff allegedly carried the raw gold bars through various doors, while carefully avoiding going through the scanners provided at the airport and handed them to the second defendant at the point of boarding. . . The defendants pleaded "not guilty" to the charge preferred against them. Justice Faji adjourned the case to April 16, 2019 for ruling on the bail applications and ordered the defendants to be remanded in prison custody.
See more: http://www.newsbroadcast.com.ng/2019/04/airport-staff-arraigned-over-illegal.html This is fantastic news! Normally, such arrests will just die a natural death. I remember reading abt d arrest n thinking d arrest was d last thing we will read abt it. Consequence, to every action |
Crime › Re: 30-Year-Old Man Defiles 12-Year-Old Girl Chased Away From Home By Aunt In Abia by ashjay001(m): 12:39pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
dainformant: A 30-year-old man has been apprehended for allegedly "taking hostage" of a 12-year-old girl and defiling her in the process in Abia state.
It was gathered that the little girl who hails from Apugo in Enugu State, has been living with her aunt who allegedly maltreats her constantly and flogs her with cutlass.
According to reports, the little girl who sells sachet water for her aunt - was chased away from home by the same woman on Wednesday, 10/04/2019 and the suspect took advantage of the poor orphan in pretense of accommodating her, to sexually abuse and defile the minor.
The community policing vigilante of Umuogele village in Abia - caught them and handed them over to the Ndiegoro Police Division.
Efforts are being made to get an NGO to take up the girl's case.
See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2019/04/man-arrested-for-defiling-12-year-old-girl-in-umuogele-abia-state.html Why should they parade her too? Has she not gone thru enough as it is  |