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Mystic2019:
still on still, are you not a bastard? Lol. You sound like those kids who grew up from malfunctioned homes. How old are you mbok? I'm really curious.

Mystic2019:
do u know some people actually act like those bastards,while the ones labelled "bastard" are doing well for themselves. You sef, u sure say na your papa ur mama born u for? Lol. Pot calling kettle black.

LillyVal:
You are obviously immature.

Mystic2019:
lol.Olosho ke? Far from it. You sound like those gigolos whose glory has been used. You're empty. Brain sef no dey.

Mystic2019:
thanks sis. He just won't have sense, lol.

LillyVal:
You are very strong, leave all this boys still eating in their parents house

Funkyswagzz:
If a man must have good job, car and house before marriage.. what must a woman have before marriage??

LillyVal:
oh really.

LillyVal:
The truth Hurts,init?

LillyVal:
This is one secret a lot of women don't know.

Men have this psychological construct that if a woman tolerates a thing from them, they hardly will change. A man wants a woman who has boundaries and doesn't take shit. When you start bringing down your standards for a man, he feels bored; no motivation to be with you again.

Men want women who can say NO and mean NO. When once a man can make you do anything even against your standards, no matter how beautiful you are, you become less appealing to him.

Men love challenging women.
Men love women who are grounded in their beliefs.
Men love women who can walk away when what they want is not served.

This is why it's highly discouraged to settle with a man who has major habitual and behavioural issues that you can't cope with. No matter how much he poses to assure you that he'd change in marriage, if you fall for that. Immediately, the motivation to change drops.

If a man can't change before marrying you, I fear after marriage, because most men do their best before marriage. So if this is his best, imagine his worst?

Men want women who'll make them see that they'll lose them for not being that man they want.

Another reason men don't value women who stick to them no matter what they do.
He beats you, you cry and come back..
He cheats on you serially, you cry and come back again..
He abuses you emotionally, you keep coming back.

In your feminine mind, you feel you're showing him love?

No, you're devaluing yourself.

Sometimes men prefer women who walk away than women that stay.
Men prefer women they can't have because of their high standards to women who bring down theirs for them.

Even if they get into something with you. Deep down they are not so thrilled. They will easily get bored. And they'll finally leave you.

___Solomon Buchi Bartholomew

LillyVal:
Ladies please if you are on your period tie a red ribbon on your forehead.
Guys are tired of buying food and drinks for the wrong girls.

Guys, I'm I correct?

Mystic2019:
yaay,good u said "your legs"...its mine,not yours. The same way men like you stick your useless prick into any hole. Abi who are those girls bleeping if not useless fellows like you. We need to pray for the next generation, they must not meet brainwashed men like u. Last last, u lots will start lamenting how your "slay queens" ain't fertile. Well, they know how to do what other single mothers don't know-abortion.

Mystic2019:
yaay,good u said "your legs"...its mine,not yours. The same way men like you stick your useless prick into any hole. Abi who are those girls bleeping if not useless fellows like you. We need to pray for the next generation, they must not meet brainwashed men like u. Last last, u lots will start lamenting how your "slay queens" ain't fertile. Well, they know how to do what other single mothers don't know-abortion.

Mystic2019:
one celebrated fool spotted, lol.

Mystic2019:
you have time telling him story. Most of them just run mouths because they dunno what life is all about. It's okay to be a single dad, but not a single mom. This society is just being unfair to women. Different people have different stories, if that happens to any of their family member (I know most will say it can't happen) tell the lady never to marry again.

Fountainofyouth:
Hard work well deserved.

DJInfluence:
Guys self... Why we too they assumed say because we buy food and other stuffs for a babe, that mean say we go get automatic ticket to the world Cup?

If una get contract from beginning say, if you buy you must knack, then na different thing say she no gree, but when there is no contract and you believe say after u feed her u must recoup your money by knacking well.... All na poverty cause am.

cococandy:
Really? So every time you give a woman something, she should consider it down payment for the future sexual request that is to follow?

Ejix202:

Unreasonable thoughts!

MelesZenawi:
Enugu finally and fully committed in God's hands.

chenzen:
until u both agree to get married there s entirely no reason to get worked up.

Sierusvirus:
If a lady is really interested in a man, she will have no choice than to chase him and make him her man. If you don’t another takes over and next thing she will say, I gave him green light. My question what do you mean by green light? ( only deaf and dumb flows with that).

A man can also give you green light to chase him.
Ladies go for what you want.

Nobody was born to chase, anybody can chase another to get happiness.

Vice versa.

Jayslicky:
I don't think most of them would be available to view this thread, they are currently busy raping their poor cucumbers.

carter009:
But why are some girls like this, why his best friend, why not someone else,, that's how my guy girlfriend wanted us to have sex, but I said no that is not right, she got angry n left,, why can't some girls stick to one guy.