₦airaland Forum

yetunsbay:
Guys,

Three different times I had invited girlfriend to my crib we've always had romantic play (thou she dislikes) but just cant bear seeing her without wanting to bang.

Fast forward lately I notice she declines most often my requests for her to visit even when I never had mindset of sex.

How can I change this to the latter pls ?

LillyVal:
Pick one default you can accept in a partner.

1. Nagging
2. Odor
3. Bad cook
4. Laziness
5. Illiteracy
6. Aggressive
7. Sex addiction

LillyVal:
My Opinion On Sex By MiaBallot

“God gave man a brain and a penis and only enough blood to run one at a time” ― Robin McLaurin Williams

I reached puberty at 16, when I was almost done with my secondary school; was fully “matured” by 17 and a half and had my first sex at 20. One year later I was already hoeing for money.

My first guy was a dude called Daniel. Very stupid fellow. Liar, deceiver and evil minded degenerate. He taught me the greatest lesson of my life and made me realize one thing: all men are after sex in every relationship.

Forget what he tells you, that is what he wants. Believe it or not, many men pay for books and tutorials on bedding ladies. It sounds weird and funny but it is true.

That brings me to one thing about we women. We are always being insincere about what we want in a relationship.

Guys only want one thing: sex.

Women only want two things in a relationship: good sex and money.

When I say good sex, I mean good as in extremely good. That sex that makes us sleep off when you’re done, that’s what we want. Tell him that is what you want, woman. Men, that is what we want, put that in your heads.

Not that one that you go “ha-ha,” “yee-yee” screaming like donkeys before shouting “I’m cuming, I’m cuming” then cuming and collapsing on us like you are cursed. Some men even grab a lady’s boobs like it was a piece of cloth, pressing it like they'are just learning how to play a piano. Some even finger the coochie when it is dry, who does that?

I don’t blame men though. They have always had a poor understanding of the woman’s anatomy. Most don’t even know parts of the vagina. I’m not surprised, how many know the parts of their penis? Most cannot even tell whether they are circumsized or not.

Men, please learn the parts of the coochie: labia minora, labia majora, clitoris, G spot etc, and stop being greedy in the bedroom.

Women, you too should learn the parts of a man’s dick. The one we call the head or tip is the glans. The hole at the top of the glans is called the meatus or urethal opening and the main body is called the shaft.

The underside of the glans that separates the glans from the shaft is called corona and the skin directly under it is called the frenulum.

That frenulum is one of the most sensitive part of the penis. The scrotum (balls) is also sensitive (to touch and temperature) and the perineum, that part between the anus and the scrotum is also very sensitive. Ladies giving bj’s, please take note.

Another thing I observed is that men only enjoy sex when they are cuming or when they are being ridden by a lady.

Ladies, the way to a man’s heart is not his stomach, it is sex, especially cowgirl and reverse cowgirl styles. Ride him and see what happens.

Most men are relaxed when you are on them unlike when they are on top and doing all the work. They even cum later and are usually very satisfied. Some won’t even think for sex for up to a week if they are properly laid.

Guys, you know that kind of sex that makes you to no longer feel the insides of your dick. When you are not even sure whether you still have any semen left in your a scrotum. That's what I'm talking about.

Ladies, slowly rub his chest when you are on him.

After riding him for a while, position yourself so that only the frenulum and glans (Forgotten what they are? Scroll up and check again) of his stuff is going in and out of your coochie while the shaft remains outside. You’ll need to raise your body up and inconvenience yourself during that period but it is worth it.

Some men even start moaning at this point.

He cannot think properly and will promise you anything you request for at this time since all the blood in his body is already concentrated on keeping the dick running. Five men are owing me cars because of this.

That is why I used that quote in the beginning. “God gave man a brain and a penis and only enough blood to run one at a time”. Unfortunate beings.

He will also be loyal after the sex. Not that he won’t bang anyone else if he wants to but he won’t just blank you out as he would have ordinarily done since he still wants the coochie.

At this moment, you should starve him of the coochie. Don't make any demands. Just starve him of it. Find one excuse or the other not to give him the coochie. No one will tell him before he fends for you.

Lamanii22:
.




She is indeed ungrateful... People can be ungrateful not just Nigerian girls... People can really be ungrateful ..

Kingosytex:
I don't have any business with materially, financially, spiritually and mentally broke girls. Love is not a sort of parasitic relationship that is meant to favour only the girls, it is a two-way process.


No be only girls like already made. Me too like already made Heaven will not fall if girls start taking guys out and spending heavily on them. What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

yazga:
So I heard this story on the radio on Sunday.

Man wakes up in the morning, drops money for food with his wife after an awesome session of love making a night before; apparently they seemed very happy together. Gets dressed(very casual) didn’t take a pin with him, tells his wife he’s going to see his friend that stays on the next street. A few hours after, wife gets a call from a friend her husband is getting married in a certain church and obviously didn’t believe. just like that days of waiting for him to come back home or even call turned into years. The woman was left broken with 5 children.

According to the story the man had relocated to the US with his new wife. I listened to the story and got so emotional, too many questions filled my head. Wasn’t there a better way to have left? What could this woman have done to deserve this treatment? Why didn’t he think about the kids? Questions only the man can answer. A lot of women have had to deal with issues like this and it’s so heartbreaking

DikeDiMighty:
What does my sexuality have to do with relationship talk??

You are one of the reasons why guys look down on ladies. Such crass ignorance.

Funmmyastic:
Nice one Op.
A man sleeping around like a dog does not deserve a virgin lady.

DikeDiMighty:
I was going through this section and I saw this thread where a guy was saying virginity is the best marriage gift to give a man.

https://www.nairaland.com/5152538/virginity-best-wedding-gift-man

My take on this is that, while a women keeping her virginity till marriage is all well and good(from the moral or religious standpoint), what about the man?. In this part of the world, men feel it is their right to demand lofty characteristics from women, characteristics which they themselves don't possess. If a woman should keep her virginity till marriage as a gift, then is it not only proper for the man to reciprocate?. Sadly, that is not the case. We view men losing their virginity long before marriage as a normal phenomenon,but if a woman does the same, she is slut-shamed and the act is tagged an fornication/abomination (even by men who, ironically,have slept with myriads of other girls).

Now, I am not preaching gender equality, because I don't even believe in that. But some things are just logical and fair. A man should also be willing to keep his virginity till marriage if he is expecting to marry a virgin wife. You can't be expecting to marry a virgin when you yourself are not one, what make you better that her then?, It is paining you that other men have slept with her,but you reason that it is cool for you to have slept with other women right?, What about the other women you slept with and even took their virginity?.

All these stem from the subconscious believe in Africa that women are the property of their husbands. I feel that is chauvinistic and only a step away from master-slave mentality. We need to change this mindset. A woman is as much her husband's property as her husband is her property.

That is my take.

Blackivy27:
NO.

Blackivy27:
marked.

LillyVal:
We know you.

Blackivy27:
Even NAIRALAND. If suspected criminally as a result of a post, confession to murder, you can be tracked down.
mind what you post. Its faceless but its not

LillyVal:
What you post on social media including the comments you make on other people’s posts can be used by individuals and organisations as a character reference for you! Your Facebook wall is like a resume.... It says more about you than you realise and people can assess your character based on that information

Blackivy27:
Women will focus on other aspects of their lives.
and get intimacy gadgets to do the job.
it will be benefical rather. I encourage this move.

Mystic2019:
Who is this one? so widows who single-handedly nurture their children ain't single mothers? You're obviously basking in the euphoria of your own ignorance sir. If only you could channel the same energy in replying me to improve your English. Makes me sick! I'm in no mood for this uncle, it's too early. Thank you.

lilmax:
there will be no source of income for 95% of women

ubunja:
That's true


Just fvck and go no strings attached.

MelesZenawi:
Enugu belongs to God

MelesZenawi:
He is thee best thing to have happened to enugu

Best governor ever.

funmisticqueen:
YES. Even some married men are Deadbeat dads

CHOPMONEY666:
Advice needed from experience nairalanders here .

Am a young male self employed and educated . I visited a friends house/neighborhood and met a girl , she’s 30 years old , am 30 plus myself.

She’s a graduate but jobless and very very deep into church activities , always church church church then we became friends. From beginning she knew I have a girlfriend but we continue the friendship anyway. Then suddenly she began to make monetary demands for help . First it was 3k then 5k then 10k then 5k etc . Then I said to myself I may as well be sleeping with you if am giving you all this money .

But each time I made a move about coming to my house etc she run away from me for days or week no communication only to come back later days crying for financial help. There is always an excuse not to come , even to meet at my friends place it’s no no for her, she’s deep into church activities.
On one hand I said am a fool, on the other hand I said am going to win this game . Am asking for advice here .

Fafesot:
Nothing much..
it's just because I feel dat a woman doesn't deserve my life..Marrying only one will be graceful..
So I just have the feeling of marrying more than so dat I won't use all my life for just a single woman

Aabheaven:
Sincerely, why do u keep in touch with your Ex.

LillyVal:
I did.

Shugavee:
hv u asked ur mum how many men she got down with b4 she met ur father? if I call her an OLOSHO now u will say I hv insulted your mother.

chenzen:
¹cos sex is available for them on a platter... almost free of charge.

²ladies purpose for a relationship is dating and not marriage... allows men to use and dump them if that be the case.

³No or low standard: some guys just dont know what they want and it is the duty of ladies to know guys who are ready and eligible.

⁴purpose for life: some are yet to discover themselves.

insufficient funds or being broke: these guys need the millions to marry one of the Kardashians.



...etc

Blackivy27:
Why? Just left sec sch.
nope been kissed though

FCBboy:
No, but I do watch bisexual porn, Male BSDM porn.