₦airaland Forum

Hamachi:
When I see people say Nigerian feminists are bitter and blablabla and are not like western feminists, I'm slightly amused and largely annoyed.

In a bid to bash the movement, these idiots don't reason.

Western feminists have achieved a level of equality that Nigerian feminists can only dream of. We are currently in the level they were 50 or 75 years ago.

UK/American feminists are not bothered about female genital mutilation. Or child bride. They are not fighting the mentality that you need marriage to be complete as a woman. They are not fighting for landlords to rent out to single ladies. Nobody is slapping their asses in their markets.

The things on our priority list, they have conquered. Yes, they still have issues they're dealing with like pay gap and pink tax. But our struggles and our reality are not the same at the moment.

It's like when a rich man is complaining that he has only 50 million and you're looking at your 5k account.

That is why they can afford to not be bitter or angry.

You as a Nigerian/African feminist, you can't.

Before you say bitterness won't help anyone, well it helped the western feminists get to where the are now!

The suffragettes of fore protested, burnt bras and burnt buildings so they can be allowed to vote or work!! They were bitter, angry, even violent.
The kingdom of heaven suffereth violence, and these women knew that.

How many of you have been beaten by a Nigerian feminist? How many times have you seen them protest on the streets or burn anything.

Yet you label them bitter. Why? Because they called you an idiot (which you are, by the way) on Facebook and Twitter.

These western feminists whom you love to compare us to do not have the same societal issues we do. They've been there, done that.

They're handling less weighty issues while we're still stuck on these painful matters.

You don't expect Saudi feminists to be as joyful as UK feminists. They are fighting for the freedom to travel without a man's permission. They are fighting for the freedom to be able to work. They are fighting for the freedom to live alone. They are fighting for the freedom to not be married off at 6 to a 70 year old man.

And you expect them to be convivial like their western counterparts?

It's like comparing a struggling entrepreneur in Nigeria to an entrepreneur in America and saying "Nigerian entrepreneurs are so lazy. Why can't they emulate American entrepreneurs and blow in one year or so?"

Do American entrepreneurs have NEPA, do they have to spend their capital on generator and fuel, do robbers waylay their goods at Ore? Do they have to settle tax force, union, omata, etc?

Nigerian feminists have since owned the bitter tag. We are bitter. It's the least we can do. We can't afford to burn your buildings like the western feminists you keep comparing us to.

And oh, I've found a good comeback. When they say Nigerian feminists are bitter and ruined feminism, I tell them Nigeria men are lazy and ruined entrepreneurship/medicine/law. I mean look at American entrepreneurs/doctors/lawyers. Why can't our men be more like them?

Are you explaining? Oh e pain you?
Very what?
Very good.

Ijeoma Chinonyerem

Ebonygirl1:
For peeps who aren't aware. The hymen is a very thin flap of skin which sometimes breaks due to physical activity before a sexually inactive female reaches 25. So don't be surprised if you get intimate with a virgin lady and there isn't any bleeding. It doesn't mean she isn't a virgin, simply means the hymen has broken b4 now

RedCreme21:
Never. Cant even kiss.
it would be repulsive. My opinion

No dear,he was the real person i am angry with
But i will not fight him this way

GreenMist21:
Of recent, i have come to notice that derogatory words referring to females and/or their genitals aren't censored. Obscene words for the males are.
Do we have moderators here? How do i become one. To balance the scales.
Thanks in advance.

kestolove95:
The only problem he will have is when he deny d pregnancy but if he accept it, even police will support d guy..

Prince4945:
Youre more like her Retirement Plan ,like I mean after shes through experiencing all the "flexing" there is to life with her body (I'm in no way judging her actions of sleeping for money) she then finally decides well there's nothing more new to experience let me tie one "good boy" down.

Well , I feel , her not telling you about her past from inception of the relationship, and decides to tell you no what that you've invested your love is more like Emotional Blackmail

And she's also going further to play Reverse Psychology on you with the "you don't deserve me" line. .

Well at the end of the day Its your call bro , to stay with her and start afresh? Or otherwise..

Use your HEAD to decide

lilwetdick:
you boys are funny ooh

what do you expect after buying lot of stuff for your broke ass or did you think it was free

everything was a game from start, a game to control your manhood

best will be to stop collecting gifts and use your brain

LilMissFavvy:
My comments is concerned with the second to the last paragraph of your writing. Most Redpillers, misogynist and alpha males hate women.

Candycrushy:
Astro g....smh

Pasima:
Stingy guy

Candycrushy:
Everyone cant be like your so called bitches

MrBrownJay1:
you need to widen your circle of friends, mingle in different social gatherings and most importantly, keep an open mind about such issue... if you want to meet good women. having a failed/negative mindset from the get go is a sure way to meet only what you think is out there (aka 2 bit disrespectful wh0res)

finally, if you indeed believe there are NO good women out there, then i suggest you simply give up and settle with 1st good for nothing lazy damaged olosho you meet out there.

MrBrownJay1:
because its not all women that double date... some have respect/morals/dignity and dont.

Rekhina:
shut up are such a coward

supercase1:
... .. I have a hit on a new chick and I am currently partially happy why. My new babe say she no want Bleep!!!!!!!! Which kind wahala be dis na just I love u chat and chop money na I'm she wants do
Abeg nairalanders guys help a nigga how I if take enjoy this girl romantically as she say she no like sex!!!!!

Pettyprincess:
If you love her you can help her out!!!
If it's not hereditary it can be treated.
You can help her out by getting her crusader soap(its a medicated soap that deals with infection)which could be one of the reason of body odour!!! Get her roll on nd armpit spray
Tell her to take her bath three times a day especially when she is on her period,she should brush her teeth twice a day,she should get a vagina wash nd clean the private part well!! If i can continue this process for at least a month she will definitely see changes!!!

Fountainofyouth:
I see nothing wrong with it, it's just childish endeavours.

Pettyprincess:
Wow!!! This is really emotional!!
To all single mothers out there,pls don't loose hope!! Continue taking care of your kids nd let them grow up to become a better person in future,Never allow them make the same mistake you did!! Single mothers are usually loved by their kids because they know what she went through as a single parent!!
God bless every single mothers in the world!! Nd to dead beat father that can't close their zip bt can go in raw nd can't accept responsibility just remember karma is a bitvch!!!

partnerbizn3:
Be realistic. Problem people have is idealism.
Truth is, a man cannot afford all women.

There is class in life.

There is a girl for every man. You may not afford Rihanna but can get her specs elsewhere.
Do you know that you can get a girl who is your type (specs) but may not be your class.
She may be below your class, ideally. But your type. It's good for hypergamy to take place.

No good thing in life should be free or cheap. I hate free or cheap things.

I am misogynistic. Even till today, I hardly give women lifts. But I now understand hypergamy, briffaults law etc. Understanding economics behind relationships and how these things work took me over 15 years.

I am not trying to be at peace with reality.

It's better to learn about the game and play it. Complaining will not change nothing.

Astrog

partnerbizn3:
Those guys think they are ballling.

Imagine timing saex. And numbering ejaculations.


The thought of paying DIRECTLY for it alone is disgusting.

Yes, you pay directly or indirectly in all cases even with your girl.

NOW what about cuddles, gisting, placing your head on bobby kissing , :ocompanionship, cooking at times, cleaning at times, running errands, someone you can trust at times, more pleasurable LOVE MAKING, not just saexetc


Abegi....

partnerbizn3:
see you.

Nigga get a girl.

It's better

How do you people enjoy this with hoes naa?

festacman:
Pretty Mike, please say whatever you want to say but please leave "Jesus' coming" out of it. There is absolutely no need for that.

From all indications, this dude Pretty Mike is feeling on the top of the world right now, blabbing any trash he likes. Interestingly, for all his exuberance and ebullient disposition, a mere bout of malarial attack would make him so humble and helpless as he quakes to its accompanied feverish 'beats'. It is OK to live your life but be more circumspect about what you say. Sh*t happens, Mike. In this world, Real big sh*t. Be guided.

AverageAnnie:
More reason why I like me... I'm good and bad same time..lol