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Michellekabod2:
Many people are congratulating me for leaving feminism. I never stopped being a feminist and never will! I only stopped advocating for women to be feminists(except they chose to) since most of them don't understand the concept.
I , personally am a feminist (one who believes in equality of both genders) but henceforth will stop speaking up about it....

Although wicked humans like Ubunja deserve to be called out for what they are,I will be stop canvassing for equality as it's giving ladies the leverage to be male haters and not serving it's purpose which is equality of both men and women.

Michellekabod2:
I don't hate men, I only criticise your foolish posts! Me calling you cow dung ain't because you are a man,but because of what you put up! I HAVE CALLED LADIES WORST NAMES THAN COW DUNG. So don't take it personally....I don't hate you

Michellekabod2:
Kudos to all the feminist advocating feminism,as for me,I quit as I realise that most of the ladies we fight for don't deserve it.
Feminism is a movement that supports the equality of both genders. But many wannabe feminist see it as an avenue to be men haters or avenue to ease themselves of gender roles and make men retain theirs. This has given feminism a bad name and made wannabe feminists are worst off those who Practice partraichy.
You see many so called feminist still insist a man handles all the bills, or a man should not hit back when a lady hits him first.
I created a thread on feminism some time back.Here is the link:https://www.nairaland.com/5246156/idea-feminism
A moniker liberalchick opposed me as though I was one of those still upholding patriarchy.

I have spent most of my life speaking up for females,and I am coming to be realize they to some extent deserve the ridicule they get from men.
Why do you think patriarchy is less prominent in developed by countries? because ladies are independent unlike Nigeria girls that will go out with a guy they don't fancy for free food(I am not against this though!). I can't keep fighting for women who feel entitled to a man pocket and feels he should not be entitled to her body. No gender owes any gender anything! A lady is not obliged to sleep with you except she choses to,and a guy is not obliged to spend a Kobo on you except he choses to!

The purpose of feminism is to liberate BOTH genders from the shackles society place on them,anybody who speaks up for just one gender is a sexist!

Feminism will never thrive until there is equality for both genders.

Today,a renowned male feminist @solomon buchi on Instagram who has always fought for women rights cautioned ladies against becoming men-haters and partial when it deals with fighting for feminism. Many ladies were pained,some called him names and many unfollowed him.
That is what I get when I tell girls to stop calling guys alone broke as broke should be used for any HUMAN with financial hardships-they attack me ferrociously!
The same ladies applaud me when I say the tag "hoes" should be used on both genders if they are sexually lose and not just females.

I concluded that speaking up for feminism ain't worth it anymore. I am a feminist!proud to be one, but I will be mute henceforth whenever patriarchy is practiced as females are the main opposition to feminism in Nigeria!


Cc:ubunja,saffi,fuministicqueen, Martinez39,MJBOLT,amatarasha,biglittlelois,illamina

Ultimatezlant:
kept mute when he has always been speaking on behalf of Igbo's in senate floor.

When igbos have confirmed the efforts he made closed door.

In fact na his not keeping mute make am go Hamburg go relate with his so called people.


How many Igbo leaders send?



He was just an easy prey cos he was too open and cheap for hoodlums to attack.


Okorocha won't even be in that position cos he know himself

Michellekabod2:
Hehehehehehehehehehehe,ah can see your PAINED

Michellekabod2:
Abeg ignore the rants....the likes of him and ubunja are myopic.
I know of a girl in university that was as poor as damn, she had no place to stay nor food to eat. She was just 17, her bf had to squat her and she fell pregnant. This was a decent girl,who has only dated once. She combined studies with child care and graduated with a second class upper in civil engineering.

Imagine minors been deceived into sex in their innocence then get pregnant and moral enough to keep a baby and not abort. Men will shun them and will even marry retired prostitutes that are without children than marry them. Someone like ubunja will rather marry a girl with a body count of 40 with no child or a gal that has aborted severally till her womb is damaged than a gal who was decent until she fell pregnant and decided not to kill her unborn child.
If ubunja and his likes had sisters who are single mothers or if he were born out of wedlock he will come online to spill trash about single mothers

MariaLavina:
I hate how these guys just come here to paint ladies bad, when they are the reason , they are milked. Does he even know the babe to start with? They will just come here to form saints without looking into their mistakes.



Nonsense!

MJBOLT:

IT IS BETTER IF A GIRL CALL YOU A STINGY GUY THAN MAGA/MUGU.

bigpriik:
So many rejection threads on nairaland these days and so many WhatsApp messages from guyz on how to get laid, it pains me so much because I have being rejected so many times in the past infact I decided to quit women and face my life but still it was that mindset failed me,because I saw guys I was far better than dating beautiful women until I discovered my way out of the friendzone .

The "make money gang" can attack me I don't give a f***k as long as some one out there is helped out besides all these years of hustle some cant even boast of apartment what a shame.

.what am about to dish out here will be very helpful to your dating life don't ignore them for it is gold and if you try them out you will never regret using them. it is a format I crafted out from great p.u.a plus my little experience with ladies

if you want to get a girlfriend or wife starting from today ,you must have a particular mindset and that's what I want to teach you here it works bro just follow these simple steps below.

step 1: approach correctly
You first a approach will either make our mare you with a woman,it will determine how far she will go with you or how long the interaction will last however alot of guys fail here because they lack confidence, I have a thread where I talk about how to build your confidence ,its not easy to be relaxed around women for a novice but with time and experience you will become emotionally tough and be more attractive to women,learn how to approach women from my old threads .

2) passing the shit tests
after successfully toasting a girl and getting her number its time to advance to the next level ,unless she likes you already never expect her to give in easily to your sexual advance never ask her out also,she will shit test you by acting uninterested in you ,frowning at you or not picking you calls ,why do women behave like this?

It is a man's world ,women are usually frowned at by society whenever they exhibit behaviours that are masculine ,E.g fucking around ,chasing men,toasting men,giving in easily to sexual advances E.t.c,Because of this women have crafted a solid means of giving you the impression that they are not cheap ,infact most women want to give you the impression she is a challenge and a trophy to be won ,most men find this behaviour annoying because it triggers negative emotions in us like anger,frustration,low self confidence women would rearly chase men or allow the courtship to but what should you do when women start behaving like this ?
simple don't allow their behaviour destabilize your emotions i know its not easy but with time you will get use to it stay calm and laugh at the test then look for something funny to reply them when they shit test you.

secondly when you are trying to get a woman she will rearly make her own moves sexually she wants you to be the one making all the advances she will act uninterested, play hard to get,or throw some annoying questions to throw you off balance don't shiver at them or loose your self belief most times these behaviours are fake (initial gra gra) but if you don't know how to handle them you will turn her off.
examples of how to pass shit test

you:hello Mary hope you will be available tommorow I wanna see you.

Mary: no i am busy with school work can't make it (shit test).

youjokingly with confidence )come-on what kind work is dat are you marking scripts for you lecturer or are you a professor that is always busy come on create sometimes to have to fun(be persistent and funny)OK when are you less busy should I say Tuesday?

Mary:OK maybe another time or Tuesday I will
be free.

you:ok Mary (with confidence )ok Mary let your Tuesday be tuesday or I will stop calling you ooh (jokingly)

you understand don't just give up when a women resist you look for something enticing to persuade them they will yield.you have to be a bit stubborn or a bit forceful to get women don't just quit like a boy .

3)build attraction and move to sex
if you want to build attraction and move to sex and relationships you don't ask a girl out ,she already knows what you want, lets say you go on a date with a lady,be confident and relaxed and pass her shit tests don't let her dominate you emotionally, dominate her instead its attractive to women.

4)maintain your lane
as a novice in the dating game I advice you to go for younger women its way easier to get women younger than you because women like older men because men get better with age,my age range for dating is 19---24.Don't go for older women they are more experience than you and will manipulate you.

Rosay15:
... I realized that no matter what women say on this forum she always get bashed.
Just imagine what the guy just type, I mean some NL guys are something else.
The babe even get time, if nah me I won’t reply them. SMH

victorian:
Hahahahahahahah



As in over try.

Me, that I thought I'm even kind in spending. My own spending no reach her own o.

Although i plan to spend after marriage not before marriage.


She over try!

Zinny25:
I get him things, Cook in my house and take to him. The cost of transportation from my house to his is #600, I see him often, I have never asked for transportation fare. I go to fast food get him things whenever I wanna visit. what I'm saying in essence is that guys can never be pleased,u ask them for money they call you golddigger,u don't but instead give them they say u r too desperate.

I don't go into relationship for monetary gains, I'm very ok,at least I'm contented with what I have, that's why I keep working hard,next time get your facts straight about me before coming to my comment to rant

Martinez39:
Did he hold you at gun point to do these things? You don't owe him all these things and he doesn't owe you a damn. All that concerns both of you is the decision to spend your life together as husband and wife. Beside, if you give guys money, they wouldn't say you are desperate. You clearly haven't given guys money before. I am sure your story is either a lie or an exaggeration.

Well, keep working hard so you don't have to look to the son of another man for money. Either you ask your parents or hustle for money. Bf owes you nothing.

Zinny25:
GUYS ARE SCUM

Joystark:
Gladly... At least I have one.

MariaLavina:
Truly the beautiful ones are yet to be born.

joyfullyjoyous:
Love conquers all including status.

frozen70:
Meaning you read it and it starts affecting your brain ❓

frozen70:
It because of the nonsense culture that recognised men over women

Anybody can be a single parent and in every single mother, there is a single father

Marriage can be smooth at the beginning and get sore at the middle

No one wishes to be a single parent

But bear in mind that matured single mothers are better off than all these inexperienced ladies tgat gives men issues

Love can take anyone to anywhere to meet anyone, at a stage in one's life, you have hit to please yourself not the society

LillyVal:
I don't know why Ladies think that anytime a guy invites them to his house is for sex
Please some times men just need someone to talk to, Is that right guys?

LillyVal:
#FlashBackFriday
What's the craziest name you have ever used to save someone's number on your phone.
Me: Buhayhaybuhayhay

Nesso:
You did not over react, u were even lenient. If I was the one I'll stop chatting her up all together whether it's on fb or WhatsApp and focus on those who hv my time or something much more worthy.

Nbote:
Abeg make una let us hear word... First U ppl said U wanted to travel abroad for treatment. U didn't raise alarm wen d hospital was booked and arranged and now U ppl have travelled abroad for treatment U still won't let ppl hear word.. Isn't he there to receive treatment ?

Mystic2019:
e don pepper am, ntoi. That's all they know, verbal attack when they know they're just as worthless as nothing. I get your time wella.

Mystic2019:
e don pepper am, ntoi. That's all they know, verbal attack when they know they're just as worthless as nothing. I get your time wella.

Mystic2019:
all I can say is, your mama na our oga in the business. If your mother can produce a useless thing like u who grew on the streets, then she's irresponsible and she's a hoe. Which responsible parents leave their children on the street for the "street" to make them, while others are securing their future, lol. Dem no fit make their pikin again, Na street go help them. Even the one u called a bastard is better than u. She isn't on the streets, she's doing well. Not like you razz lots whose thinking is backward.

Mystic2019:
yes,i intentionally said that. lol, u sure you're not from a malfunctioned home? cuz that's exactly how they talk. "street" still runs in your blood no matter how good u paint it. lol, u just confessed why Ure like this. should I say only children from malfunctioned homes like u end up on the street,hehehehe. Tell me what the product of "streets" is... Your type.