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Leak it yourself.

Kobojunkie:
1. Well, if you feel the men should be held responsible and accountable, then shouldn't the focus of the polices be the men in this case?

2. Then, shouldn't the primary focus be on educating men on the goings on during pregnancy and all, since you claim women shouldn't be assumed equally responsible? I am having a hard time following your argument is why I keep asking these things.

3. How can you protect pregnant women when the major power over them, according to you, is the man?

1. That is why I said ….”holistic policies”…
2. The answer is “holistic policies”….
3. “Holistic policies” can address this too

Kobojunkie:
I am afraid I don't follow.

2. Are women not supposed to be equally responsible and accountable?

3. Are you suggesting that polices be put in place to place responsibility wholly on the Healthcare system and not equally on the individual women themselves?

1. Please follow
2. Women are responsible. I said “in such situation” - and to be fair and blunt, I’m not a feminist nor do I believe in the notion of equality. Sorry I said that. Men should be treated as the head of the home.
3. Policies should be holistic. What I mean is ….”in this situation”…. Sorry, I’m not sure what’s your gender cos I didn’t really check but if you are Male, I will like to inform you that nothing beats pregnancy in this world. And no man can even fathom what goes on during the period of pregnancy. That said, while the holistic healthcare policies covers all human being, pregnant women should definitely be protected at all cost. No matter what that cost might be.

yomi007k:
Yes. Let them make a policy that any man not having up to N500,000 in his account shouldn't try to have a baby . If such man is to have a 3rd child, he should have N1,000,000 or more in his account.

Yes men ought to be responsible and accountable to their families - but no woman should die because of a failed healthcare system.
Having a sustainable life requires money - no doubt but money is not the solution here. One could have 1 million but the hospital would demand for 5 million - the challenge is the system not money. For instance, Nigeria ought to be thriving in the Healthcare insurance sector…. Or don’t you think so?

Sentiment aside, and critically speaking, the healthcare system needs to be more favourable to women and unborn children. There ought to be some placement for this type of situation. Save life first and then don’t forget to educate people and create awareness about this sort of things. You know that most women may fall pregnant over and over again because they are looking for a particular gender or because they want a specific number of kids. And these are some areas that adequate awareness and education can provide help for.

Kobojunkie:
What exactly will her police do in the case of people having kids they can't afford?

Sentiment aside, and critically speaking, the healthcare system needs to be more favourable to women and unborn children. There ought to be some placement for this type of situation. Save life first and then don’t forget to educate people and create awareness about this sort of things. You know that most women may fall pregnant over and over again because they are looking for a particular gender or because they want a specific number of kids. And these are some areas that adequate awareness and education can provide help for.

Yes men ought to be responsible and accountable to their families - but no woman should die because of a failed healthcare system.

I hear that Dr Adanna , Ohakim’s daughter is now the SSA to the president on women’s healthcare. I hope someone can draw her attention to this. She talked about policy and I appreciate this may be too soon as she just assumed office nevertheless, I do honestly believe that change can be imminent in the Nigeria’s healthcare sector.

The main question is: how will this loan affect the value of Naira?

Actors turning producers with no strong learning, training and development is one of the problems in Nollywood. Every actor is now a producer. Without going through the rigorous learning process, you may grow but with the isolation of key knowledge and awareness which eventually lead to drastic circumstances and outcomes such as in this case. My question is this: "Aren't there adequate measures to ensure absolute health and safety procedures are followed in the movie industry"? Who travels through such a body of water without a life jacket and makes a video of their bravery even before reaching the final destination - what message are these celebrities sending across??

RIP to him.

PS: I am not apportioning blame but simply suggesting that Nollywood actors should take their time and prepare for their growth. Delay is not denial. If you must be a producer, get it right and ban*ing. I have a lot to talk to these Nollywood actors about including health and safety, well-being, insurance and most importantly integrity. Most of them are getting it wrong...

sammysmiles:
Shut up!

God bless you dear..

I think this response is aggressive and harsh. As one YouTube commenter said - let the viewers make up their assertions based on the video. Responses should not attack the BBC but should share more light in counter to those claims.

Prayer is the key... He got his visa to Canada a day before his death.... We must learn that the spiritual controls the physical and prayer is the solid-proof sure way to ensure only the Godly spiritual becomes the natural. The norm for the devil is to destroy us before our light shines but the mandate of God is to destroy all the works of satan. In simple terms - PRAY OFTEN, PRAY MORE, PRAY WITH PRIDE.

NEVER STOP CALLING YOUR FATHER. GO BACK HOME AND HAVE A SIT DOWN. ASK YOURSELF THIS SIMPLE QUESTION... "what is the worse thing that could possibly happen if you apologise to your dad for intentional and unintentional hurt and you reconcile?".
Trust me - life is simple!!!!

dustmalik:
Good news and congratulations. However, you are yet to tell us exactly what happened.

Oh dear, I am actually hoping to get the full info as well. But it looks like one of those "lies went wrong scenario" and we are keen to getting to the root of this.

Thanks for your care really.

DamnnNiggarr:
This level 200 student of Adult Education, Nnamdi Azikiwe University, Awka is missing,
if you know anything about her whereabout, please, kindly report to the nearest police station around you.

Hi there, Mmelie is my sister. We sincerely appreciate your kind thought and your intention but I wish you consulted with her family first. She has been found and she is safe. Please update this accordingly and I would appreciate it if perhaps, you could take this down.

Once again, thanks for your kind thoughts and If you wish to, you may drop your number as a dm and I shall contact you.

Thanks everyone for your best wishes. Mmelie is my sister and she has been found. Can the OP update this accordingly. Also, I appreciate your kind thoughts but I honestly wish you consulted with us, her family before making this post.
Biko, update accordingly. Once again, many thanks for the best wishes...

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Fmlao:
So far u no meet ur babe as a virgin

Have it at the back of your mind that it's either she has a child somewhere or she don do abortions before...

This is actually false and misleading.

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Knows12:
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Knows12:
Good evening nairalanders,
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I'm depressed so pardon my typographical and grammatical blunder..
I'm a graduate of a university in Nigeria, but I have not done my clearance due to the fact that I'm still owing school authority some dues.
Please I don't know if any one can help me with a job/work with manageable salary and accommodation(any type) for now because I'm ready to leave ekiti state and search for greener pastures...
Note: I have been on my for a decade now.

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Long time ago, the world was religiously bankrupt. Then it digressed morally and became a complete morally-failed “state”. Now, with all these, the world is rapidly moving to its end.

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Except that this is Nigeria where the unexpected happens, I wish you and your Sis the best

Except I may be wrong, but this marriage is as good as ended. I am not sure how my comment will come across to the world but my point is this: we should never cower to the vices of the enemy. Having a sense of belonging should never be tarnished by the media image because in the end, we will forever live with our regrets.

this reminds me of the Chinese woman who had a nose job and her children all had her original nose job. would she take her children under the knife?

A mother's war - hell has no fury.

How I wish I can get them all.

SavageResponse:
OP is not a female

Oh my bad. But still. same applies really.

At 40, you will look back and say. I am 40, an established man, and people are asking me how I manage to keep this excellent body.

it's stagnation though - for those who may be trying to adopt the word.